To understand how this story turned out the way it did, you probably need to know Joe. And thatâs not an easy thing.
In the small town of Oakley, Utah, if you ask the other teenagers about quiet, soft-spoken Joe Frazier, they say the same types of things: Heâs ⌠hmmm? ⌠great to be around. Heâs ⌠hmmm? ⌠funny. Heâs ⌠hmmm? ⌠I donât know ⌠Heâs just Joe.
Hmmm?
âLetâs put it this way,â says D. J. Glade. âYou know how in high school itâs not cool to talk to the younger kids? Well, Joe talks to the younger kids. Joe talks to the older kids. Joe is friends with everyone.â
Come on.
âSerious.â
But then there was Joe, at age 16, lying unconscious in a hospital bed with an oxygen mask over his mouth, a bag dripping into a tube in one arm. The doctors didnât know what was wrong. It was strange, sobering. And without exception, all of his friends thought, That could be me.
Joe Frazier had been sick for about a month and was getting progressively worse. The doctors were baffled. At first they thought he had a virus, maybe hepatitis. And then, on a July 1994 morning, he was in the kitchen, reached out for the counter, and was suddenly on the floor. His brother, Josh, picked him up and carried him to the car.
The following Monday, Joe was still in the hospital. His parents, Blake and Barbara, were told their son was in very serious condition, that he needed a new liver. The Fraziersâ insurance company did not cover the cost of the experimental surgery, and before Joe could be put on a national transplant waiting list the family would need to raise $125,000.
âWe didnât have time to sell our house or our cars,â says Barbara. âJoe hadnât been sick in years, and now out of the blue they were saying the word transplant. It was overwhelming.â
The hospital suggested the Fraziers ask a handful of their close friends and relatives to help raise part of the money. The neighbors they asked to help got on the phone to other neighbors who got on the phone to others ⌠well, you get the idea. All they had to say was âJoe is in troubleâ and money started appearing. The first donations were from Joeâs brother and sister, Josh and Jamie, who emptied their bank accounts and dug under couch cushions and in the back of dresser drawers for any cash they could find.
Right away, the kids from Joeâs high school got together to brainstorm ways to raise the money. They gave $500 they were saving for their prom. And then they organized car washes, bake sales, a rodeo, and an enormous garage sale.
It was late one evening that week, as the teenagers collected items for the garage sale, that Sam Aplanalp, 15, realized something miraculous was happening.
âThe football players were pulling things off a truck when a little boy rode up on his bike,â says Sam. âI know his family doesnât have much moneyâand his bike was about all he had in the worldâbut he wanted us to have it. To help Joe.â
The next day at the sale, a loaf of bread fetched $400 and someone paid $25 for a root beer. At the car wash, 16-year-old Michelle Cooper and her friends washed a strangerâs car who, in payment, handed them two $100 bills. âI donât know who he was,â Michelle says, tearing up at the memory. âBut it taught me that deep down, people really do care.â
On Wednesday afternoon, only a day and a half after the call for donations had gone out, the phone rang in Joeâs hospital room. Barbara answered. It was Joeâs 14-year-old sister, Jamie.
âMom, youâre missing a miracle,â she said. âI wish you were here to see what the people in town are doing. Theyâve already raised $55,000!â
Teenagers from across the county, from all faiths and backgrounds, came together to help raise money and to pray for Joe.
âI donât think any of us had ever prayed that hard or worked that hard,â says Michelle.
Jake adds, âBut we learned where real joy comes from. Passing a test, winning a ball game, having a girlfriend makes you happyâbut real joy comes from giving, from sacrifice.â
On the same Wednesday, Barbara and Blake met with their surgeon and told him that Oakley and the neighboring communities in their county had already raised $55,000âin 36 hours. Tears ran down the physicianâs cheeks and Barbara recalls him saying, âYou have renewed my faith. There really are human beings in the world.â The doctor, realizing the severity of Joeâs condition, had already put him on the transplant list. He said he would not let Joe die without a chance.
When Joe went into surgery the following Monday, the Fraziers had already received $135,000.
But Joeâs fight was not over. He was given only a 50 percent chance of making it through the eight-hour operation. And, says Barbara, âIf he hadnât received the liver that day, he would not have seen another sunrise.â
âThe first day I remember is the 24th of Julyâfive days after the surgery,â says Joe. âI remember going to the window to watch the fireworks.â
When Barbara told him what the community had done, Joe seemed strangely sad. âI kinda wish Iâd been there to help,â he explained.
On a hot August day with thin clouds in the Utah mountains, the Fraziersâ Thunderbird slowed as it reached the turn into the Kamas valley. Sitting in the passengerâs seat, Joe could see the group of vehicles waiting for him at the intersection, where twisting Brownâs Canyon meets Highway 189.
The fire engine and the cars fell in behind Joeâs car, fender-to-fender. The parade stopped in Oakley, and Joe got out and hugged his mom. A dozen young kids who had donated their toys to the garage sale and who felt in some way they owned a little piece of Joe gathered close to him. And one little guy yelled, âHey, Joe, how ya feeling?â
There wasnât a dry eye when Joe smiled and said in a soft voice âfineâ and âthank youâ and that it was âgood to be home.â
âEvery street corner, every business, everything was covered with pictures of Joe,â said Barbara. âBut when we got home, Joe asked me to get the collection jars out of the store and take his pictures down.
âAnd then he wanted me to make sure no one had given more money than they could afford.â
Maybe that selfless attitude is why everyone cared, why they did what they did. Who knows? But itâs definitely the reason, when you ask who is Joe Frazier, that all his friends say with love, Heâs ⌠hmmm? ⌠heâs just Joe.
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Just Joe
Summary: Joe Frazier, a popular 16-year-old in Oakley, Utah, suddenly became gravely ill and needed a liver transplant. When his family needed $125,000, the community rallied with extraordinary generosity, raising money through donations and fundraising events, eventually saving his life.
After Joeâs successful surgery and return home, he was humbled by the effort and asked that his pictures be taken down and that no one who donated should have given more than they could afford. The story ends by showing that his selfless character was part of why so many people cared so deeply for him.
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We Can Do Better, Part 2: Finding Your Place in the Church of Jesus Christ
Summary: In Taiwan, Mei-ling faced cultural pressure against having multiple children. Each pregnancy required faith amid criticism and uncertainty. After forming their family, she and her husband received confirming peace and gratitude for their children.
Sometimes itâs difficult for new members to stay rooted in the gospel when they donât have a complete assurance of what the future holds. Learning about this aspect of faith for Mei-ling, a homemaker in Taiwan, involved the gospel admonition to bring children into the world, a challenging step because âmany in my culture have one child or have a pet instead,â she observes. Each pregnancy has required her to have faith to step into the unknown and ignore sometimes intense criticism from relatives and the culture at large.
Often, moving forward requires stepping into the unknown, which can be intimidating to those new in the faith. It requires developing trust that the Lord will help them along the path. Having unease and uncertainty, Elder Bednar assures, is a normal part of our learning and growing process, but sometimes our steps into the unknownâwhether they involve forming a family or returning to participation in the Churchâcan be particularly daunting because the witness comes after the trial of our faith (see Ether 12:6). Mei-ling and her husband received such a witness after creating a family. âWe are happy and so grateful for our children,â she says. âWeâve learned to live frugally, to help and love each other. Iâm grateful we brought them into the world.â
Often, moving forward requires stepping into the unknown, which can be intimidating to those new in the faith. It requires developing trust that the Lord will help them along the path. Having unease and uncertainty, Elder Bednar assures, is a normal part of our learning and growing process, but sometimes our steps into the unknownâwhether they involve forming a family or returning to participation in the Churchâcan be particularly daunting because the witness comes after the trial of our faith (see Ether 12:6). Mei-ling and her husband received such a witness after creating a family. âWe are happy and so grateful for our children,â she says. âWeâve learned to live frugally, to help and love each other. Iâm grateful we brought them into the world.â
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Handcart Girl
Summary: When the Willie Handcart Company had very little to eat, Agnesâs mother sold a quilt and a bedspread to buy food and traded trinkets with Native Americans for dried meat. She rationed meat and bread to her children and sometimes made stew to sustain them during cold, fireless days.
One day when they had very little to eat, Agnesâs mother sold a quilt and a bedspread and used the money to buy food. She often traded trinkets and gifts to the Indians for dried meat, which proved to be a great help, especially when the cold wind was blowing and they couldnât build a fire. On such days, she would give each of her children a piece of dried meat and some bread. Sometimes she took a small piece of meat and made a stew, thickening it with a little flour and some salt. It tasted so good on a cold night!
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âThat Vast Empireâ
Summary: In 2000, the Vershinin family traveled from Nizhniy Novgorod via St. Petersburg by bus and ferry to the Stockholm Sweden Temple. Their daughter, Irina, performed baptisms for the dead and was sealed to her parents. She recalled the trip giving many small testimonies and blessings that propelled further spiritual growth.
The Vershinin family from Nizhniy Novgorod first visited the Stockholm Sweden Temple in 2000. After traveling to St. Petersburg, Sergey, Vera, and their daughter, Irina, joined a group of Russian Latter-day Saints from various cities and traveled by bus and ferry to reach the temple. At the temple, Irina participated in baptisms for the dead and was sealed to her parents. âThe trip gave us testimonies and many blessings,â she recalled. âThey were small testimonies received individually by each person. But as a whole they helped us and gave momentum for further spiritual growth.â12
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Someone to Look Up To
Summary: Teresa met Reiner at a hospital where he worked as an orderly, and she immediately noticed his height. He remembered her phone number, called her, and they married a year later. While stationed in Germany, Shawn was born, and later the family moved to Castle Dale, Utah, seeking a small-town environment for their children.
Teresa and Reiner met in a hospital. She was visiting a friend, and he was working his way through college as an orderly. When he walked into her friendâs hospital room, Teresa remembers thinking, âBoy, this guy is tall.â Standing six feet herself, she was aware of height. Reiner is six-foot-eight. âHe remembered my phone number when I gave it to my friend and called me,â said Teresa. They were married a year later. It was while the couple was stationed in Germany, fulfilling an ROTC obligation in the army, that Shawn was born. After finishing his schooling as a medical technologist, Reiner moved his young family back to Teresaâs hometown of Castle Dale, Utah. They wanted a small-town atmosphere for their children.
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The Parents You Have Not Known
Summary: Following leads to Châungpoong and Taegu, the author and local leaders located addresses tied to her father. In Young Duk, they met him, learned his legal and alternate names, and confirmed the Ko familyâs account. He arranged a meeting with her brother, where a peaceful confirmation settled on her that this was her family. The brother, shocked to learn of his stepmother, embraced his role as her older brother.
The next step was to go to Châungpoong to try to locate my father and brother. Châungpoong is southwest of Jechon, in a secluded part of Korea. Many days later we took a country bus over dirt roads and rice fields to get there. When we arrived, we asked at the records office, but the officials had never heard of Kim Chin Ku. We also went to the school to check its records. The school had no record of the son, but we met a person there who knew of the family. He told us that they went by other names (not unusual for Koreans). We checked again and found a reference to a high school in Taegu, another city in southern Korea.
Back in Seoul, President Châoi consulted with some Church leaders in Taegu, and they were able to locate two addresses among the school records: one in Young Duk, where Kim Chin Ku had lived before his marriage to my mother, and one in Taegu. We decided to check them both. President Châoiâs son, who went with us, felt that we ought to go to Young Duk first. When we arrived at the village, we went to the police station. The men on duty knew of the family and offered to take us to meet them.
We rode into another secluded part of Korea through rice fields and mountains before we came to a little village at the foot of a canyon. We got out of the taxi, and Brother Châoi talked with one of the villagers. The man told us that Kim Chin Ku lived in the village and was working in the fields. The taxi driver offered to go find him and bring him back to us. As we waited, I felt panic. What if this man really was my father?
The taxi approached. In the back seat were two peopleâa little boy and an old man. We greeted each other. The elderly man was wrinkled and aged from the sun, but he had a sweet, sincere air. I felt confident that he was my father.
His real name was Kim Hong Suk, but he was also known as Kim Chin Ku. He invited us to his home. We walked up a dirt road and entered the yard, where an ox was tied to a tree. On the other side of his house was a barn. Inside the house, a straw mat was spread on the floor. We sat down, and this manâmy fatherâsat next to me. He stared at me, and I at him. One by one, the villagers came to see us. We told him the story of our search, and he confirmed the account Mr. Ko had given.
Next we asked about the sonâmy brother. His name was Kim Do Yun, and he was attending a technical college in Taegu. My father indicated that he would telephone and arrange a time for us to meet. While he was telephoning, I asked the other family members if they had any family records. They brought out a huge published book of their lineage.
My father made arrangements for us to meet Kim Do Yun at a restaurant in Pohang that evening. When I met him, I had a sweet, peaceful feeling. I knew that this was the right familyâmy Korean family. My brother was very nervous. He trembled with emotion as we told him the story and showed him our papers. Up to now he had never known that the woman whom he had thought was his mother, was actually his stepmother. But after overcoming the initial shock, he seemed excited to be my big brother.
Back in Seoul, President Châoi consulted with some Church leaders in Taegu, and they were able to locate two addresses among the school records: one in Young Duk, where Kim Chin Ku had lived before his marriage to my mother, and one in Taegu. We decided to check them both. President Châoiâs son, who went with us, felt that we ought to go to Young Duk first. When we arrived at the village, we went to the police station. The men on duty knew of the family and offered to take us to meet them.
We rode into another secluded part of Korea through rice fields and mountains before we came to a little village at the foot of a canyon. We got out of the taxi, and Brother Châoi talked with one of the villagers. The man told us that Kim Chin Ku lived in the village and was working in the fields. The taxi driver offered to go find him and bring him back to us. As we waited, I felt panic. What if this man really was my father?
The taxi approached. In the back seat were two peopleâa little boy and an old man. We greeted each other. The elderly man was wrinkled and aged from the sun, but he had a sweet, sincere air. I felt confident that he was my father.
His real name was Kim Hong Suk, but he was also known as Kim Chin Ku. He invited us to his home. We walked up a dirt road and entered the yard, where an ox was tied to a tree. On the other side of his house was a barn. Inside the house, a straw mat was spread on the floor. We sat down, and this manâmy fatherâsat next to me. He stared at me, and I at him. One by one, the villagers came to see us. We told him the story of our search, and he confirmed the account Mr. Ko had given.
Next we asked about the sonâmy brother. His name was Kim Do Yun, and he was attending a technical college in Taegu. My father indicated that he would telephone and arrange a time for us to meet. While he was telephoning, I asked the other family members if they had any family records. They brought out a huge published book of their lineage.
My father made arrangements for us to meet Kim Do Yun at a restaurant in Pohang that evening. When I met him, I had a sweet, peaceful feeling. I knew that this was the right familyâmy Korean family. My brother was very nervous. He trembled with emotion as we told him the story and showed him our papers. Up to now he had never known that the woman whom he had thought was his mother, was actually his stepmother. But after overcoming the initial shock, he seemed excited to be my big brother.
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My Brother Lives There
Summary: On their 13th wedding anniversary, a family in southern California discovered a fast-moving grass fire threatening their hilltop home. As police blocked access, dozens of ward brethren arrivedâpassing the roadblock by saying, âMy brother lives hereââto help fight the flames with makeshift tools. The narrator felt profound peace and gratitude as the men formed a protective line, a bulldozed firebreak was made, and the wind suddenly shifted, sparing the home. The experience deepened the author's sense of Church brotherhood and reliance on God.
âCan you see where that smoke is coming from? It seems awfully close. I wonder whatâs burning?â
âCould be just a grass fire.â
âItâs not that close. It just seems that way.â
âYes! Could be somewhere around ⌠our ⌠Oh no!â
It was our 13th wedding anniversary. Because of other commitments that evening, we had decided to celebrate with a nice restaurant lunch and include our five children in the festivities. We had barely ordered our meal when one of the children had spotted the smoke and our spirit of celebration was all but ruined. We tried to tell each other that it just couldnât be anywhere near our home and thus we somehow got through the lunch. But that was about it. Hurriedly we got into our car and started the drive home.
It was only about 16 kilometers, but what a long distance it seemed to be. The closer to the smoke we came, the more worried we got. It certainly looked like it was coming from our neighborhood. I can still remember the fear and anxiety reflected on each face during that drive.
We lived in southern California, where after a dry summer the terrible grass fires were rather commonplace. Our home was situated near the top of the hill, and the road leading to our home ran higher on top. In back of the house and down the hill were thousands of hectares of grassy undeveloped land with some clusters of trees here and there. The grass that summer had grown high and then, due to a lack of rain, had died and dried standing up. Somehow that grass had caught on fire.
As we arrived home the police and a couple of fire trucks were already positioned on the road up the hill. The wind was toward us, and the fire was advancing with unbelievable speed.
I whispered a quick prayer, âDear God, save our home.â
It is interesting to see what a person thinks important and valuable when faced with the fact that there is just a small truck in the driveway with which to haul his prized possessions to safety. In our case, sentimentality played a bigger role than monetary value. The family records came first, and the only piece of furniture we even thought of bothering with was my great-grandparentsâ untunable piano. The girls, with their selected valuables, were sent off with a ward member, but our 11-year-old twin boys stayed around placing wet blankets on the top of the roof and keeping them wet.
There were only a few houses on that hill, all some distance from one another. We started, as did all our neighbors, to clear away the dry grass and the shrubbery surrounding our property. It seemed like useless work, but we had to do something; we couldnât just stand there waiting.
âDear God, save our home.â
The fire was getting closer, and the place was getting hotter. And we were coming to the attention of the news media. The television cameras were aimed at us, and we were being interviewed for the evening news.
âHow does it feel to wait for your home to burn down?â
âIt might not burn.â
âWell, tell us how you feel right now.â
âTerrible. Scared.â
The police had long since stopped all the traffic to our area. Only the people living there and close relatives were admitted. Suddenly a car full of men from our ward arrived. They were all anxious to help, and we were grateful for their concern. Then other elders started to come. We knew about the roadblock and wondered how these good men had been able to come through.
âBrother Ellett,â I said to one of them, âhow did you get past the police?â
âThat was easy,â he chuckled. âI just told them that my brother lives here!â That seemed to be the way all the other brethren had come through the roadblock.
A few minutes later, while the elders were still coming through one young policeman came walking down the driveway.
âI came to see the man,â he said, âwho has so many brothers.â
I went outside the house and counted all the men from our ward that I could see. I counted 39. Thirty-nine brothers!
Thirty-nine priesthood holders, I thought. There they were fighting the fire with every possible means they could lay their hands on. They fought it with shovels, with hoes, with rakes, and even with sticks. And right then and there I realized that they had even stronger power than those few helpless tools in their possession. Great feelings of peace filled my soul. I knew then as surely as I have ever known anything that no fire could get through that line of fire fighters.
Anybody who has ever seen a group of full-grown trees, or even one of them, explode with fire will know how scary such a thing is, especially when seen at close quarters. There I stood watching the flames that seemed to touch the sky, and still I knew that I and all that was mine were safe from that raging inferno. The peace and calmness that filled my being is something I will never be able to fully describe. I was so grateful, oh, so grateful for my membership in the Church and for the knowledge I had. Tears running down my cheeks, I thanked the Lord, not so much for the material things he would preserve, but for the spiritual things nothing can destroy.
Somebody had bulldozed a big gully between the burnt area and us. The television cameras were busy recording what to them was news. The bulldozed area would not have been wide enough to stop the fire if something else had not suddenly happened. The wind that had all the time blown briskly towards us turned unexpectedly and completely and began to blow now in the direction of the already burnt area. The fight was now easier, and the fire never crossed the bulldozed area to our home.
âMy brother lives there,â they had said.
My brother! I felt then stronger than ever before the bond that ties us together in the Church. I felt it loving and caring for my family. We are not alone. We have one another.
Often, when I travel at night and see a light in the distance all by itself, I wonder who might live there. And then I remember, and this thought comes to me like a flash, âMy brother lives there!â
âCould be just a grass fire.â
âItâs not that close. It just seems that way.â
âYes! Could be somewhere around ⌠our ⌠Oh no!â
It was our 13th wedding anniversary. Because of other commitments that evening, we had decided to celebrate with a nice restaurant lunch and include our five children in the festivities. We had barely ordered our meal when one of the children had spotted the smoke and our spirit of celebration was all but ruined. We tried to tell each other that it just couldnât be anywhere near our home and thus we somehow got through the lunch. But that was about it. Hurriedly we got into our car and started the drive home.
It was only about 16 kilometers, but what a long distance it seemed to be. The closer to the smoke we came, the more worried we got. It certainly looked like it was coming from our neighborhood. I can still remember the fear and anxiety reflected on each face during that drive.
We lived in southern California, where after a dry summer the terrible grass fires were rather commonplace. Our home was situated near the top of the hill, and the road leading to our home ran higher on top. In back of the house and down the hill were thousands of hectares of grassy undeveloped land with some clusters of trees here and there. The grass that summer had grown high and then, due to a lack of rain, had died and dried standing up. Somehow that grass had caught on fire.
As we arrived home the police and a couple of fire trucks were already positioned on the road up the hill. The wind was toward us, and the fire was advancing with unbelievable speed.
I whispered a quick prayer, âDear God, save our home.â
It is interesting to see what a person thinks important and valuable when faced with the fact that there is just a small truck in the driveway with which to haul his prized possessions to safety. In our case, sentimentality played a bigger role than monetary value. The family records came first, and the only piece of furniture we even thought of bothering with was my great-grandparentsâ untunable piano. The girls, with their selected valuables, were sent off with a ward member, but our 11-year-old twin boys stayed around placing wet blankets on the top of the roof and keeping them wet.
There were only a few houses on that hill, all some distance from one another. We started, as did all our neighbors, to clear away the dry grass and the shrubbery surrounding our property. It seemed like useless work, but we had to do something; we couldnât just stand there waiting.
âDear God, save our home.â
The fire was getting closer, and the place was getting hotter. And we were coming to the attention of the news media. The television cameras were aimed at us, and we were being interviewed for the evening news.
âHow does it feel to wait for your home to burn down?â
âIt might not burn.â
âWell, tell us how you feel right now.â
âTerrible. Scared.â
The police had long since stopped all the traffic to our area. Only the people living there and close relatives were admitted. Suddenly a car full of men from our ward arrived. They were all anxious to help, and we were grateful for their concern. Then other elders started to come. We knew about the roadblock and wondered how these good men had been able to come through.
âBrother Ellett,â I said to one of them, âhow did you get past the police?â
âThat was easy,â he chuckled. âI just told them that my brother lives here!â That seemed to be the way all the other brethren had come through the roadblock.
A few minutes later, while the elders were still coming through one young policeman came walking down the driveway.
âI came to see the man,â he said, âwho has so many brothers.â
I went outside the house and counted all the men from our ward that I could see. I counted 39. Thirty-nine brothers!
Thirty-nine priesthood holders, I thought. There they were fighting the fire with every possible means they could lay their hands on. They fought it with shovels, with hoes, with rakes, and even with sticks. And right then and there I realized that they had even stronger power than those few helpless tools in their possession. Great feelings of peace filled my soul. I knew then as surely as I have ever known anything that no fire could get through that line of fire fighters.
Anybody who has ever seen a group of full-grown trees, or even one of them, explode with fire will know how scary such a thing is, especially when seen at close quarters. There I stood watching the flames that seemed to touch the sky, and still I knew that I and all that was mine were safe from that raging inferno. The peace and calmness that filled my being is something I will never be able to fully describe. I was so grateful, oh, so grateful for my membership in the Church and for the knowledge I had. Tears running down my cheeks, I thanked the Lord, not so much for the material things he would preserve, but for the spiritual things nothing can destroy.
Somebody had bulldozed a big gully between the burnt area and us. The television cameras were busy recording what to them was news. The bulldozed area would not have been wide enough to stop the fire if something else had not suddenly happened. The wind that had all the time blown briskly towards us turned unexpectedly and completely and began to blow now in the direction of the already burnt area. The fight was now easier, and the fire never crossed the bulldozed area to our home.
âMy brother lives there,â they had said.
My brother! I felt then stronger than ever before the bond that ties us together in the Church. I felt it loving and caring for my family. We are not alone. We have one another.
Often, when I travel at night and see a light in the distance all by itself, I wonder who might live there. And then I remember, and this thought comes to me like a flash, âMy brother lives there!â
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Prophets at Christmastime
Summary: In 1923, Ezra Taft Benson returned to his family farm on Christmas Eve after a two-and-a-half-year mission. He stayed up with his parents to help prepare for Christmas and quietly shared his missionary experiences. The tender evening moved him to tears.
One of the sweetest Christmases President Ezra Taft Benson remembered occurred in 1923, when he returned home on Christmas Eve to the family farm in Whitney, Idaho, USA, after a two-and-a-half-year mission to England. This joyful reunion with his parents and 10 brothers and sisters was also filled with enthusiasm and excitement for Christmas. As a special treat, his parents allowed him to stay up to help with Christmas preparations after the other children were in bed. As he worked alongside his parents, he quietly shared his missionary experiences. He couldnât hold back the tears during this âchoice eveningâ in his childhood home.3
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Ruining the Backyard Grass
Summary: Debbie is upset when her parents follow the prophetâs counsel to plant a garden, which ruins part of the backyard lawn. As she helps and tastes the produce, she grows to appreciate the garden. When her father later loses his job, the garden provides food and savings for the family, confirming to them that blessings follow obedience to prophetic counsel.
A loud, whirring noise broke into the game Debbie and her little sister, Becca, were playing with their dolls. The sound was coming from the backyard. Debbie and Becca looked wide-eyed at each other and left the dolls, clothes, and furniture made from shoe boxes to run outside.
When they came to the backyard, they stopped and stared at the curious sight. Daddy was there with a strange machine the size of a lawn mower. It was ripping up the beautiful green grass of the backyard and leaving only ugly brown dirt behind.
âWhat is he doing?â Becca asked. Debbie didnât answer. She could only shake her head and run to the kitchen to find Mommy.
Mommy had just finished peeling potatoes and was cleaning the peelings out of the kitchen sink. When Debbie stood beside her quietly sobbing, she stopped and asked, âWhat on earth is the matter? Are you hurt?â
Debbie swallowed her sobs and pointed to the backyard. âWhy is Daddy ruining the grass?â
Mommy sighed with relief. âOh, is that whatâs bothering you?â She placed her hands on Debbieâs shoulders. âHoney, the prophet said that we need to plant a garden. He told us at the last general conference. So Daddy borrowed that tiller, and weâre going to obey the prophet and plant a garden.â
âWhy?â
âI donât know why the prophet wants us to. I guess he wants everyone to be self-sufficient.â
âWhat does that mean?â
âIt means to be able to take care of ourselves. If weâre hungry, we can feed ourselves.â
Debbie sighed loudly as she went to the counter and sat on a stool. âCanât we just go to the store?â
âNo, we need to learn to follow the prophetâlike the Saints that came across the plains. When they did what the prophet told them, they were blessed and they were able to bless others, too.â
Debbie looked at her mother but didnât say anything. She knew that Daddy and Mommy had made up their minds.
Their backyard would no longer be a wonderful place to play. Now over half of it would be a big brown spot with garden plants, weeds, and bugs. She slid off the stool and went to her bedroom.
âDonât worry, Debbie,â Mommy called after her. âIâm sure that weâll have lots of blessings for following the prophet, too.â
In her room, Debbie just sat on her bed. Her dolls didnât even look fun to play with anymore. Everything was ruined. She would never have fun at home again.
âDaddy says weâre going to plant carrots and corn, and I get to help with the weeding,â Becca chirped happily when she came into the bedroom.
Debbie frowned at her.
âItâs going to be a lot of fun,â Becca told her. âDaddy says thereâs nothing better for growing bodies than fresh vegetables from the garden. He said he always had plenty of them when he was a little boy.â
âIâll bet itâs the worst stuff weâve ever eaten.â Debbie got off the bed and began putting away her dolls.
Becca quietly watched her for a minute, then asked, âDonât you want to play anymore?â
âI never want to play anything again!â Debbie stuffed the last doll into a box and pushed it under the bed. She lay down and buried her face under her pillow, hoping anything Becca had to say wouldnât come through the soft down.
âIâll bet one day youâll be glad we have a garden.â
Debbie pretended that she hadnât heard and held as still as if she were sound asleep. She hoped that Becca wasnât right. She hoped that she would always hate the garden and what it had done to the beautiful grass.
But as the weeks went by, Debbie began to change her mind. Tiny carrot plants with feathery leaves were beginning to grow in a straight row, and beside them grew beans with dark green leaves shaped like hearts. She had to admit to herself that she did like to see the plants grow bigger and bigger. It was even fun to pull the weeds and pretend that they were terrible beasts trying to steal all the water and food from the tender little plants.
Daddy showed her how to carefully water each row with the hose turned low so that the ground could soak up plenty of moisture and not be washed away.
Once, while she was supposed to be weeding, she pulled a pea pod from the vine and carefully opened it. Tiny round peas were inside. She tasted one. It was the best-tasting pea she had ever had.
âI saw that!â Becca ran up behind her.
Debbie whirled around. Seeing that she was caught, she held out the pod for her sister to try a pea.
Becca tasted one, and her eyes lit up. âWow! Those are good!â
Debbie nodded. âI never thought peas could taste good enough to eat,â she admitted.
âSo are you glad we have a garden?â
Debbie looked down and smiled. âI guess so.â
Several weeks later, Debbie learned to be really grateful for the garden. Daddyâs company had some trouble, and many of its employees lost their jobs. Daddy was one of them. He didnât know how long it would be before he could find another job.
âIt sure is a good thing we planted that garden,â Mommy remarked at the dinner table one evening. âWithout it, we wouldnât have any food to bottle and save for winter.â
âYou mean we would be hungry?â Debbie asked in surprise.
âNo.â Her mother shook her head. âWe would just not be eating as well. Thanks to the garden, we havenât had to buy as much food, and Iâve been saving some money. Now that weâre not sure when weâll be getting any more, itâs a good thing we saved extra.â
âWe have more food and extra money, all because of the garden,â Daddy explained. âThis is a testimony to me that the Lord certainly does bless us when we follow the counsel He gives us through His prophet.â
âYes,â Mommy added, âI knew He would bless usâI just didnât think it would be this soon.â
Debbie quietly nibbled at an ear of corn. She was glad that her parents had decided to follow the prophet. She knew that if they hadnât, their family wouldnât have been blessed with the things they needed. She went to bed that night with a full stomach and a happy heart, knowing that the Lord had watched over her family and He was blessing them because they listened to the prophet.
When they came to the backyard, they stopped and stared at the curious sight. Daddy was there with a strange machine the size of a lawn mower. It was ripping up the beautiful green grass of the backyard and leaving only ugly brown dirt behind.
âWhat is he doing?â Becca asked. Debbie didnât answer. She could only shake her head and run to the kitchen to find Mommy.
Mommy had just finished peeling potatoes and was cleaning the peelings out of the kitchen sink. When Debbie stood beside her quietly sobbing, she stopped and asked, âWhat on earth is the matter? Are you hurt?â
Debbie swallowed her sobs and pointed to the backyard. âWhy is Daddy ruining the grass?â
Mommy sighed with relief. âOh, is that whatâs bothering you?â She placed her hands on Debbieâs shoulders. âHoney, the prophet said that we need to plant a garden. He told us at the last general conference. So Daddy borrowed that tiller, and weâre going to obey the prophet and plant a garden.â
âWhy?â
âI donât know why the prophet wants us to. I guess he wants everyone to be self-sufficient.â
âWhat does that mean?â
âIt means to be able to take care of ourselves. If weâre hungry, we can feed ourselves.â
Debbie sighed loudly as she went to the counter and sat on a stool. âCanât we just go to the store?â
âNo, we need to learn to follow the prophetâlike the Saints that came across the plains. When they did what the prophet told them, they were blessed and they were able to bless others, too.â
Debbie looked at her mother but didnât say anything. She knew that Daddy and Mommy had made up their minds.
Their backyard would no longer be a wonderful place to play. Now over half of it would be a big brown spot with garden plants, weeds, and bugs. She slid off the stool and went to her bedroom.
âDonât worry, Debbie,â Mommy called after her. âIâm sure that weâll have lots of blessings for following the prophet, too.â
In her room, Debbie just sat on her bed. Her dolls didnât even look fun to play with anymore. Everything was ruined. She would never have fun at home again.
âDaddy says weâre going to plant carrots and corn, and I get to help with the weeding,â Becca chirped happily when she came into the bedroom.
Debbie frowned at her.
âItâs going to be a lot of fun,â Becca told her. âDaddy says thereâs nothing better for growing bodies than fresh vegetables from the garden. He said he always had plenty of them when he was a little boy.â
âIâll bet itâs the worst stuff weâve ever eaten.â Debbie got off the bed and began putting away her dolls.
Becca quietly watched her for a minute, then asked, âDonât you want to play anymore?â
âI never want to play anything again!â Debbie stuffed the last doll into a box and pushed it under the bed. She lay down and buried her face under her pillow, hoping anything Becca had to say wouldnât come through the soft down.
âIâll bet one day youâll be glad we have a garden.â
Debbie pretended that she hadnât heard and held as still as if she were sound asleep. She hoped that Becca wasnât right. She hoped that she would always hate the garden and what it had done to the beautiful grass.
But as the weeks went by, Debbie began to change her mind. Tiny carrot plants with feathery leaves were beginning to grow in a straight row, and beside them grew beans with dark green leaves shaped like hearts. She had to admit to herself that she did like to see the plants grow bigger and bigger. It was even fun to pull the weeds and pretend that they were terrible beasts trying to steal all the water and food from the tender little plants.
Daddy showed her how to carefully water each row with the hose turned low so that the ground could soak up plenty of moisture and not be washed away.
Once, while she was supposed to be weeding, she pulled a pea pod from the vine and carefully opened it. Tiny round peas were inside. She tasted one. It was the best-tasting pea she had ever had.
âI saw that!â Becca ran up behind her.
Debbie whirled around. Seeing that she was caught, she held out the pod for her sister to try a pea.
Becca tasted one, and her eyes lit up. âWow! Those are good!â
Debbie nodded. âI never thought peas could taste good enough to eat,â she admitted.
âSo are you glad we have a garden?â
Debbie looked down and smiled. âI guess so.â
Several weeks later, Debbie learned to be really grateful for the garden. Daddyâs company had some trouble, and many of its employees lost their jobs. Daddy was one of them. He didnât know how long it would be before he could find another job.
âIt sure is a good thing we planted that garden,â Mommy remarked at the dinner table one evening. âWithout it, we wouldnât have any food to bottle and save for winter.â
âYou mean we would be hungry?â Debbie asked in surprise.
âNo.â Her mother shook her head. âWe would just not be eating as well. Thanks to the garden, we havenât had to buy as much food, and Iâve been saving some money. Now that weâre not sure when weâll be getting any more, itâs a good thing we saved extra.â
âWe have more food and extra money, all because of the garden,â Daddy explained. âThis is a testimony to me that the Lord certainly does bless us when we follow the counsel He gives us through His prophet.â
âYes,â Mommy added, âI knew He would bless usâI just didnât think it would be this soon.â
Debbie quietly nibbled at an ear of corn. She was glad that her parents had decided to follow the prophet. She knew that if they hadnât, their family wouldnât have been blessed with the things they needed. She went to bed that night with a full stomach and a happy heart, knowing that the Lord had watched over her family and He was blessing them because they listened to the prophet.
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Elder Larry S. Kacher
Summary: Elder Larry S. Kacher describes how promptings of the Spirit led him from a youth in Minnesota to baptism in Utah and a mission in Tahiti. After marrying Pauline Miller and building a career in consulting, he served in several Church leadership callings, presided over the Switzerland Geneva Mission, and later became the first Area Seventy in the Middle East. The article concludes with his sustaining as a member of the Second Quorum of the Seventy in April 2014.
After many promptings during his young adult years, Elder Larry S. Kacher began to recognize a greater power guiding him in his life. At age 19, sensitivity to the Spirit led him to the gospel of Jesus Christâa change that has made all the difference.
He was born on February 12, 1952, the second oldest of the five children born to Albert and Elaine Kacher; he grew up in Bloomington, Minnesota, USA.
After high school he went to Europe to ski, and after more than six months there he felt he needed to return home. Once home, he felt like he needed to go somewhere else but didnât know where. A childhood friend planned to move to Utah, and Elder Kacher decided to move with him. While in Utah, Elder Kacher enrolled at Brigham Young University, learned about the Church, and was baptized.
âAs the missionaries taught us, I felt it was true,â he says. âAs I prayed, I felt that the Church was true.â
He decided to serve a mission and was called to the Tahiti Papeete Mission in 1973. After returning home, he went back to school at BYU, where he met Pauline Miller. They were married in the Manti Utah Temple on October 29, 1976, and are the parents of six children and the grandparents of 11 grandchildren.
Elder Kacher earned a bachelorâs degree in psychology and a masterâs degree in organizational behaviorâboth from BYU. His career involved consulting to large companies nationally and internationally.
Prior to being sustained on April 5, 2014, as a member of the Second Quorum of the Seventy, Elder Kacher served as a branch president, elders quorum president, bishop, and stake presidentâs counselor. He presided over the Switzerland Geneva Mission from 2000 to 2003. A few years after his return from Switzerland, his work took him to Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates, where he was called to serve as the first Area Seventy in the Middle East.
He was born on February 12, 1952, the second oldest of the five children born to Albert and Elaine Kacher; he grew up in Bloomington, Minnesota, USA.
After high school he went to Europe to ski, and after more than six months there he felt he needed to return home. Once home, he felt like he needed to go somewhere else but didnât know where. A childhood friend planned to move to Utah, and Elder Kacher decided to move with him. While in Utah, Elder Kacher enrolled at Brigham Young University, learned about the Church, and was baptized.
âAs the missionaries taught us, I felt it was true,â he says. âAs I prayed, I felt that the Church was true.â
He decided to serve a mission and was called to the Tahiti Papeete Mission in 1973. After returning home, he went back to school at BYU, where he met Pauline Miller. They were married in the Manti Utah Temple on October 29, 1976, and are the parents of six children and the grandparents of 11 grandchildren.
Elder Kacher earned a bachelorâs degree in psychology and a masterâs degree in organizational behaviorâboth from BYU. His career involved consulting to large companies nationally and internationally.
Prior to being sustained on April 5, 2014, as a member of the Second Quorum of the Seventy, Elder Kacher served as a branch president, elders quorum president, bishop, and stake presidentâs counselor. He presided over the Switzerland Geneva Mission from 2000 to 2003. A few years after his return from Switzerland, his work took him to Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates, where he was called to serve as the first Area Seventy in the Middle East.
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An Iditarod in Arizona
Summary: Four stakes in central Arizona hold a modified Iditarod at a winter campout in Flagstaff, where teams of young men pull sleds and compete at activity stations. The weekend includes setting up camp, a fireside from a local stake leader, the race on Saturday morning, and an awards ceremony. Participants describe the experience as challenging, rewarding, and unifying through teamwork.
So your first question is âWhatâs an Iditarod?â Well, itâs a famous sled-dog team race held each year in Alaska. Your next question is âAn Iditarod in sunny Arizona?â The answer to this question has more to it.
For the past six years the young men and Scouts from four different stakes in central Arizona have participated in a modified Iditarod race at their annual winter campout in Flagstaff, Arizona. Only instead of dog power, these sleds use Scout power. This past January, 375 young men were divided into teams of about 10. They pulled sleds over and through snow, mud, and dirt to the finish line. Each team built a sled equipped with both skis and wheels to handle any conditions. The course was two-and-a-quarter miles long with 10 activity stations along the way where Scouts competed in activities like archery, log sawing, and target ax throwing. The winning time along with the individual scores in the events determined the winner.
Friday night before the race, camp was set up, dinner prepared and eaten, and campers gathered around a campfire for a genuine fireside, where they heard an inspiring message from a member of the Peoria Arizona North Stake presidency. Saturday morning two teams at a time set out every 15 minutes to begin the race. An awards ceremony rounded out the day of fun and team building.
Brett Wood from the Sierra Verde Ward said, âThe Iditarod is so awesome. The race course competition challenges you mentally and physically. It teaches you teamwork. It is hard but rewarding.â
âWe really enjoyed the Iditarod,â added JC May from the winning Daisy Mountain Ward. âIt is a time for us to get to know each other and work as a team. Everyone pulled together and worked hard.â
For the past six years the young men and Scouts from four different stakes in central Arizona have participated in a modified Iditarod race at their annual winter campout in Flagstaff, Arizona. Only instead of dog power, these sleds use Scout power. This past January, 375 young men were divided into teams of about 10. They pulled sleds over and through snow, mud, and dirt to the finish line. Each team built a sled equipped with both skis and wheels to handle any conditions. The course was two-and-a-quarter miles long with 10 activity stations along the way where Scouts competed in activities like archery, log sawing, and target ax throwing. The winning time along with the individual scores in the events determined the winner.
Friday night before the race, camp was set up, dinner prepared and eaten, and campers gathered around a campfire for a genuine fireside, where they heard an inspiring message from a member of the Peoria Arizona North Stake presidency. Saturday morning two teams at a time set out every 15 minutes to begin the race. An awards ceremony rounded out the day of fun and team building.
Brett Wood from the Sierra Verde Ward said, âThe Iditarod is so awesome. The race course competition challenges you mentally and physically. It teaches you teamwork. It is hard but rewarding.â
âWe really enjoyed the Iditarod,â added JC May from the winning Daisy Mountain Ward. âIt is a time for us to get to know each other and work as a team. Everyone pulled together and worked hard.â
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Coloring the Boring Day Away
Summary: After moving to a new apartment, Clara feels bored until her little brother Ben starts coloring and decides to give his picture to a neighbor. Encouraged by their mom, they deliver drawings to several neighbors and meet other kids in the building. The kindness brightens the neighbors' day and turns Clara's boring day into a happy one. Mom teaches that serving others makes us and Heavenly Father happy.
Clara groaned. âThereâs nothing to do!â
There were lots of things she wanted to do. But she couldnât. She wanted to go swimming. But the pool was closed. She wanted to play with her toys. But they were packed away. She wanted to play with her friends. But her family had just moved. Now they lived in an apartment where they didnât know their neighbors.
âWhy donât you color a picture?â Mom asked.
âThatâs boring,â Clara said.
But her little brother, Ben, jumped up. âOK!â he said. He ran over to the table and found some crayons. He drew a tree and a yellow sun.
âI want to give this to our neighbor,â he said.
Clara frowned. âBut we donât know our neighbors.â
âThen letâs go meet them!â Mom said.
Ben and Mom walked out the front door. They knocked on the door across the hall. Clara watched from the doorway.
A woman answered. Ben handed her the picture. The woman smiled. âThank you,â she said.
Clara watched Ben walk back to the table with a big smile. Maybe coloring isnât so bad, she thought.
Clara sat by Ben. They both colored a picture. Clara drew a rocket ship and lots of stars.
They gave their pictures to two more neighbors. Then they colored more. They gave out pictures for the rest of the afternoon. Some people looked sad when they answered the door. But when they saw the picture, they smiled. Clara and Ben even met a few kids who lived in the apartment building.
When they were done, Clara grabbed Momâs hand. âThat was really fun.â
Mom smiled. âWhen we do a nice thing for someone, it makes them happy. It makes us happy too. And best of all, it makes Heavenly Father happy.â
âMaybe tomorrow we can ask the other kids to color with us,â Clara said.
âThat sounds like a great idea.â
Clara smiled. Coloring and sharing pictures had been fun. Her boring day had turned into a happy one!
This story took place in the USA.
There were lots of things she wanted to do. But she couldnât. She wanted to go swimming. But the pool was closed. She wanted to play with her toys. But they were packed away. She wanted to play with her friends. But her family had just moved. Now they lived in an apartment where they didnât know their neighbors.
âWhy donât you color a picture?â Mom asked.
âThatâs boring,â Clara said.
But her little brother, Ben, jumped up. âOK!â he said. He ran over to the table and found some crayons. He drew a tree and a yellow sun.
âI want to give this to our neighbor,â he said.
Clara frowned. âBut we donât know our neighbors.â
âThen letâs go meet them!â Mom said.
Ben and Mom walked out the front door. They knocked on the door across the hall. Clara watched from the doorway.
A woman answered. Ben handed her the picture. The woman smiled. âThank you,â she said.
Clara watched Ben walk back to the table with a big smile. Maybe coloring isnât so bad, she thought.
Clara sat by Ben. They both colored a picture. Clara drew a rocket ship and lots of stars.
They gave their pictures to two more neighbors. Then they colored more. They gave out pictures for the rest of the afternoon. Some people looked sad when they answered the door. But when they saw the picture, they smiled. Clara and Ben even met a few kids who lived in the apartment building.
When they were done, Clara grabbed Momâs hand. âThat was really fun.â
Mom smiled. âWhen we do a nice thing for someone, it makes them happy. It makes us happy too. And best of all, it makes Heavenly Father happy.â
âMaybe tomorrow we can ask the other kids to color with us,â Clara said.
âThat sounds like a great idea.â
Clara smiled. Coloring and sharing pictures had been fun. Her boring day had turned into a happy one!
This story took place in the USA.
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Walking in the Light of the Lord
Summary: Mary Fielding Smithâs life is presented as an example of faithful Relief Society womanhood marked by hardship, sacrifice, and reliance on the Lord. The story recounts her trials from Missouri to Nauvoo and westward, including the loss of her husband, caring for a large family, and praying for help when their oxen were stolen or exhausted. The conclusion emphasizes that her faith was simple, beautiful, and central to her life, and that she exemplified the faith of women in the Relief Society.
I pulled a book from my shelf the other evening. I read again the life of Mary Fielding Smith, wife of Hyrum Smith, sister-in-law of Joseph Smith, mother and grandmother of two presidents of the Church. A convert to the Church, originally from England and then from Canada, she came to Kirtland in her late 30s. There she met and married Hyrum Smith, who was left with six children after the death of his first wife.
Mary loved him and brought an added dimension into his life. In that process she set a course which brought her happiness only to be followed by immeasurable sorrow, for there was laid upon her a terrifying and fearful responsibility which took her from Nauvoo across Iowa to Winter Quarters and, in 1848, on the long trail that led to the Salt Lake Valley. At the age of 51 she was worn out, weary from the struggle. She passed away September 21, 1852.
Her life is the epitome of the Relief Society woman of those days. In fact, some of her experiences predated the organization of the society in 1842.
Maryâs boy Joseph was born at a time when her husband was snatched away by the mob militia then terrorizing Far West. Hyrum and the Prophet Joseph were taken to Liberty, Missouri, where they were imprisoned. Under the compulsion of Governor Lilburn W. Boggsâs extermination order, she left Missouri with the stepchildren for whom she had taken responsibility, as well as her own son. Her sister Mercy placed Mary, who was seriously ill, on a bed in a wagon box with her infant boy cradled at her side.
In February 1839, when winter was still upon the land, they traveled east across the state and then across the Mississippi to Quincy, Illinois, bumping along in a springless wagon where every jolt brought pain.
When her husband and the Prophet escaped from Liberty Jail and came to Quincy, life again improved. The Saints moved to what became Nauvoo and established their beautiful city on the Mississippi. But their peace was short-lived. Her little boy was less than six years old when a knock came at night on her window and a man said, âSister Smith, your husband has been killed!â
Joseph F. never forgot his motherâs weeping through the night.
Her world was shattered. She was on her own now with a large family to care for. In the summer of 1846, they bade their comfortable home good-bye and rode a flatboat across the Mississippi. Taking matters into her own hands, she was able to trade, borrow, and barter for ox teams and wagons.
While living in Winter Quarters, she and her brother went down the Missouri River to purchase provisions and clothing. They had two wagons, each having two yoke of oxen. Camping for the night, they discovered in the morning that their two best oxen were gone. Young Joseph and his uncle spent the entire morning looking for the lost animals. They found nothing. Disheartened, he returned to tell his mother. Their situation was desperate, terribly so. As he approached, he saw her on her knees praying fervently, speaking with the Lord about their problem. When she arose to her feet, there was a smile on her face. She told her son and her brother to get their breakfast and she would look around. Following a little stream of water, and disregarding the words of a man who was in the area, she went directly along the bank of the river.
Pausing, she called to her son and brother. She pointed to their oxen, which had been tied to a clump of willows growing in the bottom of a deep gulch. The thief, who had tried to misdirect her, lost his prize and they were saved.
Maryâs faith imprinted itself in her sonâs boyish heart. He never forgot it. He never doubted her closeness to the Lord.
All of you are familiar with her experience when one of her oxen, exhausted and worn, lay down to die while they were en route to these valleys in the West. In a mixture of utter desperation and simple faith, she secured consecrated oil and asked her brother and an associate to administer to the ox. They did so. It rose to its feet with a renewal of strength and carried them for the remainder of their long journey.
Such was the faith, sweet and simple and beautiful, which graced this womanâs life. She walked in the light of the Lord. She lived by that light. It guided her in all of her actions. It became the lodestar of her life. She exemplified the tremendous faith of the women of this Churchâthe women of the Relief Society, who today on a thousand fronts carry on the dedicated work of this remarkable organization.
Mary loved him and brought an added dimension into his life. In that process she set a course which brought her happiness only to be followed by immeasurable sorrow, for there was laid upon her a terrifying and fearful responsibility which took her from Nauvoo across Iowa to Winter Quarters and, in 1848, on the long trail that led to the Salt Lake Valley. At the age of 51 she was worn out, weary from the struggle. She passed away September 21, 1852.
Her life is the epitome of the Relief Society woman of those days. In fact, some of her experiences predated the organization of the society in 1842.
Maryâs boy Joseph was born at a time when her husband was snatched away by the mob militia then terrorizing Far West. Hyrum and the Prophet Joseph were taken to Liberty, Missouri, where they were imprisoned. Under the compulsion of Governor Lilburn W. Boggsâs extermination order, she left Missouri with the stepchildren for whom she had taken responsibility, as well as her own son. Her sister Mercy placed Mary, who was seriously ill, on a bed in a wagon box with her infant boy cradled at her side.
In February 1839, when winter was still upon the land, they traveled east across the state and then across the Mississippi to Quincy, Illinois, bumping along in a springless wagon where every jolt brought pain.
When her husband and the Prophet escaped from Liberty Jail and came to Quincy, life again improved. The Saints moved to what became Nauvoo and established their beautiful city on the Mississippi. But their peace was short-lived. Her little boy was less than six years old when a knock came at night on her window and a man said, âSister Smith, your husband has been killed!â
Joseph F. never forgot his motherâs weeping through the night.
Her world was shattered. She was on her own now with a large family to care for. In the summer of 1846, they bade their comfortable home good-bye and rode a flatboat across the Mississippi. Taking matters into her own hands, she was able to trade, borrow, and barter for ox teams and wagons.
While living in Winter Quarters, she and her brother went down the Missouri River to purchase provisions and clothing. They had two wagons, each having two yoke of oxen. Camping for the night, they discovered in the morning that their two best oxen were gone. Young Joseph and his uncle spent the entire morning looking for the lost animals. They found nothing. Disheartened, he returned to tell his mother. Their situation was desperate, terribly so. As he approached, he saw her on her knees praying fervently, speaking with the Lord about their problem. When she arose to her feet, there was a smile on her face. She told her son and her brother to get their breakfast and she would look around. Following a little stream of water, and disregarding the words of a man who was in the area, she went directly along the bank of the river.
Pausing, she called to her son and brother. She pointed to their oxen, which had been tied to a clump of willows growing in the bottom of a deep gulch. The thief, who had tried to misdirect her, lost his prize and they were saved.
Maryâs faith imprinted itself in her sonâs boyish heart. He never forgot it. He never doubted her closeness to the Lord.
All of you are familiar with her experience when one of her oxen, exhausted and worn, lay down to die while they were en route to these valleys in the West. In a mixture of utter desperation and simple faith, she secured consecrated oil and asked her brother and an associate to administer to the ox. They did so. It rose to its feet with a renewal of strength and carried them for the remainder of their long journey.
Such was the faith, sweet and simple and beautiful, which graced this womanâs life. She walked in the light of the Lord. She lived by that light. It guided her in all of her actions. It became the lodestar of her life. She exemplified the tremendous faith of the women of this Churchâthe women of the Relief Society, who today on a thousand fronts carry on the dedicated work of this remarkable organization.
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The Pearl of Great Price
Summary: While serving as a mission president in Rochester, the speaker received a call from a Catholic committee chairman asking why Latter-day Saint young adults were so active. As he considered what to share, he concluded there was no single program responsible, but rather the whole pattern of gospel life from family to Church service. He finally told the caller that to achieve the same result, they would need to adopt Mormonism in its entirety, and they parted amicably.
About ten years ago my wife and I and four of our eight children had the privilege of serving a mission together in Rochester, New York. The New York Rochester Mission covers the area where the Church was restored and includes the Sacred Grove, the Hill Cumorah, the Smith Home and Farm, and the restored Whitmer Family Cabin in Fayette where the Church was organized in 1830. It was a great place to serve and we used to tell our missionaries, âYour mission is the mission all other missions testify of!â Sounds a bit prideful, doesnât it?
One day, about a year into our mission, a caller telephoned the mission office asking to speak to the mission president. I came on the line and a pleasant-sounding gentleman asked if I was the mission president for the Church in the Rochester area. When I said I was, he introduced himself and said he was calling as the chairman of a committee established by the Catholic Diocese in Rochester to study and make recommendations concerning how young adult Catholics could be strengthened in their faith and church activity. He said his committee had begun its work and had discovered that by far the most religiously active young adults in the Rochester area were the Latter-day Saints. He asked if I would appear before his committee and share our Churchâs program for young adults.
Now, you can imagine what a request like this does to the pulse rate of any red-blooded mission president! I immediately had visions of converting the members of that committee and then advancing with our missionary army on the entire membership of the Rochester Diocese! Keeping my composure and trying not to sound overly eager, I said I would do my best to help, but wanted to think for a day or two about what I might profitably share with his committee. Over the next few days, as I thought about what it is that produces committed, active young single adults in the Church, I realized there wasnât a single program or handbook I might share to help our good Catholic neighbors with their challenge.
In fact, as I thought about it, I realized that the climate for the spiritual growth of a person born into this Church often begins even before birth when a loving mother and father are preparing for the arrival of a new baby. The anticipation parents feel, the preparations they make, and the prayers they offer for the healthy development and birth of a new baby help set the stage for what will follow. Even the circumstances of a babyâs birthâbeing received and instantly loved by grateful parents and often by adoring siblings and grandparentsâmust send vitally important messages to a new babyâs soul.
But thatâs just the beginning. Think about those initial days and nights when a new baby is cuddled, rocked, fed, sung to and doted over. And, based on our own experience with our eight children, every day at least a prayer or two for each child goes heavenward. Additional patterns of gospel living begin to establish themselves as the child grows. The young child first observes and then gradually begins to participate in family prayers and home evenings. Exasperated parents may feel that on any given Monday evening they may have done more harm than good, but even our family is evidence that the cumulative effect of 18 or 19 years of fairly ordinary family home evenings can work wonders. At some point family scripture study plays a role. And, even if a family specializes in only the first part of the Book of Mormonâas ours hasâthere is much to be gained.
By the time a child is 18 months old, he or she qualifies to attend the nursery during Primary time. This is a big step for the child and a big relief for the parents! Here a child feels the love and influence of teachers outside its family, has opportunity to socialize with other children, and broadens its knowledge of gospel teachings, often through music. In all the world is there anything more stirring to oneâs soul than to watch and listen to young boys and girls singing âI am a Child of God?â I think not, especially if they are oneâs own.
At age three a young member of our Church begins to attend Primary, attaining at long last the elevated status of a Sunbeam. I know it may seem peculiar, but even in my advanced years I can still remember the innocent joy and spiritual stirrings I felt as a young child in what was then called Jr. Sunday School, enthusiastically singing with my peers, âJesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam!â A child progresses from a Sunbeam to several years of âChoosing the Right,â then to being a Valiant and all too soon that special rite of passageâgraduation from Primaryâoccurs.
What an exciting moment it is at age 12 when a child becomes a Young Woman or Young Man. The Personal Progress and Duty to God Programs give direction and spiritual substance to impressionable minds and hearts. Just think of the wonder of a 12-year-old boy being entrusted with a portion of Godâs authority, the Aaronic Priesthood. During those important, formative years from 12 to 18 every young man and young woman has numerous opportunities to speak, teach, lead, sing, dance, play, serve, socialize, be taught, and even perform baptisms for the dead in holy temples. In addition, four solid years of scripture study begin at age 14 in the seminary programs of the Church. Usually, in the late teens, young people develop a desire to receive their patriarchal blessings. What a thrill it is to have a patriarch bless us in Godâs name and share through inspiration the direction our life may take if we faithfully choose Godâs ways.
Although I have described it only partially, this rich and well-defined path that children and youth walk at home and in Church is inspired and designed to prepare our young men for the oath and covenant of the Melchizedek Priesthood and both young men and women for the higher ordinances of the temple, including eternal marriage. At 19 for young men and 21 for young women, the possibility exists to serve a full-time mission. Can we even begin to measure what it means in terms of spiritual growth for those involved and for the Church generally to have nearly 30,000 honorably-released missionaries returning home each year from missions? I believe there is nothing quite like it in all the world.
I could go on, but suffice it to say, after a few days I called my Catholic friend back and said: âI have something I can share with your committee, but I doubt you will want it.â
âWhat do you mean?â he asked.
âWell,â I said, âUpon reflection, I have concluded that in order to have the faithful, active young people youâre seeking, youâll need to adopt Mormonism in its entirety.â He chuckled and said, âThat isnât quite what I had in mind.â I told him I assumed that would be the case and we amiably agreed to part company.
One day, about a year into our mission, a caller telephoned the mission office asking to speak to the mission president. I came on the line and a pleasant-sounding gentleman asked if I was the mission president for the Church in the Rochester area. When I said I was, he introduced himself and said he was calling as the chairman of a committee established by the Catholic Diocese in Rochester to study and make recommendations concerning how young adult Catholics could be strengthened in their faith and church activity. He said his committee had begun its work and had discovered that by far the most religiously active young adults in the Rochester area were the Latter-day Saints. He asked if I would appear before his committee and share our Churchâs program for young adults.
Now, you can imagine what a request like this does to the pulse rate of any red-blooded mission president! I immediately had visions of converting the members of that committee and then advancing with our missionary army on the entire membership of the Rochester Diocese! Keeping my composure and trying not to sound overly eager, I said I would do my best to help, but wanted to think for a day or two about what I might profitably share with his committee. Over the next few days, as I thought about what it is that produces committed, active young single adults in the Church, I realized there wasnât a single program or handbook I might share to help our good Catholic neighbors with their challenge.
In fact, as I thought about it, I realized that the climate for the spiritual growth of a person born into this Church often begins even before birth when a loving mother and father are preparing for the arrival of a new baby. The anticipation parents feel, the preparations they make, and the prayers they offer for the healthy development and birth of a new baby help set the stage for what will follow. Even the circumstances of a babyâs birthâbeing received and instantly loved by grateful parents and often by adoring siblings and grandparentsâmust send vitally important messages to a new babyâs soul.
But thatâs just the beginning. Think about those initial days and nights when a new baby is cuddled, rocked, fed, sung to and doted over. And, based on our own experience with our eight children, every day at least a prayer or two for each child goes heavenward. Additional patterns of gospel living begin to establish themselves as the child grows. The young child first observes and then gradually begins to participate in family prayers and home evenings. Exasperated parents may feel that on any given Monday evening they may have done more harm than good, but even our family is evidence that the cumulative effect of 18 or 19 years of fairly ordinary family home evenings can work wonders. At some point family scripture study plays a role. And, even if a family specializes in only the first part of the Book of Mormonâas ours hasâthere is much to be gained.
By the time a child is 18 months old, he or she qualifies to attend the nursery during Primary time. This is a big step for the child and a big relief for the parents! Here a child feels the love and influence of teachers outside its family, has opportunity to socialize with other children, and broadens its knowledge of gospel teachings, often through music. In all the world is there anything more stirring to oneâs soul than to watch and listen to young boys and girls singing âI am a Child of God?â I think not, especially if they are oneâs own.
At age three a young member of our Church begins to attend Primary, attaining at long last the elevated status of a Sunbeam. I know it may seem peculiar, but even in my advanced years I can still remember the innocent joy and spiritual stirrings I felt as a young child in what was then called Jr. Sunday School, enthusiastically singing with my peers, âJesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam!â A child progresses from a Sunbeam to several years of âChoosing the Right,â then to being a Valiant and all too soon that special rite of passageâgraduation from Primaryâoccurs.
What an exciting moment it is at age 12 when a child becomes a Young Woman or Young Man. The Personal Progress and Duty to God Programs give direction and spiritual substance to impressionable minds and hearts. Just think of the wonder of a 12-year-old boy being entrusted with a portion of Godâs authority, the Aaronic Priesthood. During those important, formative years from 12 to 18 every young man and young woman has numerous opportunities to speak, teach, lead, sing, dance, play, serve, socialize, be taught, and even perform baptisms for the dead in holy temples. In addition, four solid years of scripture study begin at age 14 in the seminary programs of the Church. Usually, in the late teens, young people develop a desire to receive their patriarchal blessings. What a thrill it is to have a patriarch bless us in Godâs name and share through inspiration the direction our life may take if we faithfully choose Godâs ways.
Although I have described it only partially, this rich and well-defined path that children and youth walk at home and in Church is inspired and designed to prepare our young men for the oath and covenant of the Melchizedek Priesthood and both young men and women for the higher ordinances of the temple, including eternal marriage. At 19 for young men and 21 for young women, the possibility exists to serve a full-time mission. Can we even begin to measure what it means in terms of spiritual growth for those involved and for the Church generally to have nearly 30,000 honorably-released missionaries returning home each year from missions? I believe there is nothing quite like it in all the world.
I could go on, but suffice it to say, after a few days I called my Catholic friend back and said: âI have something I can share with your committee, but I doubt you will want it.â
âWhat do you mean?â he asked.
âWell,â I said, âUpon reflection, I have concluded that in order to have the faithful, active young people youâre seeking, youâll need to adopt Mormonism in its entirety.â He chuckled and said, âThat isnât quite what I had in mind.â I told him I assumed that would be the case and we amiably agreed to part company.
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Summary: A mother received the April 1997 Dutch De Ster and was moved by a cover image of Jesus with a little girl. The image stayed with her all day, deepening her love for her children and her trust in the Lord. During evening prayer, she briefly felt as if the Saviorâs arms were around her and felt inner peace.
Some time ago, I received a copy of the April 1997 De Ster (Dutch). As usual, I took a break from my daily chores to start reading this magazine. The cover of the childrenâs section caught my eye. It portrayed Jesus Christ with a little girl. Although Iâm a grown woman and the mother of two children, I desired at that moment to be that little girlâsafe in the Saviorâs arms.
I couldnât get that picture out of my mind the entire day. I wanted to put my arms around my own children and let them know I love them. I felt good knowing that they trust me, but it was even better knowing that they trust the Lord.
As I prayed at the close of the day, for a brief moment I felt as if His arms were indeed around me. Inside I felt at peace.
Annelies Prent-Pellis,Dordrecht Branch, Rotterdam Netherlands Stake
I couldnât get that picture out of my mind the entire day. I wanted to put my arms around my own children and let them know I love them. I felt good knowing that they trust me, but it was even better knowing that they trust the Lord.
As I prayed at the close of the day, for a brief moment I felt as if His arms were indeed around me. Inside I felt at peace.
Annelies Prent-Pellis,Dordrecht Branch, Rotterdam Netherlands Stake
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President Marion G. Romney:
Summary: Marion Romney and Ida Jensen married after years of schooling and a mission, and despite limited money they maintained a joyful, faith-filled courtship throughout their marriage. Their family life included sorrow over the loss of two children, but they found comfort in scripture, family home evenings, and trust in the Lordâs will. The passage concludes by showing how their faith and love shaped their children, grandchildren, and President Romneyâs counsel about prayer and submission to Godâs will.
Ida Jensen walked into Marion Romneyâs life when his father hired her to teach at Ricks Academy. She didnât see Marion that first day she went to the Romney homeâhe was sitting in another room, sick with the flu. But he certainly noticed her: âI saw her with her golden hair and her smiling face. I have never seen any girl since that time that I cared about.â (Church News, 15 Dec. 1973, p. 5.) They were married six years laterâon 12 September 1924 in the Salt Lake Templeâafter his mission and more schooling for both of them. She was the valedictorian of her graduating class at BYU.
âMy wife has been a support and guidance all through my life,â President Romney said before her death, âand when I have been discouraged, she has made me feel that she had the confidence that I could succeed, and so I have kept going.â (Church News, 15 July 1972, p. 7.)
Although money was scarce during those first years of marriage, they continued their courtship, frequently spending the evening at the Salt Lake Theater. Sometimes, however, they couldnât afford to buy two tickets together, and they seldom had money for bus fare.
âWe laugh a lot together,â Sister Romney said in 1975. âHeâs my dessert in life.â (New Era, June 1975, p. 19.)
The Romneysâ courtship lasted throughout their fifty-five years of marriage. A few days after her death in 1979, he said: âWhen Ida died, something went out of me.â At the graveside service, he told Elder James E. Faust: âBe good to your wife. Take her with you everywhere you can.â (Tambuli, June 1973.)
As a young couple, Marion and Ida had endured great heartache. Their first two children died in infancy. But faith softened their sorrowâand a promise, given in a blessing when Marion became a General Authority, gave them reassurance: âBlessed are you because of your faith in my work. Behold, you have had many afflictions ⌠nevertheless I will bless you and your family, yea, your little ones, and the day cometh that they will believe and know the truth and be one with you in the Church.â (As quoted in Ensign, Nov. 1972, p. 27.)
They were blessed with two other sons, Richard J. now of Winters, California, and George J. of Salt Lake City, and they have eight grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Georgeâs wife, Joanne, speaks of her father-in-law as âa kind and loving man who always treats me like a daughter.â
Sister Romney tells of the fun times they have had together. For years President Romney would put on a Santa Claus beard every Christmas and hand out presents. And since Ida didnât want Christmas to end, they always had the grandchildren come back on New Yearâs Day for more presents. Each year they would rig up a âfishpondâ where the children would pull strings and find prizes tied to the end. Grandpa Romney, on his hands and knees, did the tying.
The Romneys shared their love of the scriptures with their boys. On one occasion, when Elder Romney and one of his young sons were reading alternate verses in the Book of Mormon, he heard the childâs voice breaking and assumed he had a cold. After a while the boy asked his dad if he ever cried when he read the Book of Mormon.
âYes, Son,â he answered. âSometimes the Spirit of the Lord so witnesses to my soul that the Book of Mormon is true that I do cry.â
âWell,â the boy said, âthat is what happened to me tonight.â
âI know not all of [your children] will respond like that,â he later said in general conference, âbut I know that some of them will, and I tell you this book was given to us of God to read and to live by, and it will hold us as close to the Spirit of the Lord as anything I know. Wonât you please read it?â (In Conference Report, Apr. 1949, p. 41.)
Over the years, Brother and Sister Romney often had family home evening with their son George and his family, who lived only a few doors away. âWeâd read scriptures together,â says Joanne. âYou always learned something when you were in his presence and having a gospel discussion.â
Indeed, President Romney had much to share with his family and with the Church because of his own struggles to know and trust the Lordâs will. âDuring the early years of our married life,â he once said, âmy wife and I intensely desired what we considered to be a particular blessing. We set about through fasting and prayer to obtain it. ⌠But though we fasted often and prayed fervently, the years rolled by without bringing us the desired answer to our prayers. Finally, we concluded that we had not fully understood somehowâthat we were concentrating our faith and prayers upon receiving the particular thing, which by predetermination we had set our hearts upon. ⌠We had to learn to be as earnest in praying âif it be Thy will,â as we were when presenting our personal desires and appeals. We have no need to fear that our well-being will not be served by such an attitude.â (Address delivered at Salt Lake Institute of Religion, 18 Oct. 1974, pp. 8â9.)
âMy wife has been a support and guidance all through my life,â President Romney said before her death, âand when I have been discouraged, she has made me feel that she had the confidence that I could succeed, and so I have kept going.â (Church News, 15 July 1972, p. 7.)
Although money was scarce during those first years of marriage, they continued their courtship, frequently spending the evening at the Salt Lake Theater. Sometimes, however, they couldnât afford to buy two tickets together, and they seldom had money for bus fare.
âWe laugh a lot together,â Sister Romney said in 1975. âHeâs my dessert in life.â (New Era, June 1975, p. 19.)
The Romneysâ courtship lasted throughout their fifty-five years of marriage. A few days after her death in 1979, he said: âWhen Ida died, something went out of me.â At the graveside service, he told Elder James E. Faust: âBe good to your wife. Take her with you everywhere you can.â (Tambuli, June 1973.)
As a young couple, Marion and Ida had endured great heartache. Their first two children died in infancy. But faith softened their sorrowâand a promise, given in a blessing when Marion became a General Authority, gave them reassurance: âBlessed are you because of your faith in my work. Behold, you have had many afflictions ⌠nevertheless I will bless you and your family, yea, your little ones, and the day cometh that they will believe and know the truth and be one with you in the Church.â (As quoted in Ensign, Nov. 1972, p. 27.)
They were blessed with two other sons, Richard J. now of Winters, California, and George J. of Salt Lake City, and they have eight grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Georgeâs wife, Joanne, speaks of her father-in-law as âa kind and loving man who always treats me like a daughter.â
Sister Romney tells of the fun times they have had together. For years President Romney would put on a Santa Claus beard every Christmas and hand out presents. And since Ida didnât want Christmas to end, they always had the grandchildren come back on New Yearâs Day for more presents. Each year they would rig up a âfishpondâ where the children would pull strings and find prizes tied to the end. Grandpa Romney, on his hands and knees, did the tying.
The Romneys shared their love of the scriptures with their boys. On one occasion, when Elder Romney and one of his young sons were reading alternate verses in the Book of Mormon, he heard the childâs voice breaking and assumed he had a cold. After a while the boy asked his dad if he ever cried when he read the Book of Mormon.
âYes, Son,â he answered. âSometimes the Spirit of the Lord so witnesses to my soul that the Book of Mormon is true that I do cry.â
âWell,â the boy said, âthat is what happened to me tonight.â
âI know not all of [your children] will respond like that,â he later said in general conference, âbut I know that some of them will, and I tell you this book was given to us of God to read and to live by, and it will hold us as close to the Spirit of the Lord as anything I know. Wonât you please read it?â (In Conference Report, Apr. 1949, p. 41.)
Over the years, Brother and Sister Romney often had family home evening with their son George and his family, who lived only a few doors away. âWeâd read scriptures together,â says Joanne. âYou always learned something when you were in his presence and having a gospel discussion.â
Indeed, President Romney had much to share with his family and with the Church because of his own struggles to know and trust the Lordâs will. âDuring the early years of our married life,â he once said, âmy wife and I intensely desired what we considered to be a particular blessing. We set about through fasting and prayer to obtain it. ⌠But though we fasted often and prayed fervently, the years rolled by without bringing us the desired answer to our prayers. Finally, we concluded that we had not fully understood somehowâthat we were concentrating our faith and prayers upon receiving the particular thing, which by predetermination we had set our hearts upon. ⌠We had to learn to be as earnest in praying âif it be Thy will,â as we were when presenting our personal desires and appeals. We have no need to fear that our well-being will not be served by such an attitude.â (Address delivered at Salt Lake Institute of Religion, 18 Oct. 1974, pp. 8â9.)
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Summary: The speaker describes how a violent event in New York led him to move to Hawaii, where school, religion classes, missionaries, and friends gradually exposed him to the gospel. Though he resisted joining the Church for some time, fasting and prayer brought him a spiritual witness. After one more period of hesitation, he prayed again, met missionaries, and was baptized in 1986.
I grew up in the Queens borough of New York City. New York City is a wonderful place that is full of excitement and entertainment. As a youth I was heavily involved with rap music, and my brother and I belonged to a rap group called CBS. No, it was not the television station. The acronym CBS stood for Canât Be Stopped. We thought the name was cool.
We traveled throughout the city performing at wedding receptions, high school dances, and block parties. During the summer months different rap groups would visit the neighborhood park to perform free concerts. Most of the youth involved with rap visited the parks to listen and, at times, compete with the other rap groups. Often, however, these free concerts attracted drug deals and promoted random violence.
It was during the summer of my 14th year that a random violent event occurredâwhich I will not go intoâthat provided me an opportunity to leave New York City and changed the course of my life forever.
During that time I was fortunate that my mother decided to send the family money and invited all of the children to come live with her in Hawaii. The money came at the right time, and that week I purchased a one-way ticket to Hawaii.
When I arrived in Hawaii, I quickly recognized its many differences from New York Cityâthe oceanâs clear blue water and the fresh cool breeze at night. I also recognized the many different nationalities and cultures. After my first day of attending Mililani High School, I came home and told my mother that it had felt like I was representing Africa at a United Nations meeting.
During the first few weeks of high school, the basketball coach noticed that I was one of the tallest young men on campus, and he invited me to try out for the basketball team. While living in New York I had not played much basketball. I enjoyed baseball and was on the bowling team, but I had never played on a basketball team. I believe it was because of my height that I started on the varsity team as a sophomore.
We won three basketball games that year, and everyone in the community was excited because it was three more games than the team had won the year before. In my junior year we won six games, and by the time I was a senior we had won 14 games and we became the Western Division champions, which advanced us to the Hawaii state play-offs. Because of my successful senior year, I was recruited to play basketball for BYUâHawaii. All I knew about BYUâHawaii was that it was a church school similar to Notre Dame or a St. Maryâs University.
At the start of the fall semester I was instructed by my academic advisor that I needed to take several religion courses to graduate from BYUâHawaii. For my first semester I decided to take a New Testament course, and for the first time I began to understand in part the importance of a Savior. While living in New York I had been a converted Muslim. The Islamic faith regards Jesus Christ as a great man or prophet, similar to Moses or Abraham. I had not realized the importance of Jesus Christ and His atoning sacrifice until I read about His life in the Gospel of Luke. I studied how the Savior healed the sick, raised the dead, and made the blind to see and the deaf to hear.
As the fall semester progressed, I was introduced to the missionaries. They visited my dorm room on a regular basis. I remember playing my rap music on my boom box, and I would ask the missionaries if they wanted me to turn the music down. For a long time I thought my music was the reason the missionaries came by my dorm room so often. It was not until I served my own mission that I learned that missionaries are not allowed to listen to music.
After about a week of daily visits, the missionaries asked if I wanted to take the missionary discussions. My first discussion with them was in the library on the BYUâHawaii campus, and they showed me the video The First Vision. The movie talked about Joseph Smith and how at the age of 14 he felt confused about the many different religions. He wanted to learn the truth and to understand Heavenly Fatherâs plan more fully. Young Joseph searched the scriptures and read in James 1:5 that âif any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God.â This scripture touched young Joseph, and he decided to exercise his faith and to ask God to direct him to the truth (see JSâH 1:9â13).
As I watched this video, I felt in my heart it was true. Joseph Smith exercised faith, trusted in the Lord, and received the answer to his prayer.
The missionaries continued to teach me the remainder of the fall semester. It was fun and I learned a lot, but I had no desire to join the Church.
The next semester I again met with my college advisor and was again instructed to take a religion course. I decided to take the Book of Mormon course. I had no doubt about the possibility of additional scriptures because as a Muslim I had studied the Holy Koran.
My Book of Mormon instructor was Brother Gary Smith of the School of Business.
It was near the end of winter semester. I completed my finals and was preparing to return home to the other side of the island. My scholarship did not cover the spring term, and I was prepared to work for the spring and summer to save some money for the fall semester. On the day I was prepared to leave campus, I received a note in my mailbox from Brother Gary Smith, my Book of Mormon teacher. He wanted to see me. I returned to my dorm room, where I received another note stating Brother Gary Smith wanted to see me. I thought to myself, âWhy would he want to see me? Will Brother Smith give me an F grade for religion? No one ever fails religion.â
I dropped by his office, and the secretary mentioned that Brother Smith was at the Seasider, a mini-cafĂŠ on campus. I found him, and, as we talked, Brother Smith proceeded to tell me how I knew the Church was true and that it was time for me to join the Church. I looked at him amazed, and I wondered what he had been drinking.
He continued and said, âFrom what Iâm about to tell you, either one of two things will happen. You will join the Church right away or it will take you awhile.â He quoted a scripture in Ether that states:
And now, I, Moroni, would speak somewhat concerning these things; I would show unto the world that faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith. [Ether 12:6]
I thought, âWhat does this scripture have to do with me?â
Brother Smith explained that he believed I was waiting for some type of miracle or vision to take place before I would join the Church. He said, âYou need to act upon what you already know to be true before you will receive a greater witness. âWherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial [or exercise] of your faith.ââ
Brother Smith was right. I thought, âWhy canât I receive a vision like the Prophet Joseph Smith?â I wanted a greater witness. Well, it took me awhile to join the Church.
I returned to the other side of the island and started to hang out with my friends. Toward the end of the summer I began to feel somewhat empty, confused, and uncertain. I was missing school and the wonderful feelings I had felt at BYUâHawaii. I knew something was wrong because I could not wait to return to school.
Two weeks before school was to begin, I received a phone call from Coach Ken Wagner. Coach Wagner was the assistant coach at BYUâHawaii, and during that summer he had received the head coaching job at Dixie College in St. George, Utah.
He asked if I wanted to play for him at Dixie College. I said yes. That first year I did not play basketball; I redshirted. This gave me the time to watch the Mormons.
As I noticed these types of Mormons, I thought, âPeter, what type of Mormon do you want to be?â I wanted to be just like Rick West, my first roommate at BYUâHawaii and a returned missionary; Bob Barnes, a teammate at Dixie College and a great friend; and Coach Wagner, who had helped me to understand the importance of family. They had the glow.
I thought, âIf I am going to be a Mormon, I must learn how they date.â So I enrolled in an institute class called Dating and Courtship. And I guess the other 28 male students in the class thought the same as I did.
Soon afterward, a good friend, Trudy Smith, began to take the missionary discussions. She invited me to attend with her. This time the sister missionaries taught me about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. As you know, sister missionaries teach the gospel differently than do the elders. After each discussion they would cry as they shared their testimonies, and they wanted so much to hug me but realized that it was against mission rules. Toward the end of the discussions they asked me to do something the elders had not. They asked me to fast and to pray about the truthfulness of the gospel. I was familiar with fasting. As a Muslim, we fasted during the month of Ramadan, a sacred time for worship.
I fasted, and when I was done, I returned to my dorm room at Dixie College, knelt down on my knees, and simply asked, âHeavenly Father, is the Book of Mormon the word of God? And is Joseph Smith a prophet?â
No, I did not receive a vision or a visit from an angel. I felt warmth in my heart, a feeling I had felt many times beforeâa feeling I had felt when I attended BYUâHawaii and took Brother Smithâs Book of Mormon class. It was the same feeling I had felt when I saw the movie about Joseph Smith. This time, however, the feeling of warmth came when I was by myself, and I knew it came from God. He answered my prayer. I had a testimony.
I told the missionaries that I wanted to be baptized, but first I wanted to return to Hawaii so my mother could witness my joining the Church. I thought that as soon as I got off the plane I would find the missionaries and join the Church. Well, that did not happen. I started to hang out with my old friends, and I returned to my old habits. Toward the end of the summer the old feelings of uncertainty and confusion returned.
In August 1986 I was at home in my room, and I decided to read the Bible. I read in John, âIf ye love me, keep my commandmentsâ (John 14:15). I knew I loved my mother; she is a source of strength in my life. I knew I loved my family, but did I love God?
I knelt down to pray and told my Heavenly Father for the first time that I loved Him. Later that day I was on my way to the gym to play basketball when I noticed two missionaries riding their bikes. I almost ran them over! They pulled to the side of the road, and I asked them to come by my home that night. They thought it was a miracle. The next week I was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
We traveled throughout the city performing at wedding receptions, high school dances, and block parties. During the summer months different rap groups would visit the neighborhood park to perform free concerts. Most of the youth involved with rap visited the parks to listen and, at times, compete with the other rap groups. Often, however, these free concerts attracted drug deals and promoted random violence.
It was during the summer of my 14th year that a random violent event occurredâwhich I will not go intoâthat provided me an opportunity to leave New York City and changed the course of my life forever.
During that time I was fortunate that my mother decided to send the family money and invited all of the children to come live with her in Hawaii. The money came at the right time, and that week I purchased a one-way ticket to Hawaii.
When I arrived in Hawaii, I quickly recognized its many differences from New York Cityâthe oceanâs clear blue water and the fresh cool breeze at night. I also recognized the many different nationalities and cultures. After my first day of attending Mililani High School, I came home and told my mother that it had felt like I was representing Africa at a United Nations meeting.
During the first few weeks of high school, the basketball coach noticed that I was one of the tallest young men on campus, and he invited me to try out for the basketball team. While living in New York I had not played much basketball. I enjoyed baseball and was on the bowling team, but I had never played on a basketball team. I believe it was because of my height that I started on the varsity team as a sophomore.
We won three basketball games that year, and everyone in the community was excited because it was three more games than the team had won the year before. In my junior year we won six games, and by the time I was a senior we had won 14 games and we became the Western Division champions, which advanced us to the Hawaii state play-offs. Because of my successful senior year, I was recruited to play basketball for BYUâHawaii. All I knew about BYUâHawaii was that it was a church school similar to Notre Dame or a St. Maryâs University.
At the start of the fall semester I was instructed by my academic advisor that I needed to take several religion courses to graduate from BYUâHawaii. For my first semester I decided to take a New Testament course, and for the first time I began to understand in part the importance of a Savior. While living in New York I had been a converted Muslim. The Islamic faith regards Jesus Christ as a great man or prophet, similar to Moses or Abraham. I had not realized the importance of Jesus Christ and His atoning sacrifice until I read about His life in the Gospel of Luke. I studied how the Savior healed the sick, raised the dead, and made the blind to see and the deaf to hear.
As the fall semester progressed, I was introduced to the missionaries. They visited my dorm room on a regular basis. I remember playing my rap music on my boom box, and I would ask the missionaries if they wanted me to turn the music down. For a long time I thought my music was the reason the missionaries came by my dorm room so often. It was not until I served my own mission that I learned that missionaries are not allowed to listen to music.
After about a week of daily visits, the missionaries asked if I wanted to take the missionary discussions. My first discussion with them was in the library on the BYUâHawaii campus, and they showed me the video The First Vision. The movie talked about Joseph Smith and how at the age of 14 he felt confused about the many different religions. He wanted to learn the truth and to understand Heavenly Fatherâs plan more fully. Young Joseph searched the scriptures and read in James 1:5 that âif any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God.â This scripture touched young Joseph, and he decided to exercise his faith and to ask God to direct him to the truth (see JSâH 1:9â13).
As I watched this video, I felt in my heart it was true. Joseph Smith exercised faith, trusted in the Lord, and received the answer to his prayer.
The missionaries continued to teach me the remainder of the fall semester. It was fun and I learned a lot, but I had no desire to join the Church.
The next semester I again met with my college advisor and was again instructed to take a religion course. I decided to take the Book of Mormon course. I had no doubt about the possibility of additional scriptures because as a Muslim I had studied the Holy Koran.
My Book of Mormon instructor was Brother Gary Smith of the School of Business.
It was near the end of winter semester. I completed my finals and was preparing to return home to the other side of the island. My scholarship did not cover the spring term, and I was prepared to work for the spring and summer to save some money for the fall semester. On the day I was prepared to leave campus, I received a note in my mailbox from Brother Gary Smith, my Book of Mormon teacher. He wanted to see me. I returned to my dorm room, where I received another note stating Brother Gary Smith wanted to see me. I thought to myself, âWhy would he want to see me? Will Brother Smith give me an F grade for religion? No one ever fails religion.â
I dropped by his office, and the secretary mentioned that Brother Smith was at the Seasider, a mini-cafĂŠ on campus. I found him, and, as we talked, Brother Smith proceeded to tell me how I knew the Church was true and that it was time for me to join the Church. I looked at him amazed, and I wondered what he had been drinking.
He continued and said, âFrom what Iâm about to tell you, either one of two things will happen. You will join the Church right away or it will take you awhile.â He quoted a scripture in Ether that states:
And now, I, Moroni, would speak somewhat concerning these things; I would show unto the world that faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith. [Ether 12:6]
I thought, âWhat does this scripture have to do with me?â
Brother Smith explained that he believed I was waiting for some type of miracle or vision to take place before I would join the Church. He said, âYou need to act upon what you already know to be true before you will receive a greater witness. âWherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial [or exercise] of your faith.ââ
Brother Smith was right. I thought, âWhy canât I receive a vision like the Prophet Joseph Smith?â I wanted a greater witness. Well, it took me awhile to join the Church.
I returned to the other side of the island and started to hang out with my friends. Toward the end of the summer I began to feel somewhat empty, confused, and uncertain. I was missing school and the wonderful feelings I had felt at BYUâHawaii. I knew something was wrong because I could not wait to return to school.
Two weeks before school was to begin, I received a phone call from Coach Ken Wagner. Coach Wagner was the assistant coach at BYUâHawaii, and during that summer he had received the head coaching job at Dixie College in St. George, Utah.
He asked if I wanted to play for him at Dixie College. I said yes. That first year I did not play basketball; I redshirted. This gave me the time to watch the Mormons.
As I noticed these types of Mormons, I thought, âPeter, what type of Mormon do you want to be?â I wanted to be just like Rick West, my first roommate at BYUâHawaii and a returned missionary; Bob Barnes, a teammate at Dixie College and a great friend; and Coach Wagner, who had helped me to understand the importance of family. They had the glow.
I thought, âIf I am going to be a Mormon, I must learn how they date.â So I enrolled in an institute class called Dating and Courtship. And I guess the other 28 male students in the class thought the same as I did.
Soon afterward, a good friend, Trudy Smith, began to take the missionary discussions. She invited me to attend with her. This time the sister missionaries taught me about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. As you know, sister missionaries teach the gospel differently than do the elders. After each discussion they would cry as they shared their testimonies, and they wanted so much to hug me but realized that it was against mission rules. Toward the end of the discussions they asked me to do something the elders had not. They asked me to fast and to pray about the truthfulness of the gospel. I was familiar with fasting. As a Muslim, we fasted during the month of Ramadan, a sacred time for worship.
I fasted, and when I was done, I returned to my dorm room at Dixie College, knelt down on my knees, and simply asked, âHeavenly Father, is the Book of Mormon the word of God? And is Joseph Smith a prophet?â
No, I did not receive a vision or a visit from an angel. I felt warmth in my heart, a feeling I had felt many times beforeâa feeling I had felt when I attended BYUâHawaii and took Brother Smithâs Book of Mormon class. It was the same feeling I had felt when I saw the movie about Joseph Smith. This time, however, the feeling of warmth came when I was by myself, and I knew it came from God. He answered my prayer. I had a testimony.
I told the missionaries that I wanted to be baptized, but first I wanted to return to Hawaii so my mother could witness my joining the Church. I thought that as soon as I got off the plane I would find the missionaries and join the Church. Well, that did not happen. I started to hang out with my old friends, and I returned to my old habits. Toward the end of the summer the old feelings of uncertainty and confusion returned.
In August 1986 I was at home in my room, and I decided to read the Bible. I read in John, âIf ye love me, keep my commandmentsâ (John 14:15). I knew I loved my mother; she is a source of strength in my life. I knew I loved my family, but did I love God?
I knelt down to pray and told my Heavenly Father for the first time that I loved Him. Later that day I was on my way to the gym to play basketball when I noticed two missionaries riding their bikes. I almost ran them over! They pulled to the side of the road, and I asked them to come by my home that night. They thought it was a miracle. The next week I was baptized a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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If This Happened TomorrowâWhat Would You Do?
Summary: A girl recalls activities with her sister, who told her she lacked coordination. She accepted she couldn't do some things as well and pursued studying and homemaking instead. She is grateful her sister was honest, even if not perfectly tactful.
âI have a sister who is now 16. When we were younger, we would go swimming, bowling, and skating together, and she always told me that I had a definite lack of coordination. I came to realize that I couldnât do as well in some things as she did, so I tried something differentâstudying and homemaking.
âIâm glad now that she let me know I donât have the ability to do everything. True, she could have been more tactful, but I still love her for what she did.â
Jeanie M. CreekIndependence, Missouri
âIâm glad now that she let me know I donât have the ability to do everything. True, she could have been more tactful, but I still love her for what she did.â
Jeanie M. CreekIndependence, Missouri
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Extra Practice
Summary: Ted Jones, a short but dedicated basketball player, practices diligently every day despite friends teasing him. In the championship game, the star center fouls out, and the coach calls on Ted to handle the final play. Fouled with two seconds left, Ted calmly sinks two free throws to win the game. His coach affirms that his extra effort prepared him for this decisive moment.
Ted Jones grabbed the bounding basketball and headed back toward the foul line. If he made this basket, heâd go home. Glancing up, he saw Coach Turner watching him. Ted hoped that the coach had seen him at his best and would let him play sometime when it really counted.
Ted blanked everything from his mind but the orange rim suspended high on the backboard. He was short, barely five feet, and made his shots from the foul line by standing with one foot back and almost lunging forward as he used both hands to push the ball from his chest toward the basket. He did so now, and the ball swished through the net.
Turning to head for the showers, Ted saw his two best friends standing by the bench. The three boys usually walked home together.
âEverybody else is gone,â Danny said. âI donât know why you spend so much time practicing every day. Youâre too short to play basketball, anyway.â
âYeah, and too skinny!â Keefus shook his head and then burst into laughter.
Ted answered good-naturedly, âYou guys laugh now. When Iâm the star of the Yellow Jackets, your tune will change.â
Ted loved basketball. Even though he knew heâd probably never be very tallâboth of his parents were shortâhe thought that he could master one part of the game. Each day he stayed after regular practice until he made at least twelve foul shots in a row, and he dribbled over, under, and around all the obstacles he could set up. Ever since heâd gotten his first basketball the Christmas when he was eight years old, heâd made Danny and Keefusâand anyone else he could findâdouble- and triple-team him to try to get the ball away. He wasnât fast, but he was quick and almost always got the ball to the open player.
âHow are you planning on being a hero?â Keefus asked later as the boys headed for home. âNone of us have played for more than twenty seconds in a game unless itâs been so lopsided that it wouldnât matter.â
Ted answered, âMaybe it wonât be this year, but Iâll be ready whenever it happens.â
âI sure wish it would be tomorrow night,â Danny said. âWe had such a lousy start this year that I never thought that weâd even be in the intramural tournament!â
âYeah,â Ted agreed. âItâs down to us and the Panthersâbut theyâre unbeaten.â
âBoy, would I like to blow them plumb out of the gym!â Keefus declared.
âIâd just settle for a win,â Ted replied, turning up the walk to his house. âSee you guys tomorrow night.â
Nervous tension was as thick as pea soup in the Yellow Jacketsâ locker room the next night. The starters were pacing back and forth while the rest of the team exchanged teasing remarks.
âHey, Michael!â Keefus shouted above the banter, âyouâre gonna walk a hole in the carpet!â
Ted looked at the tall center for the Yellow Jackets. Michael was the teamâs high scorer. They depended on him to pull them through.
âOK,â Coach Turner called, âgather around.â
The team, dressed in black and gold, huddled around the coach and listened to his familiar pep talk. When they ran onto the floor, the Panthers, in purple and white, were already warming up. Ted got in line behind Danny to start the lay-up drill.
âThey look as sharp as ever,â Danny muttered, glancing over his shoulder at the other team.
Ted was determined to think positively. âThey can still be beaten, though. Weâll show everybody how much weâve improved in the last few weeks.â
The five starters formed a circle around Coach Turner for final instructions. Ted took a seat on the end of the bench as the two starting teams met in the middle of the floor. The Panther center matched Michaelâs six feet, and Ted wished for the hundredth time that he were tall.
From the first the game was fast-paced and fairly even. By halftime it was evident that it was a shooting match between Michael and a tall Panther called Irish. There were surprisingly few mistakes, and neither team had gotten into the one-and-one bonus. The only problem was that Michael had three fouls.
The score at the beginning of the second half was 20â17 in favor of the Panthers. When the clock ticked down to the final minute, the Yellow Jackets were trailing, 44â42, and Michael had picked up his fourth foul. The crowd went wild when he stole the ball from the Panthers under the Jacketsâ basket and stuffed it over the rim to tie the game.
The Panthers threw the ball in and carefully worked it down to their end of the court, obviously intending to hold the ball for the last shot. Ted watched in dismay as Michael hacked Irish on the arm just as the pass came to him.
âOh, no!â Keefus said, groaning. âNow heâs out, and the Panthers have the one-and-one!â
Tedâs hopes fell as Irish sank the first foul shot, moving the Panthers ahead by one point. The second shot ricocheted off the backboard into the hands of a Yellow Jacket player. He moved the ball past midcourt and called time-out.
Coach Turner paced the sideline, rubbing the back of his head. Suddenly he barked, âJones!â
As Ted yanked off his warm-up suit and joined the circle crouched around Coach Turner, the coach was saying, âOK, weâre going to keep the ball in Tedâs hands and try to decoy the others so that heâs clear for a shot at the free-throw line. Ted, if nothing happens by the time the clock is down to six seconds, shoot anyway and weâll try to get the rebound. That means the rest of you had better be close to the basketânow go get âem!â
The buzzer sounded, and the teams moved back onto the floor. Darryl threw the ball in to Ted. A Panther guard slapped at the ball, but Ted dribbled around him as if he werenât there. When another Panther came over to help, Ted passed the ball off. It was quickly returned to him as the clock ticked down: ten seconds, nine, eight, seven, six ⌠Ted took aim and let it fly. The Panther guarding him blocked the shot but slapped him on the arm on the follow-through.
Ted stepped to the foul line amid dead silence. Two seconds showed on the clock. The game was up to him.
I know I can do it, he told himself. Iâve been working hard for a long time for this chance.
He eyed the basket, bounced the ball twice, took aim, and pushed it toward the hoop. The ball hit the inside of the rim, wobbled around it twice, then dropped through the net. The game was tied! And, as far as Ted was concerned, the pressure was off.
Grinning happily, Ted bounced the ball, took careful aim once more, and put up his second shot. The ball never drew iron as it swished through the net. String music!
When the final buzzer sounded, Ted was swarmed by his teammates. Later, as they ran toward the locker room, Coach Turner shouted above the uproar, âI knew you could do it. After watching you practice extra every day, Iâve been waiting for the right time to put you in. It finally came.â
Ted blanked everything from his mind but the orange rim suspended high on the backboard. He was short, barely five feet, and made his shots from the foul line by standing with one foot back and almost lunging forward as he used both hands to push the ball from his chest toward the basket. He did so now, and the ball swished through the net.
Turning to head for the showers, Ted saw his two best friends standing by the bench. The three boys usually walked home together.
âEverybody else is gone,â Danny said. âI donât know why you spend so much time practicing every day. Youâre too short to play basketball, anyway.â
âYeah, and too skinny!â Keefus shook his head and then burst into laughter.
Ted answered good-naturedly, âYou guys laugh now. When Iâm the star of the Yellow Jackets, your tune will change.â
Ted loved basketball. Even though he knew heâd probably never be very tallâboth of his parents were shortâhe thought that he could master one part of the game. Each day he stayed after regular practice until he made at least twelve foul shots in a row, and he dribbled over, under, and around all the obstacles he could set up. Ever since heâd gotten his first basketball the Christmas when he was eight years old, heâd made Danny and Keefusâand anyone else he could findâdouble- and triple-team him to try to get the ball away. He wasnât fast, but he was quick and almost always got the ball to the open player.
âHow are you planning on being a hero?â Keefus asked later as the boys headed for home. âNone of us have played for more than twenty seconds in a game unless itâs been so lopsided that it wouldnât matter.â
Ted answered, âMaybe it wonât be this year, but Iâll be ready whenever it happens.â
âI sure wish it would be tomorrow night,â Danny said. âWe had such a lousy start this year that I never thought that weâd even be in the intramural tournament!â
âYeah,â Ted agreed. âItâs down to us and the Panthersâbut theyâre unbeaten.â
âBoy, would I like to blow them plumb out of the gym!â Keefus declared.
âIâd just settle for a win,â Ted replied, turning up the walk to his house. âSee you guys tomorrow night.â
Nervous tension was as thick as pea soup in the Yellow Jacketsâ locker room the next night. The starters were pacing back and forth while the rest of the team exchanged teasing remarks.
âHey, Michael!â Keefus shouted above the banter, âyouâre gonna walk a hole in the carpet!â
Ted looked at the tall center for the Yellow Jackets. Michael was the teamâs high scorer. They depended on him to pull them through.
âOK,â Coach Turner called, âgather around.â
The team, dressed in black and gold, huddled around the coach and listened to his familiar pep talk. When they ran onto the floor, the Panthers, in purple and white, were already warming up. Ted got in line behind Danny to start the lay-up drill.
âThey look as sharp as ever,â Danny muttered, glancing over his shoulder at the other team.
Ted was determined to think positively. âThey can still be beaten, though. Weâll show everybody how much weâve improved in the last few weeks.â
The five starters formed a circle around Coach Turner for final instructions. Ted took a seat on the end of the bench as the two starting teams met in the middle of the floor. The Panther center matched Michaelâs six feet, and Ted wished for the hundredth time that he were tall.
From the first the game was fast-paced and fairly even. By halftime it was evident that it was a shooting match between Michael and a tall Panther called Irish. There were surprisingly few mistakes, and neither team had gotten into the one-and-one bonus. The only problem was that Michael had three fouls.
The score at the beginning of the second half was 20â17 in favor of the Panthers. When the clock ticked down to the final minute, the Yellow Jackets were trailing, 44â42, and Michael had picked up his fourth foul. The crowd went wild when he stole the ball from the Panthers under the Jacketsâ basket and stuffed it over the rim to tie the game.
The Panthers threw the ball in and carefully worked it down to their end of the court, obviously intending to hold the ball for the last shot. Ted watched in dismay as Michael hacked Irish on the arm just as the pass came to him.
âOh, no!â Keefus said, groaning. âNow heâs out, and the Panthers have the one-and-one!â
Tedâs hopes fell as Irish sank the first foul shot, moving the Panthers ahead by one point. The second shot ricocheted off the backboard into the hands of a Yellow Jacket player. He moved the ball past midcourt and called time-out.
Coach Turner paced the sideline, rubbing the back of his head. Suddenly he barked, âJones!â
As Ted yanked off his warm-up suit and joined the circle crouched around Coach Turner, the coach was saying, âOK, weâre going to keep the ball in Tedâs hands and try to decoy the others so that heâs clear for a shot at the free-throw line. Ted, if nothing happens by the time the clock is down to six seconds, shoot anyway and weâll try to get the rebound. That means the rest of you had better be close to the basketânow go get âem!â
The buzzer sounded, and the teams moved back onto the floor. Darryl threw the ball in to Ted. A Panther guard slapped at the ball, but Ted dribbled around him as if he werenât there. When another Panther came over to help, Ted passed the ball off. It was quickly returned to him as the clock ticked down: ten seconds, nine, eight, seven, six ⌠Ted took aim and let it fly. The Panther guarding him blocked the shot but slapped him on the arm on the follow-through.
Ted stepped to the foul line amid dead silence. Two seconds showed on the clock. The game was up to him.
I know I can do it, he told himself. Iâve been working hard for a long time for this chance.
He eyed the basket, bounced the ball twice, took aim, and pushed it toward the hoop. The ball hit the inside of the rim, wobbled around it twice, then dropped through the net. The game was tied! And, as far as Ted was concerned, the pressure was off.
Grinning happily, Ted bounced the ball, took careful aim once more, and put up his second shot. The ball never drew iron as it swished through the net. String music!
When the final buzzer sounded, Ted was swarmed by his teammates. Later, as they ran toward the locker room, Coach Turner shouted above the uproar, âI knew you could do it. After watching you practice extra every day, Iâve been waiting for the right time to put you in. It finally came.â
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âMagdalena Katalena Hoopensteiner Walleniner Hokum Mokum Pokum Was Her Nameâ
Summary: After Daveâs dad leaves one night, Dave starts a new game by throwing a milk filter that sticks to Rodâs back. Soon the barn is full of milk-drenched filters stuck to walls and ceiling, and Dave considers himself the winner. The next morning, some filters still hang on the wallsâmemories that later comfort Dave.
The filter dripped warm milk down his fingers and onto the floor. That milk-squirting battle he and Rod had had was nothing compared to what happened after Daveâs dad left that night, Dave thought. He remembered he had started it that time. They were just finishing Daveâs choresâRodâs parents were wealthy, and he never had many chores to doâand were still damp from the squirting. It was then that Dave had thought, I wonder if this filter will stick to Rodâs back. The moment of thought became the moment of action, and the barn was soon filled with flying filters, milk-drenched; their clothes started dripping, a few filters hung on the ceiling and walls. And yes, Dave smiled, the first one had stuck on Rodâs back. It had taken him completely by surprise. In fact, Dave had won that battle. They were teachers back then; and Rod almost had his Eagle award in Scouting. Dave had taken a little longer to get his.
Now they were priests and almost ready to graduate from school. Almost every Sunday they sat together to bless the sacrament. But next Sunday, Dave thoughtâand he threw the filter as hard as he could against the wall. Then he let the cow out. After their filter war there had still been some hanging on the walls the next morning when Dave had gone out early for the morning milking. Maybe this one would freeze and harden and hang there all winter. Rod would have gotten a kick out of that.
Now they were priests and almost ready to graduate from school. Almost every Sunday they sat together to bless the sacrament. But next Sunday, Dave thoughtâand he threw the filter as hard as he could against the wall. Then he let the cow out. After their filter war there had still been some hanging on the walls the next morning when Dave had gone out early for the morning milking. Maybe this one would freeze and harden and hang there all winter. Rod would have gotten a kick out of that.
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