My first visit to Queenstown as a newly appointed alternate high councilor in the Durban South Africa Stake was to be the beginning of many unforgettable experiences. Those experiences would lead me to understand better how our Heavenly Father touches the hearts of his children of all races and how he extends his love and protection to those who try to serve him.
Queenstown is located in the eastern part of the Cape Province, surrounded by mountains and situated between states inhabited by the blacks of the Ciskei and Transkei. I was assigned to Church units in East London, on the coast; Queenstown; Sada and Cimezile in the Ciskei; and Illinge in the Transkei.
As a recent immigrant from Harare, Zimbabwe, I served at first as a companion to Brother Dennis Raubenheimer on these visits. He was familiar with the areas we covered because he had served in the district presidency.
The Queenstown Branch has a unique meetinghouseโa funeral parlor provided rent-free by the owners, who have no affiliation with the Church. It has wood-paneled walls, soft lighting, special pews, and an organ. The final speaker in sacrament meeting is usually interrupted by the clanging of bells from the church next door. The noise sometimes continues for several minutes, and the speaker must decide whether to be silent for that time, or to speak louder than the noise. Branch meetings begin at 7:00 A.M. on Sunday so those who will be visiting the outlying branches in the black states will have time to travel.
After that first visit to Queenstown, Brother Raubenheimer and I departed for Ilinge, where we met with branch president Augustine Mjiba and the more than seventy Saints there. They met in a rented school classroom with a corrugated metal roof and a dirt floor. They share the building with another religious group, which uses African drums to lead its singing. But in spite of the interruptions by the drumming and singing, we felt the Spirit in abundance and experienced a warmth and love for the Saints who meet in such conditions.
Our next visit to Queenstown included stops at the Sada and Cimezile branches.
Church members at Sada met in a school building similar to the one at Ilinge, except that the floor is of pine strips. President Headman Gquola greeted us with his beaming smile as we arrived. Once again, each member of the sixty-strong branch stood in line, awaiting their turn to greet us eagerly with a handshake.
In these branches we use translators because the majority of the Saints can not understand English any more than we can understand their native Xhosa. (This handicap is being overcome, as high council members have been instructed by the stake president to learn that language.) The singing in these branches is a delightful experience. One has to hear the unique harmony and volume of their singing to appreciate fully the joy of their pure, resonant voices.
After a most uplifting meeting with the Sada Saints, we traveled to Cimezile on a winding gravel road. One has to be constantly alert to hazards such as wandering sheep and goats on these roads, as well as the perils of crossing rocky river beds; on one occasion, the muffler was ripped from the exhaust system of my car.
In Cimezile I met one of the most spiritual families that I have ever known, Wilson and Judith Nqunqa and their eight children. Brother Nqunqa had done the high-quality stone work of the outer walls of their typical rondavel African home. Pictures of the Church president and General Authorities and posters with the words to our hymns line the walls of their spotlessly clean home.
Brother Raubenheimer remarked that in their humble home, where even the children spoke in soft tones, the reverence and spirit we experienced was as it might have been in the house of the Lord.
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From Queenstown to Cimezile
Summary: The writer describes his early visits as an alternate high councilor to Church branches in eastern South Africa, including Queenstown, Ilinge, Sada, and Cimezile. He recounts the faith and hospitality of members meeting in humble conditions and highlights a particularly spiritual visit to the Nqunqa family home in Cimezile. The setting and reverence of that home left a lasting impression, leading Brother Raubenheimer to compare it to the house of the Lord.
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๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
Children
Faith
Family
Humility
Reverence
Are You There?
Summary: After an MTC class, a new missionary privately admits to the instructor that he is no longer sure he knows the Church is true. They later talk at length about faith and testimony, and the instructor encourages him to keep seeking and to write when he finds his 'vein of gold.' Not long afterward, the missionary sends a postcard, indicating he found his witness.
โCould I โฆ uh โฆโ The dark-haired elder in front of me shifted awkwardly. โI mean, I was wondering โฆ if we could talk.โ I had been teaching Sunday classes at the Provo Missionary Training Center for several months and had just finished my weekly lesson.
โNo problem,โ I assured him as we walked down the hall, away from classroom and companions. I had noticed this elder for the first time the previous Sunday. His eyes had been as shiny as his new Swedish knit suit. Now, both suit and eyes were showing the weekโs wear.
โItโs what you said in class,โ he began quietly. โYou know, about faith. Well โฆโ he hesitated. โWell, I โฆโ he paused again. His averted eyes did little to disguise the tears that were welling.
โI always thought I knew the Church was true till now.โ He shrugged his shoulders and sighed. โI came on this mission to tell people that I know.โ His voice was husky with suppressed emotion. โBut now Iโm not sure. Iโm just not sure.โ
โYouโre not sure you know?โ
He nodded. The tears glistening on his lashes brimmed over. Suddenly our communication went beyond the foreign language he was studying and the English language we shared. As I watched him I remembered when I, too, wondered if God was there and what on earth I was doing, literally.
My mind returned to the MTC and the young missionary before me. โI know youโll think Iโm a terrible elder,โ he said. โI know youโll think Iโm wrong and weak โฆโ His words shocked me. Wrong? Weak? Are doubts wrong? Are questions a sign of weakness? Didnโt Joseph Smith himself doubt and question as he learned?
For 30 minutes we talked about faith and testimony. โSomeday, Elder,โ I said at the close of our conversation, โwhen you hit the vein of gold we talked about, send me a postcard.โ And not too long after our discussion, he did just that.
โNo problem,โ I assured him as we walked down the hall, away from classroom and companions. I had noticed this elder for the first time the previous Sunday. His eyes had been as shiny as his new Swedish knit suit. Now, both suit and eyes were showing the weekโs wear.
โItโs what you said in class,โ he began quietly. โYou know, about faith. Well โฆโ he hesitated. โWell, I โฆโ he paused again. His averted eyes did little to disguise the tears that were welling.
โI always thought I knew the Church was true till now.โ He shrugged his shoulders and sighed. โI came on this mission to tell people that I know.โ His voice was husky with suppressed emotion. โBut now Iโm not sure. Iโm just not sure.โ
โYouโre not sure you know?โ
He nodded. The tears glistening on his lashes brimmed over. Suddenly our communication went beyond the foreign language he was studying and the English language we shared. As I watched him I remembered when I, too, wondered if God was there and what on earth I was doing, literally.
My mind returned to the MTC and the young missionary before me. โI know youโll think Iโm a terrible elder,โ he said. โI know youโll think Iโm wrong and weak โฆโ His words shocked me. Wrong? Weak? Are doubts wrong? Are questions a sign of weakness? Didnโt Joseph Smith himself doubt and question as he learned?
For 30 minutes we talked about faith and testimony. โSomeday, Elder,โ I said at the close of our conversation, โwhen you hit the vein of gold we talked about, send me a postcard.โ And not too long after our discussion, he did just that.
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๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Church Members (General)
Doubt
Faith
Joseph Smith
Ministering
Missionary Work
Teaching the Gospel
Testimony
Growing Faith and Other Good Things in Kiribati
Summary: Champion gardener Koruea Kaburara and her husband help about 100 people each month by providing seedlings and hands-on guidance. She sometimes supplies soil or compost and shares plants with those committed to follow through. Through careful management she feeds her family, earns extra income, and her neighbors appreciate access to fresh vegetables.
Champion Koruea Kaburara estimates that she and her husband assist about 100 people every month. She is very careful to help those she gives her seedlings to by providing instruction and supervision.
Sometimes she helps them by giving them soil or compost that she produces.
Koruea gives her tender plants to those who are serious about following through. โMany members come to me and so do people at my work and in my community. I feel like I want to help both. They are happy to get the plants.โ
When the champion has seedlings left over, they can transplant them into their own garden for their personal use or they may sell their excess produce to neighbours.
Koruea is able to feed her family and to generate some extra income through her skillful management. Her neighbours are grateful to be able to purchase the fresh vegetables from her. The creative system benefits all involved and can be sustained.
Sometimes she helps them by giving them soil or compost that she produces.
Koruea gives her tender plants to those who are serious about following through. โMany members come to me and so do people at my work and in my community. I feel like I want to help both. They are happy to get the plants.โ
When the champion has seedlings left over, they can transplant them into their own garden for their personal use or they may sell their excess produce to neighbours.
Koruea is able to feed her family and to generate some extra income through her skillful management. Her neighbours are grateful to be able to purchase the fresh vegetables from her. The creative system benefits all involved and can be sustained.
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๐ค Church Members (General)
Charity
Education
Employment
Self-Reliance
Service
COVID-19: Messages of Guidance, Healing, and Hope
Summary: Kateryna, a Church-service missionary, was trained to conduct PathwayConnect gatherings virtually. The next day quarantine was announced, and she expressed gratitude that they could still gather, worship, and sing at home with the Saviorโs presence.
I serve as a Church-service missionary with the PathwayConnect program in the Kyiv Ukraine Stake. The leaders of the program decided to train all of us who lead in-person gatherings so that we could conduct them virtually. The very next day, the government announced quarantine measures in Kyiv.
I love the opportunity to gather together for PathwayConnect. And I love the opportunity to gather together to worship and sing together at home on Sundays. I am grateful for the assurance that where two or three gather in His name, He is there. No one knows how long we will be in quarantine in Kyiv, but we know that the Savior will hear our singing.
Kateryna Serdyuk, Kyiv, Ukraine
I love the opportunity to gather together for PathwayConnect. And I love the opportunity to gather together to worship and sing together at home on Sundays. I am grateful for the assurance that where two or three gather in His name, He is there. No one knows how long we will be in quarantine in Kyiv, but we know that the Savior will hear our singing.
Kateryna Serdyuk, Kyiv, Ukraine
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๐ค Missionaries
๐ค Church Leaders (Local)
๐ค Church Members (General)
Adversity
Education
Faith
Jesus Christ
Missionary Work
Music
Sabbath Day
Service
Two-Year Time-Out
Summary: Chris Jones grew up in a gospel-centered home in St. Maryโs, Georgia, where his parents joined the Church despite ridicule. Though football brought him scholarship offers and opportunities, he chose to serve a mission and put the game completely behind him. After his mission, BYU gave him another chance to play, but his focus remained on the gospel, missionary work, and doing what is right.
Chris is from St. Maryโs, Georgia. His parents, Artie and Carolyn Jones, met the missionaries in 1978, when Chris was only two. Chris said, โThe first time my dad went to church, he saw a lot of people that he recognized in the community that respected him. That was one thing he really noticed.โ
The Jones family was baptized and, as Chris has been told, they received a lot of ridicule for joining the Church. When Chris looks back, he is so appreciative of the fact that his parents were able to raise him and his two brothers and one sister in a way consistent with the principles of the gospel. And Chris grew up knowing that someday he would serve a mission. โIf it is part of the Church and the Church is true, then Iโll do it.โ
In fact, Chris says his mother helped him keep that in mind. โMy mom was the one that pulled us out of bed at 5:15 in the morning to go to seminary for four years. It was a struggle. I hated getting up at 5:15. But it was through a combination of my mother and going to seminary that I gained a testimony of the gospel. Up until then, I always knew the gospel was right. I just didnโt know why it was right.โ
As Chris gained a testimony, he found that living the gospel principles helped him learn about prayer. โI canโt recall a prayer that Iโve never received an answer to. Receiving an answer is a matter of allowing the Lord to answer you and give you His answer. A lot of times if you pray with your own answer in mind, you look for that answer. If another answer comes, then youโre not ready to receive it.โ
Chris loved playing football in grade school and junior high. He started at linebacker all during high school. And, as Chris points out, football in Georgia is serious business. His high school would have 10,000 fans attend its Friday night games. During his junior year, he began getting attention from college scouts. It was exciting, but his mom would remind him not to get too interested because he was going on a mission.
When the scouts showed up, that was the time Chris had to face the possibilities of playing football at the college level. His high school coach told the scouts that he was a hard-working player and was an honor student. Finally concrete offers started to comeโfull-ride scholarships through four years of college, worth thousands of dollars.
โI asked,โ said Chris, โif they would hold a scholarship for two years. One coach was shocked. I told him I was going to go on a mission for my church. He just stared at me and said, โYouโre going to give up 80 thousand dollars to serve a mission for two years?โ He got mad at me. But I didnโt get offended.โ After that, his coach started turning away college recruiters interested in Chris.
Eventually, State University of West Georgia called. The school offered him a scholarship. It turned out that Chris would be able to play a year and a quarter, essentially two seasons, before turning 19 and receiving a mission call. โI knew that all things were possible with the Lord. There were people saying that I couldnโt serve a mission and play ball, yet the Lord provided a way to do both.โ
Chris struggled at West Georgia, not on the field where he started as a true freshman but in the permissive atmosphere in the dorms. He didnโt like what was going on around him. He was more determined than ever to go on a mission. And it was on his mission that Chris put football behind him completely. He told his coaches that if they needed to talk to him, to go through his parents. He didnโt keep up on what the team was doing. He says that the only way to serve on a mission is completely and with total focus.
At the conclusion of his mission, Chris decided that he could not return to the atmosphere at his former college. He thought that was also a decision to give up football, and he was willing to do it.
Just as Chris was completing his mission, his mission president contacted BYU about Chris. At first, becoming a BYU football team member didnโt seem like a possibility, but he was invited to try out. He received a full-ride scholarship but was redshirted a year. Once Chris thought sitting out a year would be horrible, but now it was a blessing. He was able to concentrate on his major, a difficult one, in manufacturing engineering and technology. He feels that the Lord has guided his life because at BYU he has had the opportunity to continue missionary work as a ward mission leader. Football will fall by the wayside. Thatโs fine with Chris. It no longer has his heart.
There is, however, one thing Chris has always wantedโa championship ring. He just missed taking state in high school. And his college team won the conference the year he left on his mission. Knowing this, some friends on his mission got together and bought Chris a ringโa CTR ring that he wears continually. Itโs become his championship ring.
Whenever Chris looks at it he is reminded of what he believes deep inside. โRight makes you happy. If you do what is right, everything will fall into place.โ
The Jones family was baptized and, as Chris has been told, they received a lot of ridicule for joining the Church. When Chris looks back, he is so appreciative of the fact that his parents were able to raise him and his two brothers and one sister in a way consistent with the principles of the gospel. And Chris grew up knowing that someday he would serve a mission. โIf it is part of the Church and the Church is true, then Iโll do it.โ
In fact, Chris says his mother helped him keep that in mind. โMy mom was the one that pulled us out of bed at 5:15 in the morning to go to seminary for four years. It was a struggle. I hated getting up at 5:15. But it was through a combination of my mother and going to seminary that I gained a testimony of the gospel. Up until then, I always knew the gospel was right. I just didnโt know why it was right.โ
As Chris gained a testimony, he found that living the gospel principles helped him learn about prayer. โI canโt recall a prayer that Iโve never received an answer to. Receiving an answer is a matter of allowing the Lord to answer you and give you His answer. A lot of times if you pray with your own answer in mind, you look for that answer. If another answer comes, then youโre not ready to receive it.โ
Chris loved playing football in grade school and junior high. He started at linebacker all during high school. And, as Chris points out, football in Georgia is serious business. His high school would have 10,000 fans attend its Friday night games. During his junior year, he began getting attention from college scouts. It was exciting, but his mom would remind him not to get too interested because he was going on a mission.
When the scouts showed up, that was the time Chris had to face the possibilities of playing football at the college level. His high school coach told the scouts that he was a hard-working player and was an honor student. Finally concrete offers started to comeโfull-ride scholarships through four years of college, worth thousands of dollars.
โI asked,โ said Chris, โif they would hold a scholarship for two years. One coach was shocked. I told him I was going to go on a mission for my church. He just stared at me and said, โYouโre going to give up 80 thousand dollars to serve a mission for two years?โ He got mad at me. But I didnโt get offended.โ After that, his coach started turning away college recruiters interested in Chris.
Eventually, State University of West Georgia called. The school offered him a scholarship. It turned out that Chris would be able to play a year and a quarter, essentially two seasons, before turning 19 and receiving a mission call. โI knew that all things were possible with the Lord. There were people saying that I couldnโt serve a mission and play ball, yet the Lord provided a way to do both.โ
Chris struggled at West Georgia, not on the field where he started as a true freshman but in the permissive atmosphere in the dorms. He didnโt like what was going on around him. He was more determined than ever to go on a mission. And it was on his mission that Chris put football behind him completely. He told his coaches that if they needed to talk to him, to go through his parents. He didnโt keep up on what the team was doing. He says that the only way to serve on a mission is completely and with total focus.
At the conclusion of his mission, Chris decided that he could not return to the atmosphere at his former college. He thought that was also a decision to give up football, and he was willing to do it.
Just as Chris was completing his mission, his mission president contacted BYU about Chris. At first, becoming a BYU football team member didnโt seem like a possibility, but he was invited to try out. He received a full-ride scholarship but was redshirted a year. Once Chris thought sitting out a year would be horrible, but now it was a blessing. He was able to concentrate on his major, a difficult one, in manufacturing engineering and technology. He feels that the Lord has guided his life because at BYU he has had the opportunity to continue missionary work as a ward mission leader. Football will fall by the wayside. Thatโs fine with Chris. It no longer has his heart.
There is, however, one thing Chris has always wantedโa championship ring. He just missed taking state in high school. And his college team won the conference the year he left on his mission. Knowing this, some friends on his mission got together and bought Chris a ringโa CTR ring that he wears continually. Itโs become his championship ring.
Whenever Chris looks at it he is reminded of what he believes deep inside. โRight makes you happy. If you do what is right, everything will fall into place.โ
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๐ค Parents
๐ค Children
๐ค Missionaries
Adversity
Baptism
Conversion
Faith
Family
Missionary Work
Testimony
Young Men
FYI:For Your Info
Summary: Laura Gilmour balances her responsibilities as Head Girl with seminary, music, and science activities. Owen Redmond says he will not let football interfere with his future mission, no matter where he is. The young women of the Swansea First Ward raised money and supplies for starving people in Romania through a community auction.
Being Head Girl (which is similar to student-body president) means a lot to Laura Gilmour of Lochwinoch, Renfrewshire, Scotland. โItโs not the easiest thing I have ever done,โ she says. โThere are a lot of activities and seminars to help organise, but I really enjoy doing it.โ
In addition to leadership responsibilities, Laura keeps up with her seminary studies, is learning violin, bass guitar, and attends numerous science-oriented conferences.
Those who know football (soccer) say 12-year-old Owen Redmond could be one of the best Dublin, Ireland, has ever seen. Scouts are already coming to Owenโs games. Within a few years he could be offered a chance to play in a professional clubโs reserve league. But even that wonโt interfere with one plan he has.
โI wonโt miss out on my mission, no matter where I am. If a mission interferes with my football, Iโll just go anyway. It will work out as long as I keep the Church before anything else.โ
When young women of the Swansea First Ward, Merthyr Tydfil Wales Stake, saw pictures of people starving in Romania, they wanted to help.
So they went to local businesses and asked for donationsโnot just money, but also products and services, for an auction at the ward house. It seemed everyone in town came, and money went to buy much-needed food, medicine, and clothing.
In addition to leadership responsibilities, Laura keeps up with her seminary studies, is learning violin, bass guitar, and attends numerous science-oriented conferences.
Those who know football (soccer) say 12-year-old Owen Redmond could be one of the best Dublin, Ireland, has ever seen. Scouts are already coming to Owenโs games. Within a few years he could be offered a chance to play in a professional clubโs reserve league. But even that wonโt interfere with one plan he has.
โI wonโt miss out on my mission, no matter where I am. If a mission interferes with my football, Iโll just go anyway. It will work out as long as I keep the Church before anything else.โ
When young women of the Swansea First Ward, Merthyr Tydfil Wales Stake, saw pictures of people starving in Romania, they wanted to help.
So they went to local businesses and asked for donationsโnot just money, but also products and services, for an auction at the ward house. It seemed everyone in town came, and money went to buy much-needed food, medicine, and clothing.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Church Members (General)
Education
Music
Stewardship
Young Women
What Beholdest Thou?
Summary: At the Nauvoo Temple dedication, President Gordon B. Hinckley invited listeners to imagine an 1846 pioneer family leaving Nauvoo in the cold. After the session, more than a thousand people responded by walking to Parley's Street and the river. The event became a living act of remembrance and an example of members heeding a prophet's voice.
During the concluding moments of the Nauvoo Temple Dedication, I remember President Gordon B. Hinckley saying something like this,
Walk with me down Parley's Street. I want to paint a picture. A family walking near a wagon, snow swirling in the wind, an icy river in front of them. A little girl walking beside her mother shivers and cries, "Mama, I'm cold. Why can't we go home? This was the picture that I saw. Can you see it too, the little family facing the icy river? Can you feel it?
It is a beautiful, tender picture of sacrifice, trust, faith, and love.
President Hinckley invited those present to walk into the picture, and though it was a sticky hot June day, to imagine that frigid day in February. And they did. As the session concluded more than 1000 members poured out of the Temple heading for Parley's St. and the river. They were joined by hundreds more, who had heard President Hinckley's invitation in other locations.
The Church News reported:
What unfolded on June 30, 2002, was like a spiritual snapshot, the capturing of a moment to remember forever: Members of the Church heeded a prophet's voice. The distance covered, approximately a mile, wasn't significant, but the walk itself was.
The crowd thinned as people took different routes. Some went through a grove of trees, some kept to the dusty footpaths . . . They eventually merged on Parley St. and continued their walk to the river's edge. . .
The reason so many took the walk was summed up by four year old Anna Jensen, who said she sings "Follow the Prophet" in Primary.[1]
Walk with me down Parley's Street. I want to paint a picture. A family walking near a wagon, snow swirling in the wind, an icy river in front of them. A little girl walking beside her mother shivers and cries, "Mama, I'm cold. Why can't we go home? This was the picture that I saw. Can you see it too, the little family facing the icy river? Can you feel it?
It is a beautiful, tender picture of sacrifice, trust, faith, and love.
President Hinckley invited those present to walk into the picture, and though it was a sticky hot June day, to imagine that frigid day in February. And they did. As the session concluded more than 1000 members poured out of the Temple heading for Parley's St. and the river. They were joined by hundreds more, who had heard President Hinckley's invitation in other locations.
The Church News reported:
What unfolded on June 30, 2002, was like a spiritual snapshot, the capturing of a moment to remember forever: Members of the Church heeded a prophet's voice. The distance covered, approximately a mile, wasn't significant, but the walk itself was.
The crowd thinned as people took different routes. Some went through a grove of trees, some kept to the dusty footpaths . . . They eventually merged on Parley St. and continued their walk to the river's edge. . .
The reason so many took the walk was summed up by four year old Anna Jensen, who said she sings "Follow the Prophet" in Primary.[1]
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๐ค General Authorities (Modern)
๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Children
๐ค Parents
๐ค Pioneers
Always Remember Him
Summary: A mechanic serving in the temple was told to clean his hands before serving. Instead of taking offense, he began scrubbing the family dishes by hand with extra soapy water before attending the temple. His response exemplified clean hands and a pure heart.
My friendโs father worked as a mechanic. His honest labor showed even in his carefully washed hands. One day someone at a temple told my friendโs father he should clean his hands before serving there. Instead of being offended, this good man began to scrub the family dishes by hand with extra soapy water before attending the temple. He exemplifies those who โascend into the hill of the Lordโ and โstand in his holy placeโ with the cleanest of hands and the purest of hearts.16
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๐ค Friends
๐ค Church Members (General)
Honesty
Humility
Obedience
Reverence
Temples
Developing Christlike Characteristics
Summary: While serving as a stake president, the speaker received a call about a car accident involving three teenage girls from his stake. During the call, the mother of one victim learned that her own daughter had died, yet immediately focused on informing and helping the other mothers. Her response became an unforgettable example of Christlike character under extreme sorrow.
Let me now briefly share with you two memorable experiences from my service as a stake president that highlight the relationship between our actions and a Christlike character.
Early one summer morning I was showering. My wife called to me in the middle of my shower and indicated that I was needed immediately on the telephone. (This was before the day of cell and cordless phones). I quickly put on my robe and hurried to the phone. I next heard the voice of a dear sister and friend informing me of a tragic automobile accident that had just occurred in a remote area involving three teenage young women from our stake. Our friend indicated one of the young women had already been pronounced dead at the scene of the accident and that the two other young women were badly injured and presently were being transported to the regional medical center in Fayetteville. She further reported that the identity of the deceased young woman was not yet known. There was urgency in her voice, but there was no panic or excessive alarm. She then asked if I could go to the hospital, meet the ambulance when it arrived, and assist in identifying the young women. I answered that I would leave immediately.
During the course of our telephone conversation and as I listened to both the information being conveyed and the voice of our friend, I gradually became aware of two important things. First, this friend's daughter was one of the young women involved in the accident. Our friend lived approximately 35 miles from the hospital and therefore needed the assistance of someone who lived closer to the city. Second, I detected that the mother simultaneously was using two telephone handsets with one in each hand pressed to each of her ears. I became aware that as she was talking with me, she was also talking with a nurse at a small rural hospital who had initially attended to the three accident victims. Our friend was receiving updated information about the condition of the young women in the very moment she was informing me about the accident and requesting my help. I then heard one of the most remarkable things I have ever heard in my life.
I faintly heard the nurse telling this faithful mother and friend that the young woman pronounced dead at the scene of the accident had been positively identified as her daughter. I could not believe what I was hearing. I was listening to this good woman in the very moment that she learned of the death of her precious daughter. Without hesitation, and with a calm and most deliberate voice, our friend next said, President Bednar, we must get in contact with the two other mothers. We must let them know as much as we can about the condition of their daughters and that they will soon be in the hospital in Fayetteville. There was no self-pity; there was no self-absorption; there was no turning inward. The Christlike character of this devoted woman was manifested in her immediate and almost instinctive turning outward to attend to the needs of other suffering mothers. It was a moment and a lesson that I have never forgotten. In a moment of ultimate grief, this dear friend reached outward when I likely would have turned inward.
Early one summer morning I was showering. My wife called to me in the middle of my shower and indicated that I was needed immediately on the telephone. (This was before the day of cell and cordless phones). I quickly put on my robe and hurried to the phone. I next heard the voice of a dear sister and friend informing me of a tragic automobile accident that had just occurred in a remote area involving three teenage young women from our stake. Our friend indicated one of the young women had already been pronounced dead at the scene of the accident and that the two other young women were badly injured and presently were being transported to the regional medical center in Fayetteville. She further reported that the identity of the deceased young woman was not yet known. There was urgency in her voice, but there was no panic or excessive alarm. She then asked if I could go to the hospital, meet the ambulance when it arrived, and assist in identifying the young women. I answered that I would leave immediately.
During the course of our telephone conversation and as I listened to both the information being conveyed and the voice of our friend, I gradually became aware of two important things. First, this friend's daughter was one of the young women involved in the accident. Our friend lived approximately 35 miles from the hospital and therefore needed the assistance of someone who lived closer to the city. Second, I detected that the mother simultaneously was using two telephone handsets with one in each hand pressed to each of her ears. I became aware that as she was talking with me, she was also talking with a nurse at a small rural hospital who had initially attended to the three accident victims. Our friend was receiving updated information about the condition of the young women in the very moment she was informing me about the accident and requesting my help. I then heard one of the most remarkable things I have ever heard in my life.
I faintly heard the nurse telling this faithful mother and friend that the young woman pronounced dead at the scene of the accident had been positively identified as her daughter. I could not believe what I was hearing. I was listening to this good woman in the very moment that she learned of the death of her precious daughter. Without hesitation, and with a calm and most deliberate voice, our friend next said, President Bednar, we must get in contact with the two other mothers. We must let them know as much as we can about the condition of their daughters and that they will soon be in the hospital in Fayetteville. There was no self-pity; there was no self-absorption; there was no turning inward. The Christlike character of this devoted woman was manifested in her immediate and almost instinctive turning outward to attend to the needs of other suffering mothers. It was a moment and a lesson that I have never forgotten. In a moment of ultimate grief, this dear friend reached outward when I likely would have turned inward.
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๐ค Parents
๐ค Youth
๐ค Friends
๐ค Church Members (General)
Friend to Friend
Summary: The children's grandfather, a convert, exercised the priesthood when the father's younger sister had whooping cough and struggled to breathe. He laid hands on her head and blessed her to breathe and live. She soon improved, leaving a lasting impression on the father as a child.
โMy grandparents were converts to the Church and became totally committed to the gospel. Dad recalls many times when as a child he witnessed the power of the priesthood in his home. One night when his younger sister was very ill with whooping cough, she couldnโt breathe and they thought she might die. Dad remembers Grandpa laying his hands on her head and blessing her that she would be able to breathe and live. She soon became better. Such experiences left a lasting impression on him.โ
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๐ค General Authorities (Modern)
๐ค Church Members (General)
๐ค Children
Conversion
Faith
Family
Health
Miracles
Priesthood
Priesthood Blessing
Go, Jag! Jaganath Martin of Riverton, Utah
Summary: As a young child, Jag asks his mom why monkeys jump in trees and assumes he will grow arms and legs as he gets older. When he learns that his body wonโt change, he cries. He usually only gets upset when his disability stops him from doing something, but most of the time he finds ways to do what he wants.
Many of us have problems that can get in our way: poor eyesight, bad hearing, or perhaps crooked feet. Jaganath Martin, age 8, sees his problems as hurdles to fly over. Jag was born missing portions of his arms and legs.
โMom, why do monkeys jump in trees?โ Jag asked one morning.
โI guess because they are just built that way,โ his mom replied.
โSo when I get big, I can jump in trees too!โ he exclaimed. He thought he would grow arms and legs as he grew older.
Jag cried when Mom told him his body wasnโt built that way. โHe only gets upset about his disability if it stops him from doing something, like riding bikes,โ his mom says. Most of the time, Jag learns how to do what he wants to do.
โMom, why do monkeys jump in trees?โ Jag asked one morning.
โI guess because they are just built that way,โ his mom replied.
โSo when I get big, I can jump in trees too!โ he exclaimed. He thought he would grow arms and legs as he grew older.
Jag cried when Mom told him his body wasnโt built that way. โHe only gets upset about his disability if it stops him from doing something, like riding bikes,โ his mom says. Most of the time, Jag learns how to do what he wants to do.
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๐ค Parents
Adversity
Children
Courage
Disabilities
Parenting
What I Wish I Had Known
Summary: At a mission presidents' seminar in Burbank, Stephen B. Allen was driven to the airport by two missionaries, one of whom treated his missionary work casually. Prompted by prayer, Allen challenged the elder to study and live chapter 8 of Preach My Gospel exactly. Months later the missionary wrote back that the final six months of his mission had become glorious and that he had learned lasting principles of goals, planning, and accountability.
Steve Allen, director of the Missionary Department, shared the following experience with me:
"A few years ago, I attended a mission presidents' seminar in Burbank, California. The local mission president had arranged for two of his proselyting missionaries to drive me from the chapel to the Burbank Airport on a Saturday afternoon. When I got into the vehicle, I noticed that the junior companion was seated in the back seat and seemed to be disconnected from the world. The driver, who had been out for about 18 months, saw his task as being a chauffeur. Neither of these missionaries knew that I was the managing director of the Missionary Department. They simply viewed themselves as taxi drivers. We had 15 minutes until we would arrive at the airport."
"I prayed and asked Heavenly Father if there would be some way that I could connect with these two missionaries, particularly the driver. I felt impressed to ask him if I could look at his planner. He nonchalantly handed me the planner and kept driving. In glancing through the planner, it was very clear that he was using it simply as a scheduling tool and that he did not understand chapter eight of Preach My Gospel. I thanked him, handed back his planner and prayed again."
"In a few moments, I felt impressed to ask him this question: 'Elder Smith (not his real name), if I were to share with you an idea, which if you followed, would earn you three to four times more money over the course of your lifetime than you were going to make, would you be interested? For example, if over the course of your lifetime, you are going to earn $10 million, this idea will help you earn $30 million.' He thought about it for a moment and then responded by restating my question, 'You have an idea that if I do it, it will earn me three to four more times more money over the course of my lifetime than I am going to make?' 'Yes.' He responded, 'Yes, I would be interested.'"
"I said, 'I am willing to share this idea with you on one condition, that you promise me you will do exactly what I teach you.' This caused some pause on his part, and when he finally responded, with about nine minutes to go to the airport, he said, 'So, you have an idea, that if I do it and I promise you I will do it, that it will earn me three to four times more money over the course of my lifetime. But you won't share it with me unless I promise to do it, correct?' 'Correct.' He again thought about it for several minutes and said, 'Alright, I promise. I will do exactly what you say.' And so I told him that it was obvious from his planner that he does not understand chapter eight of Preach My Gospel. I told him that it was developed by a very skilled team of people who understand how to use time wisely and that it has been hailed by many professional people as one of the finest pieces of work on the topic."
"I invited him, beginning that day, to reread Preach My Gospel chapter eight and make a list of all the principles in the chapter. Then, to begin living the principles with exactness. I said, 'Your goal is to become a Preach My Gospel chapter eight missionary. If it says to do something in that chapter, you do it. Make it a part of who you are. If you do this and apply it to your life, you will earn three to four times more money than you are going to on your current course.' He said that he would do it and we parted company."
"I did not expect to hear back from Elder Smith, but about seven or eight months later, I received a letter from him, thanking me for that invitation. He said he had done exactly as he promised. He studied chapter eight and had indeed become a Preach My Gospel chapter eight missionary. He said his only regret was that he had wasted the first 18 months of his mission without this experience. He said the last six months were glorious, and there was no question in his mind that he will earn at least three to four times more money than he would have; but more importantly, he has learned how to set goals, make plans, be accountable, and achieve at a much higher level than before."[18]
"A few years ago, I attended a mission presidents' seminar in Burbank, California. The local mission president had arranged for two of his proselyting missionaries to drive me from the chapel to the Burbank Airport on a Saturday afternoon. When I got into the vehicle, I noticed that the junior companion was seated in the back seat and seemed to be disconnected from the world. The driver, who had been out for about 18 months, saw his task as being a chauffeur. Neither of these missionaries knew that I was the managing director of the Missionary Department. They simply viewed themselves as taxi drivers. We had 15 minutes until we would arrive at the airport."
"I prayed and asked Heavenly Father if there would be some way that I could connect with these two missionaries, particularly the driver. I felt impressed to ask him if I could look at his planner. He nonchalantly handed me the planner and kept driving. In glancing through the planner, it was very clear that he was using it simply as a scheduling tool and that he did not understand chapter eight of Preach My Gospel. I thanked him, handed back his planner and prayed again."
"In a few moments, I felt impressed to ask him this question: 'Elder Smith (not his real name), if I were to share with you an idea, which if you followed, would earn you three to four times more money over the course of your lifetime than you were going to make, would you be interested? For example, if over the course of your lifetime, you are going to earn $10 million, this idea will help you earn $30 million.' He thought about it for a moment and then responded by restating my question, 'You have an idea that if I do it, it will earn me three to four more times more money over the course of my lifetime than I am going to make?' 'Yes.' He responded, 'Yes, I would be interested.'"
"I said, 'I am willing to share this idea with you on one condition, that you promise me you will do exactly what I teach you.' This caused some pause on his part, and when he finally responded, with about nine minutes to go to the airport, he said, 'So, you have an idea, that if I do it and I promise you I will do it, that it will earn me three to four times more money over the course of my lifetime. But you won't share it with me unless I promise to do it, correct?' 'Correct.' He again thought about it for several minutes and said, 'Alright, I promise. I will do exactly what you say.' And so I told him that it was obvious from his planner that he does not understand chapter eight of Preach My Gospel. I told him that it was developed by a very skilled team of people who understand how to use time wisely and that it has been hailed by many professional people as one of the finest pieces of work on the topic."
"I invited him, beginning that day, to reread Preach My Gospel chapter eight and make a list of all the principles in the chapter. Then, to begin living the principles with exactness. I said, 'Your goal is to become a Preach My Gospel chapter eight missionary. If it says to do something in that chapter, you do it. Make it a part of who you are. If you do this and apply it to your life, you will earn three to four times more money than you are going to on your current course.' He said that he would do it and we parted company."
"I did not expect to hear back from Elder Smith, but about seven or eight months later, I received a letter from him, thanking me for that invitation. He said he had done exactly as he promised. He studied chapter eight and had indeed become a Preach My Gospel chapter eight missionary. He said his only regret was that he had wasted the first 18 months of his mission without this experience. He said the last six months were glorious, and there was no question in his mind that he will earn at least three to four times more money than he would have; but more importantly, he has learned how to set goals, make plans, be accountable, and achieve at a much higher level than before."[18]
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๐ค Other
Quick to Observe
Summary: A returned missionary dated a young woman and hoped to marry her while President Hinckley counseled women to wear only one earring per ear. She did not remove her extra earrings, which unsettled him, and he ended the relationship, seeking a companion who would quietly and promptly follow prophetic counsel. The narrator emphasizes that the issue was about responsiveness to a prophet, not earrings themselves.
Sister Bednar and I are acquainted with a returned missionary who had dated a special young woman for a period of time. He cared for her very much, and he was desirous of making his relationship with her more serious. He was considering and hoping for engagement and marriage. This relationship was developing during the time that President Hinckley counseled the Relief Society sisters and young women of the Church to wear only one earring in each ear.
The young man waited patiently over a period of time for the young woman to remove her extra earrings, but she did not take them out. This was a valuable piece of information for this young man, and he felt unsettled about her nonresponsiveness to a prophetโs pleading. For this and other reasons, he ultimately stopped dating the young woman, because he was looking for an eternal companion who had the courage to promptly and quietly obey the counsel of the prophet in all things and at all times. The young man was quick to observe that the young woman was not quick to observe.
I presume that some of you might have difficulty with my last example. You may believe the young man was too judgmental or that basing an eternally important decision, even in part, upon such a supposedly minor issue is silly or fanatical. Perhaps you are bothered because the example focuses upon a young woman who failed to respond to prophetic counsel instead of upon a young man. I simply invite you to consider and ponder the power of being quick to observe and what was actually observed in the case I just described. The issue was not earrings!
The young man waited patiently over a period of time for the young woman to remove her extra earrings, but she did not take them out. This was a valuable piece of information for this young man, and he felt unsettled about her nonresponsiveness to a prophetโs pleading. For this and other reasons, he ultimately stopped dating the young woman, because he was looking for an eternal companion who had the courage to promptly and quietly obey the counsel of the prophet in all things and at all times. The young man was quick to observe that the young woman was not quick to observe.
I presume that some of you might have difficulty with my last example. You may believe the young man was too judgmental or that basing an eternally important decision, even in part, upon such a supposedly minor issue is silly or fanatical. Perhaps you are bothered because the example focuses upon a young woman who failed to respond to prophetic counsel instead of upon a young man. I simply invite you to consider and ponder the power of being quick to observe and what was actually observed in the case I just described. The issue was not earrings!
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๐ค Young Adults
๐ค Missionaries
๐ค General Authorities (Modern)
Agency and Accountability
Dating and Courtship
Judging Others
Marriage
Obedience
Relief Society
Revelation
Young Women
How do I โstand in holy placesโ when thereโs so much unholiness around me, like at school?
Summary: A Latter-day Saint teen felt lonely at school and chose to compromise Church standards to gain attention. After a few weeks, guilt led them to repent and recommit to living the gospel. Though they lost some friends and attention, they gained respect and happiness.
A few years ago, I was one of a few Church members in my grade. People thought I was weird because I was dedicated to living all of the standards of the Church. So one day I decided that I could compromise my standards a little bit. When I did, I noticed that I had more attention from others. But after just a few weeks, I felt guilty and turned to the Lord for repentance. He did help me, and I had to make a lot of sacrifices, but it was worth it! I truly got to see the blessings of living the gospel at school. I did lose friends and attention, but I gained respect and happiness.
Sutton K., age 15, Texas, USA
Sutton K., age 15, Texas, USA
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๐ค Youth
Adversity
Agency and Accountability
Friendship
Happiness
Obedience
Repentance
Sacrifice
Temptation
Elder Terryโs Mighty Change of Heart
Summary: After graduating in 2021 and praying for a sign about serving a mission, the narrator was in a car accident the next day. Though unbelted, no one was badly injured; police noted the danger, and he felt a confirming inner voice that his life was preserved, leading him to accept a mission call to the Dominican Republic.
Despite this experience, I fought an internal battle that was continually fueled by commonly asked questions about when I would submit mission papers and what my plans were. The mission decision was constantly on my mind. After graduating in 2021, I knew I had to make a choice, so I prayed, already sensing what the Lord wanted. I wanted a sign to give me a special pardon that I didnโt have to go. I did not expect what happened next.
The next day as usual, I picked up the others on my crew and headed to a jobsite, when a car came flying through a stop sign and crashed into us. Our truck was totaled and the car that hit us flew about 30 yards down the road. We had just pulled out of a gas station before the crash and none of us had put our seat belts yet. Miraculously, none of us were badly injured. Later, talking with the police officers, they told me that my coworker and I sitting in the front seat could easily have been thrown through the windshield without our seat belts on. Things started to settle in for me later that night, when I heard a familiar voice in my head saying โTravis, you could be dead right now. But youโre not.โ
This changed my life. I realized I was protected because the Lord had something in store for me. Finally, I knew I truly was called to serve. Months later, I received my mission assignment: the Dominican Republic Santo Domingo West Mission.
The next day as usual, I picked up the others on my crew and headed to a jobsite, when a car came flying through a stop sign and crashed into us. Our truck was totaled and the car that hit us flew about 30 yards down the road. We had just pulled out of a gas station before the crash and none of us had put our seat belts yet. Miraculously, none of us were badly injured. Later, talking with the police officers, they told me that my coworker and I sitting in the front seat could easily have been thrown through the windshield without our seat belts on. Things started to settle in for me later that night, when I heard a familiar voice in my head saying โTravis, you could be dead right now. But youโre not.โ
This changed my life. I realized I was protected because the Lord had something in store for me. Finally, I knew I truly was called to serve. Months later, I received my mission assignment: the Dominican Republic Santo Domingo West Mission.
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๐ค Other
Faith
Holy Ghost
Miracles
Missionary Work
Prayer
Revelation
Testimony
Teddy Bears to the Rescue
Summary: After a serious car accident, 12-year-old Nicole Wallace was flown by helicopter due to internal injuries. She clung to the teddy bear given by paramedics, only releasing it just before surgery. She later explained how holding the bear kept her from being scared and helped her cope with the pain.
Captain Simpson, who is also a flight paramedic, saw firsthand how effective the bears can be. Twelve-year-old Nicole Wallace had to be flown by helicopter from one hospital to another. She was bleeding internally from a lacerated kidney and liver suffered in an automobile accident. She refused to give up her bear even when the paramedics needed to transfer her from one gurney to another. She finally gave it up just before undergoing surgery.
Nicole lives in the West Point Sixth Ward but had not yet turned 12 when her friends had made the green spotted bear the paramedics gave her after the accident.
โThe paramedics had to take the seat out. Then they took me out of the back window. When they put me in the ambulance, they gave me this cute little bear,โ Nicole said. โIt kept me from getting scared. I would hold on to it, so I wouldnโt hurt so bad. In the hospital it stayed right by me in my bed.โ
Nicole lives in the West Point Sixth Ward but had not yet turned 12 when her friends had made the green spotted bear the paramedics gave her after the accident.
โThe paramedics had to take the seat out. Then they took me out of the back window. When they put me in the ambulance, they gave me this cute little bear,โ Nicole said. โIt kept me from getting scared. I would hold on to it, so I wouldnโt hurt so bad. In the hospital it stayed right by me in my bed.โ
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๐ค Other
Adversity
Children
Emergency Response
Health
Kindness
Service
The Eye of Faith
Summary: Two boys cut through a posted pasture at dusk despite warnings about a mean bull. When the bull charges, one boy suggests stopping to pray, but the other chooses to run while praying. The story illustrates faith joined with action.
There were two young boys returning home late one afternoon. It was getting dark, and they should have been home earlier. Knowing they were in trouble, they decided to save a little time and take the shortest way by going through a pasture. The boys were well aware they should not go into the pasture. The property was posted with โno trespassingโ signs because of the presence of a large, mean bull. It was getting dark, and since the bull was in an area of the pasture where he couldnโt see the boys, they decided to attempt the shorter way. After they had crawled under the fence, and were about halfway across the pastureโat the point of no returnโthe bull spotted them and charged in their direction. The boys began running, but one of the stopped and said, โWait, letโs kneel down and pray for help.โ The other boy said, โIf you want to stop and kneel down and pray, you do it, but Iโm going to run and pray.โ
Whether it is talents you desire to develop or gospel standards you want to live, I believe you have to develop this kind of faith in order to be successful. Itโs something more than just saying you have faith. You have to work for it. You have to live for it. You have to do all you can, as the little boy did when the bull was after him. He ran as hard as he could. You have to be worthy of it and then develop that eye of faith. It has to be firmly planted in your mind. You must know what you want to do, and how you will do it.
Whether it is talents you desire to develop or gospel standards you want to live, I believe you have to develop this kind of faith in order to be successful. Itโs something more than just saying you have faith. You have to work for it. You have to live for it. You have to do all you can, as the little boy did when the bull was after him. He ran as hard as he could. You have to be worthy of it and then develop that eye of faith. It has to be firmly planted in your mind. You must know what you want to do, and how you will do it.
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๐ค Children
Agency and Accountability
Children
Faith
Prayer
Summary: Lucas, a 9-year-old from Argentina, used the Faith in God booklet to set a goal. He followed through by playing a violin duet with his brother at church. He looks up to his missionary brother and finds examples in his family.
Lucas L., age 9, Argentina
The booklet Faith in God has helped me progress in keeping the commandments of Heavenly Father. I encourage all children to complete the booklet and develop their talents by serving in the Church. I set a goal and played the violin in a duet with my brother at church. I have a brother who is serving a missionโhe is a great example for me, as are all the members of my family!
The booklet Faith in God has helped me progress in keeping the commandments of Heavenly Father. I encourage all children to complete the booklet and develop their talents by serving in the Church. I set a goal and played the violin in a duet with my brother at church. I have a brother who is serving a missionโhe is a great example for me, as are all the members of my family!
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๐ค Missionaries
Children
Commandments
Faith
Family
Missionary Work
Music
Service
Tasting the Sweetness of Service
Summary: Ogden-area stakes created dolls in international costumes and displayed them on Temple Square Christmas trees, each with a note from the maker. After Christmas, the dolls were delivered to Arab orphans in Bethlehem. One girl, Ikhlass, received a doll and kept it with her all day.
Stakes in the Ogden, Utah area performed a service that not only delighted thousands of visitors to Temple Square in Salt Lake City during the Christmas season, but brought joy to dozens of children in Israel. The Young Women made stuffed dolls dressed in the native costumes of nations throughout the world. The dolls were tied with wide red ribbons to Christmas trees in both the North and South Visitorsโ Centers on Temple Square. Each girl researched the country her doll was to represent and tried to make the costume look as authentic as possible. She then attached a note with her name and address to the doll.
After Christmas, the dolls were transported to Israel where they were given to Arab orphans in Bethlehem. When the first doll was delivered, a small girl wearing glasses named Ikhlass received it. She clung to her new doll throughout the day, taking it with her as she played, ate, and slept.
After Christmas, the dolls were transported to Israel where they were given to Arab orphans in Bethlehem. When the first doll was delivered, a small girl wearing glasses named Ikhlass received it. She clung to her new doll throughout the day, taking it with her as she played, ate, and slept.
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๐ค Youth
๐ค Children
Charity
Children
Christmas
Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Kindness
Service
Young Women
Moving the Rock
Summary: A young boy tries unsuccessfully to move a large rock so he can play. His father observes and then teaches that the boy hasn't used all his strength because he hasn't asked for help. Together, they easily move the rock. The experience illustrates relying on help beyond our own strength.
Once a young boy was trying to smooth out the dirt area behind his house so he could play there with his toy cars. There was a large rock blocking his work. The boy pushed and pulled with all his might. But no matter how hard he tried, the rock wouldnโt budge.
His father watched for a while. Then he came to his son and said, โYou need to use all your strength to move a rock this large.โ
The boy answered, โI have used all my strength!โ
His father corrected him: โNo, you havenโt. You havenโt had my help yet!โ
They then bent down together and moved the rock easily.
His father watched for a while. Then he came to his son and said, โYou need to use all your strength to move a rock this large.โ
The boy answered, โI have used all my strength!โ
His father corrected him: โNo, you havenโt. You havenโt had my help yet!โ
They then bent down together and moved the rock easily.
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Children
Family
Kindness
Love
Parenting