Are these training sessions effective?
Yes, say the young men and their priesthood leaders. Randy Beddes, a priest from Lovell, Wyoming, remembers that when he was deacons quorum president, he tried to do everything himselfβplanning all the special activities, making all the arrangements, running the whole program. βBut Iβve learned that thereβs a better way to do things,β he says. Now, as the bishopβs first assistant in the priest quorum, he makes a lot of assignments to others, giving clear instructions on what is expected, and providing an opportunity for following up. βWe get a lot more doneβ says Randy, βand a lot more priests get involved.β
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The Preparatory Priesthood
Summary: As a deacons quorum president, Randy Beddes initially tried to do everything himself. Later, as the bishopβs first assistant in the priests quorum, he learned to delegate with clear instructions and follow-up. He reports they accomplished more and involved more priests.
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π€ Youth
Bishop
Priesthood
Stewardship
Young Men
Virtual Study: Africa West Area S&I Students Share Experience
Summary: A newly returned missionary in Nigeria joined an institute class on WhatsApp and began daily scripture study. After submitting an assignment about the First Vision and praying, he felt prompted to approach his elder sister and her family about the restored gospel. He answered her questions with the Holy Ghostβs help and invited her to church, and she promised to attend after the pandemic subsides.
As a young newly returned missionary from the Nigeria Enugu Mission, to a family where my faith is strange to everyone, there were many ideas and plans running through my mind. Where and how to start was the only question I had. After a few days, I was added to the institute class in my ward on WhatsApp, where assignments were given every week for us to study.
I must confess that though we live in a world of hardships, where we have to battle with a deadly virus called corona (COVID-19), the Lord is still hastening His work of salvation (D&C 88:73). Studying scriptures every day has really boosted my spirituality level. After submitting an assignment on the First Vision and after a heartfelt prayer, I felt the impression that I should approach my elder sister and her family, who I am living with, and introduce them to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and to His Church. I did it and I was so happy the many questions she had about the Church even before I left for mission were resolved by the help of the Holy Ghost. She has, for some time, stopped going to her church because of some misunderstandings. I used the opportunity to invite her to church and she promised to come after the crisis is calmed and controlled.
The institute class has really strengthened my faith and has shown me many means to invite others to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. Despite the hardships and the oppositions, I know with all my heart that the work of the Lord will still move forward. Now, I have been able to create a plan to diligently assist the Lord in hastening His work. I know He is mindful of His children and I love Him with all my heart.
I must confess that though we live in a world of hardships, where we have to battle with a deadly virus called corona (COVID-19), the Lord is still hastening His work of salvation (D&C 88:73). Studying scriptures every day has really boosted my spirituality level. After submitting an assignment on the First Vision and after a heartfelt prayer, I felt the impression that I should approach my elder sister and her family, who I am living with, and introduce them to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and to His Church. I did it and I was so happy the many questions she had about the Church even before I left for mission were resolved by the help of the Holy Ghost. She has, for some time, stopped going to her church because of some misunderstandings. I used the opportunity to invite her to church and she promised to come after the crisis is calmed and controlled.
The institute class has really strengthened my faith and has shown me many means to invite others to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. Despite the hardships and the oppositions, I know with all my heart that the work of the Lord will still move forward. Now, I have been able to create a plan to diligently assist the Lord in hastening His work. I know He is mindful of His children and I love Him with all my heart.
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π€ Missionaries
π€ Young Adults
π€ Church Members (General)
π€ Other
Adversity
Conversion
Education
Faith
Family
Holy Ghost
Missionary Work
Prayer
Revelation
Scriptures
Testimony
The Restoration
A Bear with Insomnia!
Summary: Dino Bear cannot fall asleep for the winter despite trying honey and counting sheep, and he goes out into a snowy world searching for food. He meets Arnie Beaver and Dora Deer, who invite him to a Christmas gathering where they share food and sing carols. Comforted and full, Dino finally falls asleep, his insomnia eased by kindness and celebration.
Every year Dino Bear knew when it was time to get his winter bed ready. He took the quilt from the den shelf, put fresh clean sheets on his bed, and fluffed up the pillow. When Dino finished, his eyelids were usually heavy and he was ready for a good long sleep.
But this year Dino was wide awake. He didnβt even yawn! βIβll be sleepy soon,β he said to himself. But days and weeks went by and winter finally cameβyet Dino wasnβt one bit sleepy!
βIβll put on my nightgown and nightcap and go to bed anyway,β he mumbled to himself. So Dino snuggled down under the quilt and shut his eyes. But his eyes wouldnβt stay shut. Soon they were wide open and staring at the ceiling.
βMaybe a spoonful of honey will help,β Dino decided. But after five spoonfuls of honey Dino was still wide awake.
Then Dino started counting sheep. He counted 100 sheep, 200 sheep, 300 sheepβbut he wasnβt sleepy.
Before long Dinoβs stomach growled. βIβm hungry!β he moaned. βBut the honeyβs all gone and the cupboard is bare!β
βI must go out into the winter world and look for food,β Dino decided. Outside it was snowing hard. Dino knew all about autumn snow, but this blowing, stinging winter snow made it hard for him to see. The snow made his tracks disappear like magic and hid familiar trees and streams!
βThereβs no food,β Dino complained. Then he suddenly saw something move. Dino ran and stumbled toward it. And there was Arnie Beaver!
βWhat are you doing?β Dino called out as he saw Arnie gnawing at a pine tree.
βWhat do you think Iβm doing?β Arnie grumbled.
βIf I knew, I wouldnβt ask,β Dino answered politely.
Arnie wiped his eyes, squinted, and shouted, βDino Bear! Youβre supposed to be sleeping!β
βI canβt sleep,β Dino complained.
βIβve never heard of a bear with insomnia!β Arnie declared.
βWell, now you know one,β Dino replied. βI canβt sleep.β
Arnie gave Dino some pine needles. βYou must be hungry.β
βI am, and thank you!β Dino answered. He wished the pine needles were berries, but he was so hungry that he ate them anyway.
Arnie began to clack his razor sharp teeth. He was ready for work on the pine tree again. βCome to my house later, Dino,β Arnie invited the sleepless bear. βMaybe I can help your insomnia.β
Dino walked off to look for more food. Soon he saw something move, and there was Dora Deer!
Dino ran and stumbled. Soon he was close enough to see that Dora was stringing red berries! βWhy are you doing that?β Dino shouted.
Dora wiped her eyes, took one look at Dino, and exclaimed, βDino Bear! Youβre supposed to be sleeping!β
βI just canβt sleep!β Dino grumbled.
βA bear with insomnia?β Dora asked sharply. But then she smiled and gave Dino some of the red berries she was stringing. He gobbled them all up in one mouthful.
Dora laughed and said, βWhy donβt you come to Arnie Beaverβs house later? Maybe we can help your insomnia!β Then she began to string red berries again; so Dino walked off to look for more food.
When the light began to grow dim, Dino started for Arnieβs house. Even before he reached the door, Dino heard laughing and singing. When he finally stepped inside, his black eyes opened wide! The pine tree Arnie had gnawed down stood in the center of the room. The red berries Dora had strung were wound in and out of the pine treeβs green boughs. And a big pine cone sat on the top!
βMerry Christmas!β Dora called out.
βMerry Christmas!β Arnie cried, thumping Dinoβs furry back.
Merry Christmas? Dino thought. This winter world is very strange!
Dora gave Dino a big bowlful of berries and honey.
Arnie gave him a cup of warm mountain goatβs milk. βItβs good for your insomnia,β Arnie explained.
Dino ate the berries and honey, and he drank the warm goatβs milk. Then he sat and looked at the beautiful tree and listened to Dora and Arnie sing some songs.
βWhat are you singing?β Dino asked, wishing his eyelids werenβt so heavy.
βChristmas carols!β Dora and Arnie said happily together.
βThisβthis Christmas is soβso good,β Dino said, βsoβso. β¦β
But Dino never finished what he started to say, for he was sound asleep!
But this year Dino was wide awake. He didnβt even yawn! βIβll be sleepy soon,β he said to himself. But days and weeks went by and winter finally cameβyet Dino wasnβt one bit sleepy!
βIβll put on my nightgown and nightcap and go to bed anyway,β he mumbled to himself. So Dino snuggled down under the quilt and shut his eyes. But his eyes wouldnβt stay shut. Soon they were wide open and staring at the ceiling.
βMaybe a spoonful of honey will help,β Dino decided. But after five spoonfuls of honey Dino was still wide awake.
Then Dino started counting sheep. He counted 100 sheep, 200 sheep, 300 sheepβbut he wasnβt sleepy.
Before long Dinoβs stomach growled. βIβm hungry!β he moaned. βBut the honeyβs all gone and the cupboard is bare!β
βI must go out into the winter world and look for food,β Dino decided. Outside it was snowing hard. Dino knew all about autumn snow, but this blowing, stinging winter snow made it hard for him to see. The snow made his tracks disappear like magic and hid familiar trees and streams!
βThereβs no food,β Dino complained. Then he suddenly saw something move. Dino ran and stumbled toward it. And there was Arnie Beaver!
βWhat are you doing?β Dino called out as he saw Arnie gnawing at a pine tree.
βWhat do you think Iβm doing?β Arnie grumbled.
βIf I knew, I wouldnβt ask,β Dino answered politely.
Arnie wiped his eyes, squinted, and shouted, βDino Bear! Youβre supposed to be sleeping!β
βI canβt sleep,β Dino complained.
βIβve never heard of a bear with insomnia!β Arnie declared.
βWell, now you know one,β Dino replied. βI canβt sleep.β
Arnie gave Dino some pine needles. βYou must be hungry.β
βI am, and thank you!β Dino answered. He wished the pine needles were berries, but he was so hungry that he ate them anyway.
Arnie began to clack his razor sharp teeth. He was ready for work on the pine tree again. βCome to my house later, Dino,β Arnie invited the sleepless bear. βMaybe I can help your insomnia.β
Dino walked off to look for more food. Soon he saw something move, and there was Dora Deer!
Dino ran and stumbled. Soon he was close enough to see that Dora was stringing red berries! βWhy are you doing that?β Dino shouted.
Dora wiped her eyes, took one look at Dino, and exclaimed, βDino Bear! Youβre supposed to be sleeping!β
βI just canβt sleep!β Dino grumbled.
βA bear with insomnia?β Dora asked sharply. But then she smiled and gave Dino some of the red berries she was stringing. He gobbled them all up in one mouthful.
Dora laughed and said, βWhy donβt you come to Arnie Beaverβs house later? Maybe we can help your insomnia!β Then she began to string red berries again; so Dino walked off to look for more food.
When the light began to grow dim, Dino started for Arnieβs house. Even before he reached the door, Dino heard laughing and singing. When he finally stepped inside, his black eyes opened wide! The pine tree Arnie had gnawed down stood in the center of the room. The red berries Dora had strung were wound in and out of the pine treeβs green boughs. And a big pine cone sat on the top!
βMerry Christmas!β Dora called out.
βMerry Christmas!β Arnie cried, thumping Dinoβs furry back.
Merry Christmas? Dino thought. This winter world is very strange!
Dora gave Dino a big bowlful of berries and honey.
Arnie gave him a cup of warm mountain goatβs milk. βItβs good for your insomnia,β Arnie explained.
Dino ate the berries and honey, and he drank the warm goatβs milk. Then he sat and looked at the beautiful tree and listened to Dora and Arnie sing some songs.
βWhat are you singing?β Dino asked, wishing his eyelids werenβt so heavy.
βChristmas carols!β Dora and Arnie said happily together.
βThisβthis Christmas is soβso good,β Dino said, βsoβso. β¦β
But Dino never finished what he started to say, for he was sound asleep!
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π€ Other
Christmas
Friendship
Happiness
Kindness
Peace
Service
Slightly Larger than Life
Summary: Noticing signs that say doors must remain unlocked during business hours, David imagined a scenario in a prison. An inmate posts such a sign on the prison door, prompting a guard to unlock it. The cartoonβs caption reads, βMel knew it was a long shot, but somehow it worked.β
For example, David thought there might be something funny about the signs he sees on doors that say, βThis door must remain unlocked during business hours.β Then he tried to imagine a situation where that sign would be funny.
βI had an inmate at a prison write this on a sign,β said David, βand post it on the prison door with a guard reading it and unlocking the door. The caption said, βMel knew it was a long shot, but somehow it worked.ββ
βI had an inmate at a prison write this on a sign,β said David, βand post it on the prison door with a guard reading it and unlocking the door. The caption said, βMel knew it was a long shot, but somehow it worked.ββ
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π€ Other
Prison Ministry
βPrayers Do Get Answered, No Matter Whenβ
Summary: After Elder Neil L. Andersen counseled Saints in Cape Town to petition the Lord rather than leaders for a temple, members focused their prayers and created a website inviting others to pray for a temple blessing. Their faith was answered in April 2021 when President Russell M. Nelson announced a temple for Cape Town.
The news brought tears, joy, and renewed commitment from local members, who saw the announcement as evidence that prayers are answered. Leaders said the temple was a heavenly embrace and a reminder to prepare spiritually for the blessings it would bring.
When Elder Neil L. Andersen visited Cape Town, South Africa in 2018, members bombarded him with questions about when a temple would be built in their city. The Apostleβs response was eye-opening for all of them.
βHe said: βdonβt petition me for a temple. Petition the Lord,ββ says Ryan Holmes, who is currently serving as the Cape Town Stake president. The Apostleβs admonition to the people of the Cape βcompletely changed our focus,β says President Holmes. βInstead of asking leaders what they were doing to get a temple in Cape Town, members began to solicit the Lord.β
Andew Herbert, a counsellor in the Belville South Africa Stake presidency, said that for him, Elder Andersenβs counsel meant βnot just asking Him continuously, but explaining to the Lord why we need a temple here; saying to Him: βthese are the things that will change for us if we have a temple.ββ
The Herbert family prayed for this blessing daily, and President Herbert made a similar prayerful request in every temple recommend interview he held.
βI donβt know if people in other parts of the world realize what a privilege it is to see the temple spires in their home cities,β says President Herbert.
βTo have that feeling of rightness, to know that there is a place nearby that is consecrated to the Lord. . . .
βTo be able to take a group of youth to the temple to do baptisms regularly; to be able to take your children to the temple grounds to teach them about its importance. . . .
βTo be able to give Young Single Adults callings to serve in the temple; to have the ability to visit the temple, without having to save for a big trip. To be able to attend even if you are sickly, old or frail and canβt travel long distances. . . . Itβs just a huge thing,β he says.
The completed assignment was a full-blown website which features testimonials from members about how a temple would bless their city, an invitation to members to pray for it, photos of members attending other temples around the world, and a feedback box inviting people to share their thoughts on the subject.
It was almost midnight in South Africa when President Russell M. Nelson announced in the last conference session on April 4, 2021 that 20 new temples would be built.
Sister Shelly Herbert, who had been watching the session in bed whilst her husband slept, sat up a little straighter. President Henry B. Eyringβs earlier address, in which he invited the saints to ready themselves βfor the increased opportunities for temple experiences that are coming for us,β1 had piqued her interest.
When the Prophet read the words βCape Town, South Africaβ, βthe tears were just streaming down my face,β says Sister Herbert. βAs I cried, I shook my husband to wake him up and said, βitβs happened!ββ
βThere were so many people who doubted that we would get a temple, but we expected it, because we believe in petitioning the Lord.β
Sister Thirsly Motolwana from the Cape Town Gugulethu Branch says that when she heard the news, βI felt like a baby, jumping for joy!β A member of the Church for the past 24 years, Sister Motolwana, too, had been praying for this moment since Elder Andersenβs visit.
βI thought, wow, it took three years of prayers, but it has happened! Itβs so exciting to know that prayers do get answered, no matter when.β
She says she and her fellow members can start preparing now for the blessings of a local temple. βIf we read more scriptures and understand more about the temple, it will help us prepare,β she says. βWe need to be fasting more so that we can be equipped with the Spirit.β
While the temple announcement was an answer to many prayers, President Holmes says, βI canβt think of any actions we have taken to deserve this blessing.
βBut it is definitely a reach out from Heavenly Father. Itβs like Heβs giving us a hug and saying, βIβm aware of how difficult things have been; this will help you focus on whatβs most important.ββ
βHe said: βdonβt petition me for a temple. Petition the Lord,ββ says Ryan Holmes, who is currently serving as the Cape Town Stake president. The Apostleβs admonition to the people of the Cape βcompletely changed our focus,β says President Holmes. βInstead of asking leaders what they were doing to get a temple in Cape Town, members began to solicit the Lord.β
Andew Herbert, a counsellor in the Belville South Africa Stake presidency, said that for him, Elder Andersenβs counsel meant βnot just asking Him continuously, but explaining to the Lord why we need a temple here; saying to Him: βthese are the things that will change for us if we have a temple.ββ
The Herbert family prayed for this blessing daily, and President Herbert made a similar prayerful request in every temple recommend interview he held.
βI donβt know if people in other parts of the world realize what a privilege it is to see the temple spires in their home cities,β says President Herbert.
βTo have that feeling of rightness, to know that there is a place nearby that is consecrated to the Lord. . . .
βTo be able to take a group of youth to the temple to do baptisms regularly; to be able to take your children to the temple grounds to teach them about its importance. . . .
βTo be able to give Young Single Adults callings to serve in the temple; to have the ability to visit the temple, without having to save for a big trip. To be able to attend even if you are sickly, old or frail and canβt travel long distances. . . . Itβs just a huge thing,β he says.
The completed assignment was a full-blown website which features testimonials from members about how a temple would bless their city, an invitation to members to pray for it, photos of members attending other temples around the world, and a feedback box inviting people to share their thoughts on the subject.
It was almost midnight in South Africa when President Russell M. Nelson announced in the last conference session on April 4, 2021 that 20 new temples would be built.
Sister Shelly Herbert, who had been watching the session in bed whilst her husband slept, sat up a little straighter. President Henry B. Eyringβs earlier address, in which he invited the saints to ready themselves βfor the increased opportunities for temple experiences that are coming for us,β1 had piqued her interest.
When the Prophet read the words βCape Town, South Africaβ, βthe tears were just streaming down my face,β says Sister Herbert. βAs I cried, I shook my husband to wake him up and said, βitβs happened!ββ
βThere were so many people who doubted that we would get a temple, but we expected it, because we believe in petitioning the Lord.β
Sister Thirsly Motolwana from the Cape Town Gugulethu Branch says that when she heard the news, βI felt like a baby, jumping for joy!β A member of the Church for the past 24 years, Sister Motolwana, too, had been praying for this moment since Elder Andersenβs visit.
βI thought, wow, it took three years of prayers, but it has happened! Itβs so exciting to know that prayers do get answered, no matter when.β
She says she and her fellow members can start preparing now for the blessings of a local temple. βIf we read more scriptures and understand more about the temple, it will help us prepare,β she says. βWe need to be fasting more so that we can be equipped with the Spirit.β
While the temple announcement was an answer to many prayers, President Holmes says, βI canβt think of any actions we have taken to deserve this blessing.
βBut it is definitely a reach out from Heavenly Father. Itβs like Heβs giving us a hug and saying, βIβm aware of how difficult things have been; this will help you focus on whatβs most important.ββ
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
π€ Church Leaders (Local)
π€ Church Members (General)
Apostle
Baptisms for the Dead
Family
Prayer
Temples
Testimony
Summary: An 8-year-old set a goal to read scriptures every other night but struggled at first. After a prompting question from his mom, he read that night and has read almost every night since, feeling the Spirit and happiness.
At the beginning of each year, my family sets goals that we try to complete throughout the year. One of the goals I set was to read the scriptures every other night. I wasnβt doing very well for the first few months of the year. Usually when I get home from church I put my scriptures in the stairway. One day my mom said, βHow can you complete your goal of reading the scriptures when they are sitting in the stairway?β So that night I read my scriptures. I have been reading them almost every night since then. They are a blessing, and Iβm thankful for them. They give me the power to feel the Spirit and be happy.
Mathieu Q., age 8, Wisconsin
Mathieu Q., age 8, Wisconsin
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π€ Children
π€ Parents
Children
Family
Happiness
Holy Ghost
Scriptures
Testimony
Please Donβt Give In
Summary: After years without praying, the narrator finally knelt in sincere repentance but was initially afraid due to his guilt. Overwhelmed with emotion, he cried, convulsed, and pleaded silently for help, nearly blacking out before the pain passed. He then felt enveloped by peace and comfort, confirming the reality of the Atonement.
I hadnβt prayed for years, but I finally had to go to my knees. I was afraid to, because I knew my guilt. That first time, honestly wanting to change and repent, was the biggest turning point in my life.
I tried to pray, but I couldnβt. I started to cry, the first time in years, and I felt like I was being torn apart inside. I fell over, still in a kneeling position, and my body went into convulsions. I kept praying in my mind, βPlease help me!β
I almost blacked out. Then the physical pain passed, and I just lay there crying. I had a long way to go, but I knew that the first step was the hardest. I didnβt understand the Atonement, but the feeling of peace and comfort that engulfed me left no doubt that it was real.
I tried to pray, but I couldnβt. I started to cry, the first time in years, and I felt like I was being torn apart inside. I fell over, still in a kneeling position, and my body went into convulsions. I kept praying in my mind, βPlease help me!β
I almost blacked out. Then the physical pain passed, and I just lay there crying. I had a long way to go, but I knew that the first step was the hardest. I didnβt understand the Atonement, but the feeling of peace and comfort that engulfed me left no doubt that it was real.
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π€ Other
Atonement of Jesus Christ
Conversion
Faith
Peace
Prayer
Repentance
Sin
Testimony
The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus ChristβPlain and Precious Things
Summary: Uncertain about a major decision after prayer, the speaker sought counsel from Elder Harold B. Lee. Elder Lee noted the desire to see the end from the beginning and cited Ether 12:6 about witness following the trial of faith. He taught the speaker to take a few steps into the dark, after which the light would lead, which proved life-changing.
Another example: We once had a major decision to make. When our prayers left us uncertain, I went to see Elder Harold B. Lee. He counseled us to proceed. Sensing that I was still very unsettled, he said, βThe problem with you is you want to see the end from the beginning.β Then he quoted this verse from the Book of Mormon: βDispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faithβ (Ether 12:6).
He added, βYou must learn to walk a few steps ahead into the darkness, and then the light will turn on and go before you.β That was a life-changing experience from one verse in the Book of Mormon.
He added, βYou must learn to walk a few steps ahead into the darkness, and then the light will turn on and go before you.β That was a life-changing experience from one verse in the Book of Mormon.
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π€ General Authorities (Modern)
π€ Church Members (General)
Apostle
Book of Mormon
Doubt
Faith
Prayer
Revelation
Testimony
Matthew, Rebecca, and Deborah Thomson of Christchurch, New Zealand
Summary: Rebecca is a lively six-year-old who enjoys school, art, and making friends, but she also has strong opinions about people who hit her. While walking with her mother, she pretends a stick is a sword and says she is killing bad people. Her mother gently helps her think about whether bad people can become good, and Rebecca concludes, βMake them a cake,β after which she drops the stick.
Rebecca likes dipping into the βgoody boxβ (a reward box) at school. She gets to do this often, because sheβs a good student. She does not like boys at school who hit her, and sheβs not afraid to name names.
βOne time when we were out walking, she had a stick in her hand, pretending it was really a sword,β Sister Thomson says. She was trying to whack blossoms off the neighborsβ flowers, and when we came to a fence, sheβd scrape it along the slats, and I was getting kind of tired of it. I asked her what she was doing, and she said, βIβm killing all the bad people with my sword.β
βI said to her, βDo you think bad people can become good people?β
ββYes.β
ββWhat can we do to help make bad people good people?β
βShe thought about it and said, βMake them a cake.β
βWe kept talking about it as we walked, and a minute or two later, she quietly dropped the stick.β
βOne time when we were out walking, she had a stick in her hand, pretending it was really a sword,β Sister Thomson says. She was trying to whack blossoms off the neighborsβ flowers, and when we came to a fence, sheβd scrape it along the slats, and I was getting kind of tired of it. I asked her what she was doing, and she said, βIβm killing all the bad people with my sword.β
βI said to her, βDo you think bad people can become good people?β
ββYes.β
ββWhat can we do to help make bad people good people?β
βShe thought about it and said, βMake them a cake.β
βWe kept talking about it as we walked, and a minute or two later, she quietly dropped the stick.β
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π€ Parents
π€ Children
Children
Forgiveness
Judging Others
Kindness
Parenting
FYI:For Your Info
Summary: Annie Van Komen traveled with her doctor father to La Paz, Bolivia, assisting in treating children and delivering handmade blankets and slippers from her stake. She reflected that the effort made the gifts meaningful and that serving made her more grateful for her own situation.
Annie Van Komen of Salt Lake City, Utah, took an unusual vacation last summer. Annie went with her father, who is a doctor, to South America to treat children in a large La Paz, Bolivia, hospital. Annie went armed with homemade blankets and slippers made by the Young Women in her stake, to give to the children.
βIt took a real effort by the girls in my stake to make all the gifts I took. They wouldnβt have meant nearly as much if we had bought them at a store,β says Annie.
Annie acted as her fatherβs assistant during much of the trip. Although she spent most of her time in Bolivia giving to others, she feels she gained even more.
βSomething like this makes you really grateful for your situation. You really appreciate all the things you have,β says Annie.
βIt took a real effort by the girls in my stake to make all the gifts I took. They wouldnβt have meant nearly as much if we had bought them at a store,β says Annie.
Annie acted as her fatherβs assistant during much of the trip. Although she spent most of her time in Bolivia giving to others, she feels she gained even more.
βSomething like this makes you really grateful for your situation. You really appreciate all the things you have,β says Annie.
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π€ Youth
π€ Parents
π€ Other
Charity
Children
Gratitude
Health
Service
Young Women
Examples of Righteousness
Summary: At a stake conference, the speaker noticed a young boy on the front row imitating his every movement from the stand. He tested the boy by wiggling his ears, which the boy couldnβt do, leading to a humorous exchange with the boyβs father. The experience reminded the speaker how strongly youth imitate the examples of adults.
As I have pondered how we might best provide such examples, I have thought of an experience I had some years ago while attending a stake conference. During the general session, I observed a young boy sitting with his family on the front row of the stake center. I was seated on the stand. As the meeting progressed, I began to notice that if I crossed one leg over the other, the young boy would do the same thing. If I reversed the motion and crossed the other leg, he would follow suit. I would put my hands in my lap, and he would do the same. I rested my chin in my hand, and he also did so. Whatever I did, he would imitate my actions. This continued until the time approached for me to address the congregation. I decided to put him to the test. I looked squarely at him, certain I had his attention, and then I wiggled my ears. He made a vain attempt to do the same, but I had him! He just couldnβt quite get his ears to wiggle. He turned to his father, who was sitting next to him, and whispered something to him. He pointed to his ears and then to me. As his father looked in my direction, obviously to see my ears wiggle, I sat solemnly with my arms folded, not moving a muscle. The father glanced back skeptically at his son, who looked slightly defeated. He finally gave me a sheepish grin and shrugged his shoulders.
I have thought about that experience over the years as Iβve contemplated how, particularly when weβre young, we tend to imitate the example of our parents, our leaders, our peers. The prophet Brigham Young said: βWe should never permit ourselves to do anything that we are not willing to see our children do. We should set them an example that we wish them to imitate.β
I have thought about that experience over the years as Iβve contemplated how, particularly when weβre young, we tend to imitate the example of our parents, our leaders, our peers. The prophet Brigham Young said: βWe should never permit ourselves to do anything that we are not willing to see our children do. We should set them an example that we wish them to imitate.β
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Children
Family
Parenting
Teaching the Gospel
The Eight-Year Book of Mormon
Summary: They chose the Book of Mormon and adapted their approach to suit young children by reading one column a day and helping with words. Conversations and focusing on the journey made it enjoyable, and they ended each session with family prayer. Over months and years, the children learned to read and became familiar with Book of Mormon teachings, passing down a large-type edition as they grew.
We chose the Book of Mormon because of its wonderful stories and plain presentation of gospel principles. It was also the only one of the standard works for which we had a large-type edition for the children. Angela was six years old, Jamie was three, and Dallas was newly born. At first, Jamie and Dallas had poor attendance, but Angela zealously showed up each morning.
About ninety seconds into our first morning, a few things became obvious: We were not going to finish for a very long time. Second, too much reading at one time would make this project miserable for all of us. And third, the childrenβs joy would come as much from reading to Mom and Dad as from the messages they learned from the Book of Mormon.
Keeping these things in mind, we decided to read one column of one page each day. We would each take a verse, in order, and read it aloud. For Angela, whose reading skills were limited, it usually meant that Linda or I would say one or two words and she would repeat them.
Discussions were prompted by questions from the children or the need for emphasis from Mom and Dad. Many times a short introduction to what was ahead made the reading more exciting. When a great prophet died, we felt sad and talked about it. When we came to a favorite story or favorite prophet, we mentioned it.
From the first, we recognized that reaching the bookβs final verse wasnβt the point; the fun was in getting there. We soon lost any feeling of desire to get the book read in a hurry. If it took five years, so what? If the children, or even Mom and Dad, seemed to tire or become distracted, we would not read as much. We could always pick up the next day where we had left off.
We ended each session on our knees in family prayer.
As the weeks became months and the months became years, a miracle unfolded. We saw our children learning to read. Better yet, we saw them becoming acquainted with the prophets, stories, and teachings of the Book of Mormon.
As our family grew older, our children slowly mastered the text. They needed less and less help pronouncing words and names, and they rarely missed a word like Lamanite, even though they sometimes needed help with more common words. That large-type edition was soon passed from Angela to Jamie, from Jamie to Dallas, and then to our latest child, Jill. As the older children received their own copies of the Book of Mormon, their satisfaction grew even greater.
About ninety seconds into our first morning, a few things became obvious: We were not going to finish for a very long time. Second, too much reading at one time would make this project miserable for all of us. And third, the childrenβs joy would come as much from reading to Mom and Dad as from the messages they learned from the Book of Mormon.
Keeping these things in mind, we decided to read one column of one page each day. We would each take a verse, in order, and read it aloud. For Angela, whose reading skills were limited, it usually meant that Linda or I would say one or two words and she would repeat them.
Discussions were prompted by questions from the children or the need for emphasis from Mom and Dad. Many times a short introduction to what was ahead made the reading more exciting. When a great prophet died, we felt sad and talked about it. When we came to a favorite story or favorite prophet, we mentioned it.
From the first, we recognized that reaching the bookβs final verse wasnβt the point; the fun was in getting there. We soon lost any feeling of desire to get the book read in a hurry. If it took five years, so what? If the children, or even Mom and Dad, seemed to tire or become distracted, we would not read as much. We could always pick up the next day where we had left off.
We ended each session on our knees in family prayer.
As the weeks became months and the months became years, a miracle unfolded. We saw our children learning to read. Better yet, we saw them becoming acquainted with the prophets, stories, and teachings of the Book of Mormon.
As our family grew older, our children slowly mastered the text. They needed less and less help pronouncing words and names, and they rarely missed a word like Lamanite, even though they sometimes needed help with more common words. That large-type edition was soon passed from Angela to Jamie, from Jamie to Dallas, and then to our latest child, Jill. As the older children received their own copies of the Book of Mormon, their satisfaction grew even greater.
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Book of Mormon
Children
Education
Family
Happiness
Parenting
Patience
Prayer
Scriptures
Teaching the Gospel
Working
Summary: Rebeccah sacrifices sports and social time to keep her after-school babysitting commitment. Her dedication helps her grow from a passive sitter to someone who actively cares for the children. She recognizes becoming more responsible as she keeps her word.
Rebeccah Davis, 15, has also learned keeping your word is one of the most important parts of a job. She is working after school, baby-sitting. Her commitment to her employer has meant no school sports, fewer get-togethers with friends, and less time for herself.
βThe lady I work for counts on me. Since I agreed to do it I need to be dedicated,β says Rebeccah. And because of that dedication, sheβs noticed improvements in herself.
βAt first I was one of those baby-sitters who sat and watched TV and let the kids do whatever they wanted. But then I started to care for the kids, and I have become a more responsible person. I play with them, take care of them.β
βThe lady I work for counts on me. Since I agreed to do it I need to be dedicated,β says Rebeccah. And because of that dedication, sheβs noticed improvements in herself.
βAt first I was one of those baby-sitters who sat and watched TV and let the kids do whatever they wanted. But then I started to care for the kids, and I have become a more responsible person. I play with them, take care of them.β
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Agency and Accountability
Employment
Honesty
Self-Reliance
Young Women
The Language of the Spirit
Summary: A Latter-day Saint dance team touring Europe traditionally closed shows by singing a hymn in the local language. Upon arriving in a Sorbian-speaking region of Germany, they hurriedly learned a translation on the bus despite fatigue. During the performance, the Spirit helped the narrator recall the unfamiliar words, and the moved audience responded by singing a gratitude song, affirming that Heavenly Father's love is universally understood.
Photograph courtesy of the author; illustration by Jennifer M. Potter
Illustration by Jennifer M. Potter
I used to spend summers traveling through Europe with a dance team. Our audiences, performances, and energy levels varied, but we had one tradition that always stayed the same: we closed every show by singing βGod Be with You Till We Meet Againβ1 in the language of the country we were visiting. Because most of my dance team belonged to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we loved this tradition. It was a wonderful way to connect with our audiences and share Heavenly Fatherβs love.
Near the end of one of these trips, we had just crossed the border into Germany and were practicing the song in German for upcoming performances. But upon arriving, we found out that this particular region of Germany spoke Sorbian, a dialect that bore little resemblance to the song we had so faithfully practiced.
On the bus ride to our performance, I was exhausted and just wanted to sleep for the whole drive. But our directors had other ideas. They had asked our guides to translate the hymn into Sorbian. Now they wanted the entire bus of half-asleep performers to learn the song just hours before our performance.
We did our best. At the end of the show, we stood together on the front of the stage and began to sing. I remember feeling surprised as the unfamiliar words I had jumbled a few hours earlier came to my mind easily. I felt my earlier doubts about our readiness to sing fade as I relied on the Spirit to remind me of the words.
As we finished dancing and began to sing, the Spirit brought the words of the song to my mind.
Photograph courtesy of the author
The audience members looked surprised and then thrilled. When the song ended, a hush fell over the crowd. Then they stood and began singing a song back to us, which they later explained was a song of gratitude they usually saved for special occasions.
I felt the Spirit so strongly in that moment, even though I couldnβt understand what they were singing. I was so grateful the Lord had helped me communicate His love despite my feelings of inadequacy. I was reminded that Heavenly Fatherβs love is a universal message. Despite whatever differences we might have, all of us can understand the language of the Spirit.
Illustration by Jennifer M. Potter
I used to spend summers traveling through Europe with a dance team. Our audiences, performances, and energy levels varied, but we had one tradition that always stayed the same: we closed every show by singing βGod Be with You Till We Meet Againβ1 in the language of the country we were visiting. Because most of my dance team belonged to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we loved this tradition. It was a wonderful way to connect with our audiences and share Heavenly Fatherβs love.
Near the end of one of these trips, we had just crossed the border into Germany and were practicing the song in German for upcoming performances. But upon arriving, we found out that this particular region of Germany spoke Sorbian, a dialect that bore little resemblance to the song we had so faithfully practiced.
On the bus ride to our performance, I was exhausted and just wanted to sleep for the whole drive. But our directors had other ideas. They had asked our guides to translate the hymn into Sorbian. Now they wanted the entire bus of half-asleep performers to learn the song just hours before our performance.
We did our best. At the end of the show, we stood together on the front of the stage and began to sing. I remember feeling surprised as the unfamiliar words I had jumbled a few hours earlier came to my mind easily. I felt my earlier doubts about our readiness to sing fade as I relied on the Spirit to remind me of the words.
As we finished dancing and began to sing, the Spirit brought the words of the song to my mind.
Photograph courtesy of the author
The audience members looked surprised and then thrilled. When the song ended, a hush fell over the crowd. Then they stood and began singing a song back to us, which they later explained was a song of gratitude they usually saved for special occasions.
I felt the Spirit so strongly in that moment, even though I couldnβt understand what they were singing. I was so grateful the Lord had helped me communicate His love despite my feelings of inadequacy. I was reminded that Heavenly Fatherβs love is a universal message. Despite whatever differences we might have, all of us can understand the language of the Spirit.
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Diversity and Unity in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Faith
Gratitude
Holy Ghost
Love
Missionary Work
Music
Integrity: Foundation of a Christlike Life
Summary: Elder Marion D. Hanks shared an account of a father who, after checking all directions, prepared to steal corn from a field. His young son reminded him he had forgotten to look up, implying Godβs constant awareness. The moment underscores internal, not external, motivation for integrity.
7. Integrity is not governed by the presence of others. It is internally, not externally, driven. Elder Marion D. Hanks (1921β2011) of the Seventy told of the man and his small son who βstopped at an isolated cornfield on a remote country roadβ and eyed the delicious corn beyond the fence. The father, after looking in front of him, behind him, to the left of him, and to the right of him, βstarted to climb the fenceβ to take some ears of corn. His son looked at him and said reproachfully, βDad, you forgot to look up.β7
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Agency and Accountability
Children
Honesty
Light of Christ
Temptation
Seven Tender Miracles Along the Way
Summary: After being adopted in the United States, the narrator faced language, school, and family challenges, then returned to foster care after the adoption ended. He was then adopted by an LDS family who encouraged his agency and helped him gain a testimony of the gospel. Years later, after his adoption was finalized, he was able to submit his missionary papers and receive his mission call, which he saw as his seventh miracle.
The fourth miracle came soon after. A family in the United States adopted me. My new father picked me up from the orphanage and took me home. We started the process of becoming acquainted, and I began to settle into my new environment.
Numerous challenges surfaced immediately upon my arrival. Everywhere I went people laughed at my English. My limited education caused problems in school. I prayed for help, and then I worked harder and smarter to close the knowledge gap, especially with English. Once again Heavenly Father answered my prayers. Two years later I proudly skipped a grade.
Then my home life fell apart. Prayers to the Lord, high personal goals, and a deep desire to succeed carried me through that extremely tough time. Finally, with a social workerβs help, my father and I agreed to terminate the adoption. This was a time for prayer, patience, faith, and help from Heavenly Father.
Now 15 years old, I went to live with a foster family for about a year. That was when the fifth miracle came. While sleigh riding with two friends, I met an LDS family with two nice daughters. During the ride home, one of the daughters spoke up, saying, βI think the Lord wants us to adopt Ephrem Smith.β Remarkably, the other three members of the family had also received the same inspiration. The father worked with the Department of Social Services, and soon I moved to my new home. From the very beginning my amazing new father gave me agency. For example, he explained that their family goes to church on Sundays. He allowed me to choose to join them or stay home; he said that they still would love me if I chose not to attend church. I chose to attend church, and I have since made many other righteous decisions.
Miracle six came as I received a testimony of the gospel. One Sunday I sat in sacrament meeting singing βI Stand All Amazedβ (Hymns, no. 193). Huge tears began running down my cheeks as I received a personal testimony that Jesus is the Christ and that the Church is His Church.
Finally, nine years later, I knew how to become like those missionaries! The missionary age was now 18, but my adoption had not yet been finalized. I waited seven long months until my adoption was completed. Finally, my missionary papers could be submitted. Four days later I received my mission call. In just one week the Lord blessed me with final adoption papers and a mission call. I treasure both papers exceedingly! They are my seventh miracle. Yes, indeed, it took many miracles along the way from that mud hut in Ethiopia to my treasured mission.
Numerous challenges surfaced immediately upon my arrival. Everywhere I went people laughed at my English. My limited education caused problems in school. I prayed for help, and then I worked harder and smarter to close the knowledge gap, especially with English. Once again Heavenly Father answered my prayers. Two years later I proudly skipped a grade.
Then my home life fell apart. Prayers to the Lord, high personal goals, and a deep desire to succeed carried me through that extremely tough time. Finally, with a social workerβs help, my father and I agreed to terminate the adoption. This was a time for prayer, patience, faith, and help from Heavenly Father.
Now 15 years old, I went to live with a foster family for about a year. That was when the fifth miracle came. While sleigh riding with two friends, I met an LDS family with two nice daughters. During the ride home, one of the daughters spoke up, saying, βI think the Lord wants us to adopt Ephrem Smith.β Remarkably, the other three members of the family had also received the same inspiration. The father worked with the Department of Social Services, and soon I moved to my new home. From the very beginning my amazing new father gave me agency. For example, he explained that their family goes to church on Sundays. He allowed me to choose to join them or stay home; he said that they still would love me if I chose not to attend church. I chose to attend church, and I have since made many other righteous decisions.
Miracle six came as I received a testimony of the gospel. One Sunday I sat in sacrament meeting singing βI Stand All Amazedβ (Hymns, no. 193). Huge tears began running down my cheeks as I received a personal testimony that Jesus is the Christ and that the Church is His Church.
Finally, nine years later, I knew how to become like those missionaries! The missionary age was now 18, but my adoption had not yet been finalized. I waited seven long months until my adoption was completed. Finally, my missionary papers could be submitted. Four days later I received my mission call. In just one week the Lord blessed me with final adoption papers and a mission call. I treasure both papers exceedingly! They are my seventh miracle. Yes, indeed, it took many miracles along the way from that mud hut in Ethiopia to my treasured mission.
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Adoption
Adversity
Education
Faith
Family
Miracles
Patience
Prayer
Racial and Cultural Prejudice
Friend to Friend
Summary: As a young man, the father showed special kindness to a very sad girl. Later she confided that she had been considering taking her life, but his kindness led her to decide life was worthwhile. The account underscores his consistent desire to help others.
βOne of his favorite subjects is that of being a good neighbor and friend to people. When he was younger he was particularly kind to a girl who was especially sad. Later the girl told him she had anticipated taking her own life; but since Dad had been so kind to her, she had decided life seemed worthwhile after all. He likes people and likes to help them.β His wife added that he is always pleasant and willing to help even if someone calls him in the middle of the night.
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Friendship
Kindness
Mental Health
Ministering
Suicide
βI have a couple of friends who donβt come to church anymore. What are some ways to help them return?β
Summary: A 16-year-old noticed her friend had stopped attending church after the death of a close friend and began to doubt. She invited her to a party with girls from church and made it a goal to mention the Church once. After others left, they had a meaningful conversation about Church topics, teaching her that when she does her part, the Lord helps with the rest.
It worried me when I noticed that my good friend was not coming to church anymore. Her close friend, I found, had recently passed away, and she was beginning to doubt. One day I invited her to a party with some girls from church. I made it a goal to bring up the Church once. After the others left, we talked about various Church topics that I would have never thought to talk to her about. I learned that by doing my part, the Lord will take care of the rest. All we need to do is open our mouths (see D&C 28:16).
Rebecca T., 16, Washington
Rebecca T., 16, Washington
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Apostasy
Doubt
Faith
Friendship
Ministering
Missionary Work
A Life Focused on the Savior
Summary: Sister Mette Hansen in Denmark ran a typesetting business and prayed with her mother and daughter for more work when business stalled. She received a large manuscript but felt prompted not to typeset it after discovering blasphemy against Jesus Christ. Despite financial pressure, she returned the job to the printer. Soon after, she received enough orders for six months, and the printer became a loyal customer.
Sister Mette Hansen supported her family by operating her own typesetting business in Denmark. When business slowed to a stop, she and her mother and daughter fasted and prayed for more work. The next day, she received a thick manuscript from a new customer.
But, for some reason, Sister Hansen was unable to do the job. Her computer would not function properly. And when she picked up the manuscript, she had the strange sensation that her hands were dirty.
Frustrated, she prayed for help and was prompted to read the manuscriptβfrom back to front. On the second-to-last page of the book, which was to be a manual for colleges throughout Denmark, she found βthe worst blasphemy of Jesus Christ I had ever read.β
One voice within her said, βDonβt typeset this, Mette. Youβll forsake Christ if you do.β Another voice said, βThe book will be printed whether you typeset it or not. And you will be able to pay your bills for the next month if you do the work.β
Praying for strength, she explained her feelings to the printer and returned the manuscript. Days later, she received enough orders to keep her busy for six months. And that printer became one of her best customers. (See Tambuli, April 1986, page 12.)
But, for some reason, Sister Hansen was unable to do the job. Her computer would not function properly. And when she picked up the manuscript, she had the strange sensation that her hands were dirty.
Frustrated, she prayed for help and was prompted to read the manuscriptβfrom back to front. On the second-to-last page of the book, which was to be a manual for colleges throughout Denmark, she found βthe worst blasphemy of Jesus Christ I had ever read.β
One voice within her said, βDonβt typeset this, Mette. Youβll forsake Christ if you do.β Another voice said, βThe book will be printed whether you typeset it or not. And you will be able to pay your bills for the next month if you do the work.β
Praying for strength, she explained her feelings to the printer and returned the manuscript. Days later, she received enough orders to keep her busy for six months. And that printer became one of her best customers. (See Tambuli, April 1986, page 12.)
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Faith
Fasting and Fast Offerings
Holy Ghost
Miracles
Obedience
Prayer
Revelation
Sacrifice
You Canβt Pet a Rattlesnake
Summary: While visiting India, the speaker and his wife observed snake charmers coaxing cobras from baskets, even petting and handling them. A guide warned that such behavior was very risky and that poisonous snakebite was a major cause of death in the area. The experience illustrated how dangerous things can appear manageable or entertaining.
Some years ago, Sister Sorensen and I had the privilege of visiting India. At one airport I remember walking across the landing strip and seeing some men sitting in front of wicker baskets, playing flutes. As they started to play the music, they would take the top off the basket and a cobra would appear! As the music continued, the snake would rise higher and higher, nearly reaching its full length until the cobra would collapse back into the basket. Once I noticed a cobra fall outside the basket. The man playing the flute reached over, petted the cobra, and carefully put it back into the basket. I was amazed that a man could handle such a dangerous creature apparently without being harmed. But our guide quickly told me that this was very risky and told us that a major cause of death in this province was indeed poisonous snakebite.
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Courage
Death