In September 2021, before the general conference, I visited the holy temple. I felt truly happy, telling my Heavenly Father about the joy and progress in my life, work, Church, and with my children. Having been divorced for nearly five years, I was content and hoped to remain that way.
The following week, a gentleman named Josรฉ, that I knew somewhat through his daughter, sent me a friend request on Facebook. I was surprised, but nevertheless, we began chatting. During that time, my grandmother was very ill in the hospital. The night before she passed, I reached out to him for comfort, and he was there for me, even at 5:00 in the morning. His support meant a lot during that difficult time.
After my grandmotherโs funeral on October 16, 2021, I asked Josรฉ to meet and talk. I remember arriving at the restaurant, and he was waiting for me outside; we greeted each other with a hug and talked for several hours. On that first date, he told me, โI want to get married, and if it were with you, even better.โ
From then on, we felt an incredible bond, as if we had known each other forever. Just days later, we knew we wanted to be together for life and decided to get married six months later.
Despite some challenges, we married civilly on April 8, 2022, in a small but joyful ceremony. We were sealed for eternity on December 17, 2022, in the Monterrey Mexico Temple.
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768 Days with my Best Friend for Eternity
Summary: After feeling content and happy during a temple visit, the narrator unexpectedly reconnected with Josรฉ via Facebook. He comforted her through her grandmotherโs final hours, and after the funeral they met for a long first date where he openly expressed a desire for marriage. They quickly felt a deep bond, decided to wed, married civilly, and were later sealed in the temple.
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๐ค Church Members (General)
Dating and Courtship
Divorce
Family
Grief
Happiness
Marriage
Prayer
Sealing
Temples
Service in the Snow
Summary: After a heavy snowfall, the narrator chose to shovel driveways for elderly widows to have time alone and help others. While serving, he felt God's love and renewed hope despite tough times. He learned that helping others helps overcome trials and increases sensitivity to the Spirit.
After it snowed all day, my neighborhood was covered with over a foot of slushy snow. I wanted to be alone and have some time to think, so I decided to go out and shovel driveways. I knew of several elderly widows who could use the help.
I went out and walked from house to house, shoveling driveways. Suddenly, I felt the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. It filled me with hope and the understanding that even though times were tough, everything would be OK. I have found that if we need help to overcome trials, one of the best ways is to help others. I also learned that if you are doing good things, you will be more receptive to the Spirit.
Jared L., Washington, USA
I went out and walked from house to house, shoveling driveways. Suddenly, I felt the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. It filled me with hope and the understanding that even though times were tough, everything would be OK. I have found that if we need help to overcome trials, one of the best ways is to help others. I also learned that if you are doing good things, you will be more receptive to the Spirit.
Jared L., Washington, USA
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๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Other
Adversity
Charity
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Jesus Christ
Kindness
Love
Ministering
Service
The Mystery Can
Summary: Sadie and her family find an unlabeled can and guess its contents, expecting something undesirable. When they open it, it contains delicious fruit, leading to a discussion about how people often label others without knowing what's inside. The family reflects on times they have misjudged or felt mislabeled and conclude that only God truly knows a person's heart. They affirm their true identity as children of God.
A true story from the USA.
โWhatโs this, Mom?โ Sadie pulled a big tin can out of the back of the cupboard. โIt has no label on it.โ
โI forgot about that,โ Mom said. โThe labels had come off some canned goods, so the store was selling them for cheap. I bought one. I figured it was probably canned peas.โ
Sadie made a face. Canned peas were not her favorite.
Mom picked up the can and turned it over. โTheyโll go bad soon. Weโd better eat them today.โ She put the can on the table.
โWhatโs that?โ Sadieโs big brother, Jason, asked.
โWho knows?โ Sadie said. โMom thinks itโs peas.โ
Jason shook the can. โDoesnโt sound like peas. My guess is beans.โ
That gave Sadie an idea. She grabbed some tape and a marker and wrote โpeasโ on one piece of paper and โbeansโ on another. She taped them to the can.
Then she thought for a minute and wrote โtomato sauceโ on another piece.
Just then Dad came into the kitchen. โWhatโs going on?โ
โWeโre playing a game,โ Mom said. โGuess whatโs in the can.โ
Dad picked up the can, shook it hard, and gave it a sniff. โMushrooms!โ he announced.
Everyone groaned. โNot mushrooms!โ Sadie said. That was worse than peas, beans, and tomato sauce. โMaybe we should just throw the can away.โ
โArenโt you curious to know whatโs really inside?โ asked Mom.
Dad grabbed the can opener. โI am!โ
As Dad opened the can, Sadie covered her eyes. But when he pulled back the lid, she was surprised. The can was full of delicious fruit.
โYummy!โ she said as she looked at the cut-up pears, grapes, cherries, and peaches.
Jason brought over bowls and spoons. โLetโs eat!โ
Sadie spooned some fruit from the can into her bowl. โI canโt believe we were all wrong,โ she said. โI was sure there was something yucky inside.โ
โDo we ever label people like that?โ asked Mom.
โWhat do you mean?โ Sadie asked.
Dad set his bowl on the table. โWe decide what they are like on the inside, when all we can see is the outside.โ
Sadie thought about that. โWhen Samara was new at school, I thought she wasnโt friendly. But then I learned she just couldnโt speak our language very well. Now we play all the time!โ
โThatโs a good example,โ said Mom.
โSometimes I feel labeled,โ Jason said softly. โKids at school say I only get good grades because the teacher likes me. But the truth is, I work hard and do all my homework.โ
โLabels can hurt, canโt they?โ said Dad.
Jason nodded.
Sadie finished her last bite of fruit. โBut are all labels bad? At the store you need to know what youโre actually buying.โ
โYouโre right,โ Dad said. โSo when are labels good?โ
Jason held up his spoon. โWhen theyโre true!โ
โAnd who knows whatโs truly inside a person?โ asked Mom.
โHeavenly Father,โ Sadie and Jason said together.
โI get it!โ Sadie said. โI am a child of God. Thatโs the right label for me.โ
โAnd me,โ said Jason.
โAnd me!โ said Dad.
โFor everyone.โ Mom smiled. โSo we shouldnโt label people based on what we see on the outside, or believe false labels given to us. Because only God knows what we truly are inside.โ
Sadie wrote on a new piece of tape and stuck it on her sweater. โA child of God,โ she said. Sadie smiled. She liked that label best of all.
โWhatโs this, Mom?โ Sadie pulled a big tin can out of the back of the cupboard. โIt has no label on it.โ
โI forgot about that,โ Mom said. โThe labels had come off some canned goods, so the store was selling them for cheap. I bought one. I figured it was probably canned peas.โ
Sadie made a face. Canned peas were not her favorite.
Mom picked up the can and turned it over. โTheyโll go bad soon. Weโd better eat them today.โ She put the can on the table.
โWhatโs that?โ Sadieโs big brother, Jason, asked.
โWho knows?โ Sadie said. โMom thinks itโs peas.โ
Jason shook the can. โDoesnโt sound like peas. My guess is beans.โ
That gave Sadie an idea. She grabbed some tape and a marker and wrote โpeasโ on one piece of paper and โbeansโ on another. She taped them to the can.
Then she thought for a minute and wrote โtomato sauceโ on another piece.
Just then Dad came into the kitchen. โWhatโs going on?โ
โWeโre playing a game,โ Mom said. โGuess whatโs in the can.โ
Dad picked up the can, shook it hard, and gave it a sniff. โMushrooms!โ he announced.
Everyone groaned. โNot mushrooms!โ Sadie said. That was worse than peas, beans, and tomato sauce. โMaybe we should just throw the can away.โ
โArenโt you curious to know whatโs really inside?โ asked Mom.
Dad grabbed the can opener. โI am!โ
As Dad opened the can, Sadie covered her eyes. But when he pulled back the lid, she was surprised. The can was full of delicious fruit.
โYummy!โ she said as she looked at the cut-up pears, grapes, cherries, and peaches.
Jason brought over bowls and spoons. โLetโs eat!โ
Sadie spooned some fruit from the can into her bowl. โI canโt believe we were all wrong,โ she said. โI was sure there was something yucky inside.โ
โDo we ever label people like that?โ asked Mom.
โWhat do you mean?โ Sadie asked.
Dad set his bowl on the table. โWe decide what they are like on the inside, when all we can see is the outside.โ
Sadie thought about that. โWhen Samara was new at school, I thought she wasnโt friendly. But then I learned she just couldnโt speak our language very well. Now we play all the time!โ
โThatโs a good example,โ said Mom.
โSometimes I feel labeled,โ Jason said softly. โKids at school say I only get good grades because the teacher likes me. But the truth is, I work hard and do all my homework.โ
โLabels can hurt, canโt they?โ said Dad.
Jason nodded.
Sadie finished her last bite of fruit. โBut are all labels bad? At the store you need to know what youโre actually buying.โ
โYouโre right,โ Dad said. โSo when are labels good?โ
Jason held up his spoon. โWhen theyโre true!โ
โAnd who knows whatโs truly inside a person?โ asked Mom.
โHeavenly Father,โ Sadie and Jason said together.
โI get it!โ Sadie said. โI am a child of God. Thatโs the right label for me.โ
โAnd me,โ said Jason.
โAnd me!โ said Dad.
โFor everyone.โ Mom smiled. โSo we shouldnโt label people based on what we see on the outside, or believe false labels given to us. Because only God knows what we truly are inside.โ
Sadie wrote on a new piece of tape and stuck it on her sweater. โA child of God,โ she said. Sadie smiled. She liked that label best of all.
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Children
Family
Judging Others
Kindness
Teaching the Gospel
What It Takes to Be Happy and Successful
Summary: Two missionaries were sent to a town in Southern Mexico where new Church members had been left without organization or meetings because of persecution. There they found a sister who had been faithfully saving her tithing for months, even while alone and in need.
The missionaries were touched by her example and realized they had no right to discourage her from paying it, because she was obeying a commandment. The story concludes with the lesson that true commitment is shown by living standards consistently, even when no one is watching.
While I was serving my first mission to Mexico and Central America, my companion and I received a very interesting final assignment from our mission president. He asked us to leave the mission home and go down to a town in Southern Mexico, where some months before missionaries had been withdrawn due to religious and political persecution. Their lives had been threatened by mobs. A few converts had been baptized, but a real organization of the Church had not been established. As a result, these new members had been left alone, and for months the mission president heard little about how things were going.
We were given a list of names and asked by the mission president to go there, find the people, see how they were doing, and, if possible, locate a place where we could quietly conduct a sacrament meeting. For all those months, they had not had the privilege we take so much for granted of partaking of the sacrament each week.
We arrived early in the morning and immediately searched for the address of the first name on the list. We located her address and passed through a door in a high adobe wall that surrounded a crowded cluster of tiny huts around a central area.
It seemed that everyone there was watching us. Back in the corner was a little grass-thatched hut. The sister we were looking for came to the door, saw us, and easily recognized by our dress that we were missionaries. With tears in her eyes, she rushed to us and greeted us with a hug. We identified ourselves and told her why we were there.
After this brief greeting, she went back into her hut and brought out a clay jar into which she put her hand and withdrew some money she had been saving for months. Even though she had been alone without any Church organization, she had been saving her tithing with faith and hope that someday her tithing would be taken to the appropriate place.
She obviously had many unmet needs; yet, she was handing us money. My first impression was not to accept it and to encourage her to spend it wherever she might need it. Then I realized that it was not my right to do so because she was obeying a commandment. She had gained a testimony that tithing is a divine commandment and was willing to live that principleโeven when she was alone.
We need the courage to live up to our standards, especially when there is no one around to check up on us. Then, regardless of where we are, away from home for the first time, in college, in a social setting where there are all kinds of temptations, or any place elseโwe can stand up for that which we know is true and live consistently with our ideals.
We were given a list of names and asked by the mission president to go there, find the people, see how they were doing, and, if possible, locate a place where we could quietly conduct a sacrament meeting. For all those months, they had not had the privilege we take so much for granted of partaking of the sacrament each week.
We arrived early in the morning and immediately searched for the address of the first name on the list. We located her address and passed through a door in a high adobe wall that surrounded a crowded cluster of tiny huts around a central area.
It seemed that everyone there was watching us. Back in the corner was a little grass-thatched hut. The sister we were looking for came to the door, saw us, and easily recognized by our dress that we were missionaries. With tears in her eyes, she rushed to us and greeted us with a hug. We identified ourselves and told her why we were there.
After this brief greeting, she went back into her hut and brought out a clay jar into which she put her hand and withdrew some money she had been saving for months. Even though she had been alone without any Church organization, she had been saving her tithing with faith and hope that someday her tithing would be taken to the appropriate place.
She obviously had many unmet needs; yet, she was handing us money. My first impression was not to accept it and to encourage her to spend it wherever she might need it. Then I realized that it was not my right to do so because she was obeying a commandment. She had gained a testimony that tithing is a divine commandment and was willing to live that principleโeven when she was alone.
We need the courage to live up to our standards, especially when there is no one around to check up on us. Then, regardless of where we are, away from home for the first time, in college, in a social setting where there are all kinds of temptations, or any place elseโwe can stand up for that which we know is true and live consistently with our ideals.
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๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Church Members (General)
Adversity
Commandments
Conversion
Faith
Missionary Work
Obedience
Religious Freedom
Sacrament
Sacrament Meeting
Sacrifice
Testimony
Tithing
Everything Money Cannot Buy
Summary: In Kiev, the speaker first met Katya Sarduk, a recent convert with two children whose eyes sparkled as she described her conversion and commitment to the gospel. Four years later, the speaker returned and found Katya serving as her interpreter, brighter and more joyful than before because she had continued investing in her spiritual life.
Four years ago I was in Kiev, Ukraine, and the mission presidentโs wife took me to the home of Katya Sarduk, a lovely young woman with two children. Katya had just joined the Church, and her eyes sparkled as she told about her conversion. She loved her new faith and was committed to living the gospel. As I left her home that day, I prayed that the fire of the covenant would continue to burn in her heart. I prayed that her children and her childrenโs children would embrace the truth.
I returned to Kiev just two months ago and wondered if I would see her again. I arrived for Church meetings on Sunday. Soon I was introduced to my interpreter, a lovely blonde woman with sparkling eyes who said, โDo you remember me?โ Her countenance was even brighter than before. Katya Sarduk had grown in the gospel. She had invested in her spiritual well-being, and her joy was overflowing.
I returned to Kiev just two months ago and wondered if I would see her again. I arrived for Church meetings on Sunday. Soon I was introduced to my interpreter, a lovely blonde woman with sparkling eyes who said, โDo you remember me?โ Her countenance was even brighter than before. Katya Sarduk had grown in the gospel. She had invested in her spiritual well-being, and her joy was overflowing.
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๐ค Young Adults
๐ค Children
๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Church Members (General)
Elder Richard G. Scott:
Summary: As a youth, Richard felt socially unsure and often alone despite success at school. While serving as a missionary, an urgent desire to share the gospel deepened his understanding and removed those feelings of loneliness.
Still, he felt something lacking in his life. Encouraged by bishops and home teachers to attend church meetings and activities, he went, โalthough at times reluctantly.โ For some reason, he sometimes felt as though he were on the sidelines looking in. The same was true at school: although he excelled academically and was well liked, he lacked confidence socially and athletically and often felt alone.
It wasnโt until he was a missionary that he discovered what could have eliminated those feelings. โThe expanded understanding of the gospel that came from an urgent desire to share the gospel with others filled all the voids of loneliness,โ he says. โI began to recognize that those feelings need not have been part of my life if I had really understood the gospel.โ
It wasnโt until he was a missionary that he discovered what could have eliminated those feelings. โThe expanded understanding of the gospel that came from an urgent desire to share the gospel with others filled all the voids of loneliness,โ he says. โI began to recognize that those feelings need not have been part of my life if I had really understood the gospel.โ
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๐ค Young Adults
Bishop
Conversion
Missionary Work
Testimony
Matt and Mandy
Summary: A child marvels at spring flowers, and Mommy asks who they should thank. The child thanks Mommy and Daddy for their efforts and jokingly thanks Digger for not digging them up. Prompted that there's Somebody else to thank, the child concludes by offering thanks for the beautiful flowers.
Illustrated by Shauna Mooney Kawasaki
Wow! Itโs spring! Look at the beautiful flowers!
Do you think maybe we should thank Somebody for the flowers?
Sure. Thanks for planting the flowers, Mommy.
Youโre welcome. Who else should we thank?
Thanks for spading up the flower bed, Daddy.
Thereโs still Somebody else.
Thanks for not digging up all the flowers, Digger.
Youโre teasing Mommy, arenโt you?
And thanks for the beautiful flowers.
Wow! Itโs spring! Look at the beautiful flowers!
Do you think maybe we should thank Somebody for the flowers?
Sure. Thanks for planting the flowers, Mommy.
Youโre welcome. Who else should we thank?
Thanks for spading up the flower bed, Daddy.
Thereโs still Somebody else.
Thanks for not digging up all the flowers, Digger.
Youโre teasing Mommy, arenโt you?
And thanks for the beautiful flowers.
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Children
Creation
Family
Gratitude
Parenting
Sharing the Load
Summary: Norwegian priests and Laurels hiked the Spiralen, organized in family groups with progressive rest stops symbolizing degrees of glory. Near the top, each group had to push a wheelbarrow with heavy stones up a steep, slick hill, working together to reach the summit. After laying down their 'burdens' and building a rock memorial, they ate and listened to a spiritual message. A local bishop reflected that the climbโs uneven challenges taught them to labor together and trust Christ to lighten burdens.
In Norway, right by the town of Drammen, there is a mountain called the Spiralen. From the outside it looks like a normal mountain, but inside it is hollow. The mountain hides an old quarry where rock was dug, forming a spiral tunnel. Now the tunnel has been converted to a roadway that takes cars to the top for a panoramic view of the town and the ocean.
Not long ago, 43 priests and Laurels from the Norway Oslo Stake climbed the Spiralen as part of a priests and Laurels conference. This was not a regular youth conference; the stake sponsors one of those each year. But the stake also has a long tradition of holding a special conference at which all the priests and Laurels gather for two days of fun and serious discussions.
The next morning they climbed the Spiralen. It was soon clear that this hike was going to be more than just a fun activity. They should have known. The hike was going to be an object lesson.
First the priests and Laurels divided into family groups using surnames from Church history, such as Smith, Young, and Kimball. The family groups were sent on their way up the path in intervals. The first rest stop was for water. Everything seemed normal. The second stop was for juice. Gradually, the hikeโs meaning started to become clearโtraveling in family groups, the rewards becoming better and better.
John Gundersen of the Fredrickstad Branch said he caught on to the symbolism of the hike at the first stop. โI started to understand when they told us to hold to the iron rod.โ The first stop could be telestial glory. The second stop could be the terrestrial. When the families emerged from the woods at the parking lot near the top, they were expecting the end of the journey and their celestial reward. But it was not over yet.
Each family was given a wheelbarrow loaded with five large stones. They were told to continue up the path. Everyone was laughing and joking, and no one thought this last stretch would be hard at all. One strong boy could easily handle the loaded wheelbarrow, they thoughtโuntil they saw the last pull to the summit. It was so steep and slick that they would have a hard time just getting themselves up the hill. But their wheelbarrows and those loads of rocks would make it really hard work.
Each family figured out their own method for getting up the hill. ElRay Gene Hendricksen from the Hokksund Branch said, โWe decided to share the burdens. Everyone took a stone out of the wheelbarrow. Two other guys took the empty wheelbarrow. We made it. We were the only family group who did it that way.โ
No one complained. They all just pitched in and figured out how to get their rocks to the top. Then came their reward. Hot and tired, they rested and looked out at the beautiful country below them. They were pleased that everyone made it to the top, where they were able to drop their burdens, represented by the stones. They piled the rocks together into an impromptu memorial. Then they were served lunchโfood for the bodyโand listened to a speaker who talked of heavenly thingsโfood for the soul.
Bishop Aabo of the Drammen Ward explained that at times the climb was more challenging for some than for others. For a while a few carried the burdens while the others just walked along and didnโt need to help. But even though the challenges were uneven, eventually they all had to work together to make sure everyone made it to the top. Bishop Aabo pointed out that Jesus Christ promised he would help make our burdens light. Gaining our own testimonies gives us strength to reach the pinnacle.
Soon it was time to leave the mountaintop and go back down to the real day-to-day world. But as these friends made their way back down, they knew that in that high place they had built a monument more significant than one of simple stones. ElRay Hendricksen explained: โIt is a monument that symbolized that we had all done the same things and made it to the top by helping each other. But we are not finished yet. We will have to develop ourselves and stay together and stay true.โ
On a mountaintop in Norway, one group of teens found some answers.
Not long ago, 43 priests and Laurels from the Norway Oslo Stake climbed the Spiralen as part of a priests and Laurels conference. This was not a regular youth conference; the stake sponsors one of those each year. But the stake also has a long tradition of holding a special conference at which all the priests and Laurels gather for two days of fun and serious discussions.
The next morning they climbed the Spiralen. It was soon clear that this hike was going to be more than just a fun activity. They should have known. The hike was going to be an object lesson.
First the priests and Laurels divided into family groups using surnames from Church history, such as Smith, Young, and Kimball. The family groups were sent on their way up the path in intervals. The first rest stop was for water. Everything seemed normal. The second stop was for juice. Gradually, the hikeโs meaning started to become clearโtraveling in family groups, the rewards becoming better and better.
John Gundersen of the Fredrickstad Branch said he caught on to the symbolism of the hike at the first stop. โI started to understand when they told us to hold to the iron rod.โ The first stop could be telestial glory. The second stop could be the terrestrial. When the families emerged from the woods at the parking lot near the top, they were expecting the end of the journey and their celestial reward. But it was not over yet.
Each family was given a wheelbarrow loaded with five large stones. They were told to continue up the path. Everyone was laughing and joking, and no one thought this last stretch would be hard at all. One strong boy could easily handle the loaded wheelbarrow, they thoughtโuntil they saw the last pull to the summit. It was so steep and slick that they would have a hard time just getting themselves up the hill. But their wheelbarrows and those loads of rocks would make it really hard work.
Each family figured out their own method for getting up the hill. ElRay Gene Hendricksen from the Hokksund Branch said, โWe decided to share the burdens. Everyone took a stone out of the wheelbarrow. Two other guys took the empty wheelbarrow. We made it. We were the only family group who did it that way.โ
No one complained. They all just pitched in and figured out how to get their rocks to the top. Then came their reward. Hot and tired, they rested and looked out at the beautiful country below them. They were pleased that everyone made it to the top, where they were able to drop their burdens, represented by the stones. They piled the rocks together into an impromptu memorial. Then they were served lunchโfood for the bodyโand listened to a speaker who talked of heavenly thingsโfood for the soul.
Bishop Aabo of the Drammen Ward explained that at times the climb was more challenging for some than for others. For a while a few carried the burdens while the others just walked along and didnโt need to help. But even though the challenges were uneven, eventually they all had to work together to make sure everyone made it to the top. Bishop Aabo pointed out that Jesus Christ promised he would help make our burdens light. Gaining our own testimonies gives us strength to reach the pinnacle.
Soon it was time to leave the mountaintop and go back down to the real day-to-day world. But as these friends made their way back down, they knew that in that high place they had built a monument more significant than one of simple stones. ElRay Hendricksen explained: โIt is a monument that symbolized that we had all done the same things and made it to the top by helping each other. But we are not finished yet. We will have to develop ourselves and stay together and stay true.โ
On a mountaintop in Norway, one group of teens found some answers.
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๐ค Jesus Christ
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Youth
Adversity
Bishop
Endure to the End
Faith
Jesus Christ
Plan of Salvation
Service
Testimony
Unity
Young Men
Young Women
Which Path to Choose?
Summary: Abbey starts at a new school and is repeatedly insulted by a girl named Hannah. Remembering her Sunday School teacherโs counsel and her motherโs advice, Abbey refuses to respond rudely and asks Hannah to stop. Hannah later admits she is dealing with difficulties at home, and Abbey forgives her. They become good friends, and Abbey learns that following Jesus is the best path.
It was the first day at my new school. I loved making new friends and was pretty good at it. I got to my classroom and saw all of the people. I thought I was going to have a great year. During lunch with my new friends, we all sat down next to a girl from another class. Her name was Hannah. When I sat down, Hannah said, โWow, your shoes really stink. I wondered if it was the garbage can or your fashion sense.โ
I was really surprised when she said that, and so were the others. So I got up and moved to another table by another new friend.
The next day at recess, Hannah had something else mean to say. This went on and on each day, but every time, I would not say something rude back because my Sunday School teacher, Brother Lawson, said that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. When I thought of that, I asked Hannah politely to please stop or please tell me why she was acting like this to me.
Then I went home and told my mom about all of the things Hannah had said. I felt like exploding! My mom said, โAbbey, just try not to be rude back. Sometimes people act the way they do because something hard is going on at home.โ
So I went to school thinking about what my mom and Brother Lawson said. That day at school, Hannah finally told me that hard things were going on at home and she said mean things because she was mad. I forgave her, and this year she is in my class and we are really good friends!
I learned that following Jesus is the best path.
I was really surprised when she said that, and so were the others. So I got up and moved to another table by another new friend.
The next day at recess, Hannah had something else mean to say. This went on and on each day, but every time, I would not say something rude back because my Sunday School teacher, Brother Lawson, said that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. When I thought of that, I asked Hannah politely to please stop or please tell me why she was acting like this to me.
Then I went home and told my mom about all of the things Hannah had said. I felt like exploding! My mom said, โAbbey, just try not to be rude back. Sometimes people act the way they do because something hard is going on at home.โ
So I went to school thinking about what my mom and Brother Lawson said. That day at school, Hannah finally told me that hard things were going on at home and she said mean things because she was mad. I forgave her, and this year she is in my class and we are really good friends!
I learned that following Jesus is the best path.
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Children
Forgiveness
Friendship
Jesus Christ
Kindness
Press Forward
Summary: Elder Dunn recounts a story about little Timmy, a boy labeled as a slow learner and sent to an ungraded school. When his new teacher asks him questions and listens, she discovers that he has remarkable knowledge about birds. The story shows how encouragement and understanding can reveal hidden ability.
Sometimes itโs a well-meaning person who doesnโt understand. Do you remember the story of little Timmy, the slow learner who was taken to an ungraded school? The teacher asked why he was sent to her. He said, โI was sent because I am a moron. Teacher, what is a moron?โ
The teacher said, โA moron is one who does not know all the answers.โ
โI guess Iโm a moron because there are a lot of things I donโt know. My father must be one, too. Just this morning at breakfast my mother told Dad that he would never learn to eat like he ought to. I like my father, though, because he always says, โTimmy, what do you think?โโ
The teacher inquired, โWhat do you think, Tim?โ
โJust let a bird sing two notes, and I can tell you what kind of a bird it is. I can tell you its color, what the papa looks like, how many eggs the mother lays, the color of the eggs, and how long it will take for them to hatch. I know all the birds that stay here and when and where they go. I even know when the birds are here and when they are going somewhere else.โ
The teacher said, โTimmy, youโre a genius.โ
Timmy said, โTeacher, you know more about me already than my teacher did last year. She never asked me what I thought; she always told me what I didnโt know. She must be a moron.โ
The teacher said, โA moron is one who does not know all the answers.โ
โI guess Iโm a moron because there are a lot of things I donโt know. My father must be one, too. Just this morning at breakfast my mother told Dad that he would never learn to eat like he ought to. I like my father, though, because he always says, โTimmy, what do you think?โโ
The teacher inquired, โWhat do you think, Tim?โ
โJust let a bird sing two notes, and I can tell you what kind of a bird it is. I can tell you its color, what the papa looks like, how many eggs the mother lays, the color of the eggs, and how long it will take for them to hatch. I know all the birds that stay here and when and where they go. I even know when the birds are here and when they are going somewhere else.โ
The teacher said, โTimmy, youโre a genius.โ
Timmy said, โTeacher, you know more about me already than my teacher did last year. She never asked me what I thought; she always told me what I didnโt know. She must be a moron.โ
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Children
Disabilities
Education
Judging Others
Kindness
FYI:For Your Information
Summary: During a Bicentennial youth conference, Torrance California South Stake youth collected trash and tumbleweeds to help prepare land for a much-needed local park, following counsel to render community service. The conference included patriotic-themed events, a workday at the park site, a theatrical performance, a dance, and a Sunday sacrament meeting with testimonies. By the end, the youth felt they had served, built friendships, and strengthened their commitment to the Lordโs work.
Someday Torrance, California, will boast a 12-acre park with landscaped picnic areas, sports fields, and a playground for children; and the 10,000 residents who live within a square mile will be able to thank some active LDS youths for helping to bring it about.
The huge stacks of tumbleweeds and trash collected by the young people of the Torrance California South Stake helped the city move closer to beginning work on the park. For the youths, the cleanup campaign followed President Kimballโs advice that Americans devote 24 service hours to their communities this year. The project was also part of a three-day Bicentennial youth conference.
Choosing the theme, โJoin the Freedom TrainโShare Your Gospel Heritage,โ the young people began the conference with a flag ceremony and color guard presentation. Then the 400 members and nonmembers were treated to a banquet served by their adult advisers. Of course, the decorations were all patriotic red, white, and blue. Song, dance, comedy, and a touch of dramatics were provided by the โSounds of Zion,โ a 50-member, touring Utah State University performing group. The college students reviewed the early days of movies, radio, television, and popular music. Also included were Church hymns and patriotic songs.
The next day the young people went to work at Torranceโs del Thorne Park. There are currently no park facilities available for nearby residents. The area will welcome the park when completed, and the young people will enjoy its features, knowing they contributed to its success.
The cleanup project was followed by the Rio Hondo Instituteโs three-act musical-drama, Moroniโs Promise. The play centers on a young manโs uncertainty about accepting a mission call until he prays for guidance. After the play the Torrance young people danced to the music of โPacifica,โ though no one could believe they were still able to stand on their feet after the dayโs work.
On Sunday evening the youth gathered for a sacrament and testimony meeting conducted by Stake President Eldon H. Morgan. President Morgan spoke on liberty, the true meaning of freedom, and why we should live within the law. Many youths bore their testimonies and expressed deep feelings for their families, Church, and country.
When the conference came to an end, the young people recognized that they had helped serve their community, made new friends, shared testimonies, and strengthened their commitment to do the Lordโs work. These were goals they had determined themselves. They knew that if they made up their minds to get something done, they probably would.
The huge stacks of tumbleweeds and trash collected by the young people of the Torrance California South Stake helped the city move closer to beginning work on the park. For the youths, the cleanup campaign followed President Kimballโs advice that Americans devote 24 service hours to their communities this year. The project was also part of a three-day Bicentennial youth conference.
Choosing the theme, โJoin the Freedom TrainโShare Your Gospel Heritage,โ the young people began the conference with a flag ceremony and color guard presentation. Then the 400 members and nonmembers were treated to a banquet served by their adult advisers. Of course, the decorations were all patriotic red, white, and blue. Song, dance, comedy, and a touch of dramatics were provided by the โSounds of Zion,โ a 50-member, touring Utah State University performing group. The college students reviewed the early days of movies, radio, television, and popular music. Also included were Church hymns and patriotic songs.
The next day the young people went to work at Torranceโs del Thorne Park. There are currently no park facilities available for nearby residents. The area will welcome the park when completed, and the young people will enjoy its features, knowing they contributed to its success.
The cleanup project was followed by the Rio Hondo Instituteโs three-act musical-drama, Moroniโs Promise. The play centers on a young manโs uncertainty about accepting a mission call until he prays for guidance. After the play the Torrance young people danced to the music of โPacifica,โ though no one could believe they were still able to stand on their feet after the dayโs work.
On Sunday evening the youth gathered for a sacrament and testimony meeting conducted by Stake President Eldon H. Morgan. President Morgan spoke on liberty, the true meaning of freedom, and why we should live within the law. Many youths bore their testimonies and expressed deep feelings for their families, Church, and country.
When the conference came to an end, the young people recognized that they had helped serve their community, made new friends, shared testimonies, and strengthened their commitment to do the Lordโs work. These were goals they had determined themselves. They knew that if they made up their minds to get something done, they probably would.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
Friendship
Missionary Work
Music
Prayer
Religious Freedom
Sacrament Meeting
Service
Testimony
The Party Invitation
Summary: The narrator was invited to a friend's birthday party on a Sunday but chose not to attend. Instead, they went to church to keep the Sabbath day holy and show love to Heavenly Father by obeying His commandments. Although it was difficult to miss the party, they felt good knowing they made the right choice.
I got an invitation to one of my friendโs birthday parties, and I couldnโt go because it was on Sunday. I made a choice to not go to the party, and instead of going to the party to go to church. One of the Ten Commandments is to keep the Sabbath day holy. I want to show Heavenly Father I love Him by obeying His commandments. It was hard to miss the party, but I feel good because I know I made the right choice.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Friends
Agency and Accountability
Commandments
Love
Obedience
Sabbath Day
Sacrifice
The Three Questions
Summary: As a teen driving home with her 13-year-old sister, the narrator ran out of gas on a dark freeway. After praying and unsuccessfully signaling for help, they began to walk but felt prompted to return to the van when motorcycles approached. Soon their parents arrived, having come to look for them because of the family's check-in rule. The experience changed the narrator's attitude toward her parents' rules.
As a teenager, my independence and my privacy were very important to me. So our family rule that Mom and Dad always had to know where we were, who we were with, and when weโd be home, was annoying. Even though we all complained about it, we all abided by it.
It was early spring of my junior year in high school when my 13-year-old sister, Jenni, and I were heavily involved with our girlsโ volleyball team. Our team was not the best nor the worst. We just played to have fun. One of the most exciting matches of the season, involving several teams, was to be held about 40 minutes from our home. It was a Friday night, and since Iโd had my driverโs license for more than a year, Mom and Dad let me take the van with my little sister as my companion. Jenni and I didnโt always see eye to eye, but we had a great visit with each other on the way to the match. Being alone gave us the opportunity to really talk. The evening was as much fun as we had anticipated. After saying good-bye to friends old and new, Jenni and I left and headed for home.
Just 15 minutes into the ride on a fast moving freeway, we ran out of gas. It was a dark night, so we hoped we could coast to the next off-ramp. But the van came to a stop under an overpass nearly a mile away from the exit. Scared, we offered a prayer. โHeavenly Father,โ we prayed, โplease help us find a way to get home safely.โ
As we ended our prayer, I remembered that in an emergency we are told to lift the car hood and put something white on the antenna, so we did. We knew it was just a matter of time before a police car would drive by and offer to help. Three times we were passed by police, even though we were flashing our lights and honking.
Discouragement nearly overcame us, and we decided it was time to pray again. Finishing the prayer with tears streaming down our faces, we talked about possible solutions. We could see the exit sign and decided to walk toward it, hoping to find a telephone. About a quarter of a mile away from the van, we heard a vehicle approaching us and slowing down. Could our prayers be answered? We turned around and saw two motorcycles coming toward us. At that moment we both felt very strongly that we should head back to the safety of the van. Back in the car, huddled together, we tried to comfort each other. Then, as the Spirit whispered peace to each of us, we looked out our window to see our mother and father coming to a stop on the other side of the freeway. Our relief and gratitude completely overcame us as we ran into the arms of our anxious parents. โHow did you know?โ we asked. Softly and clearly our parents answered that they knew where we were, who we were with, and when we were supposed to be home. Because we had always followed this rule, when we didnโt arrive home on time, they knew they had to come looking for us.
I was never annoyed by my parentsโ strict rules again.
It was early spring of my junior year in high school when my 13-year-old sister, Jenni, and I were heavily involved with our girlsโ volleyball team. Our team was not the best nor the worst. We just played to have fun. One of the most exciting matches of the season, involving several teams, was to be held about 40 minutes from our home. It was a Friday night, and since Iโd had my driverโs license for more than a year, Mom and Dad let me take the van with my little sister as my companion. Jenni and I didnโt always see eye to eye, but we had a great visit with each other on the way to the match. Being alone gave us the opportunity to really talk. The evening was as much fun as we had anticipated. After saying good-bye to friends old and new, Jenni and I left and headed for home.
Just 15 minutes into the ride on a fast moving freeway, we ran out of gas. It was a dark night, so we hoped we could coast to the next off-ramp. But the van came to a stop under an overpass nearly a mile away from the exit. Scared, we offered a prayer. โHeavenly Father,โ we prayed, โplease help us find a way to get home safely.โ
As we ended our prayer, I remembered that in an emergency we are told to lift the car hood and put something white on the antenna, so we did. We knew it was just a matter of time before a police car would drive by and offer to help. Three times we were passed by police, even though we were flashing our lights and honking.
Discouragement nearly overcame us, and we decided it was time to pray again. Finishing the prayer with tears streaming down our faces, we talked about possible solutions. We could see the exit sign and decided to walk toward it, hoping to find a telephone. About a quarter of a mile away from the van, we heard a vehicle approaching us and slowing down. Could our prayers be answered? We turned around and saw two motorcycles coming toward us. At that moment we both felt very strongly that we should head back to the safety of the van. Back in the car, huddled together, we tried to comfort each other. Then, as the Spirit whispered peace to each of us, we looked out our window to see our mother and father coming to a stop on the other side of the freeway. Our relief and gratitude completely overcame us as we ran into the arms of our anxious parents. โHow did you know?โ we asked. Softly and clearly our parents answered that they knew where we were, who we were with, and when we were supposed to be home. Because we had always followed this rule, when we didnโt arrive home on time, they knew they had to come looking for us.
I was never annoyed by my parentsโ strict rules again.
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Faith
Family
Gratitude
Holy Ghost
Miracles
Obedience
Parenting
Prayer
Young Women
The Call to Serve
Summary: As a bishop and quorum president, the speaker accompanied Robert, a shy priest who stuttered severely, to baptize a child in the Salt Lake Tabernacle. During the ordinance, Robert spoke every word without stuttering, then returned to stammering afterward. The experience was viewed as a modern miracle demonstrating the Lordโs help in priesthood service.
Fifty years ago, I knew a young manโeven a priestโwho held the authority of the Aaronic Priesthood. As the bishop, I was his quorum president. Robert stuttered and stammered, void of control. He was self-conscious, shy, fearful of himself and all others, and this impediment was devastating to him. Never did he fulfill an assignment; never would he look another in the eye; always he would gaze downward. Then one day, through a set of unusual circumstances, he accepted an assignment to perform the priestly responsibility to baptize another.
I sat next to Robert in the baptistry of the Salt Lake Tabernacle. He was dressed in immaculate white, prepared for the ordinance he was to perform. I leaned over and asked him how he felt. He gazed at the floor and stuttered almost uncontrollably that he felt terrible, terrible.
We both prayed fervently that he would be made equal to his task. Suddenly the clerk said, โNancy Ann McArthur will now be baptized by Robert Williams, a priest.โ
Robert left my side, stepped into the font, took little Nancy by the hand, and helped her into that water which cleanses human lives and provides a spiritual rebirth. He spoke the words, โNancy Ann McArthur, having been commissioned of Jesus Christ, I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.โ Not once did he stutter! Not once did he falter! A modern miracle had been witnessed. Robert then performed the baptismal ordinance for two or three other children in the same fashion.
In the dressing room, as I congratulated Robert, I expected to hear this same uninterrupted flow of speech. I was wrong. He gazed downward and stammered his reply of gratitude.
To each of you brethren this evening, I testify that when Robert acted in the authority of the Aaronic Priesthood, he spoke with power, with conviction, and with heavenly help.
I sat next to Robert in the baptistry of the Salt Lake Tabernacle. He was dressed in immaculate white, prepared for the ordinance he was to perform. I leaned over and asked him how he felt. He gazed at the floor and stuttered almost uncontrollably that he felt terrible, terrible.
We both prayed fervently that he would be made equal to his task. Suddenly the clerk said, โNancy Ann McArthur will now be baptized by Robert Williams, a priest.โ
Robert left my side, stepped into the font, took little Nancy by the hand, and helped her into that water which cleanses human lives and provides a spiritual rebirth. He spoke the words, โNancy Ann McArthur, having been commissioned of Jesus Christ, I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.โ Not once did he stutter! Not once did he falter! A modern miracle had been witnessed. Robert then performed the baptismal ordinance for two or three other children in the same fashion.
In the dressing room, as I congratulated Robert, I expected to hear this same uninterrupted flow of speech. I was wrong. He gazed downward and stammered his reply of gratitude.
To each of you brethren this evening, I testify that when Robert acted in the authority of the Aaronic Priesthood, he spoke with power, with conviction, and with heavenly help.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Children
Baptism
Bishop
Courage
Disabilities
Faith
Miracles
Ordinances
Prayer
Priesthood
Testimony
Young Men
Pioneering the Church in Omoku, My Homeland
Summary: The family traveled two hours each Sunday from Omoku to Port Harcourt for church until 2001, when they were authorized to worship in Omoku. They reactivated local members, met in the narratorโs apartment, then a larger flat. On January 9, 2005, the Church was officially organized there with him as branch president, his wife as Relief Society counselor, and 36 members.
We went to church in Port Harcourt from Omoku, our hometown. It was about two-hour drive. We did this every Sunday until sometime in 2001 when the Port Harcourt West Stake Presidency authorized me and family to stay back and worship in Omoku under the supervision of the Rumueme Ward. We reactivated some members of the Church who resided in our town and surrounding towns, two of whom were old schoolmates at the university. We started worshipping in my one-room apartment and later moved into a three-rooms flat in the city center where, on the 9th of January 2005, the Church was officially organized with me as the first branch president and my wife as first counsellor in the Relief Society. We had 36 members of our branch.
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๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Parents
๐ค Church Members (General)
Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Family
Missionary Work
Priesthood
Relief Society
Service
The Tradition of a Balanced, Righteous Life
Summary: Working in department store management, the author attended cocktail hours but felt uncomfortable and wanted to be recognized as a nondrinker. After trying sodas that looked like alcoholic drinks, he asked for a glass of milk, which drew attention, sparked conversations, and clearly signaled his standards. The choice led to increased respect and even prompted others to join him in drinking milk.
I spent my career in the department store business. Because I was part of a management team, it was important for me to interact socially with local business organizations. The meetings with most of these organizations always started with a cocktail hour. It was a time to mix and get acquainted with the men who belonged to the organization. I have always felt uncomfortable in these social hours. At first I started asking for a lemon-lime soda. I soon discovered that lemon-lime soda looks like many of the other drinks. I could not build the impression I was a nondrinker with a clear soda in my hands. I tried root beer. It had the same problem.
Finally I decided I had to have a drink that would clearly mark me as a nondrinker. I went to the bartender and requested a glass of milk. The bartender had never had such a request. He went into the kitchen and found a glass of milk for me. Now I had a drink that looked very different from the alcoholic beverages the others were drinking. Suddenly I was the center of attention. There were a lot of jokes made of my drink. My milk was a conversation piece. I met more business leaders that evening than I ever had before at a cocktail hour.
Milk became my drink of choice at the cocktail hours. It soon became common knowledge I was a Mormon. The respect I received really surprised me, as did an interesting event that started to occur. Others soon joined me in a pure milk cocktail!
Finally I decided I had to have a drink that would clearly mark me as a nondrinker. I went to the bartender and requested a glass of milk. The bartender had never had such a request. He went into the kitchen and found a glass of milk for me. Now I had a drink that looked very different from the alcoholic beverages the others were drinking. Suddenly I was the center of attention. There were a lot of jokes made of my drink. My milk was a conversation piece. I met more business leaders that evening than I ever had before at a cocktail hour.
Milk became my drink of choice at the cocktail hours. It soon became common knowledge I was a Mormon. The respect I received really surprised me, as did an interesting event that started to occur. Others soon joined me in a pure milk cocktail!
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๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Other
Courage
Employment
Obedience
Word of Wisdom
Latter-day Temples and Temple Worship
Summary: After the Saints had fled Nauvoo, Colonel Thomas L. Kane crossed the Mississippi and walked through the abandoned city. His vivid observations of silent streets, empty homes, idle workshops, and rotting grain captured the cost of the Saints' expulsion.
Nauvoo, once so vibrant and progressive, literally, almost from one month to the next, became a ghost town. In the late summer of August in 1846, Col. Thomas L. Kane, a special friend to the Church, acquired a small boat on the Iowa side and rowed across the Mississippi River to the main landing wharf at Nauvoo and visited what he called the deserted city.
In a speech Col. Kane delivered to the Pennsylvania Historical Society in 1850, he shared some of his experience on that visit. Picture in your imaginations the scene he observed:
No one met me there. I looked and saw no one. I could hear no one move;...the quiet everywhere was such that I heard the flies buzz, ... I walked through solitary streets...I went about unchecked. I went into empty workshops,...The spinner's wheel was idle; the carpenter had gone from his workbench and shavings,... The blacksmith's shop was cold; but his coal heap and ladling pool, and crooked water horn were all there, as if he had just gone off for a holiday... No one called out to me from any opened window, or dog sprang forward to bark an alarm. . . . The doors were unfastened; and when at last I timidly entered them, I found dead ashes white upon the hearths, and [felt as though I] had to tread a-tiptoe, as if walking down the aisle of a country church,...
[For me as a farmer, this next part is especially gripping:]
Fields upon fields of heavy-headed yellow grain lay rotting ungathered upon the ground. No one was at hand to take in their rich harvest. As far as the eye could reach, they stretched awayCthey sleeping too in the hazy air of autumn.[11]
In a speech Col. Kane delivered to the Pennsylvania Historical Society in 1850, he shared some of his experience on that visit. Picture in your imaginations the scene he observed:
No one met me there. I looked and saw no one. I could hear no one move;...the quiet everywhere was such that I heard the flies buzz, ... I walked through solitary streets...I went about unchecked. I went into empty workshops,...The spinner's wheel was idle; the carpenter had gone from his workbench and shavings,... The blacksmith's shop was cold; but his coal heap and ladling pool, and crooked water horn were all there, as if he had just gone off for a holiday... No one called out to me from any opened window, or dog sprang forward to bark an alarm. . . . The doors were unfastened; and when at last I timidly entered them, I found dead ashes white upon the hearths, and [felt as though I] had to tread a-tiptoe, as if walking down the aisle of a country church,...
[For me as a farmer, this next part is especially gripping:]
Fields upon fields of heavy-headed yellow grain lay rotting ungathered upon the ground. No one was at hand to take in their rich harvest. As far as the eye could reach, they stretched awayCthey sleeping too in the hazy air of autumn.[11]
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๐ค Friends
๐ค Early Saints
๐ค Other
The Atonement at Work
Summary: After being arrested for stealing a scooter, a young man was picked up by his mother and stepfather, who responded calmly. He expressed sorrow and recognized the pain he had caused, marking a turning point in his life. He later acknowledged he had the officer call because he knew his parents loved him.
The plan began to take shape in an unexpected way when I received a phone call from the local police station. Alex had been arrested. My new husband and I put on our coats and in the middle of the night picked Alex up from the police station. We didnโt make a scene; actually Alexโs stepfather and I said very little.
When we got home, Alex told us what had happened when he and his friend had stolen a scooter. He was so sorry for what he had done. I saw for the first time a broken young man.
The arrest was a turning point for Alex as he began to realize the consequences of his actions and where he was headed. From that day on, so many blessings started to come our way.
The next day Alex told us that he had asked the officer to call us because he knew that we loved him. He also realized how much he had hurt us, and he appreciated that we had stayed calm.
When we got home, Alex told us what had happened when he and his friend had stolen a scooter. He was so sorry for what he had done. I saw for the first time a broken young man.
The arrest was a turning point for Alex as he began to realize the consequences of his actions and where he was headed. From that day on, so many blessings started to come our way.
The next day Alex told us that he had asked the officer to call us because he knew that we loved him. He also realized how much he had hurt us, and he appreciated that we had stayed calm.
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๐ค Parents
๐ค Youth
๐ค Other
Agency and Accountability
Family
Forgiveness
Love
Repentance
โGathered Together in My Nameโ
Summary: Eight months before the family home evening visit, a ward council discussed how to help the same family progress. A Young Women president counseled that they should slow down and focus on basics like family home evening, scripture study, and prayer, which the council accepted by the Spirit. Assignments were made, materials delivered, and the family received consistent support from relatives. These efforts led to the pivotal family night the bishop later attended.
Eight months before I attended that home evening with that young family, the ward council was gathered on a Sunday morning. We opened with prayer and watched a video about helping individuals and families receive the blessings and ordinances of the gospel. I asked the council members if anyone had come to mind as we viewed the video. That led to a discussion of this family. We expressed our love for them. We talked about possible callings, how we could help the father work toward Melchizedek Priesthood ordination, and how we could help the couple work toward receiving temple ordinances.
As the bishop I made some assignments. It seemed the discussion was nearly closed, but something did not feel quite right. It was the Young Women president who finally said, โI think weโre moving too fast. I kind of feel like we need to focus on the basics with them, like family home evening and scripture study and prayer.โ Then that โnot quite rightโ feeling went away. She spoke, not on behalf of the Young Women organization, but out of love for this family, and in that moment the Spirit bore witness to us of the truth of her counsel.
This sisterโs comment reopened the discussion. We talked about how to help the family develop a pattern of scripture study, prayer, and home evening. The young fatherโs sister was serving as one of our ward missionaries, so the ward mission leader took the assignment to work with her and the home teachers to institute regular family home evenings. My wife and I delivered a copy of the Family Home Evening resource guidebook and a hymnbook to their home.
The most consistent support and strength came from the mother and sister of this young father as they consistently attended family home evening with the family, ultimately leading to that important family night that I was privileged to attend.
As the bishop I made some assignments. It seemed the discussion was nearly closed, but something did not feel quite right. It was the Young Women president who finally said, โI think weโre moving too fast. I kind of feel like we need to focus on the basics with them, like family home evening and scripture study and prayer.โ Then that โnot quite rightโ feeling went away. She spoke, not on behalf of the Young Women organization, but out of love for this family, and in that moment the Spirit bore witness to us of the truth of her counsel.
This sisterโs comment reopened the discussion. We talked about how to help the family develop a pattern of scripture study, prayer, and home evening. The young fatherโs sister was serving as one of our ward missionaries, so the ward mission leader took the assignment to work with her and the home teachers to institute regular family home evenings. My wife and I delivered a copy of the Family Home Evening resource guidebook and a hymnbook to their home.
The most consistent support and strength came from the mother and sister of this young father as they consistently attended family home evening with the family, ultimately leading to that important family night that I was privileged to attend.
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๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Parents
๐ค Church Members (General)
Bishop
Family
Family Home Evening
Holy Ghost
Love
Ministering
Missionary Work
Ordinances
Prayer
Priesthood
Revelation
Scriptures
Teaching the Gospel
Temples
Young Women
Childviews
Summary: A four-year-old learns she must have her frenulum clipped and feels very scared. She prays that everything will be all right. At the hospital, she receives medicine, sleeps, and wakes in her motherโs arms without crying. She believes Heavenly Father helped her avoid pain during the operation.
When I was four years old, I found out that I had to get my frenulum (a part of the tongue that connects it to the mouth) clipped. I was really scared the day of my operation. I said a prayer to Heavenly Father that everything would be all right. At the hospital, the doctor gave me some medicine, and I went to sleep. When I woke up, the next thing I knew I was in my momโs arms, and I didnโt cry. I believe that Heavenly Father helped me through the operation without feeling pain.
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