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Summary: A parent felt a clear impression that their junior highâaged daughter had lost a school election and should be picked up early. Arriving as results were announced, they took her home, allowing her time to process emotions before seeing friends. The parent expressed gratitude that God guides in such personal moments.
I have also discovered that the Lord is generous and will often guide us in matters for which we have not sought direction. Some time ago one of our children had run for an elected office at the junior high school she attended. It was the day of the election, and I was home, busy with the routine of the day. Suddenly, it came clearly to my mind that our daughter had lost the election and I needed to go early to the school to pick her up. I watched the clock, and when I knew it was time for the election results to be announced, I arrived at the school. As I walked through the front door, all the youth who had participated in the election were seated in the front hall. They were listening to the results before they were announced to the other students. Our daughter was grateful for an early ride home in order to collect her thoughts, emotions, and priorities before meeting her friends the next day. I am grateful that the Lord, who created the universe, will also guide a mother to comfort the heart of a child.
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Summary: Anna joined the Church in 1968 and married Bruno, who respected her beliefs though he was not interested in the Church for many years. Despite the pain of not having all temple blessings, Anna taught her sons the gospel and focused on a loving marriage. After 29 years, Bruno joined the Church and later became a branch president. Their stable, kind home deeply impressed their future daughter-in-law, Raffaella.
The couple credits the influence of Marcoâs parents, Anna and Bruno, for helping them value marriage. When Anna joined the Church in 1968, there were few Church members in Italy. After praying about her decision, she married Bruno, a man who respected her beliefs and allowed her to teach their children the gospel. âI never worried about marrying a Mormon because of the great respect Anna and I had for each other,â Bruno says.
Although Anna felt pained because she couldnât offer her children all the blessings of an eternal family, she says, âI knew my husband was a good man and eventually everything would fall into place.â In the meantime she taught her sons, Marco and Alessio, to make the Savior the center of their lives and to value the family.
Eventually Bruno joined the Church. Today he is president of the Firenze Second Branch. But during the 29 years that he was not interested in the Church, he and Anna still worked to have a happy marriage. Their loving relationship made a positive impact on their children and their daughter-in-law. âWhen I first set foot in their home, it really hit me that they have a good family life,â Raffaella says. âThey donât yell at each other. They are calm and nice to each other. I really wanted that.â
Although Anna felt pained because she couldnât offer her children all the blessings of an eternal family, she says, âI knew my husband was a good man and eventually everything would fall into place.â In the meantime she taught her sons, Marco and Alessio, to make the Savior the center of their lives and to value the family.
Eventually Bruno joined the Church. Today he is president of the Firenze Second Branch. But during the 29 years that he was not interested in the Church, he and Anna still worked to have a happy marriage. Their loving relationship made a positive impact on their children and their daughter-in-law. âWhen I first set foot in their home, it really hit me that they have a good family life,â Raffaella says. âThey donât yell at each other. They are calm and nice to each other. I really wanted that.â
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Become a Star Thrower
Summary: Loren Eiseley observed a man gently throwing stranded starfish back into the sea despite the overwhelming number washed ashore. Initially seeing the effort as futile, Eiseley returned the next day, joined the man, and recognized the meaningfulness of saving individual lives. Together they continued casting starfish back, realizing the taskâs worth and urgency.
Loren Eiseley walked along a stormy beach late one afternoon âwith the wind roaring at his back and the seagulls screamingâ overhead. Tourists who came to the beach would collect shellfish and sea life tossed up each night, boil them in large kettles, and take the shells home as souvenirs. Eiseley walked far down the beach around a point away from the collectors and saw âa gigantic rainbow of incredible perfection.â Toward its foot he âdiscerned a human figure ⌠gazing ⌠at something in the sand.â
âIn a pool of sand ⌠a starfish had thrust its arms up stiffly and was holding its body away from the stifling mud. ⌠[âIs it still alive?â Eiseley asked.]
ââYes,ââ [said the man standing in the rainbow] and with a quick ⌠gentle movement he picked up the star and spun it ⌠far out into the sea.
âIt may live,â he said, âif the offshore pull is strong enough. âŚâ
At first Eiseley felt only the futility of the manâs efforts, âthrowing one starfish at a time back into the sea when it nightly tosses out hundreds.â He walked away, looking sadly âat the shell collectors ⌠[and] the steaming kettles in which ⌠voiceless things were being boiled alive.â
The next morning Eiseley again went to the beach. Again the star thrower was there. âSilently [Eiseley] ⌠picked up a still-living star, spinning it far out into the waves. ⌠âI understand,â [he] said. âCall [me a star] thrower [also].ââ
Of throwing the starfish back he wrote, âIt was like a sowingâthe sowing of life on an infinitely gigantic scale. âŚâ He saw the star thrower stoop and throw once more. Eiseley joined with him. They âflung and flung again while all about [them] roared the insatiable waters.â
They, âalone and small in that immensity, hurled back the living stars.â They set their shoulders and âcast, ⌠slowly, deliberately, and well. The task was not to be assumed lightly.â (Loren Eiseley, The Star Thrower [New York: Harcourt, Brace, Jovanovich, 1978], pp. 171â73, 184.) Each moment counted if they were to rescue the starfish that they sought to save.
âIn a pool of sand ⌠a starfish had thrust its arms up stiffly and was holding its body away from the stifling mud. ⌠[âIs it still alive?â Eiseley asked.]
ââYes,ââ [said the man standing in the rainbow] and with a quick ⌠gentle movement he picked up the star and spun it ⌠far out into the sea.
âIt may live,â he said, âif the offshore pull is strong enough. âŚâ
At first Eiseley felt only the futility of the manâs efforts, âthrowing one starfish at a time back into the sea when it nightly tosses out hundreds.â He walked away, looking sadly âat the shell collectors ⌠[and] the steaming kettles in which ⌠voiceless things were being boiled alive.â
The next morning Eiseley again went to the beach. Again the star thrower was there. âSilently [Eiseley] ⌠picked up a still-living star, spinning it far out into the waves. ⌠âI understand,â [he] said. âCall [me a star] thrower [also].ââ
Of throwing the starfish back he wrote, âIt was like a sowingâthe sowing of life on an infinitely gigantic scale. âŚâ He saw the star thrower stoop and throw once more. Eiseley joined with him. They âflung and flung again while all about [them] roared the insatiable waters.â
They, âalone and small in that immensity, hurled back the living stars.â They set their shoulders and âcast, ⌠slowly, deliberately, and well. The task was not to be assumed lightly.â (Loren Eiseley, The Star Thrower [New York: Harcourt, Brace, Jovanovich, 1978], pp. 171â73, 184.) Each moment counted if they were to rescue the starfish that they sought to save.
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FYI:For Your Information
Summary: In a school cafeteria, a student began choking. Joel Herd quickly used the Heimlich maneuver he had learned in Boy Scouts first aid classes, clearing the obstruction and restoring the student's breathing. Teachers arrived after Joel had already resolved the emergency.
Joel Herd of Rock Springs, Wyoming, responded quickly and correctly when a fellow student began choking on something he swallowed while in the school cafeteria. Joel applied the Heimlich maneuver he learned in his Boy Scouts first aid classes. The obstruction was cleared, and the student resumed breathing. Teachers nearby were called over, but by the time they arrived, Joel had taken care of the situation.
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By Example
Summary: At age seven, Joseph Smith suffered a severe leg infection after typhus fever, and doctors considered amputation. They proposed a risky operation without anesthesia and planned to bind him, but Joseph refused to be tied or to take wine. He asked only to be held by his father during the surgery. The operation succeeded, and though lame for a time, he eventually recovered.
During his early youth, however, ill health and ill fortune seemed to pursue the family. When young Joseph was seven years old, he and his brothers and sisters were stricken with typhus fever. The others recovered readily, but Joseph was left with a painful sore on his leg. The doctors, doing the best they could under the conditions of the time, treated himâand yet the sore persisted. Finally the doctors were afraid they were going to have to amputate his leg.
Thankfully, however, one day the doctors came unexpectedly to the home and told the family they were going to try a new operation to remove a piece of the bone, hoping this would permit the sore to heal. They had brought with them some cord and planned to tie Joseph to the bed because they had no anesthetic, nothing to dull the pain, when they cut into his leg to remove the piece of bone.
Young Joseph, however, responded, âI will not be bound, for I can bear the operation much better if I have my liberty.â
The doctors then said, âWill you take some wine? ⌠You must take something, or you can never endure the severe operation.â
Again the boy prophet said, âNo, ⌠but I will tell you what I will doâI will have my father sit on the bed and hold me in his arms, and then I will do whatever is necessary in order to have the bone taken out.â
So Joseph Smith Sr. held the boy in his arms, and the doctors opened the leg and removed the diseased piece of bone. Although he was lame for some time afterward, Joseph was healed.2 At seven years of age, the Prophet Joseph Smith taught us courageâby example.
Thankfully, however, one day the doctors came unexpectedly to the home and told the family they were going to try a new operation to remove a piece of the bone, hoping this would permit the sore to heal. They had brought with them some cord and planned to tie Joseph to the bed because they had no anesthetic, nothing to dull the pain, when they cut into his leg to remove the piece of bone.
Young Joseph, however, responded, âI will not be bound, for I can bear the operation much better if I have my liberty.â
The doctors then said, âWill you take some wine? ⌠You must take something, or you can never endure the severe operation.â
Again the boy prophet said, âNo, ⌠but I will tell you what I will doâI will have my father sit on the bed and hold me in his arms, and then I will do whatever is necessary in order to have the bone taken out.â
So Joseph Smith Sr. held the boy in his arms, and the doctors opened the leg and removed the diseased piece of bone. Although he was lame for some time afterward, Joseph was healed.2 At seven years of age, the Prophet Joseph Smith taught us courageâby example.
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How Siedeh Became Brave
Summary: Siedeh skips a grade and feels out of place among older classmates, then struggles after a poor math test and unkind comments. At home she receives a priesthood blessing from her dad, which calms her and encourages her to love her classmates. She works hard, is kinder and braver at school, and her grades and friendships improve. By yearâs end, she has many friends and gratitude for priesthood power.
Siedeh took a big breath and walked into her new classroom. It was her first day in fourth grade.
Last year, Siedeh was in second grade. She did so well that her school let her skip third grade. Siedeh was excited to do harder math problems and read more books in fourth grade. But she wasnât happy that she would have to leave her old friends.
As she looked around the room, Siedeh felt small. All of her new classmates looked older and taller than she was. What if she didnât belong?
She chose a desk and sat down. A tall girl sat next to her. âHi,â Siedeh said.
âWhat are you doing here?â the girl asked. âI thought you were supposed to be in third grade.â
âThe school moved me up a grade,â Siedeh said nervously.
The girl made a mean face. âWell, I donât care how smart you are. Youâre still just a baby.â
Siedeh felt awful inside. For the rest of the week, she was too scared to talk to any of her classmates. Each time she heard someone laughing or whispering, she frowned. They were probably saying mean things about her.
Just when she thought things couldnât get any worse, Siedeh got a math test back. She wanted to cry when she looked at her score. Math was her favorite subject. She had never scored this low on a test before.
When she got home, Siedeh couldnât hold back her tears. âI donât have any friends,â she told her parents. âI donât belong in fourth grade. Iâm not smart enough.â
âIâm sorry itâs so hard,â Siedehâs mother said. âBut you are smart. And you are still learning.â
Siedeh wiped her eyes. âI wish I could go to third grade instead.â
Dad was quiet for a moment. âWould you like a priesthood blessing?â he asked.
Siedeh nodded. Maybe a blessing from Dad would help her feel better.
Siedeh sat on a chair, and Dad put his hands on her head.
âI bless you that you will not be afraid,â Dad said. âAnd I bless you to love your new classmates. As they get to know you, they will love you too.â
A calm feeling spread through Siedeh. She felt that her dadâs words were what Heavenly Father wanted her to hear.
After the blessing, Mama helped Siedeh work on her math problems. Soon Siedeh was feeling a bit better.
The next day at school, Siedeh remembered her blessing and tried to be brave. She smiled at her classmates. When she showed love, she felt less afraid of them! Some of them were even really nice. She worked hard to learn, and soon her grades improved too.
By the end of the school year, Siedeh had many friends. She was glad Heavenly Father had helped her be brave. And she was grateful she could always have the blessing of priesthood power to help her.
This story took place in Liberia.
Last year, Siedeh was in second grade. She did so well that her school let her skip third grade. Siedeh was excited to do harder math problems and read more books in fourth grade. But she wasnât happy that she would have to leave her old friends.
As she looked around the room, Siedeh felt small. All of her new classmates looked older and taller than she was. What if she didnât belong?
She chose a desk and sat down. A tall girl sat next to her. âHi,â Siedeh said.
âWhat are you doing here?â the girl asked. âI thought you were supposed to be in third grade.â
âThe school moved me up a grade,â Siedeh said nervously.
The girl made a mean face. âWell, I donât care how smart you are. Youâre still just a baby.â
Siedeh felt awful inside. For the rest of the week, she was too scared to talk to any of her classmates. Each time she heard someone laughing or whispering, she frowned. They were probably saying mean things about her.
Just when she thought things couldnât get any worse, Siedeh got a math test back. She wanted to cry when she looked at her score. Math was her favorite subject. She had never scored this low on a test before.
When she got home, Siedeh couldnât hold back her tears. âI donât have any friends,â she told her parents. âI donât belong in fourth grade. Iâm not smart enough.â
âIâm sorry itâs so hard,â Siedehâs mother said. âBut you are smart. And you are still learning.â
Siedeh wiped her eyes. âI wish I could go to third grade instead.â
Dad was quiet for a moment. âWould you like a priesthood blessing?â he asked.
Siedeh nodded. Maybe a blessing from Dad would help her feel better.
Siedeh sat on a chair, and Dad put his hands on her head.
âI bless you that you will not be afraid,â Dad said. âAnd I bless you to love your new classmates. As they get to know you, they will love you too.â
A calm feeling spread through Siedeh. She felt that her dadâs words were what Heavenly Father wanted her to hear.
After the blessing, Mama helped Siedeh work on her math problems. Soon Siedeh was feeling a bit better.
The next day at school, Siedeh remembered her blessing and tried to be brave. She smiled at her classmates. When she showed love, she felt less afraid of them! Some of them were even really nice. She worked hard to learn, and soon her grades improved too.
By the end of the school year, Siedeh had many friends. She was glad Heavenly Father had helped her be brave. And she was grateful she could always have the blessing of priesthood power to help her.
This story took place in Liberia.
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Artur Carvalho
Summary: Carvalho did not come from a close family and often came home from work too tired to engage. After joining the Church, he learned his responsibilities as a father and found direction in the gospel. He now relies on his wife and childrenâs support to manage his work and Church duties.
But Bishop Carvalho did not come from a close family, and joining the Church helped him learn how to be a better parent and spouse. âI didnât understand my responsibilities as a father. Sometimes, when I came home from work, all I could think of was how tired I was,â he explains. âThe gospel was like a light that showed me the way. I began to understand my purpose as a man and as a father.â
Now, Bishop Carvalho says, he could not handle his many work and Church responsibilities without the support of his wife and two children. He says it is a great blessing to have been called as a sealer in the Swiss Temple, because temple work is so important to him. He functions in the calling when he travels to Switzerland with Portuguese temple excursion groups.
Now, Bishop Carvalho says, he could not handle his many work and Church responsibilities without the support of his wife and two children. He says it is a great blessing to have been called as a sealer in the Swiss Temple, because temple work is so important to him. He functions in the calling when he travels to Switzerland with Portuguese temple excursion groups.
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âI Am an Adult Nowâ
Summary: The speaker describes counseling a family in which a teenage daughter repeatedly insists, âI am an adult now,â while the conversation collapses into accusation and resentment. From that experience, he argues that real maturity is shown by conduct, patience, and self-discipline rather than by self-declaration.
He illustrates this lesson with examples from Jesus before Pilate, the prodigal son, Nephi, and Church life, emphasizing that adult conduct is a process. The conclusion is that God and our daily actions, not our own labels, should determine whether we are truly mature.
Some weeks ago a man holding a high office in the Church asked a special favor of me. âWould you be good enough to take the time to listen while a mother, father, and their teenage daughter, special friends of mine, try to talk to each other?â
As the four of us sat together, it immediately became obvious that all channels of communication were jammed with prejudice, threats, accusations, and resentment. As the verbal storms developed with bitter intensity, I found myself the only listener. Even though they had individually and collectively agreed I would be the counselor, judge, arbiter, or referee, if you please, I found myself waiting patiently for an opportunity to be heard. During the heated and emotional confrontation, the teenager repeatedly expressed her resentment with, âYou canât talk to me like that. I am an adult now. You canât treat me like that. I am an adult now. You canât dominate my life anymore. I am an adult now.â
Each time she said âI am an adult now,â I cringed. By definition, an adult is a person who has attained the age of maturityâfull grown. While it is true a person may be legally classified as an adult when he or she reaches a certain age, for our purposes today the kind of adult status we are talking about must be earned by actions and attitude.
I am not quite sure who has the right or responsibility to declare someone an adult, but I am quite certain that often the least qualified to make the declaration would be the individual himself. If a person is mature, he or she will not need to announce it. Personal conduct is the only true measurement of maturity. Adult classification, when it pertains to behavior, does not come with age, wrinkles, or gray hair. Perhaps it is not too far off the mark to say adult conduct is a process. Mature conduct is generally developed through self-discipline, resilience, and continuing effort.
In fairness to the teenager, even though her declaration of âI am an adult nowâ didnât impress me favorably, there were times during the visit when I thought she showed more maturity than others in the room. When we who are more senior use an expression like âI am older than youâ to clinch a point, I am not too sure it is very effective. How much better it is to gain respect and love through worthy parental conduct than to seek it through the means of the age differential.
Young men and young women worldwide, you, as well as your parents, need not announce or proclaim your maturity. By your faith and works you will be known for what you are. By your fruits you will be known and classified. Those among us who use abusive arguments, temper tantrums, demeaning and painful criticism, fruitless counter-complaints, and disrespect will benefit no one. Let us put away petty malice, resentment, and retaliatory practices that are self-destructive and return to a path of safety well marked by the Good Shepherd.
It takes courage to flee from verbal contention. When maturity begins to set in, adult lives set in. âLet all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
âAnd be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christâs sake hath forgiven youâ (Eph. 4:31â32). It is alarming how many older people go through life without ever becoming real adults.
For many years I have had a very vivid picture in my mind of Jesus Christ standing before Pilate. While Jesus stood in front of an angry mob, who sneered and condemned, Pilate tried to get Him to respond and retaliate. He tried to get Him to declare himself a king. Jesus was silent. His life was his sermon. He was perfect in character, a worthy son, the Only Begotten of the Father. His maturity, if you please, would speak for itself.
âAnd Jesus stood before the governor: and the governor asked him, saying, Art thou the King of the Jews? And Jesus said unto him, Thou sayest.
âAnd when he was accused of the chief priests and elders, he answered nothing.
âThen said Pilate unto him, Hearest thou not how many things they witness against thee?
âAnd he answered him to never a word; insomuch that the governor marvelled greatlyâ (Matt. 27:11â14).
There are many opportunities to acquire mature behavior in the organizations in the Church. The other day a charming teenager paid a deserving tribute to her Young Womenâs teacher. She said, âFrom her example and good lessons, we learned the importance of good grooming. We learned that though each of us is different, each is equally important. She taught us to solve our differences by discussion, not by shouting.â
The success of the Scouting program is that it teaches boys to stay on the trail. Boulders and hills donât stop the hike to the top of the mountain. Top awards are not given unless the difficult merit badges are earned as well as the easier ones. The boysâ tenacity to continue on the Scouting path, not the honors awarded, is the maturing element of the program.
âA certain man had two sons:
âAnd the younger ⌠said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me [I am an adult now]. And he divided unto them his livingâ (Luke 15:11â12).
The prodigal son parable is well known to all of us. He left and wasted his substance with riotous living. âWhen he came to himself, he said, âŚ
âI will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee,
âAnd am no more worthy to be called thy son: [but I am more of an adult now] âŚ
âAnd he arose, and came to his father. ⌠His father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed himâ (vs. 17â20).
I believe it appropriate to say the father, too, had become more mature during the separation. Think, too, of the maturing and the becoming of more of an adult on the part of the elder son when he witnessed and participated in the Christ-like example of his father (see vs. 25â32).
There is no doubt in my mind that one of the primary reasons Laman and Lemuel murmured and spoke harsh words to their brother Nephi and did smite him with a rod was because they were older and more adult than Nephi, so they supposed. Canât you just hear Laman saying, âNephi, you canât treat me like that. I am an adult now.â
Nephi displayed real maturity when he declared, âI, Nephi, said unto my father: I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.
âAnd it came to pass that when my father had heard these words he was exceedingly glad, for he knew that I had been blessed of the Lordâ (1 Ne. 3:7â8). Lehi was adult enough to know which son was the most mature and who would be blessed of the Lord accordingly.
Too many of us fail to realize adult conduct is a process, not a status. To become a disciple of Jesus Christ, we must continue in righteousness and in His word. When someone shares with enthusiasm his joy in now being an active member of the Church, the thought crosses my mind, âWonderful, but for how long will you stay that way?â Incidentally, some years ago I was contacted by an insurance agent. When he started his sales approach with âI am an active member of the Church,â the first thought that crossed my mind was, âWho said so?â
When someone overcomes the drug habit, and thankfully many have, less time should be spent on announcing the present status and more on staying away from bad habits. Those who are morally clean will conduct themselves in a more adult fashion if they will spend less time declaring it and more time living and teaching others the blessings of chastity. Full tithe payers will receive more joy and reward from being obedient to the principle of tithing than from being so classified or recommended.
Some will chide and belittle leaders and students of higher education for participating in code of conduct guidelines, but those appropriately involved in the wholesome process of mature behavioral discipline welcome the environment. Responsible student conduct on any campus is applauded. A pledge of âon my honor I will do my best,â either in writing or when self-enforced, can make the difference in character development. Making and keeping commitments may seem restrictive and outdated in a today world where âplay it looseâ is the pattern, but the benefits are clear to the mature.
Those who are immature resent counseling or having to report in. They may feel that such interviews are juvenile. Those who strive for continual growth realize that counselors can help one analyze himself and find solutions to personal problems. In our church, counselors are a source of great strength for the prophet as well as for all of us.
Beware of those seeking excuses for conduct with âI am an adult now. You canât treat me like that.â Moral maturity and scholastic maturity must be blended to produce a truly adult person. A commitment to improve on a daily basis should be a high priority in the lives of those who would move in the right direction.
There is real purpose and power in the First Presidencyâs continuing invitation to all Church members to come back. Strength, growth, and happiness result from analyzing the direction our lives are taking. Those who have been lost, misunderstood, or offended and those totally involved in the Church are invited to come and fellowship together within the framework of the gospel of Jesus Christ. To be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not enough. Participation in priesthood, Relief Society, Young Women, Young Men, Primary, and Sunday School opportunities is necessary if we are to move forward anxiously in personal development that is adult, real, and eternal. Perhaps all of us would do well to realize that as we promote personal activity and involvement in the Church, it might be much better to be classified a member of âgood comingâ instead of a member in good standing. It is our responsibility and privilege to encourage the immature and give them opportunities for growth and development.
Joseph Smith declared to the world he was like a rough stone shaped and polished by the stream of life. Bumps, disappointments, and the unexpected helped him gain the status of being wise beyond his years. Oftentimes maturity can best be measured by our endurance. âIf the heavens gather blackness, and all the elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.
âThe Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?â (D&C 122:7â8).
My young friends, in a spirit of love I make the suggestion that we avoid the placing of self-labels. For you to classify yourself as all-state, all-American, or even all-world doesnât mean anything if you alone determine the winner and present the trophy to yourself. By the same token, who among us has the right to label himself as a loser, no good, a dropout, or a failure? Self-judgment in any direction is a hazardous pastime. It is a fact of life that the direction in which we are moving is more important than where we are. I have never heard the best-educated ever declare, âI am educated now.â Some of the most potentially wise people in the world forfeit that classification when they spend their time advertising their abilities and knowledge rather than using their wisdom to improve themselves and help those with whom they associate.
Mothers, fathers, and family members, maturity does not necessarily come with age. Let us communicate in words and deeds our concern and love for each other. Threats, ears that do not hear, eyes that do not see, and hearts that do not feel will never bring joy, unity, and growth. Patience with others, self, and God brings eternal maturity. Let God and our daily actions determine the authenticity of the statement âI am an adult now.â
God is our Father. Jesus is the Christ. May our knowledge of them on a continuing basis give us Christ-centered adult conduct, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
As the four of us sat together, it immediately became obvious that all channels of communication were jammed with prejudice, threats, accusations, and resentment. As the verbal storms developed with bitter intensity, I found myself the only listener. Even though they had individually and collectively agreed I would be the counselor, judge, arbiter, or referee, if you please, I found myself waiting patiently for an opportunity to be heard. During the heated and emotional confrontation, the teenager repeatedly expressed her resentment with, âYou canât talk to me like that. I am an adult now. You canât treat me like that. I am an adult now. You canât dominate my life anymore. I am an adult now.â
Each time she said âI am an adult now,â I cringed. By definition, an adult is a person who has attained the age of maturityâfull grown. While it is true a person may be legally classified as an adult when he or she reaches a certain age, for our purposes today the kind of adult status we are talking about must be earned by actions and attitude.
I am not quite sure who has the right or responsibility to declare someone an adult, but I am quite certain that often the least qualified to make the declaration would be the individual himself. If a person is mature, he or she will not need to announce it. Personal conduct is the only true measurement of maturity. Adult classification, when it pertains to behavior, does not come with age, wrinkles, or gray hair. Perhaps it is not too far off the mark to say adult conduct is a process. Mature conduct is generally developed through self-discipline, resilience, and continuing effort.
In fairness to the teenager, even though her declaration of âI am an adult nowâ didnât impress me favorably, there were times during the visit when I thought she showed more maturity than others in the room. When we who are more senior use an expression like âI am older than youâ to clinch a point, I am not too sure it is very effective. How much better it is to gain respect and love through worthy parental conduct than to seek it through the means of the age differential.
Young men and young women worldwide, you, as well as your parents, need not announce or proclaim your maturity. By your faith and works you will be known for what you are. By your fruits you will be known and classified. Those among us who use abusive arguments, temper tantrums, demeaning and painful criticism, fruitless counter-complaints, and disrespect will benefit no one. Let us put away petty malice, resentment, and retaliatory practices that are self-destructive and return to a path of safety well marked by the Good Shepherd.
It takes courage to flee from verbal contention. When maturity begins to set in, adult lives set in. âLet all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
âAnd be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christâs sake hath forgiven youâ (Eph. 4:31â32). It is alarming how many older people go through life without ever becoming real adults.
For many years I have had a very vivid picture in my mind of Jesus Christ standing before Pilate. While Jesus stood in front of an angry mob, who sneered and condemned, Pilate tried to get Him to respond and retaliate. He tried to get Him to declare himself a king. Jesus was silent. His life was his sermon. He was perfect in character, a worthy son, the Only Begotten of the Father. His maturity, if you please, would speak for itself.
âAnd Jesus stood before the governor: and the governor asked him, saying, Art thou the King of the Jews? And Jesus said unto him, Thou sayest.
âAnd when he was accused of the chief priests and elders, he answered nothing.
âThen said Pilate unto him, Hearest thou not how many things they witness against thee?
âAnd he answered him to never a word; insomuch that the governor marvelled greatlyâ (Matt. 27:11â14).
There are many opportunities to acquire mature behavior in the organizations in the Church. The other day a charming teenager paid a deserving tribute to her Young Womenâs teacher. She said, âFrom her example and good lessons, we learned the importance of good grooming. We learned that though each of us is different, each is equally important. She taught us to solve our differences by discussion, not by shouting.â
The success of the Scouting program is that it teaches boys to stay on the trail. Boulders and hills donât stop the hike to the top of the mountain. Top awards are not given unless the difficult merit badges are earned as well as the easier ones. The boysâ tenacity to continue on the Scouting path, not the honors awarded, is the maturing element of the program.
âA certain man had two sons:
âAnd the younger ⌠said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me [I am an adult now]. And he divided unto them his livingâ (Luke 15:11â12).
The prodigal son parable is well known to all of us. He left and wasted his substance with riotous living. âWhen he came to himself, he said, âŚ
âI will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee,
âAnd am no more worthy to be called thy son: [but I am more of an adult now] âŚ
âAnd he arose, and came to his father. ⌠His father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed himâ (vs. 17â20).
I believe it appropriate to say the father, too, had become more mature during the separation. Think, too, of the maturing and the becoming of more of an adult on the part of the elder son when he witnessed and participated in the Christ-like example of his father (see vs. 25â32).
There is no doubt in my mind that one of the primary reasons Laman and Lemuel murmured and spoke harsh words to their brother Nephi and did smite him with a rod was because they were older and more adult than Nephi, so they supposed. Canât you just hear Laman saying, âNephi, you canât treat me like that. I am an adult now.â
Nephi displayed real maturity when he declared, âI, Nephi, said unto my father: I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.
âAnd it came to pass that when my father had heard these words he was exceedingly glad, for he knew that I had been blessed of the Lordâ (1 Ne. 3:7â8). Lehi was adult enough to know which son was the most mature and who would be blessed of the Lord accordingly.
Too many of us fail to realize adult conduct is a process, not a status. To become a disciple of Jesus Christ, we must continue in righteousness and in His word. When someone shares with enthusiasm his joy in now being an active member of the Church, the thought crosses my mind, âWonderful, but for how long will you stay that way?â Incidentally, some years ago I was contacted by an insurance agent. When he started his sales approach with âI am an active member of the Church,â the first thought that crossed my mind was, âWho said so?â
When someone overcomes the drug habit, and thankfully many have, less time should be spent on announcing the present status and more on staying away from bad habits. Those who are morally clean will conduct themselves in a more adult fashion if they will spend less time declaring it and more time living and teaching others the blessings of chastity. Full tithe payers will receive more joy and reward from being obedient to the principle of tithing than from being so classified or recommended.
Some will chide and belittle leaders and students of higher education for participating in code of conduct guidelines, but those appropriately involved in the wholesome process of mature behavioral discipline welcome the environment. Responsible student conduct on any campus is applauded. A pledge of âon my honor I will do my best,â either in writing or when self-enforced, can make the difference in character development. Making and keeping commitments may seem restrictive and outdated in a today world where âplay it looseâ is the pattern, but the benefits are clear to the mature.
Those who are immature resent counseling or having to report in. They may feel that such interviews are juvenile. Those who strive for continual growth realize that counselors can help one analyze himself and find solutions to personal problems. In our church, counselors are a source of great strength for the prophet as well as for all of us.
Beware of those seeking excuses for conduct with âI am an adult now. You canât treat me like that.â Moral maturity and scholastic maturity must be blended to produce a truly adult person. A commitment to improve on a daily basis should be a high priority in the lives of those who would move in the right direction.
There is real purpose and power in the First Presidencyâs continuing invitation to all Church members to come back. Strength, growth, and happiness result from analyzing the direction our lives are taking. Those who have been lost, misunderstood, or offended and those totally involved in the Church are invited to come and fellowship together within the framework of the gospel of Jesus Christ. To be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not enough. Participation in priesthood, Relief Society, Young Women, Young Men, Primary, and Sunday School opportunities is necessary if we are to move forward anxiously in personal development that is adult, real, and eternal. Perhaps all of us would do well to realize that as we promote personal activity and involvement in the Church, it might be much better to be classified a member of âgood comingâ instead of a member in good standing. It is our responsibility and privilege to encourage the immature and give them opportunities for growth and development.
Joseph Smith declared to the world he was like a rough stone shaped and polished by the stream of life. Bumps, disappointments, and the unexpected helped him gain the status of being wise beyond his years. Oftentimes maturity can best be measured by our endurance. âIf the heavens gather blackness, and all the elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.
âThe Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?â (D&C 122:7â8).
My young friends, in a spirit of love I make the suggestion that we avoid the placing of self-labels. For you to classify yourself as all-state, all-American, or even all-world doesnât mean anything if you alone determine the winner and present the trophy to yourself. By the same token, who among us has the right to label himself as a loser, no good, a dropout, or a failure? Self-judgment in any direction is a hazardous pastime. It is a fact of life that the direction in which we are moving is more important than where we are. I have never heard the best-educated ever declare, âI am educated now.â Some of the most potentially wise people in the world forfeit that classification when they spend their time advertising their abilities and knowledge rather than using their wisdom to improve themselves and help those with whom they associate.
Mothers, fathers, and family members, maturity does not necessarily come with age. Let us communicate in words and deeds our concern and love for each other. Threats, ears that do not hear, eyes that do not see, and hearts that do not feel will never bring joy, unity, and growth. Patience with others, self, and God brings eternal maturity. Let God and our daily actions determine the authenticity of the statement âI am an adult now.â
God is our Father. Jesus is the Christ. May our knowledge of them on a continuing basis give us Christ-centered adult conduct, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
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FYI:For Your Info
Summary: Despite rain, youth in the Fredonia Branch proceed with a cleanup at Elm Flats Preserve when organizers expect cancellation. They clear debris quickly, finishing by lunchtime. Though wet, they enjoy an afternoon hike and look forward to returning.
What could be better than spending a Saturday morning in the rain and mud, sorting garbage and stacking cement blocks? Youth in the Fredonia Branch, Jamestown New York Stake, canât think of a thing. When rain started to fall the Saturday the youth were scheduled to do cleanup work at the Elm Flats Preserve, workers at the Chataqua Watershed Conservancy fully expected the group to cancel out on their service project.
But, as one of the leaders said, âMormons donât melt,â and the youth and their leaders went to work, cleaning junk, wood, and other debris from the area. They worked so hard and so fast that by lunchtime they were finished.
Their hair and their clothes may have been a little damp, but their spirits werenât. They spent the afternoon hiking through the preserve and are looking forward to their next visit.
But, as one of the leaders said, âMormons donât melt,â and the youth and their leaders went to work, cleaning junk, wood, and other debris from the area. They worked so hard and so fast that by lunchtime they were finished.
Their hair and their clothes may have been a little damp, but their spirits werenât. They spent the afternoon hiking through the preserve and are looking forward to their next visit.
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Best Friends
Summary: Newly arrived and lonely, young Tessie watches David work on his car from a birch tree. After a disappointing date, David notices her on the porch late at night and strikes up a conversation. He invites her to help with his car, validating her desire to contribute. Their quiet partnership begins, easing both their loneliness.
It hadnât been that way with Tessie. She was as awkward in her world as he was in his, new in California after being given to her mother in a messy divorce settlement. He remembered the first day sheâd moved into the neighborhood, lost in the shuffle of refrigerators and dining room tables. She had sat in the branches of the birch tree between his house and hers, thin legs dangling, her big eyes solemn. His heart had gone out to her as he watched from beneath his car, where heâd given up on his drive shaft to watch the scene next door.
He had worked on his car a lot back then, where he could be alone and not worry about being the life of the party or what to say when the best-looking cheerleader in the school said hello to him. Tessie had watched him from high in the birch tree, never saying a word, just watching him work. It had bothered him at first, like having a shadow looking over his shoulder, and then heâd grown to like it. It was comforting to have her there, and lonely when she wasnât.
It was almost Christmas when David had come home late one night from a date with Sherri Gilbert. Sherri was cute, and a lot of guys liked her, so when Hank had excitedly told him that she was looking his way, well, it had only seemed right to ask her out. He hadnât known then that the movie would be boring, the hamburgers cold, and that she would talk about nothing but her summer in France with her cousin Louisa. He had been ready to swear off women forever when heâd turned the corner and seen Tessie sitting on her front porch, her head on her knees.
Sheâd heard the car and looked up as it turned into his driveway. Heâd cut the engine and waited a few minutes before slowly climbing out.
âPast your bedtime, isnât it?â Heâd glanced at his watch and seen that it was almost midnight. âMy name is David White.â
âHello.â Sheâd lifted her head slightly and peered through her bangs. âHow come your carâs always broken?â
âBroken?â Heâd grinned. âI donât know. Maybe I never fix it the right way.â Heâd glanced at it in the driveway. It certainly didnât look like much, one side stripped down to primer, waiting for its paint job. âMaybe if I had somebody to help me, I could talk it over and do a better job.â
Sheâd hesitated a minute. âMaybe I could help. I used to help my dad with his car.â
âHey, Iâd like that. I donât suppose you have a name?â
âTessie Tobin.â Heâd thought heâd seen excitement in her eyes. âIâm only seven, and everybody tells me that Iâm too little to do anything, because Iâm the shortest girl in my class, but that doesnât matter, does it?â
Heâd hidden a smile. âI donât think so. I like short people just as much as the tall ones.â
And that had been the beginning. Sheâd kept her promise and left the birch tree to become his first-class mate, always ready with a wrench or rag or sometimes just a glass of lemonade.
He had worked on his car a lot back then, where he could be alone and not worry about being the life of the party or what to say when the best-looking cheerleader in the school said hello to him. Tessie had watched him from high in the birch tree, never saying a word, just watching him work. It had bothered him at first, like having a shadow looking over his shoulder, and then heâd grown to like it. It was comforting to have her there, and lonely when she wasnât.
It was almost Christmas when David had come home late one night from a date with Sherri Gilbert. Sherri was cute, and a lot of guys liked her, so when Hank had excitedly told him that she was looking his way, well, it had only seemed right to ask her out. He hadnât known then that the movie would be boring, the hamburgers cold, and that she would talk about nothing but her summer in France with her cousin Louisa. He had been ready to swear off women forever when heâd turned the corner and seen Tessie sitting on her front porch, her head on her knees.
Sheâd heard the car and looked up as it turned into his driveway. Heâd cut the engine and waited a few minutes before slowly climbing out.
âPast your bedtime, isnât it?â Heâd glanced at his watch and seen that it was almost midnight. âMy name is David White.â
âHello.â Sheâd lifted her head slightly and peered through her bangs. âHow come your carâs always broken?â
âBroken?â Heâd grinned. âI donât know. Maybe I never fix it the right way.â Heâd glanced at it in the driveway. It certainly didnât look like much, one side stripped down to primer, waiting for its paint job. âMaybe if I had somebody to help me, I could talk it over and do a better job.â
Sheâd hesitated a minute. âMaybe I could help. I used to help my dad with his car.â
âHey, Iâd like that. I donât suppose you have a name?â
âTessie Tobin.â Heâd thought heâd seen excitement in her eyes. âIâm only seven, and everybody tells me that Iâm too little to do anything, because Iâm the shortest girl in my class, but that doesnât matter, does it?â
Heâd hidden a smile. âI donât think so. I like short people just as much as the tall ones.â
And that had been the beginning. Sheâd kept her promise and left the birch tree to become his first-class mate, always ready with a wrench or rag or sometimes just a glass of lemonade.
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Sarah Matilda Farr
Summary: After arriving in Zion, the girl lives with the blind lady but feels lonely and constantly watches incoming wagon trains for her mother. For two years she endures repeated disappointments until finally her mother arrives, worn but recognizable. They embrace in a joyful reunion and feel at home together in Zion.
But I felt so alone! I was in Zion, the place of peace and rest for the Saints. I was supposed to be happy. But I missed my family.
The blind lady allowed me to stay with her and keep house, and I tried my hardest to keep everything neat and clean for her. But she wasnât my family. Mama was always in my thoughts. I knew that she would come. Somehow, some way, Mama would make it to Zion.
Whenever I heard of a wagon train coming into the Salt Lake Valley, I watched for the dusty skyâa sure sign that the wagons would arrive soon. Then Iâd run to the fence and climb as high as I could to see the immigrants. At first they would be just a dust cloud on the horizon. But slowly, oh so slowly, I could make out the wagons and the animals and the people.
I studied the women passing by. Mamaâs hair is that colorâbut no, it isnât her. Over there is a woman with Mamaâs postureâbut no, it isnât her, either. Could that one driving the team be her? No, no, no. With every incoming group, I thought, Surely Mama will be in this company with my younger brothers and sisters.
I searched and searched, and doubts would come. No one smiled at me. No one ran and wrapped me in her arms. As the wagons rolled past, another heartache began. With each disappointment, the tears coursed down my cheeks and I cried until there were no more tears left.
Two long, hard years passed before Mama finally came. When she did, I could hardly believe my eyes. She was worn and tired and covered with dust. I almost didnât recognize her. But she knew me, even though I had grown quite a bit taller.
I ran to her as fast as I could. I wrapped my arms around her and weptâthis time tears of happiness. She had made it to Zion. I wasnât alone anymore. Together we were home. At last I felt Zion in my heart.
The blind lady allowed me to stay with her and keep house, and I tried my hardest to keep everything neat and clean for her. But she wasnât my family. Mama was always in my thoughts. I knew that she would come. Somehow, some way, Mama would make it to Zion.
Whenever I heard of a wagon train coming into the Salt Lake Valley, I watched for the dusty skyâa sure sign that the wagons would arrive soon. Then Iâd run to the fence and climb as high as I could to see the immigrants. At first they would be just a dust cloud on the horizon. But slowly, oh so slowly, I could make out the wagons and the animals and the people.
I studied the women passing by. Mamaâs hair is that colorâbut no, it isnât her. Over there is a woman with Mamaâs postureâbut no, it isnât her, either. Could that one driving the team be her? No, no, no. With every incoming group, I thought, Surely Mama will be in this company with my younger brothers and sisters.
I searched and searched, and doubts would come. No one smiled at me. No one ran and wrapped me in her arms. As the wagons rolled past, another heartache began. With each disappointment, the tears coursed down my cheeks and I cried until there were no more tears left.
Two long, hard years passed before Mama finally came. When she did, I could hardly believe my eyes. She was worn and tired and covered with dust. I almost didnât recognize her. But she knew me, even though I had grown quite a bit taller.
I ran to her as fast as I could. I wrapped my arms around her and weptâthis time tears of happiness. She had made it to Zion. I wasnât alone anymore. Together we were home. At last I felt Zion in my heart.
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Pulling TogetherâBen Hur Lives on in San Jose
Summary: With only one boy his age in the ward, 12-year-old Burke Perry invited nonmember friends to help clean the meetinghouse by promising they could join the chariot race later. His friends came to scrub benches and the kitchen alongside the girls. Burke noted he regularly invites friends to church and had kept 10 nonmembers attending so he could play on a ward basketball team.
At the San Jose 23rd Ward, youth representatives had decided to clean up the meetinghouse as their service project. This posed a problem for Burke Perry, 12, the bishopâs son. He is the only boy his age in his ward. So he recruited some help.
Urged on by Burkeâs promises that they could compete in the chariot race, several of his nonmember friends also grabbed buckets and sponges to help scrub down chapel benches and the kitchen, joining forces with the girls in the ward. Such fellowshipping is typical for Burke, who kept 10 nonmembers coming to church all year so he could play on a ward basketball team.
âI just call them up and ask them to come,â he said. âTheyâre used to it, I guess. Their parents really like it.â
Urged on by Burkeâs promises that they could compete in the chariot race, several of his nonmember friends also grabbed buckets and sponges to help scrub down chapel benches and the kitchen, joining forces with the girls in the ward. Such fellowshipping is typical for Burke, who kept 10 nonmembers coming to church all year so he could play on a ward basketball team.
âI just call them up and ask them to come,â he said. âTheyâre used to it, I guess. Their parents really like it.â
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Learning to Be a Light to the World
Summary: After moving to the United States, the narrator struggled with friends, attitude, and doubts about serving a mission. Reading 3 Nephi 12:14â16 inspired a change, and he chose to be a light to others.
He invited cousins to church, helped one become active and baptized the other, and later received a mission call to California. Serving strengthened his testimony and confirmed to him that the gospel of Jesus Christ is true.
I was born in the Dominican Republic and was raised in the Church. I grew up surrounded by great leaders who tried to help me follow the right path. I dreamed of serving a mission and helping people.
Because my father moved to the United States to try to find a better life for us, my mother raised my sisters and me alone. Sometimes I felt alone, but I never was because I could talk about any difficulties in my life with my Church leaders.
When we moved to the United States, great trials began for me. We attended a small branch and I had great leaders who wanted to help me, but my school friends tried to pull me off the gospel path. Unfortunately, I began to speak to my mother in an unkind way and rarely listened to her counsel.
I would go to church every Sunday, but I really didnât have the desire to go, and I didnât know if I wanted to go on a mission anymore.
One morning I opened the Book of Mormon, and it opened exactly to the page of my favorite scripture, 3 Nephi 12:14â16:
âVerily, verily, I say unto you, I give unto you to be the light of this people. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.
âBehold, do men light a candle and put it under a bushel? Nay, but on a candlestick, and it giveth light to all that is in the house;
âTherefore let your light so shine before this people, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.â
It gave me great joy to read this because it helped me remember what I learned in seminary and how marvelous the plan of our Father is. So I decided to try to be a light to the world.
I invited two cousins to come to church. One was less active, and he became active. The other was not a member, and I was able to baptize him.
A year later I received my mission call to serve in California, USA. As I served, I saw without a doubt that this is the true gospel of Jesus Christ. As I helped people, my testimony grew more and more, and every time I read my scriptures, I always recited the passage in 3 Nephi to be a light unto the world.
Because my father moved to the United States to try to find a better life for us, my mother raised my sisters and me alone. Sometimes I felt alone, but I never was because I could talk about any difficulties in my life with my Church leaders.
When we moved to the United States, great trials began for me. We attended a small branch and I had great leaders who wanted to help me, but my school friends tried to pull me off the gospel path. Unfortunately, I began to speak to my mother in an unkind way and rarely listened to her counsel.
I would go to church every Sunday, but I really didnât have the desire to go, and I didnât know if I wanted to go on a mission anymore.
One morning I opened the Book of Mormon, and it opened exactly to the page of my favorite scripture, 3 Nephi 12:14â16:
âVerily, verily, I say unto you, I give unto you to be the light of this people. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.
âBehold, do men light a candle and put it under a bushel? Nay, but on a candlestick, and it giveth light to all that is in the house;
âTherefore let your light so shine before this people, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven.â
It gave me great joy to read this because it helped me remember what I learned in seminary and how marvelous the plan of our Father is. So I decided to try to be a light to the world.
I invited two cousins to come to church. One was less active, and he became active. The other was not a member, and I was able to baptize him.
A year later I received my mission call to serve in California, USA. As I served, I saw without a doubt that this is the true gospel of Jesus Christ. As I helped people, my testimony grew more and more, and every time I read my scriptures, I always recited the passage in 3 Nephi to be a light unto the world.
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Even If You Canât See Him
Summary: Allie hesitates to pray because she feels like she's talking to herself. Her mom suggests imagining Heavenly Father nearby, and later Sister Oscar teaches a mirror-and-blindfold lesson in Primary to show that God is there even when unseen. Inspired, Allie feels closer to Heavenly Father and confidently volunteers for family prayer.
A llie threw a few pencils in her backpack and zipped it up. She was sliding it off her bed when Mom poked her head through the door.
âIs your backpack ready for school tomorrow?â Mom asked.
âCheck,â Allie said.
âBrush your teeth?â
Allie smiled wide. âCheck.â
âSay your prayers?â
Allie looked up at the ceiling. âUmm ⌠Not check.â
Mom smiled. âI can pray with you if you want.â She knelt by Allieâs bed. After a moment, Allie knelt down beside her.
âMom, do I have to pray?â Allie whispered. âI feel so silly. Itâs like Iâm talking to myself.â
Mom nodded. âIâve felt that way before too. Whenever I feel like Iâm just talking to myself, I imagine Heavenly Father next to me. Then itâs like Iâm talking with someone in the same room.â
Allie scrunched her mouth into a frown. Was it really that easy?
âItâs hard that we canât see Heavenly Father. But I know Heâs always listening,â Mom said.
Allie folded her arms and listened to Mom pray. She tried hard to feel that Heavenly Father was next to her. Was He really listening?
On Sunday, Sister Oscar put a big mirror in front of the Primary room. Allie tried to get a better look, but she couldnât see past a kid making funny faces in the mirror.
Then Sister Oscar stood up. Everyone watched as she pulled a cloth out of a bag.
âWeâre going to do an activity today,â she said. âI need everyone to make a line from the mirror to the back of the room.â
All the kids stood up and got in line. Allie stood at the end, and she could see Sister Oscar talking to kids in the front. The line got shorter and shorter until it was finally her turn. Allie stepped up to the mirror.
âWhat do you see?â Sister Oscar asked.
Allie blinked her eyes. The eyes in the mirror blinked too.
âI see me,â she said.
âThatâs right. You see your reflection.â
Then Sister Oscar tied the cloth around Allieâs head like a blindfold. Allie couldnât see anything.
âCan you see your reflection now?â she asked.
âNo,â said Allie.
âIs it still there?â
âYes.â
âHow do you know?â asked Sister Oscar.
âBecause Iâm still in front of the mirror,â Allie said. âI know itâs still there.â
Allie went back to her seat. Sister Oscar stood up at the front of the room.
âJust like your reflection in the mirror, Heavenly Father is with us even when we canât see Him,â Sister Oscar said. âHe is always near us. And the best part is that we can always feel Him close.â
Allieâs arms tingled. Happiness filled her as she realized that what Sister Oscar said was true!
That night Allie was brushing her hair in the bathroom. Mom knocked on the door.
âAre you almost ready for family prayer?â she asked. âItâs your turn to say it.â
Allie looked at herself in the mirror. She imagined Heavenly Father smiling back at her.
âCheck!â Allie said.
âIs your backpack ready for school tomorrow?â Mom asked.
âCheck,â Allie said.
âBrush your teeth?â
Allie smiled wide. âCheck.â
âSay your prayers?â
Allie looked up at the ceiling. âUmm ⌠Not check.â
Mom smiled. âI can pray with you if you want.â She knelt by Allieâs bed. After a moment, Allie knelt down beside her.
âMom, do I have to pray?â Allie whispered. âI feel so silly. Itâs like Iâm talking to myself.â
Mom nodded. âIâve felt that way before too. Whenever I feel like Iâm just talking to myself, I imagine Heavenly Father next to me. Then itâs like Iâm talking with someone in the same room.â
Allie scrunched her mouth into a frown. Was it really that easy?
âItâs hard that we canât see Heavenly Father. But I know Heâs always listening,â Mom said.
Allie folded her arms and listened to Mom pray. She tried hard to feel that Heavenly Father was next to her. Was He really listening?
On Sunday, Sister Oscar put a big mirror in front of the Primary room. Allie tried to get a better look, but she couldnât see past a kid making funny faces in the mirror.
Then Sister Oscar stood up. Everyone watched as she pulled a cloth out of a bag.
âWeâre going to do an activity today,â she said. âI need everyone to make a line from the mirror to the back of the room.â
All the kids stood up and got in line. Allie stood at the end, and she could see Sister Oscar talking to kids in the front. The line got shorter and shorter until it was finally her turn. Allie stepped up to the mirror.
âWhat do you see?â Sister Oscar asked.
Allie blinked her eyes. The eyes in the mirror blinked too.
âI see me,â she said.
âThatâs right. You see your reflection.â
Then Sister Oscar tied the cloth around Allieâs head like a blindfold. Allie couldnât see anything.
âCan you see your reflection now?â she asked.
âNo,â said Allie.
âIs it still there?â
âYes.â
âHow do you know?â asked Sister Oscar.
âBecause Iâm still in front of the mirror,â Allie said. âI know itâs still there.â
Allie went back to her seat. Sister Oscar stood up at the front of the room.
âJust like your reflection in the mirror, Heavenly Father is with us even when we canât see Him,â Sister Oscar said. âHe is always near us. And the best part is that we can always feel Him close.â
Allieâs arms tingled. Happiness filled her as she realized that what Sister Oscar said was true!
That night Allie was brushing her hair in the bathroom. Mom knocked on the door.
âAre you almost ready for family prayer?â she asked. âItâs your turn to say it.â
Allie looked at herself in the mirror. She imagined Heavenly Father smiling back at her.
âCheck!â Allie said.
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A Big Brown Envelope
Summary: Patty moves to Florida, feels lonely at her new school, and writes to her old friend Jean. Her former classmates send a big envelope with photos and letters, which Patty shares at school, sparking conversations and new friendships. Later, when a classmate named Tim announces he is moving, Patty and the class plan to send him a similar surprise.
Monday was sharing day at Pattyâs school. When it was her turn to stand up and speak, she said, âMy family is moving to Florida at the end of this week. It wonât snow there the way it does here. My new school is called Palm Grove. Iâm sure going to miss everyone.â
The class grew very quiet. Even Pattyâs best friends, Jean and Robert, did not know what to say.
When the weekend came, Patty bid her friends a tearful good-bye. Then she was too busy moving to be very sad. And the new town in Florida was exciting, at least at first. There was no school because of the holidays, and Mom, Dad, and Patty went to the zoo and the park and the ocean. They found a wonderful old museum too. But it was different at Palm Grove School. Pattyâs classmates were nice to her, but they had their own projects and their own friends already, and Patty felt left out.
âDonât worry,â said Mom. âYouâll make new friends soon. If you want something to do right now, though, why donât you write a letter to Jean and tell her about all the new things here?â
So Patty sat down and wrote a long letter about the zoo and the park and the ocean and the museum. She tried to make her letter sound happy, but when she wrote about her new school, she couldnât help but tell how lonely she was.
Not many days later a big brown envelope addressed to Patty came in the mail. Inside were photographs! There was a picture of Pattyâs old class with everyone waving. There was a picture of Jean standing next to a very big snowman, and there was a blurry picture of Robert going lickety-split on a sled. Twenty-five lettersâone from everybody in her old classâwere also inside the envelope.
Patty took the pictures to her new school on sharing day. First she showed her new class the picture of her old friends. Then she showed them the one with the big snowdrifts. When she held up the pictures of Jean with the snowman and Robert on his sled, everyone began to ask questions.
âHow do you make a snowman?â
âDid you ever build a snowman?â
âDid you have a sled?â
âHow fast can you go?â
Pattyâs classmates asked more questions during lunchtime and recess. She told them about ice-skating and skiing and even about snowball fights. Soon Patty had many friends at Palm Grove School.
Then one sharing day Tim stood up and said he would be moving to another state. All the children were sad. Then Patty looked at him and smiled. She and the rest of the class would plan a very special surprise. They would send it to Tim in a big brown envelope.
The class grew very quiet. Even Pattyâs best friends, Jean and Robert, did not know what to say.
When the weekend came, Patty bid her friends a tearful good-bye. Then she was too busy moving to be very sad. And the new town in Florida was exciting, at least at first. There was no school because of the holidays, and Mom, Dad, and Patty went to the zoo and the park and the ocean. They found a wonderful old museum too. But it was different at Palm Grove School. Pattyâs classmates were nice to her, but they had their own projects and their own friends already, and Patty felt left out.
âDonât worry,â said Mom. âYouâll make new friends soon. If you want something to do right now, though, why donât you write a letter to Jean and tell her about all the new things here?â
So Patty sat down and wrote a long letter about the zoo and the park and the ocean and the museum. She tried to make her letter sound happy, but when she wrote about her new school, she couldnât help but tell how lonely she was.
Not many days later a big brown envelope addressed to Patty came in the mail. Inside were photographs! There was a picture of Pattyâs old class with everyone waving. There was a picture of Jean standing next to a very big snowman, and there was a blurry picture of Robert going lickety-split on a sled. Twenty-five lettersâone from everybody in her old classâwere also inside the envelope.
Patty took the pictures to her new school on sharing day. First she showed her new class the picture of her old friends. Then she showed them the one with the big snowdrifts. When she held up the pictures of Jean with the snowman and Robert on his sled, everyone began to ask questions.
âHow do you make a snowman?â
âDid you ever build a snowman?â
âDid you have a sled?â
âHow fast can you go?â
Pattyâs classmates asked more questions during lunchtime and recess. She told them about ice-skating and skiing and even about snowball fights. Soon Patty had many friends at Palm Grove School.
Then one sharing day Tim stood up and said he would be moving to another state. All the children were sad. Then Patty looked at him and smiled. She and the rest of the class would plan a very special surprise. They would send it to Tim in a big brown envelope.
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Seek Diligently and Ye Shall Find
Summary: After their 88-year-old father-in-law went missing during a candy-shop outing, a family searched day and night for several days, praying, fasting, and receiving help from friends and the police. Late Saturday night, they decided to stop searching on Sunday and prayed for peace; immediately after, a former classmate called via video having found him. He was brought safely home, which the family regarded as a miracle in answer to their faithful efforts.
My husband and I have two children: our daughter, Florence, and son, Frederick Monson. My father-in-law has lived with us for the past eight years. His name is Anthony and he is 88 years old. He is humble, patient, kind, and loving. He is a very faithful Roman Catholic who never misses his prayers or going to church. Be it winter, summer, or raining, attending church is important for him. He gets around by himself and besides church, he likes to go out to the park or to buy candy because he likes sweets.
Both my husband and I work so he is home alone for part of the day. On December 5, 2017, my husband and I were at our office. Around 3 p.m. I called my children to check up on their grandfather. When they told me that he had not yet returned from the sweet shop I felt that he may have become lost. I immediately informed my husband and he and his sister began searching for their father. I joined in the search after work. We searched all the first day and night, but we could not find him. The next morning, we went to the police station and filed a missing person report. The second day we posted his picture on Facebook and WhatsApp. We kept searching until Saturday, December 9. We were very worried. Our friends said that they would pray for his safe return. Some said they would put his name on the prayer roll at the temple. Others searched with us. We really felt the love of God through them.
My family kept praying and I continued my prayer and scripture study. All the scriptures I read were really uplifting and gave me more strength, confidence, faith, and hope that he would be back. An especially meaningful one was Doctrine & Covenants 90:24:
âSeek ye diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly and remember the covenant wherewith ye have covenanted one with another.â
We kept searching all the hospitals and drainage ditches from 6 a.m. until midnight. We did not think about food and the children were even left alone. Our only focus was to find my father-in-law. We printed a notice and posted it everywhere.
On Saturday, December 9, my husband went to search again, and I started to wash my father-in-lawâs clothes and arrange his bed to prepare everything for him to come home and sleep comfortably. That evening, fasting, we started our search again. Satan was working very hard to discourage us, but we did not give up.
Following leads we received from other people, our search that night took us to a dark and dangerous place. Around 11:30 p.m., while we were searching in this area, showing my father-in-lawâs picture to the people, a person approached and after enquiring asked us to leave immediately. He was the Inspector of Police of Nehru Place. We obeyed and left that place and, following another lead, started to walk towards the Kalka Mandir, another dark and dangerous area. We felt uncomfortable there, so we immediately left, reaching home around 1:00 a.m. on Sunday, December 10.
At 1:30 a.m. we knelt down and prayed with tears in our eyes. We decided that we would not search as it was Sunday. Our Heavenly Father wanted us to go to church and partake of the sacrament peacefully. He answered our prayer as we felt peace in our heart. Just as we finished our prayer, we received a call from one of my former classmates, telling me that she had seen an old man. She asked me to confirm that it was he through a video call. It was amazing that the person she had on the video was my father-in-law! We were astonished and once again we thanked our Heavenly Father, for He understood our intention and answered our prayer. My friend brought him to my home on the same night. It was truly a miracle that in a city of over 18 million people, my friend was able to find him.
We have seen miracles happen in our family through prayer, following the scriptures, and searching with faith. Though we have experienced many temptations, discouragements, and disappointments, we hold fast to Godâs promise: âAsk, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be openedâ (3 Nephi 14:7â8; Matthew 7:7â8). I know that we found my father-in-law through the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ with the help of his angels, our friends.
Both my husband and I work so he is home alone for part of the day. On December 5, 2017, my husband and I were at our office. Around 3 p.m. I called my children to check up on their grandfather. When they told me that he had not yet returned from the sweet shop I felt that he may have become lost. I immediately informed my husband and he and his sister began searching for their father. I joined in the search after work. We searched all the first day and night, but we could not find him. The next morning, we went to the police station and filed a missing person report. The second day we posted his picture on Facebook and WhatsApp. We kept searching until Saturday, December 9. We were very worried. Our friends said that they would pray for his safe return. Some said they would put his name on the prayer roll at the temple. Others searched with us. We really felt the love of God through them.
My family kept praying and I continued my prayer and scripture study. All the scriptures I read were really uplifting and gave me more strength, confidence, faith, and hope that he would be back. An especially meaningful one was Doctrine & Covenants 90:24:
âSeek ye diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly and remember the covenant wherewith ye have covenanted one with another.â
We kept searching all the hospitals and drainage ditches from 6 a.m. until midnight. We did not think about food and the children were even left alone. Our only focus was to find my father-in-law. We printed a notice and posted it everywhere.
On Saturday, December 9, my husband went to search again, and I started to wash my father-in-lawâs clothes and arrange his bed to prepare everything for him to come home and sleep comfortably. That evening, fasting, we started our search again. Satan was working very hard to discourage us, but we did not give up.
Following leads we received from other people, our search that night took us to a dark and dangerous place. Around 11:30 p.m., while we were searching in this area, showing my father-in-lawâs picture to the people, a person approached and after enquiring asked us to leave immediately. He was the Inspector of Police of Nehru Place. We obeyed and left that place and, following another lead, started to walk towards the Kalka Mandir, another dark and dangerous area. We felt uncomfortable there, so we immediately left, reaching home around 1:00 a.m. on Sunday, December 10.
At 1:30 a.m. we knelt down and prayed with tears in our eyes. We decided that we would not search as it was Sunday. Our Heavenly Father wanted us to go to church and partake of the sacrament peacefully. He answered our prayer as we felt peace in our heart. Just as we finished our prayer, we received a call from one of my former classmates, telling me that she had seen an old man. She asked me to confirm that it was he through a video call. It was amazing that the person she had on the video was my father-in-law! We were astonished and once again we thanked our Heavenly Father, for He understood our intention and answered our prayer. My friend brought him to my home on the same night. It was truly a miracle that in a city of over 18 million people, my friend was able to find him.
We have seen miracles happen in our family through prayer, following the scriptures, and searching with faith. Though we have experienced many temptations, discouragements, and disappointments, we hold fast to Godâs promise: âAsk, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be openedâ (3 Nephi 14:7â8; Matthew 7:7â8). I know that we found my father-in-law through the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ with the help of his angels, our friends.
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Drawing Conclusions
Summary: Arnie, a student artist, feels defeated when a gifted new classmate, Jana Lee, arrives just before a major art competition. After a discouraging day, a prayer for happiness, and noticing Jana's tired eyes, he realizes talents are developed through work, not fixed at birth. This perspective brings him contentment in his honest effort, and he and Jana help each other hang their pieces. She compliments his drawing of a boy building a sandcastle.
âBlast that girl!â said Arnie to himself. âBlast me, too! And blast everything that has to do with that stupid art show.â
He glanced upward towards heaven. âWhy?â he asked. âWhy on the day before the biggest art show of my life does she have to come to my school? What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this?â
Not receiving any answer, Arnie looked down at the pad he held in his hand. The beginnings of a little boy playing in the sand were sketched lightly in blue. Oh, yes, the picture would be a good one, one of his best. It would make a nice finale to his entry in the contest. But it was nothing compared to Jana Lee Smithyâs paintings in oil!
Arnie grimaced. If only she had arrived two days later! Then the judging would have been over and the art student-of-the-year award would have been his. After that Miss Jana Lee could have been the best art student in the school; it wouldnât have mattered. But no. There she was. And she was brilliant.
Arnie threw down his pencil and groaned audibly. He glanced around the small park where he drew many of his sketches and collected ideas. What a waste of a beautiful day! But how could he be content to turn in just four drawings? Jana Lee Smithy was going to show four completed oil paintings, each a vision of color and light. When her paintings were unveiled in the morning and the school compared hers to his slight âsketches,â Arnie knew how his classmates would react. âWell,â they would say, âArnieâs not quite as good as he makes out to be, is he?â And people would nod in assent and then never stop talking about what a genius Jana Lee was.
Arnie looked at the small boy who was unknowingly modeling for his sketch. Hurriedly and quietly the boy was building himself a castle. Tiny hands moved quickly and knowingly through the granules of yellow dirt. Wary of sand too dry or sand too wet, the boyâs small fingers gathered piles of sand together and molded them into turrets and walls. Broken twigs served as posts and pillars and flags for the castle.
Arnie wasnât sure what everything the boy made was, but it was certainly immense. When Arnie began his drawing, the little fellow had just begun the main building. Now stables, dogsâ houses, an armory, and finally a great wall had been formed. The child was amazing. Or, thought Arnie, he would be until something better came along. Then the castle would be merely a trifle, something to be forgottenâlike Arnie would be after tomorrow.
Arnie frowned and looked at his drawing. Despite its unfinished quality, he felt tempted to just leave it as it was. Nothing could help him now. Numbers of drawings couldnât change the quality of Jana Leeâs work. Finally, discipline got the better of him. He picked up the blue pencil and finished the final details of the picture.
After another 45 minutes the picture was finished. Arnie smiled at the little figure in the drawing. The contentment on the childâs face was contagious, and Arnie grinned. It was a futile effort, he knew, like the sand castle whose immortality would lie in the little boyâs heart rather than in the park. But, like the child, Arnie felt a glow at having done a good job. The glow wasnât big enough to fill the emptiness he felt at being a failure, but it was nice nonetheless. He gathered up his pencils and put them in their case. Carefully, he stood and, with a nod to the little boy, headed for home.
By the time Arnie reached his street, the slight high that finishing the drawing had given him was gone. Even the coziness of the familiar, flower-lined path that led to his front door had no effect. Thereâs not much that can make a failure happy, he reflected. The sounds of family that echoed in the air didnât help, either. In fact, the thought of seeing his hopeful mother, proud father, and admiring sister made him want to hide. Theyâd all had such high hopes for him. And now he was letting them down. Arnie stood on the doorstep for a second trying to decide whether or not to tell them that heâd seen the winning entries, halfway hidden behind Mr. Olsenâs desk, and they werenât his. Arnie shook his head. He didnât want their sympathy. He opened the door.
âIâm home,â he called.
Sheryll, his sister, bounded past him on her way to the kitchen. âYou donât say?â she laughed over her shoulder. âI never would have guessed.â
Arnie grimaced at her. Sisters. Freshmen. Two deadly ingredients when combined. He put his supplies down on the floor and headed for the stairs. His motherâs voice caught him two steps up.
âYouâre not going to leave your things here in the hall, are you?â He turned around and looked into his motherâs warning brown eyes. Arnie grinned sheepishly.
âMe?â
She nodded. âMy visiting teachers are coming over tonight.â Arnie looked knowingly at her. âNot,â she said, raising her voice as well as her eyebrows, âthat that should make any difference.â
âOf course not, Mom,â Arnie replied. He gathered his things up and took them with him to his room. Carefully, he put the drawing on his desk and his kit on the floor. Shutting his door carefully behind him, he made his way to the bathroom where he washed his hands. As he did so, he tried to smile in the mirror. It didnât do any good. His brown hair looked unruly, his eyes dim, and his face ruddy. What a depressing sight! If my eyes looked any redder ⌠He shrugged off the thought. What had he to complain about? He wasnât hoping to make a living with his face, just his hands.
âWhich,â he said to the face in the mirror, âare proving to be betraying assets.â Arnie went down to dinner.
As the family took their places after the prayer, Arnieâs father looked over the mashed potatoes at his son.
âSo, are you ready for tomorrow, Arnie?â he asked. Arnie choked on a pea.
When his coughing had subsided he replied, âAbout as ready as Iâm going to get, Dad.â
âThen you should be plenty ready,â said his mother.
âWhat were you doing this afternoon?â asked Sheryll.
âI was drawing at the park.â Arnie looked down at his plate. âI thought one more piece might help me in the contest.â
âThat smacks of overkill,â said his father.
âI wouldnât worry about that,â said Arnie.
âBesides,â said Sheryll, âeverybody in school knows how good he is. All my friends like his stuff. One more drawing will be âŚâ
âOne more drawing,â interrupted Arnie. âEnough. Isnât there anything else to talk about?â
His mother looked at him with concern. âAre you feeling all right, Arnie?â
âJust nerves, dear,â said his father. But still, even as he spoke, Mr. Wells looked at his son with a searching look.
Arnie ducked his fatherâs gaze and stuck his fork into his mouth. Oops, he thought as his fatherâs look changed to one of amazement. I should have put something on the fork first.
âArnie, if thereâs anything âŚâ
Frustrated, Arnie stood up. âMay I be excused? Iâm finished. And Iâve got to mount this last drawing.â
He could see by the surprised looks on the faces of his family that they were amazed by the sudden outburst. He continued, âIâll be in my room.â Arnie backed out of the room and fled up the stairs.
âWell, at least they only doubted my sanity,â Arnie said to himself as he shut and locked the door behind him. âThey donât have to doubt my abilities until tomorrow.â
He looked forlornly at the drawing on his desk. âAh, friend, if you only knew what humiliation you will face tomorrow, you wouldnât smile so much.â
The little boy grinned at him happily. The scripture in 2 Nephi flashed into Arnieâs mind. âAnd men are, that they might have joyâ (2 Ne. 2:25). Arnie frowned. Well, he thought, joy certainly hasnât been my cellmate these last few hours! Whatâs there to be joyful about? Instead of a talent made out of silk, I get one made of a sowâs ear. And Iâm supposed to be happy! He shrugged and set about making the results of his poor talent presentable.
When he finished, Arnie put his five entries on his bed and looked at them one at a time. Each of them was pleasant to look at. The laughter and light in them was enough to make any viewer smile. Each drawing represented a lot of effort. It was a pity that they would go to waste. Arnie shook his head and readied himself for bed.
After placing the five drawings and his books near the door, Arnie knelt to say his nightly prayer. âHeavenly Father,â he began. But his mind went numb. Arnie had always trusted his Father in Heaven, but this night he found it difficult to bare his soul. Before, heâd always known of his worth as a child of God. Heâd never had any reason to doubt. But now, Arnie wasnât everything that he thought he was. It was a little difficult to explain to Heavenly Father that things were different and that Arnie wasnât quite the person he thought he had been.
Finally, after many minutes of silence, only one thing came to his mind. âI donât understand,â he said softly, âwhy I am what I am. But I must be of some importance, despite my faults. Help me be happy.â
Arnie paused, then closed his prayer. He climbed slowly into bed, and after tossing and turning for a long while, drifted into sleep.
The next morning dawned much too early for Arnieâs likes. Iâm not any happier, he thought, than I was last night. But he did feel a little more distanced from the despair than he had felt the night before. His drawings, as he looked at them one more time before leaving the house, didnât look quite as inelegant as they had seemed. Still, they werenât going to win any awards. Arnie still wasnât quite good enough to be what was expected.
Despite Sheryllâs chatter in the car, Arnie maintained a stony silence on the way to school. Luckily, his lively sister was so excited about the competition, the weather, and her best friendâs new boyfriend, that it would have been impossible for him to have said anything had he wanted to. Finally, the ride was over. He said good-bye to his father and sister and escaped down the hall to the art department.
Voices could be heard behind the wood door as Arnie approached. He really didnât want to see anybody just yet and was about to turn away when the door opened.
âAh, Arnie,â said Mr. Olsen. âIâm glad youâre here.â
Arnie smiled weakly.
Mr. Olsen beamed at him. âI was just going to take Jana Lee down to where sheâll be hanging her paintings. But maybe you can show her.â
Great, thought Arnie, now Iâm a glorified hall monitor.
Mr. Olsen continued. âSince you and Jana will be hanging your works next to each other, that should I make things easier for all of us. Thatâll be all right, wonât it?â
Arnie nodded.
âGood.â
Arnie sighed and turned around. He heard the sound of Jana Leeâs feet behind him.
âWait a second, Arnie,â she said as she reached his side. Arnie turned to give her one of his pained looks. But when he saw her he stopped.
Jana Lee smiled and adjusted the paintings which had started to slip. But that wasnât what stopped him. It wasnât the paintings either, though they were as magnificent as ever. It was something that he saw in her eye, something that he recognized. Her eyes were as red-rimmed as his own.
Why? he thought. What had she to worry about? When she was ready, they headed towards the library. Neither said another word, though Arnie saw her looking at him once as he glanced at her.
As Arnie thought about what he had seen and what it meant, something occurred to him that he had never thought of before. In the parable of the talents, different talents were given to the servants: five talents, two talents, and one talent. Arnie had always just assumed that some people were five-talent people and some people were two-talent people. But what he knew when the image of Jana Leeâs overworked eyes sank deep into his heart was that most people started out with both talents and potential for talents. Just because you didnât have five talents the first day didnât mean you couldnât have themâif you worked. Didnât the Lord say, âWell done, thou good and faithful servantâ to the man who began with two talents? He had started with two and had come away with four. He had done good work.
Arnie was also a worker. Perhaps, today, Arnie had two talents. But, as he thought back, heâd only begun with one. Perhaps next time, at the next competition, Arnie would have a five-talent art like Jana Lee. She, as he saw in her eyes, had worked for hers. He, as he knew in his heart, could work for his. And with that revelation, being pleased with his own work, Arnie was, for the first time in a long time, content.
He and Jana Lee reached the wall where they would hang up their works. After he helped her with the paintings, Jana Lee helped him with his drawings. When they reached the last one, that of the boy in the sand, Jana Lee smiled.
âThis oneâs really good,â she said. âWho was the model? Heâs got such a knowing look on his face.â
âI donât know who he was,â replied Arnie. âBut he was a smart kid. And he built a great sand castle.â
He glanced upward towards heaven. âWhy?â he asked. âWhy on the day before the biggest art show of my life does she have to come to my school? What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this?â
Not receiving any answer, Arnie looked down at the pad he held in his hand. The beginnings of a little boy playing in the sand were sketched lightly in blue. Oh, yes, the picture would be a good one, one of his best. It would make a nice finale to his entry in the contest. But it was nothing compared to Jana Lee Smithyâs paintings in oil!
Arnie grimaced. If only she had arrived two days later! Then the judging would have been over and the art student-of-the-year award would have been his. After that Miss Jana Lee could have been the best art student in the school; it wouldnât have mattered. But no. There she was. And she was brilliant.
Arnie threw down his pencil and groaned audibly. He glanced around the small park where he drew many of his sketches and collected ideas. What a waste of a beautiful day! But how could he be content to turn in just four drawings? Jana Lee Smithy was going to show four completed oil paintings, each a vision of color and light. When her paintings were unveiled in the morning and the school compared hers to his slight âsketches,â Arnie knew how his classmates would react. âWell,â they would say, âArnieâs not quite as good as he makes out to be, is he?â And people would nod in assent and then never stop talking about what a genius Jana Lee was.
Arnie looked at the small boy who was unknowingly modeling for his sketch. Hurriedly and quietly the boy was building himself a castle. Tiny hands moved quickly and knowingly through the granules of yellow dirt. Wary of sand too dry or sand too wet, the boyâs small fingers gathered piles of sand together and molded them into turrets and walls. Broken twigs served as posts and pillars and flags for the castle.
Arnie wasnât sure what everything the boy made was, but it was certainly immense. When Arnie began his drawing, the little fellow had just begun the main building. Now stables, dogsâ houses, an armory, and finally a great wall had been formed. The child was amazing. Or, thought Arnie, he would be until something better came along. Then the castle would be merely a trifle, something to be forgottenâlike Arnie would be after tomorrow.
Arnie frowned and looked at his drawing. Despite its unfinished quality, he felt tempted to just leave it as it was. Nothing could help him now. Numbers of drawings couldnât change the quality of Jana Leeâs work. Finally, discipline got the better of him. He picked up the blue pencil and finished the final details of the picture.
After another 45 minutes the picture was finished. Arnie smiled at the little figure in the drawing. The contentment on the childâs face was contagious, and Arnie grinned. It was a futile effort, he knew, like the sand castle whose immortality would lie in the little boyâs heart rather than in the park. But, like the child, Arnie felt a glow at having done a good job. The glow wasnât big enough to fill the emptiness he felt at being a failure, but it was nice nonetheless. He gathered up his pencils and put them in their case. Carefully, he stood and, with a nod to the little boy, headed for home.
By the time Arnie reached his street, the slight high that finishing the drawing had given him was gone. Even the coziness of the familiar, flower-lined path that led to his front door had no effect. Thereâs not much that can make a failure happy, he reflected. The sounds of family that echoed in the air didnât help, either. In fact, the thought of seeing his hopeful mother, proud father, and admiring sister made him want to hide. Theyâd all had such high hopes for him. And now he was letting them down. Arnie stood on the doorstep for a second trying to decide whether or not to tell them that heâd seen the winning entries, halfway hidden behind Mr. Olsenâs desk, and they werenât his. Arnie shook his head. He didnât want their sympathy. He opened the door.
âIâm home,â he called.
Sheryll, his sister, bounded past him on her way to the kitchen. âYou donât say?â she laughed over her shoulder. âI never would have guessed.â
Arnie grimaced at her. Sisters. Freshmen. Two deadly ingredients when combined. He put his supplies down on the floor and headed for the stairs. His motherâs voice caught him two steps up.
âYouâre not going to leave your things here in the hall, are you?â He turned around and looked into his motherâs warning brown eyes. Arnie grinned sheepishly.
âMe?â
She nodded. âMy visiting teachers are coming over tonight.â Arnie looked knowingly at her. âNot,â she said, raising her voice as well as her eyebrows, âthat that should make any difference.â
âOf course not, Mom,â Arnie replied. He gathered his things up and took them with him to his room. Carefully, he put the drawing on his desk and his kit on the floor. Shutting his door carefully behind him, he made his way to the bathroom where he washed his hands. As he did so, he tried to smile in the mirror. It didnât do any good. His brown hair looked unruly, his eyes dim, and his face ruddy. What a depressing sight! If my eyes looked any redder ⌠He shrugged off the thought. What had he to complain about? He wasnât hoping to make a living with his face, just his hands.
âWhich,â he said to the face in the mirror, âare proving to be betraying assets.â Arnie went down to dinner.
As the family took their places after the prayer, Arnieâs father looked over the mashed potatoes at his son.
âSo, are you ready for tomorrow, Arnie?â he asked. Arnie choked on a pea.
When his coughing had subsided he replied, âAbout as ready as Iâm going to get, Dad.â
âThen you should be plenty ready,â said his mother.
âWhat were you doing this afternoon?â asked Sheryll.
âI was drawing at the park.â Arnie looked down at his plate. âI thought one more piece might help me in the contest.â
âThat smacks of overkill,â said his father.
âI wouldnât worry about that,â said Arnie.
âBesides,â said Sheryll, âeverybody in school knows how good he is. All my friends like his stuff. One more drawing will be âŚâ
âOne more drawing,â interrupted Arnie. âEnough. Isnât there anything else to talk about?â
His mother looked at him with concern. âAre you feeling all right, Arnie?â
âJust nerves, dear,â said his father. But still, even as he spoke, Mr. Wells looked at his son with a searching look.
Arnie ducked his fatherâs gaze and stuck his fork into his mouth. Oops, he thought as his fatherâs look changed to one of amazement. I should have put something on the fork first.
âArnie, if thereâs anything âŚâ
Frustrated, Arnie stood up. âMay I be excused? Iâm finished. And Iâve got to mount this last drawing.â
He could see by the surprised looks on the faces of his family that they were amazed by the sudden outburst. He continued, âIâll be in my room.â Arnie backed out of the room and fled up the stairs.
âWell, at least they only doubted my sanity,â Arnie said to himself as he shut and locked the door behind him. âThey donât have to doubt my abilities until tomorrow.â
He looked forlornly at the drawing on his desk. âAh, friend, if you only knew what humiliation you will face tomorrow, you wouldnât smile so much.â
The little boy grinned at him happily. The scripture in 2 Nephi flashed into Arnieâs mind. âAnd men are, that they might have joyâ (2 Ne. 2:25). Arnie frowned. Well, he thought, joy certainly hasnât been my cellmate these last few hours! Whatâs there to be joyful about? Instead of a talent made out of silk, I get one made of a sowâs ear. And Iâm supposed to be happy! He shrugged and set about making the results of his poor talent presentable.
When he finished, Arnie put his five entries on his bed and looked at them one at a time. Each of them was pleasant to look at. The laughter and light in them was enough to make any viewer smile. Each drawing represented a lot of effort. It was a pity that they would go to waste. Arnie shook his head and readied himself for bed.
After placing the five drawings and his books near the door, Arnie knelt to say his nightly prayer. âHeavenly Father,â he began. But his mind went numb. Arnie had always trusted his Father in Heaven, but this night he found it difficult to bare his soul. Before, heâd always known of his worth as a child of God. Heâd never had any reason to doubt. But now, Arnie wasnât everything that he thought he was. It was a little difficult to explain to Heavenly Father that things were different and that Arnie wasnât quite the person he thought he had been.
Finally, after many minutes of silence, only one thing came to his mind. âI donât understand,â he said softly, âwhy I am what I am. But I must be of some importance, despite my faults. Help me be happy.â
Arnie paused, then closed his prayer. He climbed slowly into bed, and after tossing and turning for a long while, drifted into sleep.
The next morning dawned much too early for Arnieâs likes. Iâm not any happier, he thought, than I was last night. But he did feel a little more distanced from the despair than he had felt the night before. His drawings, as he looked at them one more time before leaving the house, didnât look quite as inelegant as they had seemed. Still, they werenât going to win any awards. Arnie still wasnât quite good enough to be what was expected.
Despite Sheryllâs chatter in the car, Arnie maintained a stony silence on the way to school. Luckily, his lively sister was so excited about the competition, the weather, and her best friendâs new boyfriend, that it would have been impossible for him to have said anything had he wanted to. Finally, the ride was over. He said good-bye to his father and sister and escaped down the hall to the art department.
Voices could be heard behind the wood door as Arnie approached. He really didnât want to see anybody just yet and was about to turn away when the door opened.
âAh, Arnie,â said Mr. Olsen. âIâm glad youâre here.â
Arnie smiled weakly.
Mr. Olsen beamed at him. âI was just going to take Jana Lee down to where sheâll be hanging her paintings. But maybe you can show her.â
Great, thought Arnie, now Iâm a glorified hall monitor.
Mr. Olsen continued. âSince you and Jana will be hanging your works next to each other, that should I make things easier for all of us. Thatâll be all right, wonât it?â
Arnie nodded.
âGood.â
Arnie sighed and turned around. He heard the sound of Jana Leeâs feet behind him.
âWait a second, Arnie,â she said as she reached his side. Arnie turned to give her one of his pained looks. But when he saw her he stopped.
Jana Lee smiled and adjusted the paintings which had started to slip. But that wasnât what stopped him. It wasnât the paintings either, though they were as magnificent as ever. It was something that he saw in her eye, something that he recognized. Her eyes were as red-rimmed as his own.
Why? he thought. What had she to worry about? When she was ready, they headed towards the library. Neither said another word, though Arnie saw her looking at him once as he glanced at her.
As Arnie thought about what he had seen and what it meant, something occurred to him that he had never thought of before. In the parable of the talents, different talents were given to the servants: five talents, two talents, and one talent. Arnie had always just assumed that some people were five-talent people and some people were two-talent people. But what he knew when the image of Jana Leeâs overworked eyes sank deep into his heart was that most people started out with both talents and potential for talents. Just because you didnât have five talents the first day didnât mean you couldnât have themâif you worked. Didnât the Lord say, âWell done, thou good and faithful servantâ to the man who began with two talents? He had started with two and had come away with four. He had done good work.
Arnie was also a worker. Perhaps, today, Arnie had two talents. But, as he thought back, heâd only begun with one. Perhaps next time, at the next competition, Arnie would have a five-talent art like Jana Lee. She, as he saw in her eyes, had worked for hers. He, as he knew in his heart, could work for his. And with that revelation, being pleased with his own work, Arnie was, for the first time in a long time, content.
He and Jana Lee reached the wall where they would hang up their works. After he helped her with the paintings, Jana Lee helped him with his drawings. When they reached the last one, that of the boy in the sand, Jana Lee smiled.
âThis oneâs really good,â she said. âWho was the model? Heâs got such a knowing look on his face.â
âI donât know who he was,â replied Arnie. âBut he was a smart kid. And he built a great sand castle.â
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Headinâ Straight
Summary: Neal Gines is introduced as a talented, hardworking Utah teenager who excels in bulldogging and basketball, but values family and Church more than trophies. The story highlights the close bond between Neal and his parents, especially his father, as they work, compete, and spend time together. It ends with an editorâs note about Nealâs death in 1980 and his fatherâs testimony of eternal family unity.
Zing! The rope barrier springs away and Neal spurs his quarter horse into the arena in pursuit of a scrambling steer, overtaking it as his father hazes the frightened animal closer to him. Moving at a hard gallop, Neal slides far sideways in the saddle and takes hold of the steer, right arm hooking one horn, left hand grasping the other. For a moment his body forms a perilous bridge between the horse and steer. Then his hand-tooled cowboy boots jerk free from the stirrups and tread clouds for an instant before hitting the hoofâsoftened dirt in a jolting cloud of dust, plowing a double furrow as he brakes against his own momentum and 600 pounds of charging steer. The muscles of his broad shoulders bunch under his western shirt as he turns his momentum, strength, and more than 180 pounds of solid bone and muscle into irresistible torque, levering the wide horns clockwise. The steer resists, teeters, and then crashes helplessly onto its side.
The judgeâs flag drops. Timeâ6.2 seconds. Neal grins up at his father through the dust and applause, then scans the stands for his mother. Ignoring the burning weal that the horns have left on his ribs, he releases the animal, stands up, and stoops to dust off his western-cut jeans.
Neal Gines, 17, from Kamas, Utah, and his father have just won another first place in bulldogging.
Later, as Neal sprawls out, all 6?5? of him, on the front room floor, he eyes the shelves of trophies that loom on the wall. Over 100 trophies, plaques, and belt buckles glisten in the shaft of sunlight peeking through the curtains. There are trophies for every member of the family: his dadâs chariot racing trophies, Lanaâs softball trophy, Marlaâs rodeo queen plaque, and Timâs football âMr. Hustleâ trophy.
Then there are his trophies: his all-state basketball and football trophies, his state farmer trophy, and his belt buckles from rodeo events, and his state steer wrestling saddle. But even though the trophies look impressive, Neal feels that the real value came from achieving themâthe work, the sweat.
âThe trophies really arenât that great. Other things are more importantâlike them,â Neal says proudly as he nods toward the kitchen where his parentsâ voices can be heard.
âThey spend a lot of time with me and sacrifice a lot for me, which means much more to me than a trophy. In fact, I try to give my belt buckles away, but mom tells me to save some for my kids,â he adds with a grin.
He shies away from talking about his accomplishments, preferring to talk about what heâd still like to achieve. âI still havenât got the best time I think I can get,â he says in reference to his bulldogging. âMaybe next week.â
In the kitchen, his mother, obviously proud of Neal, relates her feelings:
âHeâs a goal setter, and heâll work until he accomplishes them. Someone once told him, Neal, youâll never be a basketball player. Youâre too slow and clumsy. Well, Neal practiced years to prove that if he wanted to play basketball, heâd play basketball! Last year he made âAll-state,â and participated on an all-star team.
âBut more important to me than his awards in sports is the type of boy he is. Whenever heâs going to be late, he calls. And after his dates, he comes in and tells us heâs home; then we usually go to the kitchen and talk and munch on cookies.
âIâm secretary at the high school, and when Neal sees me in the halls he puts his arm around me, and teases me about being his girl. Iâm more proud of him because heâs active in the Church and wants to go on a mission and has a strong testimony than because heâs a good athlete.â
August 16 is rainy and gray, but just before the rodeo the rain stops; The grounds are filled with Rocky Mountain Rodeo Association members, and everything smells like wet hay and leather. Neal throws his long legs into the saddle and heads for the barrier.
âCome on, Fran, letâs give it our best shot,â he whispers.
The rope barrier springs back and they charge out. Mud flies as Neal leans, grabs, twists, and pins the steer. Timeâ3.35 seconds! Nealâs fastest time ever! With a big smile he glances toward the stands where his family sits.
The morning is quiet. On his way out of the house to feed the horses, Brother Gines glances at the shelves of trophies and stops. He stands there, silent, silhouetted against the early morning light, looking at Nealâs basketball trophy and remembering the long hours Neal practiced to prove that he wasnât clumsy. As he stands there, he recollects the times he and Neal have spent together.
âBack when Neal was younger, we milked the neighborâs cows. It was Nealâs job, but I went anyway, figuring that it was important to be with him. We talked about horses and football and bulldogging and the Church. We grew closer together, understanding each other, becoming best friends.
âWhen Neal started bulldogging, I became the hazer (the one who guides the steer in a straight line). Itâs kind of symbolic, both of us coming out together, with me hazing to keep the steer from running wild so Neal can grab him and throw him to the ground. We work well together, weâve done it for so long. I can tell if Neal is hurt, how bad it is, whether it is just another scrape to add to his scars, or whether the horns have dug deeper this time. I never say much, but Iâm right there.
âOne time Iâll never forget is the afternoon we hiked to the top of the mountain looking for deer. When we got to the top, we just sat there, talked, and forgot about the deer. Neal was at that age when he wanted to know things. That was one of the best father-son interviews weâve ever had.
âAs Neal grew older, we didnât stop doing things together. My wife teases us about being inseparable, but a father likes to know that his son wants to spend time with his old dad,â Brother Gines adds with a smile.
On cool fall nights they work outside together, joking, trying to hurry and get the wood stacked so they can go in and eat. They spend long hours hauling hay; taking trips to the saw mill to gather shavings so the animals can have the âsoftest bedsâ; walking quietly through the just-fallen snow, tracking down pheasants; going downtown to get a malt. They are still inseparable, still best friends.
âNeed some help feeding the horses, dad?â Neal asks as he walks into the room.
Brother Gines turns to see Neal all dressed, ready to help. âSure,â he replies.
Together they walk out into the bright morning.
Editorâs note: On August 26, 1980 (while this story was being written) Neal Gines died from injuries inflicted by a lightening bolt while he was working as a telephone linesman. âIâve always had a testimony of living forever as a family,â said his father. âNeal was prepared. Now we as a family must be prepared. I know that we will be together again.â
The judgeâs flag drops. Timeâ6.2 seconds. Neal grins up at his father through the dust and applause, then scans the stands for his mother. Ignoring the burning weal that the horns have left on his ribs, he releases the animal, stands up, and stoops to dust off his western-cut jeans.
Neal Gines, 17, from Kamas, Utah, and his father have just won another first place in bulldogging.
Later, as Neal sprawls out, all 6?5? of him, on the front room floor, he eyes the shelves of trophies that loom on the wall. Over 100 trophies, plaques, and belt buckles glisten in the shaft of sunlight peeking through the curtains. There are trophies for every member of the family: his dadâs chariot racing trophies, Lanaâs softball trophy, Marlaâs rodeo queen plaque, and Timâs football âMr. Hustleâ trophy.
Then there are his trophies: his all-state basketball and football trophies, his state farmer trophy, and his belt buckles from rodeo events, and his state steer wrestling saddle. But even though the trophies look impressive, Neal feels that the real value came from achieving themâthe work, the sweat.
âThe trophies really arenât that great. Other things are more importantâlike them,â Neal says proudly as he nods toward the kitchen where his parentsâ voices can be heard.
âThey spend a lot of time with me and sacrifice a lot for me, which means much more to me than a trophy. In fact, I try to give my belt buckles away, but mom tells me to save some for my kids,â he adds with a grin.
He shies away from talking about his accomplishments, preferring to talk about what heâd still like to achieve. âI still havenât got the best time I think I can get,â he says in reference to his bulldogging. âMaybe next week.â
In the kitchen, his mother, obviously proud of Neal, relates her feelings:
âHeâs a goal setter, and heâll work until he accomplishes them. Someone once told him, Neal, youâll never be a basketball player. Youâre too slow and clumsy. Well, Neal practiced years to prove that if he wanted to play basketball, heâd play basketball! Last year he made âAll-state,â and participated on an all-star team.
âBut more important to me than his awards in sports is the type of boy he is. Whenever heâs going to be late, he calls. And after his dates, he comes in and tells us heâs home; then we usually go to the kitchen and talk and munch on cookies.
âIâm secretary at the high school, and when Neal sees me in the halls he puts his arm around me, and teases me about being his girl. Iâm more proud of him because heâs active in the Church and wants to go on a mission and has a strong testimony than because heâs a good athlete.â
August 16 is rainy and gray, but just before the rodeo the rain stops; The grounds are filled with Rocky Mountain Rodeo Association members, and everything smells like wet hay and leather. Neal throws his long legs into the saddle and heads for the barrier.
âCome on, Fran, letâs give it our best shot,â he whispers.
The rope barrier springs back and they charge out. Mud flies as Neal leans, grabs, twists, and pins the steer. Timeâ3.35 seconds! Nealâs fastest time ever! With a big smile he glances toward the stands where his family sits.
The morning is quiet. On his way out of the house to feed the horses, Brother Gines glances at the shelves of trophies and stops. He stands there, silent, silhouetted against the early morning light, looking at Nealâs basketball trophy and remembering the long hours Neal practiced to prove that he wasnât clumsy. As he stands there, he recollects the times he and Neal have spent together.
âBack when Neal was younger, we milked the neighborâs cows. It was Nealâs job, but I went anyway, figuring that it was important to be with him. We talked about horses and football and bulldogging and the Church. We grew closer together, understanding each other, becoming best friends.
âWhen Neal started bulldogging, I became the hazer (the one who guides the steer in a straight line). Itâs kind of symbolic, both of us coming out together, with me hazing to keep the steer from running wild so Neal can grab him and throw him to the ground. We work well together, weâve done it for so long. I can tell if Neal is hurt, how bad it is, whether it is just another scrape to add to his scars, or whether the horns have dug deeper this time. I never say much, but Iâm right there.
âOne time Iâll never forget is the afternoon we hiked to the top of the mountain looking for deer. When we got to the top, we just sat there, talked, and forgot about the deer. Neal was at that age when he wanted to know things. That was one of the best father-son interviews weâve ever had.
âAs Neal grew older, we didnât stop doing things together. My wife teases us about being inseparable, but a father likes to know that his son wants to spend time with his old dad,â Brother Gines adds with a smile.
On cool fall nights they work outside together, joking, trying to hurry and get the wood stacked so they can go in and eat. They spend long hours hauling hay; taking trips to the saw mill to gather shavings so the animals can have the âsoftest bedsâ; walking quietly through the just-fallen snow, tracking down pheasants; going downtown to get a malt. They are still inseparable, still best friends.
âNeed some help feeding the horses, dad?â Neal asks as he walks into the room.
Brother Gines turns to see Neal all dressed, ready to help. âSure,â he replies.
Together they walk out into the bright morning.
Editorâs note: On August 26, 1980 (while this story was being written) Neal Gines died from injuries inflicted by a lightening bolt while he was working as a telephone linesman. âIâve always had a testimony of living forever as a family,â said his father. âNeal was prepared. Now we as a family must be prepared. I know that we will be together again.â
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An Inspired Wrong Turn
Summary: While searching for a friend's house on a wintry night in Ohio, the narrator and two friends took a wrong turn and discovered a house on fire. The narrator rushed inside, helped a panicked mother, and rescued her two children by escaping through a window onto the roof and dropping them to safety. Firefighters later found the family's puppy alive, and the narrator reflected that divine guidance and faith enabled the rescue. The experience strengthened the narrator's trust in Heavenly Father.
It was a typical Ohio winter night, cold enough to be snowing, yet warm enough to be raining. I was making an almost futile attempt at driving and checking street signs at the same time. Jim Bowen and Mark Auckerman, eighteen-year-old non-LDS friends, were reading off the street signs as we slowly drove down the ice-covered street.
âAll I know,â explained Jim, âis that Chris lives on Dibert Avenue, and itâs somewhere off this street.â
âBut are you sure itâs down this far?â asked Mark.
We were in the south end of Springfield, a district that none of us was very familiar with. I was stuck with the treacherous task of driving and decided we should just keep going until we found Dibert Avenue or came to the end of the street we were on.
Slowly we drove on, block by block, attempting to read each sign as we passed it. Just as we were about to give up hope and turn around, we saw it. âDibert,â we chorused happily.
Because of the ice and the poor condition of my tires, I turned the car into a parking lot about 20 yards past Dibert. By making a U-turn in the lot, I stopped the car perpendicular with the street we had been searching for. Now the problem was which way to turn on Dibert. As Mark and I argued about whether to turn right or left, Jim drew our attention to the house directly in front of us.
It was a two-story frame house, like most of the dwellings in this part of the city. The front of this house was a small store; the back appeared to be a couple of apartments. The store faced the street we had just turned off, and we faced the side of the house.
Through a side window we could see some kind of flame throwing shadows on the walls inside. The window shades were drawn, and we couldnât see if the flames were in a fireplace or a stove. But soon we realized that the flames looked too big for a stove and too high off the ground for a fireplace.
Leaving the engine running, I put the car into park and jumped out, followed closely by Mark. As we reached the window, we could see the flames were much taller than we had realized. We hopped the fence and ran to the back door. We pounded as hard as we could, but no one answered. The door was locked. I ran around to the front of the building while yelling to Jim to go call somebody.
I kicked open the front door and leaped over the counter just inside. There was a small room between the front of the store and the apartment in back.
In the living room of the attached apartment was a young woman who was screaming hysterically and trying to beat out the fire with a small rug. What appeared to be a large overstuffed sofa was completely engulfed in flames. The paper on the wall had caught fire, and the flames were shooting up the wall and across the ceiling directly above her.
My first reaction was to bend down low, turn, and leave the room. The heat was intense, and the smoke was quickly filling the room.
I screamed at the woman to leave but finally had to grab her by the arm and drag her out of the room. I asked her if there was anybody else in the house. Before she could answer, there came cries from upstairs.
âMy children,â she sobbed.
âHow many?â I asked.
She said there were two children upstairs. She pointed to a doorway right next to the flaming couch. Though only a few seconds had elapsed, the flames had now engulfed the entire wall and were shooting across the entire ceiling.
Glancing at the doorway, I realized that even if I could make it through, there would be little chance of returning the same way.
My thoughts turned to Heavenly Father. It seemed there was only one thing to do. Putting my complete trust in God, I darted for the flame-engulfed doorway, my face burning as I ran up the narrow stairway as fast as I could.
Standing at the top were the two children, a five-year-old girl and a two-year-old boy. They were crying for their mother. I tucked a child under each arm and turned to run back down the stairs. Their mother had broken away from Mark and was about three-quarters of the way up the stairs when I turned around.
I heard a loud boom. The flames were now coming about halfway up the inside of the stairwell.
In that split second on those stairs, I prayed harder and with more intensity than I had prayed in my entire life. I now realized that not only my life but the lives of a woman and two children depended on my actions. I remember praying, if not saying aloud, the words, âNot my will, but thine.â
I suddenly remembered Mark was still downstairs and started yelling at the top of my lungs for him. Mark later told me that the loud boom I heard was the living room ceiling collapsing and that a huge piece of blazing plywood had fallen to the floor just as the woman disappeared into the doorway. He had stayed downstairs and tried to confine the fire by shutting doors throughout the house. He never heard me yell that we were going out a window.
Knowing that the smoke wasnât going to leave us much time, I ran up the stairs to look for a window.
When I reached the second floor, I ran straight into a totally dark room that apparently had no windows. I could feel the soles of my feet getting warm and realized that the smoke was getting more unbearable by the second. The woman led me down the hall to a small window that led out onto the roof.
She climbed out first and I followed, still squeezing a child under each arm. When we reached the edge of the roof, I could see that smoke was pouring out of every window in the house. I saw Mark on the ground right below us and yelled that I was going to drop the children down to him.
Pivoting, I tossed the little boy about three feet away from the house to Mark, who made a perfect catch.
The smoke was so thick now that I couldnât see the ground, but I heard a voice I didnât recognize and dropped the little girl off the roof. I was told later that a man had seen the blaze, stopped his car, and ran over to Mark in time to help catch the little girl.
The woman was still sobbing and crying hysterically. Mark had put down the little boy and broke the fall of the woman as she fell from the roof. I jumped feet first and landed unhurt.
Safely on the ground, I ran to the apartment on the other side of the house. There, Jim and I pounded on the door, but no answer came. After a few seconds, we broke the glass and unlocked the door. We checked the entire house and found that no one was living on that side.
My thoughts, as we ran back around the building, were the products of years of Boy Scout trainingâtreatment of smoke inhalation, shock, and exposure. The woman and the children were brought to my car, which was warm and still running. The little boy asked where his puppy was, and even though I had seen no dog, I tried to assure him his puppy was all right. By now the fire trucks and ambulance were parked at the front of the house, so I told Mark and Jim to meet me at the hospital.
Everyone was treated and released.
When we returned to the scene of the fire, we counted nine fire engines. The blaze had been doused, and all that remained of the building was the charred frame. It sent chills up my spine to look at the house, smoke still billowing from the windows. As we stood there solemnly looking at the destruction that had taken place, a fireman emerged with what looked like a small stuffed animal. It was the little boyâs puppy. It had hidden in a downstairs closet in some kind of air pocket and had survived the two-hour blaze without so much as a scratch.
A feeling of relief and thankfulness swept over me. I realized that chance had not led us to this house, but that a heavenly force had inspired us to make that wrong turn. I knew that without the Lordâs help, several people would likely have lost their lives. Before this experience I had thought my faith was weak, but I knew then that if it had not been for faith, I would have panicked at the thought of death. Because of the teachings of the gospel and the understanding it gives us of death, I was able to think clearly and do what had to be done. I realized that my life was in Heavenly Fatherâs hands. Iâm thankful now that we were spared and that my faith was strengthened immensely by an inspired wrong turn.
âAll I know,â explained Jim, âis that Chris lives on Dibert Avenue, and itâs somewhere off this street.â
âBut are you sure itâs down this far?â asked Mark.
We were in the south end of Springfield, a district that none of us was very familiar with. I was stuck with the treacherous task of driving and decided we should just keep going until we found Dibert Avenue or came to the end of the street we were on.
Slowly we drove on, block by block, attempting to read each sign as we passed it. Just as we were about to give up hope and turn around, we saw it. âDibert,â we chorused happily.
Because of the ice and the poor condition of my tires, I turned the car into a parking lot about 20 yards past Dibert. By making a U-turn in the lot, I stopped the car perpendicular with the street we had been searching for. Now the problem was which way to turn on Dibert. As Mark and I argued about whether to turn right or left, Jim drew our attention to the house directly in front of us.
It was a two-story frame house, like most of the dwellings in this part of the city. The front of this house was a small store; the back appeared to be a couple of apartments. The store faced the street we had just turned off, and we faced the side of the house.
Through a side window we could see some kind of flame throwing shadows on the walls inside. The window shades were drawn, and we couldnât see if the flames were in a fireplace or a stove. But soon we realized that the flames looked too big for a stove and too high off the ground for a fireplace.
Leaving the engine running, I put the car into park and jumped out, followed closely by Mark. As we reached the window, we could see the flames were much taller than we had realized. We hopped the fence and ran to the back door. We pounded as hard as we could, but no one answered. The door was locked. I ran around to the front of the building while yelling to Jim to go call somebody.
I kicked open the front door and leaped over the counter just inside. There was a small room between the front of the store and the apartment in back.
In the living room of the attached apartment was a young woman who was screaming hysterically and trying to beat out the fire with a small rug. What appeared to be a large overstuffed sofa was completely engulfed in flames. The paper on the wall had caught fire, and the flames were shooting up the wall and across the ceiling directly above her.
My first reaction was to bend down low, turn, and leave the room. The heat was intense, and the smoke was quickly filling the room.
I screamed at the woman to leave but finally had to grab her by the arm and drag her out of the room. I asked her if there was anybody else in the house. Before she could answer, there came cries from upstairs.
âMy children,â she sobbed.
âHow many?â I asked.
She said there were two children upstairs. She pointed to a doorway right next to the flaming couch. Though only a few seconds had elapsed, the flames had now engulfed the entire wall and were shooting across the entire ceiling.
Glancing at the doorway, I realized that even if I could make it through, there would be little chance of returning the same way.
My thoughts turned to Heavenly Father. It seemed there was only one thing to do. Putting my complete trust in God, I darted for the flame-engulfed doorway, my face burning as I ran up the narrow stairway as fast as I could.
Standing at the top were the two children, a five-year-old girl and a two-year-old boy. They were crying for their mother. I tucked a child under each arm and turned to run back down the stairs. Their mother had broken away from Mark and was about three-quarters of the way up the stairs when I turned around.
I heard a loud boom. The flames were now coming about halfway up the inside of the stairwell.
In that split second on those stairs, I prayed harder and with more intensity than I had prayed in my entire life. I now realized that not only my life but the lives of a woman and two children depended on my actions. I remember praying, if not saying aloud, the words, âNot my will, but thine.â
I suddenly remembered Mark was still downstairs and started yelling at the top of my lungs for him. Mark later told me that the loud boom I heard was the living room ceiling collapsing and that a huge piece of blazing plywood had fallen to the floor just as the woman disappeared into the doorway. He had stayed downstairs and tried to confine the fire by shutting doors throughout the house. He never heard me yell that we were going out a window.
Knowing that the smoke wasnât going to leave us much time, I ran up the stairs to look for a window.
When I reached the second floor, I ran straight into a totally dark room that apparently had no windows. I could feel the soles of my feet getting warm and realized that the smoke was getting more unbearable by the second. The woman led me down the hall to a small window that led out onto the roof.
She climbed out first and I followed, still squeezing a child under each arm. When we reached the edge of the roof, I could see that smoke was pouring out of every window in the house. I saw Mark on the ground right below us and yelled that I was going to drop the children down to him.
Pivoting, I tossed the little boy about three feet away from the house to Mark, who made a perfect catch.
The smoke was so thick now that I couldnât see the ground, but I heard a voice I didnât recognize and dropped the little girl off the roof. I was told later that a man had seen the blaze, stopped his car, and ran over to Mark in time to help catch the little girl.
The woman was still sobbing and crying hysterically. Mark had put down the little boy and broke the fall of the woman as she fell from the roof. I jumped feet first and landed unhurt.
Safely on the ground, I ran to the apartment on the other side of the house. There, Jim and I pounded on the door, but no answer came. After a few seconds, we broke the glass and unlocked the door. We checked the entire house and found that no one was living on that side.
My thoughts, as we ran back around the building, were the products of years of Boy Scout trainingâtreatment of smoke inhalation, shock, and exposure. The woman and the children were brought to my car, which was warm and still running. The little boy asked where his puppy was, and even though I had seen no dog, I tried to assure him his puppy was all right. By now the fire trucks and ambulance were parked at the front of the house, so I told Mark and Jim to meet me at the hospital.
Everyone was treated and released.
When we returned to the scene of the fire, we counted nine fire engines. The blaze had been doused, and all that remained of the building was the charred frame. It sent chills up my spine to look at the house, smoke still billowing from the windows. As we stood there solemnly looking at the destruction that had taken place, a fireman emerged with what looked like a small stuffed animal. It was the little boyâs puppy. It had hidden in a downstairs closet in some kind of air pocket and had survived the two-hour blaze without so much as a scratch.
A feeling of relief and thankfulness swept over me. I realized that chance had not led us to this house, but that a heavenly force had inspired us to make that wrong turn. I knew that without the Lordâs help, several people would likely have lost their lives. Before this experience I had thought my faith was weak, but I knew then that if it had not been for faith, I would have panicked at the thought of death. Because of the teachings of the gospel and the understanding it gives us of death, I was able to think clearly and do what had to be done. I realized that my life was in Heavenly Fatherâs hands. Iâm thankful now that we were spared and that my faith was strengthened immensely by an inspired wrong turn.
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Spiritual Hurricanes
Summary: On a calm Sunday in Santo Domingo, the speaker monitored Hurricane Georges online and saw it headed directly for the city. Within two days the storm hit with overwhelming force, flooding streets and toppling trees while the speakerâs home narrowly avoided flooding. Afterward, he observed widespread damage but noted that those who heeded advance warnings and prepared fared relatively well, expressing gratitude for those who track and warn about such storms. He concluded that ignoring warnings brings avoidable consequences.
One Sunday morning more than a year ago, we awoke to a beautiful day in Santo Domingo in the Dominican Republic. The Caribbean sun was shining, and the sky was clear. A gentle breeze was blowing, barely ruffling the leaves on the trees; it was warm and peaceful and still. But far out to sea, beyond the reach of our physical senses that day, the deadly destroyer was coming our way, implacable and irresistible. The Hurricane Center, with responsibility to track and predict the path of Hurricane Georges, was constantly updating the information available on the Internet. In the peaceful, placid quiet of that morning, by virtue of those seeing eyes in the sky, I saw the predicted path of the storm, aimed like an arrow at the heart of Santo Domingo.
Within 48 hours the storm struck the island with intense and insensate fury, leaving in its path destruction, desolation, and death. The raw, elemental power of nature was astonishing. From the relative safety of our house, we saw trees doubled over by the force of the wind, which alternately shrieked and howled and roared; the punishing power of that wind drove rain into the house around the window frames, and the surging three-foot river of water in the street outside, brought about by the intense rain, finally crested and began to subside when it was within an inch of coming into our house.
Around the area where we lived, most of the trees were either uprooted or split by the fierce winds. Trees, branches, power lines, and telephone poles were down all over town. Streets were blocked, traffic was difficult, and power was cut off for more than a week. Although the damage was great, it would have been much greater but for the warnings from those who track and predict and counsel people to be prepared. Virtually all of those who were adequately prepared came through the hurricane relatively unscathed. I am grateful to those men and women who devote time and attention to track and monitor those storms. Their timely warnings and counsel save lives and protect people. Those who disregard the warnings pay the price of willful failure to listen to those guardians whose calling it is to watch and warn and save.
Within 48 hours the storm struck the island with intense and insensate fury, leaving in its path destruction, desolation, and death. The raw, elemental power of nature was astonishing. From the relative safety of our house, we saw trees doubled over by the force of the wind, which alternately shrieked and howled and roared; the punishing power of that wind drove rain into the house around the window frames, and the surging three-foot river of water in the street outside, brought about by the intense rain, finally crested and began to subside when it was within an inch of coming into our house.
Around the area where we lived, most of the trees were either uprooted or split by the fierce winds. Trees, branches, power lines, and telephone poles were down all over town. Streets were blocked, traffic was difficult, and power was cut off for more than a week. Although the damage was great, it would have been much greater but for the warnings from those who track and predict and counsel people to be prepared. Virtually all of those who were adequately prepared came through the hurricane relatively unscathed. I am grateful to those men and women who devote time and attention to track and monitor those storms. Their timely warnings and counsel save lives and protect people. Those who disregard the warnings pay the price of willful failure to listen to those guardians whose calling it is to watch and warn and save.
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