The story is told of a man named Jack who had a beloved bird-hunting dog named Cassie. Jack was so proud of Cassie and often bragged about what a skilled dog she was. To prove this, Jack invited some friends to watch Cassie perform. After arriving at the hunting club, Jack let Cassie out to run around while he went inside to check in.
When it was time to begin, Jack was anxious to show off Cassieâs amazing skills. However, Cassie was acting strangely. She wouldnât obey any of Jackâs commands as she usually did so willingly. All she wanted to do was remain by his side.
Jack was frustrated and embarrassed and angry with Cassie; soon he suggested they leave. Cassie wouldnât even jump into the back of the truck, so Jack impatiently picked her up and shoved her in the kennel. He fumed as those with him made fun of his dogâs behavior all the way home. Jack couldnât understand why Cassie was misbehaving. She had been trained well, and her whole desire in the past had been to please and serve him.
After arriving home, Jack began examining Cassie for injuries, burrs, or ticks, as he usually did. As he put his hand on her chest, he felt something wet and found his hand covered with blood. To his shame and horror, he found that Cassie had a long, wide gash right to her chest bone. He found another on her right front leg, also to the bone.
Jack took Cassie into his arms and began to cry. His shame at how he had misjudged and treated her was overwhelming. Cassie had been acting uncharacteristically earlier in the day because she was hurt. Her behavior had been influenced by her pain, her suffering, and her wounds. It had nothing to do with a lack of desire to obey Jack or a lack of love for him.
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His Yoke Is Easy and His Burden Is Light
Summary: Jack proudly brought friends to watch his hunting dog Cassie perform, but she disobeyed and stayed close to him. Frustrated and embarrassed, he forced her into the truck and endured ridicule on the way home. Later he discovered Cassie had deep, painful gashes that explained her behavior. Overcome with shame, he realized he had misjudged her, learning that pain can alter conduct.
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How Losing My Mother to COVID Helped Increase My Faith
Summary: During a severe COVID-19 surge in Madagascar, the author and several family members became infected, and his mother was hospitalized with them before later being brought home. After she died suddenly despite his efforts to resuscitate her, he was filled with doubts and questions about his decisions as a doctor.
He then received a comforting call from Elder S. Mark Palmer, who helped him see the event from a spiritual perspective and return to the right track in his faith.
Last Easter during general conference, President Russell M. Nelson called on us to increase our faith.1 These last few months have been rather challenging for my familyâphysically, emotionally, financially and spiritually. Between March and May this year, a second surge of the pandemic hit Madagascar, my home country, in an unprecedented way, completely overwhelming the health system. Many people and even doctors were asking questions like, âWhat is happening to us?â âWhere is God?â and âAre we such bad people to deserve such a calamity?â
Our family has not been spared, as my wife and I, most of my siblings and their spouses, and my parents were infected. My mother, my wife and I, having a more serious form of the disease, had to be hospitalized and were put together in a single room. After ten days of treatment and improvement, my wife and I were discharged with a recommendation to rest in bed for several more weeks.
My mother was left alone. Her feeling of loneliness turned to depression, as none of us could visit her. She then requested to be brought home and treated by me, a medical doctor. We all reasoned with her, as it was impossible to meet her oxygen needs at home. As her condition worsened, she became angry with all of us, and her desire to go home became a command. We finally were all convinced to bring her home as we miraculously found a solution to her oxygen supply needs. Once home, she slowly improved each day. But on the following Sunday morning, she suddenly went into cardiorespiratory arrest before my eyes. I immediately started, with the help of my brother, the bestâand longestâresuscitation I have ever provided. We finally had to resign ourselves to the fact that she would pass away. With my eyes filled with tears, I signed the official medical death declaration for the woman who gave birth to me.
After comforting my loved ones, my mind became filled with questions and doubts. Had I, as a doctor, done something wrong in the care I had provided to my mother? Did we make the wrong decision in bringing her home? Those moments of doubts and questioning required me to work on increasing my faith to feel peace.
I received a call from Elder S. Mark Palmer, the Africa South Area President, who ministered to me with so much love. As I reported how my mother passed away for a reason I did not understand, he said: âAs a doctor, you do not understand. But as a servant of the Lord, you do.â2
I have always had a strong faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, but what Elder Palmer said helped me get back on the right track.
Our family has not been spared, as my wife and I, most of my siblings and their spouses, and my parents were infected. My mother, my wife and I, having a more serious form of the disease, had to be hospitalized and were put together in a single room. After ten days of treatment and improvement, my wife and I were discharged with a recommendation to rest in bed for several more weeks.
My mother was left alone. Her feeling of loneliness turned to depression, as none of us could visit her. She then requested to be brought home and treated by me, a medical doctor. We all reasoned with her, as it was impossible to meet her oxygen needs at home. As her condition worsened, she became angry with all of us, and her desire to go home became a command. We finally were all convinced to bring her home as we miraculously found a solution to her oxygen supply needs. Once home, she slowly improved each day. But on the following Sunday morning, she suddenly went into cardiorespiratory arrest before my eyes. I immediately started, with the help of my brother, the bestâand longestâresuscitation I have ever provided. We finally had to resign ourselves to the fact that she would pass away. With my eyes filled with tears, I signed the official medical death declaration for the woman who gave birth to me.
After comforting my loved ones, my mind became filled with questions and doubts. Had I, as a doctor, done something wrong in the care I had provided to my mother? Did we make the wrong decision in bringing her home? Those moments of doubts and questioning required me to work on increasing my faith to feel peace.
I received a call from Elder S. Mark Palmer, the Africa South Area President, who ministered to me with so much love. As I reported how my mother passed away for a reason I did not understand, he said: âAs a doctor, you do not understand. But as a servant of the Lord, you do.â2
I have always had a strong faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, but what Elder Palmer said helped me get back on the right track.
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Friend to Friend
Summary: At eighteen, after contributing to his family's needs, the narrator had only enough left to pay tithing when he also needed new pants. He resisted the temptation to use the tithing money for clothing and paid his tithing. The next week he received an extra job that enabled him to buy the pants.
Making the right choice was not always easy. My father and mother had a difficult time providing for their large family, so those of us who were old enough did our best to help out. When I was eighteen years old, I needed to buy a pair of pants, but after sharing my salary with my family, all I had left was the exact amount I owed in tithing. I was tempted to spend that tithing money for those pants, but I paid my tithing, and during the next week I got an extra job that allowed me to buy the pants.
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Hey, Sis!
Summary: A freshman felt isolated after starting high school without her friends and spent lunches trying to look busy. Her older brother, Shawn, noticed and began inviting her to eat with him and his friends, openly acknowledging her and showing affection. Over time, she gained confidence and no longer needed her old friends to define her identity.
I was leaving junior high school, embarking on a new adventure riddled with unknown possibilities and, of course, filled with fun. Little did I know that the first few months of high school would feel disastrous and ultimately change my life.
It all started normally enough for a freshman. I felt small at this new, big school. Everything seemed twice as big, but it was nice knowing I was going through this with my friends. When we checked our class schedules, we saw that I didnât have any classes with my friends. As the weeks passed, we drifted apart. Instead of the close relationship weâd once shared, I would be lucky to see the backs of their heads as they walked in another direction.
My lunch hour was miserable. I tried to make myself look busy, like making several unneeded trips to my locker to retrieve books I didnât need, tying my shoes, or pretending to look for someone who would never be found. I guess I wasnât very good at pretending, because my older brother, Shawn, noticed.
Since my childhood, Shawn was always there, whether it was teasing me incessantly or putting his arm around me after a bad day. He never really asked me what was wrong; he just knew. He started inviting me to eat lunch with him and his friends. When I was with him, he never ignored me. I remember him yelling, âHey, Sis!â and walking over to put his arm around me.
Slowly I became stronger, and I became comfortable in my own skin. I realized I didnât need my old friends to define who I was. I had my brother, my friend.
It all started normally enough for a freshman. I felt small at this new, big school. Everything seemed twice as big, but it was nice knowing I was going through this with my friends. When we checked our class schedules, we saw that I didnât have any classes with my friends. As the weeks passed, we drifted apart. Instead of the close relationship weâd once shared, I would be lucky to see the backs of their heads as they walked in another direction.
My lunch hour was miserable. I tried to make myself look busy, like making several unneeded trips to my locker to retrieve books I didnât need, tying my shoes, or pretending to look for someone who would never be found. I guess I wasnât very good at pretending, because my older brother, Shawn, noticed.
Since my childhood, Shawn was always there, whether it was teasing me incessantly or putting his arm around me after a bad day. He never really asked me what was wrong; he just knew. He started inviting me to eat lunch with him and his friends. When I was with him, he never ignored me. I remember him yelling, âHey, Sis!â and walking over to put his arm around me.
Slowly I became stronger, and I became comfortable in my own skin. I realized I didnât need my old friends to define who I was. I had my brother, my friend.
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A Friendly Invitation
Summary: A child at school noticed a new girl sitting nearby and invited her to play. They became good friends until the new girl moved back to her old school. The child felt happy for having the courage to include her and hopes to do it again.
One day at school when I was playing with my friends, I saw a new girl in our class. She was sitting next to where we were playing. She looked like she wanted to play with us. I invited her to come and play, and she said yes! I felt good that I had asked her to be our friend. From that time on we were good friends. I was sad when she moved back to her old school, but Iâm happy I had the courage to invite a new person into my circle of friends. I hope I can do it again very soon.
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Summary: Sheryl Swain became the first girl at her high school to complete a three-year physical achievement program and earn the navy blue level. The program required difficult strength and endurance feats, and the mile run was the hardest event for her. She is also Laurel class secretary in her ward.
Sheryl Swain, 18, of Carmichael, California, has achieved a unique distinction in her high school. She is the first girl to complete a grueling, three-year program to win her schoolâs navy blue level of physical achievement. Students all begin with white PE shorts and achieve different colors as they complete each physical feat.
Since the program has been in existence, only 19 boys have finished at the highest level. The program includes feats of strength and endurance such as carrying another student weighing ten pounds less for one mile, swimming underwater for 50 yards, running a mile in under 6 1/2 minutes, remaining afloat in a pool with hands and feet tied for 6 minutes, and climbing a standard-length gym rope in 8 seconds. Of all the events, running the mile in the prescribed time was the most difficult for Sheryl.
Sheryl is Laurel class secretary in her La Sierra Ward, Fair Oaks California Stake.
Since the program has been in existence, only 19 boys have finished at the highest level. The program includes feats of strength and endurance such as carrying another student weighing ten pounds less for one mile, swimming underwater for 50 yards, running a mile in under 6 1/2 minutes, remaining afloat in a pool with hands and feet tied for 6 minutes, and climbing a standard-length gym rope in 8 seconds. Of all the events, running the mile in the prescribed time was the most difficult for Sheryl.
Sheryl is Laurel class secretary in her La Sierra Ward, Fair Oaks California Stake.
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A Painful Way to Grow
Summary: Shaken by her husbandâs disfellowshipment, the author doubted she could continue serving as a ward auxiliary president. She was not released and stayed in the calling. Over time she saw the Lord affirm her abilities, and her children continued to do well, which reassured her of her worth as a mother.
My self-esteem had been shattered by our experience with the disfellowshipment. I was busy many hours each week, serving as president of one of the ward auxiliaries. How could the Lord, or for that matter, the bishop, possibly expect me to continue in this calling? Emotionally and physically, I was drained. But nothing was mentioned concerning my release, and I stayed in that position. I later understood this to be the Lordâs way of demonstrating a need for my abilities. At the same time, our children continued to do well in and out of school. Here the Lord was assuring me that we werenât failing as parents. These experiences lifted me and convinced me of my worth.
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I Recognized the Word of God
Summary: A seeker in Brazil saw a Book of Mormon in a bookstore display but later couldn't find it. Later, they encountered an open Book of Mormon in a pharmacy, prayed for divine direction, and soon met missionaries there after their son became ill. Recognizing answers to prayer, they felt spiritual warmth, received the Book of Mormon, and confirmed its truth through study and the words of Jesus Christ in 3 Nephi 17. This experience became the foundation of their testimony.
While in an airport several years ago in SĂŁo Paulo, Brazil, I saw in a bookstore showcase a book titled âThe Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ.â I doubted that our decaying and directionless world would accept another testament of Jesus Christ, and I spent the weekend thinking about the book.
Finally, I could no longer endure my curiosity, and I returned to the bookstore to buy it. When I arrived, however, I couldnât find it. I described the book to the store attendant, but he said he had never seen it. Nor could he find a record of it, even though all books displayed in the showcase were cataloged.
Sometime later while in a pharmacy, I noticed an open book on a counter. As I began to read it, I learned about a man named Korihor who insisted on doubting the power of God and was eventually struck dumb. When I reflected on the words I read, I recognized them as being from God.
During this time I had been looking for divine direction. One day I knelt and fervently prayed asking God to show me the true path that would bring me to Him. A few days later our son became ill, so I returned to the pharmacy. When I was about to leave, three young Americans wearing name tags entered. I immediately felt a warmth in my breast, which prompted me to speak with them.
They told me they were in Brazil to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ. I asked if they could teach me, and we scheduled an appointment.
When I heard about the Prophet Joseph Smith for the first time, I knew my prayer had been answered. Then the missionaries gave me a book. To my astonishment, it was a Book of Mormonâjust like the one I had seen in the showcase. I again felt a sweet warmth and became so happy that I was barely able to speak.
The missionaries explained the origin of the book and then asked me to pray and ask God if it was true. I already had an absolute certainty of the divinity of the book, for the Lord had shown it to meâtwice. Nevertheless, I examined it in great detail. Upon reading chapter 17 in 3 Nephi, I knew it contained a divine story because it contained the words of Jesus Christ.
The foundation of my testimony is in knowing that the Book of Mormon contains the word of God. It has changed me and continues to change me.
Finally, I could no longer endure my curiosity, and I returned to the bookstore to buy it. When I arrived, however, I couldnât find it. I described the book to the store attendant, but he said he had never seen it. Nor could he find a record of it, even though all books displayed in the showcase were cataloged.
Sometime later while in a pharmacy, I noticed an open book on a counter. As I began to read it, I learned about a man named Korihor who insisted on doubting the power of God and was eventually struck dumb. When I reflected on the words I read, I recognized them as being from God.
During this time I had been looking for divine direction. One day I knelt and fervently prayed asking God to show me the true path that would bring me to Him. A few days later our son became ill, so I returned to the pharmacy. When I was about to leave, three young Americans wearing name tags entered. I immediately felt a warmth in my breast, which prompted me to speak with them.
They told me they were in Brazil to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ. I asked if they could teach me, and we scheduled an appointment.
When I heard about the Prophet Joseph Smith for the first time, I knew my prayer had been answered. Then the missionaries gave me a book. To my astonishment, it was a Book of Mormonâjust like the one I had seen in the showcase. I again felt a sweet warmth and became so happy that I was barely able to speak.
The missionaries explained the origin of the book and then asked me to pray and ask God if it was true. I already had an absolute certainty of the divinity of the book, for the Lord had shown it to meâtwice. Nevertheless, I examined it in great detail. Upon reading chapter 17 in 3 Nephi, I knew it contained a divine story because it contained the words of Jesus Christ.
The foundation of my testimony is in knowing that the Book of Mormon contains the word of God. It has changed me and continues to change me.
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New Era Classic: The Currant Bush
Summary: Years later in England, the narrator was poised to become a general but was denied the appointment, seemingly because he was a Mormon. Bitter and discouraged, he returned to his quarters, where he felt a confirming inner voice say, âI am the gardener here,â and heard fellow Latter-day Saints singing a hymn about following the Lord's will. Decades later, he expressed gratitude for the disappointment, recognizing it spared his family challenges and led to better outcomes.
Years passed, and I found myself in England. I was in command of a cavalry unit in the Canadian Army. I held the rank of field officer in the British Canadian Army. I was proud of my position. And there was an opportunity for me to become a general. I had taken all the examinations. I had the seniority. The one man between me and the office of general in the British Army became a casualty, and I received a telegram from London. It said: âBe in my office tomorrow morning at 10:00,â signed by General Turner.
I went up to London. I walked smartly into the office of the general, and I saluted him smartly, and he gave me the same kind of a salute a senior officer usually givesâa sort of âGet out of the way, worm!â He said, âSit down, Brown.â Then he said, âIâm sorry I cannot make the appointment. You are entitled to it. You have passed all the examinations. You have the seniority. Youâve been a good officer, but I canât make the appointment. You are to return to Canada and become a training officer and a transport officer.â That for which I had been hoping and praying for 10 years suddenly slipped out of my fingers.
Then he went into the other room to answer the telephone, and on his desk, I saw my personal history sheet. Right across the bottom of it was written, âTHIS MAN IS A MORMON.â We were not very well liked in those days. When I saw that, I knew why I had not been appointed. He came back and said, âThatâs all, Brown.â I saluted him again, but not quite as smartly, and went out.
I got on the train and started back to my town, 120 miles away, with a broken heart, with bitterness in my soul. And every click of the wheels on the rails seemed to say, âYou are a failure.â When I got to my tent, I was so bitter that I threw my cap on the cot. I clenched my fists, and I shook them at heaven. I said, âHow could you do this to me, God? I have done everything I could do to measure up. There is nothing that I could have doneâthat I should have doneâthat I havenât done. How could you do this to me?â I was as bitter as gall.
And then I heard a voice, and I recognized the tone of this voice. It was my own voice, and the voice said, âI am the gardener here. I know what I want you to do.â The bitterness went out of my soul, and I fell on my knees by the cot to ask forgiveness for my ungratefulness and my bitterness. While kneeling there I heard a song being sung in an adjoining tent. A number of Mormon boys met regularly every Tuesday night. I usually met with them. We would sit on the floor and have Mutual. As I was kneeling there, praying for forgiveness, I heard their singing:
âBut if, by a still, small voice he calls
To paths that I do not know,
Iâll answer, dear Lord, with my hand in thine:
Iâll go where you want me to go.â
(Hymns, no. 270)
I arose from my knees a humble man. And now, almost 50 years later, I look up to Him and say, âThank you, Mr. Gardener, for cutting me down, for loving me enough to hurt me.â I see now that it was wise that I should not become a general at that time, because if I had I would have been senior officer of all western Canada, with a lifelong, handsome salary, a place to live, and a pension, but I would have raised my six daughters and two sons in army barracks. They would no doubt have married out of the Church, and I think I would not have amounted to anything. I havenât amounted to very much as it is, but I have done better than I would have done if the Lord had let me go the way I wanted to go.
I went up to London. I walked smartly into the office of the general, and I saluted him smartly, and he gave me the same kind of a salute a senior officer usually givesâa sort of âGet out of the way, worm!â He said, âSit down, Brown.â Then he said, âIâm sorry I cannot make the appointment. You are entitled to it. You have passed all the examinations. You have the seniority. Youâve been a good officer, but I canât make the appointment. You are to return to Canada and become a training officer and a transport officer.â That for which I had been hoping and praying for 10 years suddenly slipped out of my fingers.
Then he went into the other room to answer the telephone, and on his desk, I saw my personal history sheet. Right across the bottom of it was written, âTHIS MAN IS A MORMON.â We were not very well liked in those days. When I saw that, I knew why I had not been appointed. He came back and said, âThatâs all, Brown.â I saluted him again, but not quite as smartly, and went out.
I got on the train and started back to my town, 120 miles away, with a broken heart, with bitterness in my soul. And every click of the wheels on the rails seemed to say, âYou are a failure.â When I got to my tent, I was so bitter that I threw my cap on the cot. I clenched my fists, and I shook them at heaven. I said, âHow could you do this to me, God? I have done everything I could do to measure up. There is nothing that I could have doneâthat I should have doneâthat I havenât done. How could you do this to me?â I was as bitter as gall.
And then I heard a voice, and I recognized the tone of this voice. It was my own voice, and the voice said, âI am the gardener here. I know what I want you to do.â The bitterness went out of my soul, and I fell on my knees by the cot to ask forgiveness for my ungratefulness and my bitterness. While kneeling there I heard a song being sung in an adjoining tent. A number of Mormon boys met regularly every Tuesday night. I usually met with them. We would sit on the floor and have Mutual. As I was kneeling there, praying for forgiveness, I heard their singing:
âBut if, by a still, small voice he calls
To paths that I do not know,
Iâll answer, dear Lord, with my hand in thine:
Iâll go where you want me to go.â
(Hymns, no. 270)
I arose from my knees a humble man. And now, almost 50 years later, I look up to Him and say, âThank you, Mr. Gardener, for cutting me down, for loving me enough to hurt me.â I see now that it was wise that I should not become a general at that time, because if I had I would have been senior officer of all western Canada, with a lifelong, handsome salary, a place to live, and a pension, but I would have raised my six daughters and two sons in army barracks. They would no doubt have married out of the Church, and I think I would not have amounted to anything. I havenât amounted to very much as it is, but I have done better than I would have done if the Lord had let me go the way I wanted to go.
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Simply and Powerfully Helping Others Come unto Christ
Summary: As a high school junior, Russ Ballard was not attending church regularly or seminary until his friend Nedra invited him to go. He went the next morning and continued attending daily, even in harsh weather. What he learned in seminary strengthened his testimony and prepared him for a mission and lifelong service.
One day during my junior year of high school, my friend Nedra asked me, âRuss, why arenât you going to seminary?â
At that time, my parents were not attending church. I attended only occasionally with my friends, and I did not participate in seminary. The next day, I attended seminary at 6:30 a.m. After that, I went every dayâeven on cold, snowy winter mornings.
The things I learned in seminary touched my heart. My testimony grew as I learned more about Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. This prepared me to serve my mission in England and to continue in a lifetime of service to the Lord and His Church.
Nedraâs inviting me to seminary helps me see, in a personal way, that there are countless opportunities for you to help others come unto the Lord Jesus Christ. In simple but powerful ways, you can show your love, share your beliefs, and invite those around you to experience the joy and peace the Savior and His gospel bring.
At that time, my parents were not attending church. I attended only occasionally with my friends, and I did not participate in seminary. The next day, I attended seminary at 6:30 a.m. After that, I went every dayâeven on cold, snowy winter mornings.
The things I learned in seminary touched my heart. My testimony grew as I learned more about Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. This prepared me to serve my mission in England and to continue in a lifetime of service to the Lord and His Church.
Nedraâs inviting me to seminary helps me see, in a personal way, that there are countless opportunities for you to help others come unto the Lord Jesus Christ. In simple but powerful ways, you can show your love, share your beliefs, and invite those around you to experience the joy and peace the Savior and His gospel bring.
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The Power of Your Example
Summary: Donâs faithful example as a new Church member led Burt, a lapsed member, to return to sacrament meeting and begin repenting. Later, Don chose to use his savings to support a mission, and both Don and Ken eventually served missions and were married in the temple. When asked what had attracted them to the Church, they said it was Willisâs life and example.
One night shortly after his baptism, Don was tending the shipâs engines and reading the Book of Mormon in his spare time. One of the crew came up behind him and asked what he was reading.
âItâs the Book of Mormon,â Don replied.
âAre you Mormon?â
âYes, I am.â
Burt ground out his cigarette and said, âSo am I.â He had been brought up in the Church but had stopped participating when he joined the military. Don convinced him to join the others at sacrament meeting the next Sunday. Burt began the process of repenting and getting his life back in order.
Just before Don was released from military duty, he wrote to my wife and me.
âAs you know,â he said, âI am the only member of the Church in my family. I had been saving part of my paycheck so that when I get out I would be able to pay cash for a new car. But now Iâve decided to use the money for something betterâto support myself on a mission.â
Ken also decided to serve a mission. After their missions, both Ken and Don were married in the temple, and both have served faithfully in many Church callings.
We asked Ken and Don what it was about the gospel and the Church that attracted them most. Without a momentâs hesitation they each said that it was Willisâs life, his example.
âItâs the Book of Mormon,â Don replied.
âAre you Mormon?â
âYes, I am.â
Burt ground out his cigarette and said, âSo am I.â He had been brought up in the Church but had stopped participating when he joined the military. Don convinced him to join the others at sacrament meeting the next Sunday. Burt began the process of repenting and getting his life back in order.
Just before Don was released from military duty, he wrote to my wife and me.
âAs you know,â he said, âI am the only member of the Church in my family. I had been saving part of my paycheck so that when I get out I would be able to pay cash for a new car. But now Iâve decided to use the money for something betterâto support myself on a mission.â
Ken also decided to serve a mission. After their missions, both Ken and Don were married in the temple, and both have served faithfully in many Church callings.
We asked Ken and Don what it was about the gospel and the Church that attracted them most. Without a momentâs hesitation they each said that it was Willisâs life, his example.
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Summary: A lifelong Church member was inspired by a young womanâs standards to live similarly and serve a mission. Two weeks into the mission, an illness gave him time to discover the New Era, which he eagerly read and reread, developing a deep appreciation for the magazine.
I have been a member of the Church all my life, but it took a girl who lived the standards to make me realize that I should do the same, and also that I should go on a mission. Naturally I enjoyed âBy the Way She Isâ in the September issue. I am deeply grateful to this young woman, for not only did she impress me with the importance of a mission and open up an entirely new world for me in the gospel, but she also helped me indirectly to find the joy of reading the New Era. You see, after two weeks out in the mission field I contracted an illness that left me with some time on my hands, and I happened onto a copy of the New Era. I read it and then frantically started searching for more copies. It may interest you to know that in a four-hour period, I read and reread seven copies.
Elder Leslie Dale MartineauCanada Halifax Mission
Elder Leslie Dale MartineauCanada Halifax Mission
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Virtue
A Movie Decision
Summary: A person watches a movie with friends but feels uncomfortable despite checking the rating beforehand. After struggling with embarrassment and fear of judgment, they decide to leave and hear their friends laugh. They visit their best friend, who supports the choice, and they feel peace knowing it was the right decision for them.
I spent 10 minutes squirming, looking around at my friends, trying to make eye contact with one of them. But they were all watching the movie. Before we put the DVD in, I checked the rating and read the movie summary to make sure it would be OK. But even after taking precautions, I still felt uncomfortable.
I rationalized with myself that since my friends thought it was OK, it should be OK. Plus the rating was technically appropriate. But I didnât want them to think I was lame. So I stayed.
After 10 more agonizing minutes I couldnât ignore it any longer. I had to leave. As I left the room, I could hear my friends laughing at me. I felt my cheeks burning with embarrassment, but I kept on walking.
On my way home, I stopped at my best friendâs house. I told her what happened, and she told me she was glad that I had left. Sitting with her, I realized I wasnât embarrassed anymore. I knew that walking away from the movie was the right thing for me. And that was even more important to me than my friendsâ approval.
I rationalized with myself that since my friends thought it was OK, it should be OK. Plus the rating was technically appropriate. But I didnât want them to think I was lame. So I stayed.
After 10 more agonizing minutes I couldnât ignore it any longer. I had to leave. As I left the room, I could hear my friends laughing at me. I felt my cheeks burning with embarrassment, but I kept on walking.
On my way home, I stopped at my best friendâs house. I told her what happened, and she told me she was glad that I had left. Sitting with her, I realized I wasnât embarrassed anymore. I knew that walking away from the movie was the right thing for me. And that was even more important to me than my friendsâ approval.
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Agency and Accountability
Courage
Friendship
Movies and Television
Temptation
The Jelly War
Summary: When Evan learned his town's food pantry was out of jelly, he made a video asking neighbors to donate and then launched a school-wide 'Jelly War' competition. With help from classmates, they collected over 200 jars. Though not everyone won the contest, the children felt happy to help. Evan felt he was following Jesus Christ by serving and wanted to plan another project.
A true story from the USA.
âAction!â
Evanâs little brother Ethan pressed record on the tablet, and Evan began his speech. âHi, my nameâs Evan. I was looking for more service opportunities and found our townâs food pantry.â
Evan and Ethan loved making movies together, but this video was special.
The pantry gave food to families who didnât have enough money to buy groceries at the store. Right now, the pantry was all out of jelly. They were asking people to donate more.
Evan always felt happy when he did service, so he decided to gather some jelly to donate. He was making a video to ask his neighbors to help too.
âIf you wanna help, you can drop off jelly at my house. Or you can send money, and Iâll buy the jelly for you!â Evan said as Ethan filmed.
When they were done filming, Evan edited the video until it was just right to share. After Mom posted the video online, people started dropping off jelly and sending money to buy even more!
At the store, Evan stacked jelly jars into a cart. âThis would be even more fun with more kids,â he said. âMaybe the kids at my school can help.â
âGreat idea!â said Mom.
The next day at school, Evan asked to see Principal Sanchez. He explained his idea to collect jelly for the food pantry.
âIt can be like a game,â Evan said. âWe can call it the Jelly War.â
âThatâs a great plan!â said Principal Sanchez.
Evan made special flyers to pass out to all the fourth graders telling them about the Jelly War.
The next week, the whole fourth grade competed in the Jelly War. Each class tried to bring the most jars of jelly.
At lunch, everyone was excited about the Jelly War. âIâve never done a competition like this,â said Evanâs friend Maria. âI hope my class wins.â
âI bet my class wins!â said their friend Isaac. âI brought three jars today.â
Evan watched the donation boxes in each classroom start to fill up with jars.
At recess, Evan dug in the sand with his friend Gabe. âHave you brought any jars of jelly yet?â he asked.
âMy dad gave me five to donate! I put them in the box this morning,â Gabe said.
âWow!â Evan couldnât believe how many kids were joining in the Jelly War.
Soon the jelly boxes were filled to the top. All the fourth graders and teachers gathered in one classroom to hear Evan announce the winners of the Jelly War.
âTogether we collected over 200 jars of jelly!â said Evan. The kids all cheered.
âEveryone did such a good job, but only one class can be the winner,â Evan continued.
Everyone held their breath to hear who won.
âMrs. Childâs class is the winner!â
The kids in Mrs. Childâs class jumped up and down and clapped their hands.
After school, Evan met up with his friends to walk home.
âMy class didnât win, but I just feel happy that I got to help other people,â Maria said.
âMe too,â said Evan. âWho knew kids could make such a big difference?â
Evan couldnât wait to take all the jelly to the food pantry. He felt warm inside when he thought of all the people who would have food because of their donations.
Best of all, he knew he had followed Jesus Christ by helping others. Evan wanted to feel this way all the time.
âHey, Mom,â he said when he got home. âWhen can we do our next service project?â
âAction!â
Evanâs little brother Ethan pressed record on the tablet, and Evan began his speech. âHi, my nameâs Evan. I was looking for more service opportunities and found our townâs food pantry.â
Evan and Ethan loved making movies together, but this video was special.
The pantry gave food to families who didnât have enough money to buy groceries at the store. Right now, the pantry was all out of jelly. They were asking people to donate more.
Evan always felt happy when he did service, so he decided to gather some jelly to donate. He was making a video to ask his neighbors to help too.
âIf you wanna help, you can drop off jelly at my house. Or you can send money, and Iâll buy the jelly for you!â Evan said as Ethan filmed.
When they were done filming, Evan edited the video until it was just right to share. After Mom posted the video online, people started dropping off jelly and sending money to buy even more!
At the store, Evan stacked jelly jars into a cart. âThis would be even more fun with more kids,â he said. âMaybe the kids at my school can help.â
âGreat idea!â said Mom.
The next day at school, Evan asked to see Principal Sanchez. He explained his idea to collect jelly for the food pantry.
âIt can be like a game,â Evan said. âWe can call it the Jelly War.â
âThatâs a great plan!â said Principal Sanchez.
Evan made special flyers to pass out to all the fourth graders telling them about the Jelly War.
The next week, the whole fourth grade competed in the Jelly War. Each class tried to bring the most jars of jelly.
At lunch, everyone was excited about the Jelly War. âIâve never done a competition like this,â said Evanâs friend Maria. âI hope my class wins.â
âI bet my class wins!â said their friend Isaac. âI brought three jars today.â
Evan watched the donation boxes in each classroom start to fill up with jars.
At recess, Evan dug in the sand with his friend Gabe. âHave you brought any jars of jelly yet?â he asked.
âMy dad gave me five to donate! I put them in the box this morning,â Gabe said.
âWow!â Evan couldnât believe how many kids were joining in the Jelly War.
Soon the jelly boxes were filled to the top. All the fourth graders and teachers gathered in one classroom to hear Evan announce the winners of the Jelly War.
âTogether we collected over 200 jars of jelly!â said Evan. The kids all cheered.
âEveryone did such a good job, but only one class can be the winner,â Evan continued.
Everyone held their breath to hear who won.
âMrs. Childâs class is the winner!â
The kids in Mrs. Childâs class jumped up and down and clapped their hands.
After school, Evan met up with his friends to walk home.
âMy class didnât win, but I just feel happy that I got to help other people,â Maria said.
âMe too,â said Evan. âWho knew kids could make such a big difference?â
Evan couldnât wait to take all the jelly to the food pantry. He felt warm inside when he thought of all the people who would have food because of their donations.
Best of all, he knew he had followed Jesus Christ by helping others. Evan wanted to feel this way all the time.
âHey, Mom,â he said when he got home. âWhen can we do our next service project?â
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The Childrenâs Song
Summary: During the Thirty Yearsâ War, the besieged village of DinkelsbĂźhl prepared to surrender as the enemy readied a battering ram. The children began singing a hymn and marched toward the soldiers, moving the enemy commander to mercy when a small boy ran into his arms. Touched by the moment and reminded of his own loss, the commander spared the village, and the people continued to sing in gratitude.
Long, long ago there was a pretty little village in Germany named DinkelsbĂźhl. The village is still there, but it might not have been if it hadnât been for the children.
About the only thing that made DinkelsbĂźhl different from the surrounding villages was its childrenâs choir. The schoolmaster, who loved music, taught the children many beautiful old hymns and folk songs. The choir often gave concerts in the village square, to the delight of the villagers.
In those days there was a very long battle going on in Europe called the Thirty Yearsâ War. Big cities, towns, villages, farmhouses, and barns were burned. The crops in the fields were burned, too, which was very foolish, because everybody has to eat, even the enemy.
DinkelsbĂźhl was tucked away in the hills, and the people hoped it wouldnât be noticed. But it was. Seven times enemy soldiers tried to climb the thick, strong village walls; seven times the people of the village managed to keep them out. Life was very hard, and the villagers were running out of food.
But whenever the children sang, it seemed that someday everything would be all right. So the schoolmaster kept on teaching them songs, and the children kept on singing, for it helped them forget how hungry they were.
One day when another army attacked the town, the people of DinkelsbĂźhlâsick and starved and tired of all the troubleâwere almost ready to give up. But their king had promised that help would come as soon as he could send it. So once more, when the enemy commander called for them to open the gates, the villagers shouted, âNo!â
The attacking army had a battering ram, a long, heavy pole that was ironclad on one end. When a group of soldiers ran with it, the battering ram could break open very strong gates and even knock down heavy walls. The enemy commander, irritated by the refusal to open the gates, told his men to get ready to use the battering ram.
The mayor of Dinkelslbuhl, with the key to the gate in his pocket, put his eye to a peephole and saw what was happening outside. When he turned around to his people, his face looked sad and frightened. âWe cannot keep them out any longer,â he declared. âPerhaps they will not deal harshly with us if we open the gates ourselves. If we do not, they will surely burn everything, for they are coming in this time and we cannot stop them.â
No one disagreed, and it was absolutely quiet behind the mayor as he turned toward the gate and fitted the key into the lock. Sadly and slowly he turned it. The gate swung wide. Then into the stillness came a soft little voiceâthen another, and another, and still another, until the music rose in a chorus that even the soldiers could hear above all the noise they were making. Slowly the children of DinkelsbĂźhl, ragged and pale, their eyes big with hunger and fear and hope, squeezed past their parents and marched toward the commander and his men. The childrenâs voices were shaking a little, but they sounded clear and brave just the same. âA mighty fortress is our God!â they sang. âA tower of strength neâer failing!â
A few of the older villagers joined in, and then a few more, and soon they were all singing. The schoolmaster sang loudest of all, and tears were running down his cheeks. He was sure they would all be taken away, and in his heart he was saying good-bye.
Suddenly the littlest singer, much too young to know he ought to be afraid, broke away and ran toward the soldiers. One of the older children reached for him, but he dodged, laughing, and ran straight into the enemy commanderâs arms. The singing stopped. A great gasp went up, and somebody began to cry.
The commander lifted the little boy up until they were looking right into each otherâs eyes. âI lost one like you,â said the commander softly. The little boy did not know just what the commander meant, but he knew it must be something very sad, for the officerâs cold blue eyes were filling up with tears.
âDonât cry,â whispered the little boy.
Quickly the commander set the child down and gave him a rough little push toward the gate.
âBe in peace!â he shouted at the villagers in a loud, harsh voice to cover up his feelings. Then he shouted at his men, too, and they lined up and marched away. Behind them they could hear the whole village singing again the grand old hymn the children had chosen.
The war kept on for a long time, but nobody ever bothered DinkelsbĂźhl again. And every year thereafter the people of DinkelsbĂźhl have celebrated with singing, dancing, and a play about what happened on that long-ago day when the children saved their village with a song.
About the only thing that made DinkelsbĂźhl different from the surrounding villages was its childrenâs choir. The schoolmaster, who loved music, taught the children many beautiful old hymns and folk songs. The choir often gave concerts in the village square, to the delight of the villagers.
In those days there was a very long battle going on in Europe called the Thirty Yearsâ War. Big cities, towns, villages, farmhouses, and barns were burned. The crops in the fields were burned, too, which was very foolish, because everybody has to eat, even the enemy.
DinkelsbĂźhl was tucked away in the hills, and the people hoped it wouldnât be noticed. But it was. Seven times enemy soldiers tried to climb the thick, strong village walls; seven times the people of the village managed to keep them out. Life was very hard, and the villagers were running out of food.
But whenever the children sang, it seemed that someday everything would be all right. So the schoolmaster kept on teaching them songs, and the children kept on singing, for it helped them forget how hungry they were.
One day when another army attacked the town, the people of DinkelsbĂźhlâsick and starved and tired of all the troubleâwere almost ready to give up. But their king had promised that help would come as soon as he could send it. So once more, when the enemy commander called for them to open the gates, the villagers shouted, âNo!â
The attacking army had a battering ram, a long, heavy pole that was ironclad on one end. When a group of soldiers ran with it, the battering ram could break open very strong gates and even knock down heavy walls. The enemy commander, irritated by the refusal to open the gates, told his men to get ready to use the battering ram.
The mayor of Dinkelslbuhl, with the key to the gate in his pocket, put his eye to a peephole and saw what was happening outside. When he turned around to his people, his face looked sad and frightened. âWe cannot keep them out any longer,â he declared. âPerhaps they will not deal harshly with us if we open the gates ourselves. If we do not, they will surely burn everything, for they are coming in this time and we cannot stop them.â
No one disagreed, and it was absolutely quiet behind the mayor as he turned toward the gate and fitted the key into the lock. Sadly and slowly he turned it. The gate swung wide. Then into the stillness came a soft little voiceâthen another, and another, and still another, until the music rose in a chorus that even the soldiers could hear above all the noise they were making. Slowly the children of DinkelsbĂźhl, ragged and pale, their eyes big with hunger and fear and hope, squeezed past their parents and marched toward the commander and his men. The childrenâs voices were shaking a little, but they sounded clear and brave just the same. âA mighty fortress is our God!â they sang. âA tower of strength neâer failing!â
A few of the older villagers joined in, and then a few more, and soon they were all singing. The schoolmaster sang loudest of all, and tears were running down his cheeks. He was sure they would all be taken away, and in his heart he was saying good-bye.
Suddenly the littlest singer, much too young to know he ought to be afraid, broke away and ran toward the soldiers. One of the older children reached for him, but he dodged, laughing, and ran straight into the enemy commanderâs arms. The singing stopped. A great gasp went up, and somebody began to cry.
The commander lifted the little boy up until they were looking right into each otherâs eyes. âI lost one like you,â said the commander softly. The little boy did not know just what the commander meant, but he knew it must be something very sad, for the officerâs cold blue eyes were filling up with tears.
âDonât cry,â whispered the little boy.
Quickly the commander set the child down and gave him a rough little push toward the gate.
âBe in peace!â he shouted at the villagers in a loud, harsh voice to cover up his feelings. Then he shouted at his men, too, and they lined up and marched away. Behind them they could hear the whole village singing again the grand old hymn the children had chosen.
The war kept on for a long time, but nobody ever bothered DinkelsbĂźhl again. And every year thereafter the people of DinkelsbĂźhl have celebrated with singing, dancing, and a play about what happened on that long-ago day when the children saved their village with a song.
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Children
Courage
Faith
Hope
Mercy
Music
Peace
Unity
War
Headinâ Straight
Summary: Neal Gines is introduced as a talented, hardworking Utah teenager who excels in bulldogging and basketball, but values family and Church more than trophies. The story highlights the close bond between Neal and his parents, especially his father, as they work, compete, and spend time together. It ends with an editorâs note about Nealâs death in 1980 and his fatherâs testimony of eternal family unity.
Zing! The rope barrier springs away and Neal spurs his quarter horse into the arena in pursuit of a scrambling steer, overtaking it as his father hazes the frightened animal closer to him. Moving at a hard gallop, Neal slides far sideways in the saddle and takes hold of the steer, right arm hooking one horn, left hand grasping the other. For a moment his body forms a perilous bridge between the horse and steer. Then his hand-tooled cowboy boots jerk free from the stirrups and tread clouds for an instant before hitting the hoofâsoftened dirt in a jolting cloud of dust, plowing a double furrow as he brakes against his own momentum and 600 pounds of charging steer. The muscles of his broad shoulders bunch under his western shirt as he turns his momentum, strength, and more than 180 pounds of solid bone and muscle into irresistible torque, levering the wide horns clockwise. The steer resists, teeters, and then crashes helplessly onto its side.
The judgeâs flag drops. Timeâ6.2 seconds. Neal grins up at his father through the dust and applause, then scans the stands for his mother. Ignoring the burning weal that the horns have left on his ribs, he releases the animal, stands up, and stoops to dust off his western-cut jeans.
Neal Gines, 17, from Kamas, Utah, and his father have just won another first place in bulldogging.
Later, as Neal sprawls out, all 6?5? of him, on the front room floor, he eyes the shelves of trophies that loom on the wall. Over 100 trophies, plaques, and belt buckles glisten in the shaft of sunlight peeking through the curtains. There are trophies for every member of the family: his dadâs chariot racing trophies, Lanaâs softball trophy, Marlaâs rodeo queen plaque, and Timâs football âMr. Hustleâ trophy.
Then there are his trophies: his all-state basketball and football trophies, his state farmer trophy, and his belt buckles from rodeo events, and his state steer wrestling saddle. But even though the trophies look impressive, Neal feels that the real value came from achieving themâthe work, the sweat.
âThe trophies really arenât that great. Other things are more importantâlike them,â Neal says proudly as he nods toward the kitchen where his parentsâ voices can be heard.
âThey spend a lot of time with me and sacrifice a lot for me, which means much more to me than a trophy. In fact, I try to give my belt buckles away, but mom tells me to save some for my kids,â he adds with a grin.
He shies away from talking about his accomplishments, preferring to talk about what heâd still like to achieve. âI still havenât got the best time I think I can get,â he says in reference to his bulldogging. âMaybe next week.â
In the kitchen, his mother, obviously proud of Neal, relates her feelings:
âHeâs a goal setter, and heâll work until he accomplishes them. Someone once told him, Neal, youâll never be a basketball player. Youâre too slow and clumsy. Well, Neal practiced years to prove that if he wanted to play basketball, heâd play basketball! Last year he made âAll-state,â and participated on an all-star team.
âBut more important to me than his awards in sports is the type of boy he is. Whenever heâs going to be late, he calls. And after his dates, he comes in and tells us heâs home; then we usually go to the kitchen and talk and munch on cookies.
âIâm secretary at the high school, and when Neal sees me in the halls he puts his arm around me, and teases me about being his girl. Iâm more proud of him because heâs active in the Church and wants to go on a mission and has a strong testimony than because heâs a good athlete.â
August 16 is rainy and gray, but just before the rodeo the rain stops; The grounds are filled with Rocky Mountain Rodeo Association members, and everything smells like wet hay and leather. Neal throws his long legs into the saddle and heads for the barrier.
âCome on, Fran, letâs give it our best shot,â he whispers.
The rope barrier springs back and they charge out. Mud flies as Neal leans, grabs, twists, and pins the steer. Timeâ3.35 seconds! Nealâs fastest time ever! With a big smile he glances toward the stands where his family sits.
The morning is quiet. On his way out of the house to feed the horses, Brother Gines glances at the shelves of trophies and stops. He stands there, silent, silhouetted against the early morning light, looking at Nealâs basketball trophy and remembering the long hours Neal practiced to prove that he wasnât clumsy. As he stands there, he recollects the times he and Neal have spent together.
âBack when Neal was younger, we milked the neighborâs cows. It was Nealâs job, but I went anyway, figuring that it was important to be with him. We talked about horses and football and bulldogging and the Church. We grew closer together, understanding each other, becoming best friends.
âWhen Neal started bulldogging, I became the hazer (the one who guides the steer in a straight line). Itâs kind of symbolic, both of us coming out together, with me hazing to keep the steer from running wild so Neal can grab him and throw him to the ground. We work well together, weâve done it for so long. I can tell if Neal is hurt, how bad it is, whether it is just another scrape to add to his scars, or whether the horns have dug deeper this time. I never say much, but Iâm right there.
âOne time Iâll never forget is the afternoon we hiked to the top of the mountain looking for deer. When we got to the top, we just sat there, talked, and forgot about the deer. Neal was at that age when he wanted to know things. That was one of the best father-son interviews weâve ever had.
âAs Neal grew older, we didnât stop doing things together. My wife teases us about being inseparable, but a father likes to know that his son wants to spend time with his old dad,â Brother Gines adds with a smile.
On cool fall nights they work outside together, joking, trying to hurry and get the wood stacked so they can go in and eat. They spend long hours hauling hay; taking trips to the saw mill to gather shavings so the animals can have the âsoftest bedsâ; walking quietly through the just-fallen snow, tracking down pheasants; going downtown to get a malt. They are still inseparable, still best friends.
âNeed some help feeding the horses, dad?â Neal asks as he walks into the room.
Brother Gines turns to see Neal all dressed, ready to help. âSure,â he replies.
Together they walk out into the bright morning.
Editorâs note: On August 26, 1980 (while this story was being written) Neal Gines died from injuries inflicted by a lightening bolt while he was working as a telephone linesman. âIâve always had a testimony of living forever as a family,â said his father. âNeal was prepared. Now we as a family must be prepared. I know that we will be together again.â
The judgeâs flag drops. Timeâ6.2 seconds. Neal grins up at his father through the dust and applause, then scans the stands for his mother. Ignoring the burning weal that the horns have left on his ribs, he releases the animal, stands up, and stoops to dust off his western-cut jeans.
Neal Gines, 17, from Kamas, Utah, and his father have just won another first place in bulldogging.
Later, as Neal sprawls out, all 6?5? of him, on the front room floor, he eyes the shelves of trophies that loom on the wall. Over 100 trophies, plaques, and belt buckles glisten in the shaft of sunlight peeking through the curtains. There are trophies for every member of the family: his dadâs chariot racing trophies, Lanaâs softball trophy, Marlaâs rodeo queen plaque, and Timâs football âMr. Hustleâ trophy.
Then there are his trophies: his all-state basketball and football trophies, his state farmer trophy, and his belt buckles from rodeo events, and his state steer wrestling saddle. But even though the trophies look impressive, Neal feels that the real value came from achieving themâthe work, the sweat.
âThe trophies really arenât that great. Other things are more importantâlike them,â Neal says proudly as he nods toward the kitchen where his parentsâ voices can be heard.
âThey spend a lot of time with me and sacrifice a lot for me, which means much more to me than a trophy. In fact, I try to give my belt buckles away, but mom tells me to save some for my kids,â he adds with a grin.
He shies away from talking about his accomplishments, preferring to talk about what heâd still like to achieve. âI still havenât got the best time I think I can get,â he says in reference to his bulldogging. âMaybe next week.â
In the kitchen, his mother, obviously proud of Neal, relates her feelings:
âHeâs a goal setter, and heâll work until he accomplishes them. Someone once told him, Neal, youâll never be a basketball player. Youâre too slow and clumsy. Well, Neal practiced years to prove that if he wanted to play basketball, heâd play basketball! Last year he made âAll-state,â and participated on an all-star team.
âBut more important to me than his awards in sports is the type of boy he is. Whenever heâs going to be late, he calls. And after his dates, he comes in and tells us heâs home; then we usually go to the kitchen and talk and munch on cookies.
âIâm secretary at the high school, and when Neal sees me in the halls he puts his arm around me, and teases me about being his girl. Iâm more proud of him because heâs active in the Church and wants to go on a mission and has a strong testimony than because heâs a good athlete.â
August 16 is rainy and gray, but just before the rodeo the rain stops; The grounds are filled with Rocky Mountain Rodeo Association members, and everything smells like wet hay and leather. Neal throws his long legs into the saddle and heads for the barrier.
âCome on, Fran, letâs give it our best shot,â he whispers.
The rope barrier springs back and they charge out. Mud flies as Neal leans, grabs, twists, and pins the steer. Timeâ3.35 seconds! Nealâs fastest time ever! With a big smile he glances toward the stands where his family sits.
The morning is quiet. On his way out of the house to feed the horses, Brother Gines glances at the shelves of trophies and stops. He stands there, silent, silhouetted against the early morning light, looking at Nealâs basketball trophy and remembering the long hours Neal practiced to prove that he wasnât clumsy. As he stands there, he recollects the times he and Neal have spent together.
âBack when Neal was younger, we milked the neighborâs cows. It was Nealâs job, but I went anyway, figuring that it was important to be with him. We talked about horses and football and bulldogging and the Church. We grew closer together, understanding each other, becoming best friends.
âWhen Neal started bulldogging, I became the hazer (the one who guides the steer in a straight line). Itâs kind of symbolic, both of us coming out together, with me hazing to keep the steer from running wild so Neal can grab him and throw him to the ground. We work well together, weâve done it for so long. I can tell if Neal is hurt, how bad it is, whether it is just another scrape to add to his scars, or whether the horns have dug deeper this time. I never say much, but Iâm right there.
âOne time Iâll never forget is the afternoon we hiked to the top of the mountain looking for deer. When we got to the top, we just sat there, talked, and forgot about the deer. Neal was at that age when he wanted to know things. That was one of the best father-son interviews weâve ever had.
âAs Neal grew older, we didnât stop doing things together. My wife teases us about being inseparable, but a father likes to know that his son wants to spend time with his old dad,â Brother Gines adds with a smile.
On cool fall nights they work outside together, joking, trying to hurry and get the wood stacked so they can go in and eat. They spend long hours hauling hay; taking trips to the saw mill to gather shavings so the animals can have the âsoftest bedsâ; walking quietly through the just-fallen snow, tracking down pheasants; going downtown to get a malt. They are still inseparable, still best friends.
âNeed some help feeding the horses, dad?â Neal asks as he walks into the room.
Brother Gines turns to see Neal all dressed, ready to help. âSure,â he replies.
Together they walk out into the bright morning.
Editorâs note: On August 26, 1980 (while this story was being written) Neal Gines died from injuries inflicted by a lightening bolt while he was working as a telephone linesman. âIâve always had a testimony of living forever as a family,â said his father. âNeal was prepared. Now we as a family must be prepared. I know that we will be together again.â
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Ministering to Those with Physical Health Challenges
Summary: A young mother diagnosed with cancer initially felt alone and afraid. As her ward learned of her situation, sisters organized rides, sat with her during chemotherapy, prayed, brought meals, cleaned her home, and even arranged late-night comedy movies to help her rest. Through this ministering, along with priesthood blessings and ward fasts, she was carried through a difficult period. Strong bonds of love formed among those involved.
After a young mother was diagnosed with cancer, she felt alone and filled with fear. But as the news of her illness spread throughout her ward, she was soon surrounded by the love and concern of her fellow sisters. As her difficult treatments began, sisters drove her to her appointments and sat with her during long chemotherapy sessions. They prayed with her, encouraged her, brought her the few treats she could eat, and brought meals to her family week after week. Other sisters took time away from their own busy lives to clean her house. One sister knew certain treatments would make it hard to fall asleep, so she planned late-night visits to watch comedy movies. Instead of tossing in bed, the young mother was able to turn away from fears for a while and feel the healing power of laughter and friendship. Through these ministrations, priesthood blessings, and ward fasts, she was carried through an extremely difficult time, and strong bonds of love grew between all who were involved.
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Supporting Roles
Summary: The Potter family began performing together at church and eventually turned it into professional work. When Tuhk was diagnosed with leukemia, their performances helped draw support that led to his treatment and eventual remission.
After moving to Los Angeles for his care, the children pursued acting and modeling, supporting one another through auditions and successes. The story concludes by showing the familyâs unity, shared earnings, and commitment to their future education and missions.
It all startedâwhere else?âat church. It was fun for the family to get together and sing, and they began doing it at stake and ward functions in Oregon. Then one day a man asked them how much theyâd charge to perform elsewhere. They said $25, and their professional careers were born.
Some families do jigsaw puzzles together; some ride bikes. The Potters performedâat fairs, shopping malls, civic events, that type of thing. It was fun, gave them some confidence, and kept them close. But suddenly, through a frightening turn of events, their performing became a life-or-death matter.
One day when Tuhk was modeling shorts, his mother noticed some terrible bruises on his legs, and they wouldnât heal. A doctorâs checkup revealed the worstâhe had leukemia. It would take a bone marrow transplant and over $100,000 to save his life.
Now the Potters were performing, without Tuhk, to earn money to help their little brother live. What they made didnât go far, but the publicity they received did. Their ward, stake, and community rallied around them. Soon an offer came from the City of Hope, a medical facility in California, to donate Tuhkâs transplant and treatment.
The family sped south. All the Potter kids tested positive to be bone marrow donors, but Tarrish was selected. They went through weeks of fasting and prayer while their brother went through surgery and chemotherapy, part of it in strict isolation. That was especially hard on Tuhk.
They were also involved in weeks of missionary work. There was another family at the same hospital, up from Mexico, whose son Victor was in the same condition as Tuhk. Victor didnât make it, but the family was able to bear the tragedy with the comfort of the gospel the Potters had shared with them. They were baptized, and when they returned to Mexico, the father eventually became a bishop.
The Potter family was elated when they found that Tuhkâs leukemia had finally gone into remission. When you meet him now, telling funny riddles or playing with Ninja Turtles, youâd never guess heâd once come so close to death.
But his malady had brought the whole family to the Los Angeles area, and since they were in one of the media capitals of the world, the kids decided to try their hand at something they were already good atâacting, modeling, performing. It worked. One by one, they began landing roles.
In a family with six children, youâd think there would be enough sibling rivalry without having to deal with the envy of one person getting more roles than another. But the Potters are amazingly supportive of each other. They love to watch the videotapes of each otherâs commercials and parts, and they watch them over and over again, exclaiming, âLookâthere he/she is! Thatâs a great one!â
Sometimes, two of the Potters are up for the same part. A while back Triskin landed a part as a veejay on Kidsongs, a Disney show that both she and Tarrish had tried out for. But there arenât hard feelings. âYou donât get jealous; you just get sad,â says Tarrish. âItâs not your sisterâs fault she got the part. You donât hate her for it. Itâs better that one of us gets it than none of us.â
The Pottersâ living room walls are covered with framed pictures and mementos of all the work theyâve done. They will explain them to you if you ask, but they wonât automatically steer you toward their own. âThatâs Tylee, thatâs Talon, oh, and thereâs me,â Trek will tell you, as he points to various frames on the walls.
Trek, 12, gets the most parts at the moment, but youâd never know it from his attitude. The money the kids make goes into a common fund. And after you subtract tithing, taxes, transportation, agentsâ fees, managersâ fees, Screen Actors Guild fees, money for acting/voice/dance lessons, plus a myriad of other expenses, their profession might not seem as lucrative as you thought.
But hopefully it will be enough to pay for their missions and their college educations. The Potters take advanced classes now, and while a few of them would like to stay in show business, they realize college is important. âIâd like to be a vet or do something with animals,â says Triskin. âYou canât really depend on acting.â
But for now, they can depend on acting for something to talk about around the dinner table and for something to encourage each other about. Oh, and it does provide for a Ninja Turtle or two, a Game Boy, roller skatesâa few little luxuries like that.
The Potters go to their auditions stoically, usually toting backpacks full of homework to do while they wait for their names to be called. If Trek doesnât get a part today, maybe Tuhk will. And maybe theyâll start filming that movie tomorrow that Triskin has been promised a lead in. Itâs only a matter of time before one of them hears those magic words, âThanks, kidâyouâre exactly what we need. Weâll see you at the studio on Saturday.â For the Potters, one personâs victory is everybodyâs victory.
Some families do jigsaw puzzles together; some ride bikes. The Potters performedâat fairs, shopping malls, civic events, that type of thing. It was fun, gave them some confidence, and kept them close. But suddenly, through a frightening turn of events, their performing became a life-or-death matter.
One day when Tuhk was modeling shorts, his mother noticed some terrible bruises on his legs, and they wouldnât heal. A doctorâs checkup revealed the worstâhe had leukemia. It would take a bone marrow transplant and over $100,000 to save his life.
Now the Potters were performing, without Tuhk, to earn money to help their little brother live. What they made didnât go far, but the publicity they received did. Their ward, stake, and community rallied around them. Soon an offer came from the City of Hope, a medical facility in California, to donate Tuhkâs transplant and treatment.
The family sped south. All the Potter kids tested positive to be bone marrow donors, but Tarrish was selected. They went through weeks of fasting and prayer while their brother went through surgery and chemotherapy, part of it in strict isolation. That was especially hard on Tuhk.
They were also involved in weeks of missionary work. There was another family at the same hospital, up from Mexico, whose son Victor was in the same condition as Tuhk. Victor didnât make it, but the family was able to bear the tragedy with the comfort of the gospel the Potters had shared with them. They were baptized, and when they returned to Mexico, the father eventually became a bishop.
The Potter family was elated when they found that Tuhkâs leukemia had finally gone into remission. When you meet him now, telling funny riddles or playing with Ninja Turtles, youâd never guess heâd once come so close to death.
But his malady had brought the whole family to the Los Angeles area, and since they were in one of the media capitals of the world, the kids decided to try their hand at something they were already good atâacting, modeling, performing. It worked. One by one, they began landing roles.
In a family with six children, youâd think there would be enough sibling rivalry without having to deal with the envy of one person getting more roles than another. But the Potters are amazingly supportive of each other. They love to watch the videotapes of each otherâs commercials and parts, and they watch them over and over again, exclaiming, âLookâthere he/she is! Thatâs a great one!â
Sometimes, two of the Potters are up for the same part. A while back Triskin landed a part as a veejay on Kidsongs, a Disney show that both she and Tarrish had tried out for. But there arenât hard feelings. âYou donât get jealous; you just get sad,â says Tarrish. âItâs not your sisterâs fault she got the part. You donât hate her for it. Itâs better that one of us gets it than none of us.â
The Pottersâ living room walls are covered with framed pictures and mementos of all the work theyâve done. They will explain them to you if you ask, but they wonât automatically steer you toward their own. âThatâs Tylee, thatâs Talon, oh, and thereâs me,â Trek will tell you, as he points to various frames on the walls.
Trek, 12, gets the most parts at the moment, but youâd never know it from his attitude. The money the kids make goes into a common fund. And after you subtract tithing, taxes, transportation, agentsâ fees, managersâ fees, Screen Actors Guild fees, money for acting/voice/dance lessons, plus a myriad of other expenses, their profession might not seem as lucrative as you thought.
But hopefully it will be enough to pay for their missions and their college educations. The Potters take advanced classes now, and while a few of them would like to stay in show business, they realize college is important. âIâd like to be a vet or do something with animals,â says Triskin. âYou canât really depend on acting.â
But for now, they can depend on acting for something to talk about around the dinner table and for something to encourage each other about. Oh, and it does provide for a Ninja Turtle or two, a Game Boy, roller skatesâa few little luxuries like that.
The Potters go to their auditions stoically, usually toting backpacks full of homework to do while they wait for their names to be called. If Trek doesnât get a part today, maybe Tuhk will. And maybe theyâll start filming that movie tomorrow that Triskin has been promised a lead in. Itâs only a matter of time before one of them hears those magic words, âThanks, kidâyouâre exactly what we need. Weâll see you at the studio on Saturday.â For the Potters, one personâs victory is everybodyâs victory.
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Seek Diligently and Ye Shall Find
Summary: After their 88-year-old father-in-law went missing during a candy-shop outing, a family searched day and night for several days, praying, fasting, and receiving help from friends and the police. Late Saturday night, they decided to stop searching on Sunday and prayed for peace; immediately after, a former classmate called via video having found him. He was brought safely home, which the family regarded as a miracle in answer to their faithful efforts.
My husband and I have two children: our daughter, Florence, and son, Frederick Monson. My father-in-law has lived with us for the past eight years. His name is Anthony and he is 88 years old. He is humble, patient, kind, and loving. He is a very faithful Roman Catholic who never misses his prayers or going to church. Be it winter, summer, or raining, attending church is important for him. He gets around by himself and besides church, he likes to go out to the park or to buy candy because he likes sweets.
Both my husband and I work so he is home alone for part of the day. On December 5, 2017, my husband and I were at our office. Around 3 p.m. I called my children to check up on their grandfather. When they told me that he had not yet returned from the sweet shop I felt that he may have become lost. I immediately informed my husband and he and his sister began searching for their father. I joined in the search after work. We searched all the first day and night, but we could not find him. The next morning, we went to the police station and filed a missing person report. The second day we posted his picture on Facebook and WhatsApp. We kept searching until Saturday, December 9. We were very worried. Our friends said that they would pray for his safe return. Some said they would put his name on the prayer roll at the temple. Others searched with us. We really felt the love of God through them.
My family kept praying and I continued my prayer and scripture study. All the scriptures I read were really uplifting and gave me more strength, confidence, faith, and hope that he would be back. An especially meaningful one was Doctrine & Covenants 90:24:
âSeek ye diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly and remember the covenant wherewith ye have covenanted one with another.â
We kept searching all the hospitals and drainage ditches from 6 a.m. until midnight. We did not think about food and the children were even left alone. Our only focus was to find my father-in-law. We printed a notice and posted it everywhere.
On Saturday, December 9, my husband went to search again, and I started to wash my father-in-lawâs clothes and arrange his bed to prepare everything for him to come home and sleep comfortably. That evening, fasting, we started our search again. Satan was working very hard to discourage us, but we did not give up.
Following leads we received from other people, our search that night took us to a dark and dangerous place. Around 11:30 p.m., while we were searching in this area, showing my father-in-lawâs picture to the people, a person approached and after enquiring asked us to leave immediately. He was the Inspector of Police of Nehru Place. We obeyed and left that place and, following another lead, started to walk towards the Kalka Mandir, another dark and dangerous area. We felt uncomfortable there, so we immediately left, reaching home around 1:00 a.m. on Sunday, December 10.
At 1:30 a.m. we knelt down and prayed with tears in our eyes. We decided that we would not search as it was Sunday. Our Heavenly Father wanted us to go to church and partake of the sacrament peacefully. He answered our prayer as we felt peace in our heart. Just as we finished our prayer, we received a call from one of my former classmates, telling me that she had seen an old man. She asked me to confirm that it was he through a video call. It was amazing that the person she had on the video was my father-in-law! We were astonished and once again we thanked our Heavenly Father, for He understood our intention and answered our prayer. My friend brought him to my home on the same night. It was truly a miracle that in a city of over 18 million people, my friend was able to find him.
We have seen miracles happen in our family through prayer, following the scriptures, and searching with faith. Though we have experienced many temptations, discouragements, and disappointments, we hold fast to Godâs promise: âAsk, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be openedâ (3 Nephi 14:7â8; Matthew 7:7â8). I know that we found my father-in-law through the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ with the help of his angels, our friends.
Both my husband and I work so he is home alone for part of the day. On December 5, 2017, my husband and I were at our office. Around 3 p.m. I called my children to check up on their grandfather. When they told me that he had not yet returned from the sweet shop I felt that he may have become lost. I immediately informed my husband and he and his sister began searching for their father. I joined in the search after work. We searched all the first day and night, but we could not find him. The next morning, we went to the police station and filed a missing person report. The second day we posted his picture on Facebook and WhatsApp. We kept searching until Saturday, December 9. We were very worried. Our friends said that they would pray for his safe return. Some said they would put his name on the prayer roll at the temple. Others searched with us. We really felt the love of God through them.
My family kept praying and I continued my prayer and scripture study. All the scriptures I read were really uplifting and gave me more strength, confidence, faith, and hope that he would be back. An especially meaningful one was Doctrine & Covenants 90:24:
âSeek ye diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly and remember the covenant wherewith ye have covenanted one with another.â
We kept searching all the hospitals and drainage ditches from 6 a.m. until midnight. We did not think about food and the children were even left alone. Our only focus was to find my father-in-law. We printed a notice and posted it everywhere.
On Saturday, December 9, my husband went to search again, and I started to wash my father-in-lawâs clothes and arrange his bed to prepare everything for him to come home and sleep comfortably. That evening, fasting, we started our search again. Satan was working very hard to discourage us, but we did not give up.
Following leads we received from other people, our search that night took us to a dark and dangerous place. Around 11:30 p.m., while we were searching in this area, showing my father-in-lawâs picture to the people, a person approached and after enquiring asked us to leave immediately. He was the Inspector of Police of Nehru Place. We obeyed and left that place and, following another lead, started to walk towards the Kalka Mandir, another dark and dangerous area. We felt uncomfortable there, so we immediately left, reaching home around 1:00 a.m. on Sunday, December 10.
At 1:30 a.m. we knelt down and prayed with tears in our eyes. We decided that we would not search as it was Sunday. Our Heavenly Father wanted us to go to church and partake of the sacrament peacefully. He answered our prayer as we felt peace in our heart. Just as we finished our prayer, we received a call from one of my former classmates, telling me that she had seen an old man. She asked me to confirm that it was he through a video call. It was amazing that the person she had on the video was my father-in-law! We were astonished and once again we thanked our Heavenly Father, for He understood our intention and answered our prayer. My friend brought him to my home on the same night. It was truly a miracle that in a city of over 18 million people, my friend was able to find him.
We have seen miracles happen in our family through prayer, following the scriptures, and searching with faith. Though we have experienced many temptations, discouragements, and disappointments, we hold fast to Godâs promise: âAsk, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be openedâ (3 Nephi 14:7â8; Matthew 7:7â8). I know that we found my father-in-law through the love of our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ with the help of his angels, our friends.
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âOne Talkâ in Papua New Guinea
Summary: Discouraged by friends who told her to burn the Book of Mormon, Edna Amburo chose to keep reading and was baptized in 1990. Called to teach seminary despite limited education, she fasted and prayed for two weeks for help. She applied Moroni 10:4â5, gained peace and understanding, and became an effective teacher. She now serves in multiple teaching and leadership roles.
Edna Amburo also had difficulty reading the Book of Mormon at firstânot just because she found it hard to understand, but because friends told her she was âgoing to the fireâ for reading it. âAll my friends told me to burn the book,â she says, âbut I decided not to burn it because I felt the Book of Mormon was the word of God.â
Edna was baptized in 1990. Shortly thereafter, she was called to teach the Book of Mormon to seminary students.
âI said, âHow am I going to teach? I am not an educated woman. I am not a good speaker in English, and I am not a good writer. I left school in grade five.ââ
Branch members and the full-time missionaries encouraged Sister Amburo to ask the Lord for help. She took the suggestion seriously and spent a tearful two weeks fasting and praying that the Lord would help her to become an effective teacher.
âI found Moroni 10:4â5 [Moro. 10:4â5] and exercised it,â she says. âI saw it was true. I got peace in my heart. I got joy. And I was happy that I was going to teach seminary. I really love the Book of Mormon. I understand it now.â
Sister Amburo attributes her spiritual and intellectual growth to help from her Heavenly Father. In addition to teaching seminary, she teaches Sunday School and serves as a counselor in the Popondetta Branch Relief Society presidency.
âStep by step I came along. The Church has helped me a lot. It is a learning church.â
Edna was baptized in 1990. Shortly thereafter, she was called to teach the Book of Mormon to seminary students.
âI said, âHow am I going to teach? I am not an educated woman. I am not a good speaker in English, and I am not a good writer. I left school in grade five.ââ
Branch members and the full-time missionaries encouraged Sister Amburo to ask the Lord for help. She took the suggestion seriously and spent a tearful two weeks fasting and praying that the Lord would help her to become an effective teacher.
âI found Moroni 10:4â5 [Moro. 10:4â5] and exercised it,â she says. âI saw it was true. I got peace in my heart. I got joy. And I was happy that I was going to teach seminary. I really love the Book of Mormon. I understand it now.â
Sister Amburo attributes her spiritual and intellectual growth to help from her Heavenly Father. In addition to teaching seminary, she teaches Sunday School and serves as a counselor in the Popondetta Branch Relief Society presidency.
âStep by step I came along. The Church has helped me a lot. It is a learning church.â
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